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seungstarss · 2 years

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Rant, ignore

Okay I'm so sick and tired of my friend acting so fucking passive aggressive. Basically we made plans for an overnight trip on wed, but then she suddenly wants to change the date to an earlier day (tuesday) bc she "made plans." Which was the first ???? Bc didn't we say we were gonna go on that day. But then now one of our other friends can't go and I was telling her how we should've planned earlier to avoid certain things and she goes like "this is why I made plans on wed." And I'm like "wdym" bc like did u know this was gonna happen or smth? And she's all like "wdym." So I explained to her again and she was like "yeah i knew this was gonna happen." And I'm like "oh lowkey same" (bc the friend who canceled isn't really good with keeping her plans which has been her personality for a while)

And so my friend goes like "this is why I made plans with other people." And I'm like ???? Girl u said that already? And she's like "what do u mean by that." Like ???? Why are u so damn passive agressive. First of all you initiated the plans and you don't even have it organized as to how we're gonna get there? Like don't be all "Oh idk" like If u make plans at least be like "okay so I think we can all go tgt by subway" smTh LIKE THAT????"

But now you're so passive agressive, shoving how you're gonna hang out with others in our faces? Like okay??? Cool???? You don't have to keep saying it?? Tf u want from us???

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Also this girl is going to travel abroad and basically she isn't vaccinated so when she comes back she needs to quarantine for 14 days? But THIS GIRL IS PLANNING A WHOLE CAMPING TRIP AFTER SHE COMES BACK??? RIGHT AFTER SHE COMES BACK? Does she not realized she is required by law to fucking quarantine??? Plus you are putting other in danger??? What the fuck? Like they call/visit your house to check up on u so like I hope u get fined wtf.

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Also the other two friends literally never respond for like 3 days when we're making plans???

I feel like im the only one trying to initiate or plan things out while they just wait for everything and say smth after like 3 days. Like can u at least tell me if u can go or not and not wait until a few hours before the plans to tell me. I've been canceled on so many times the day of, just minutes prior to our supposed meeting times. Sometimes bc they didn't wake up, or didn't even bother to set an alarm. It feels like they don't Care and I'm the only one putting in effort to keep our friendships.

It has gotten to a point where I have legit mini panics whenever people don't respond to my my text in the morning of the said plans (bc I've been through getting stood up so many times) ofc I shouldn't have these issues or worries and I should trust people but after going through this sm, I'm just honestly accustomed to getting stood up.

I rarely ever want to go out anymore. Plus these friends only care about pictures and socials. There isn't any actual bonding and I don't see the point in wasting my time hanging with them. But then they tell me how I'm wasting my life and youth which makes me feel bad about everything..

I always feel like I'm bothering them whenever I ask them anything? (Every single one of my irls) And I don't feel like I can be myself or express my feelings to any of them.

#in conclusion i have shitty friends mannn #just wanted to get this out bc its so annoying

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