#it’s just the realization that ohh i’m always going ���augh’ at their posts and never 'omg hi' maybe i should go ahead and do us both a favor

[aturnoftheearth]

convincing myself that unfollowing a mutual i literally never talked to and don’t share any interests with anymore and whose posts are bothering me is okay actually and there’s not some unspoken commitment except when there is and one of my mutuals unfollows me and i’m heartbroken-

#the bothering is the only real reason i’ll unfollow i guess. like i have mutuals i don’t talk to often and our interests have diverged but #i can put up with their posts just like they do mine (hello my non lh mutuals u guys are so brave thank u ily) #it’s just the realization that ohh i’m always going ‘augh’ at their posts and never 'omg hi' maybe i should go ahead and do us both a favor #we need a ‘wish u the best’ button i needed that when i had mutuals unfollow me and i need it now #how am i still talking i’m still not finished with this midterm good god