#there's very little fat surrounding my hips yknow? thats just my bones

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Why is it that my mum always suggests I should lose weight for the stupidest reasons

#gamer txt. #when i was trying on the leather jacket yesterday i was struggling to connect the zips together bc theyre right at my hips #and my hips are wide #there's very little fat surrounding my hips yknow? thats just my bones #and after i take the jacket off my mum starts talking about how maybe i should start exercising again nd lose some weight #implying i could get the jacket on easier if i did and i just. the jacket fits fine everywhere but my hips #and my hips being an issue is because of my bone structure. not my fat #what fucking what sense does that make? #and when i said to her that makes no sense she just went on about how actually yeah exercising might just make my hips bigger #what the fuck are you talking about #my hips are just that wide? thats just where the bones are #she should know this my hips have always been an issue since forever #as a kid i always had to get like age 16 + trousers because i couldnt get anything smaller up my hips #she knows this. she bought the trousers #i genuinely do not understand how me losing weight could possibly factor into this #i know it doesnt and she just wanted to comment on my weight but at least do it in a way that makes sense yknow?