#the untrustworthiness and unreliability just comes from such a place of privilege but they're use neurodiversity as an excuse always

[helenhuntingdon]

Oof I can’t deal with friend who’s like ~I signed up to do this thing, said I’d be there, but not just not go and haven’t let them know~ having such an unreliable and sometimes just selfish friend does not make them very trustworthy, plus I just don’t respect treating other people like that

#this is something someone is doing for us for FREE and this will make them look bad #maybe they'll end up going but that they consider they can just not go is okay #having real questionings if I want to remain friends with them afterwards #in the past they've just cut people off and then are friends again and are like ah he's my best friend #and I'm just there cringing like I know you are not bc they will never trust you the same again after cutting them off over a shitty gf #knowing that someone will do that shit is v much like maybe we can be friends but not that close friends ever #the untrustworthiness and unreliability just comes from such a place of privilege but they're use neurodiversity as an excuse always #we're all neurodiverse here you literally said you will be in the immediate vicinity but will let this person down just because #I'm only ranting do I don't tell them to fuck off or rant to my other friends who are out trying to have a good time