#trans 'allies' being transphobic hurts so bad man. like wow damn sorry for trusting you with this very personal part of me!!!

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I know people are going to be transphobic assholes anyways and that doesn't upset me nearly as much as friends being transphobic. I feel like I should be grateful they even use my proper pronouns in front of me, especially in a country where being queer is illegal, but it still hurts they refer to me incorrectly when I'm not around. That they still use gendered terms to refer to me. That they don't see me the way I am at all, they've just memorised the right pronouns

#im not a girl or a boy im not a girl or a boy im not a girl or a boy !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! god fucking damn it #transphobia mention #charming's rantbox #😁😁😁😁 need to plaster a big “IM NOT A GIRL OR A BOY” over my forehead at this point and i wish i was joking #trans 'allies' being transphobic hurts so bad man. like wow damn sorry for trusting you with this very personal part of me!!! #shouldve known you'd be a dick!!! shouldve known i dont belong!!!!! damn wow my bad #even worse is online queer communities. the racism there and the homophobia here makes it genuinely impossible to be myself in any #meaningful capacity. to have friends like at all. to talk about any of this #im sooo 😁😁😁 so sick of this wow