#they're soooooo codependent <333

[loverboybrightsideghost]

i love house and wilson's relationship so much i'm obsessed with it. they each developed opposite defense mechanisms: wilson is a nice guy to anyone and everyone so he can keep everyone around him happy even at his own expense, so he can never fail them. house is an asshole to everyone so they can't get close to him, so they can't hurt him. but then they meet, and since they're each other's opposites, their whole "i'll be nice/i'll be a dick" doesn't work on each other. in the end house and wilson are the only people that can ever fully, forget care about, but know each other– but of course they care about each other a whole lot too. wilson can really be an asshole (and honest) to house which he can't be with almost anyone else, but wilson is the only person house will truly be kind to (or at least the only one who he hasn't and won't be pushed away).

#MAYBE I DONT WANT TO PUSH THIS UNTIL IT BREAKS #of course to some extent wilson being an ass arojnd house is also his being what house needs him to be but also shut up #house md #bluebird.txt #they're soooooo codependent <333 #'you're all persona' #AND WILSON'S DEEENSE OF BEING WHAT PEOPLE NEED HIM TO BE DOESNT EVEN WORK #JUST LIKE HOW HOUSE'S DEFINITELY DOESNT WORK #because that's why wilson's been married three times. he prioritizes his partner's happiness over his (and on top of that he has chronic 'i #can fix them') so he does everything he can to suit their needs at the expense of his #which makes him resent them #and inadvertently pushes himself away (TO SPEND TIME WITH HOUSE) #and on top of that once he's made his wife sufficiently happy once he's 'fixed' her then he doesn't really care anymore #i mean he does care but he doesn't subconsciously care ya know. like he starts drifting away at that point bc that's how he knows how to #have relationships: with himself doing everything to make them better to make them happier #so once that's gone he kind of neglects them without noticing #and BOOM that's how you get a nice guy three times divorced #LIKE. dude. when house's dad died and wilson finally came back and was like 'i don't even have a choice at this point #about being your friend or not.' #hdhfjrbgmdkcje #'if you're attracted to the shine of my neediness-' '[wilsons grins]' '...i'd be okay with that' #WHAT ARE THEYYYY LITERALLYYYYYYYY #worlds most homophobic gay men fr <333333 #oops. house megapost over here #[runs away]