#yall. is it correct to call it jealousy if you're being upset that your partner routinely chooses their other partner first

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Is it jealousy if you're right

#venting in the tags #yall. is it correct to call it jealousy if you're being upset that your partner routinely chooses their other partner first #for everything basically not just some little things uknow #earlier today i was like 'hey do you want to go get dinner after you get off of work?' and he said yes #and then he gets back and his other partner is home also. so guess. guess what happens #partner is like 'so what do you want to do about dinner' maybe to me maybe to his bf or both? his bf starts talking and its About Them now #just kinda hurts y'know #like i understand logically that the two people on similar schedules will spend more time together i just dont like how its shaking out rn #i want to . idk. be a priority sometimes too #long story short i am now alone having feelings by myself and they are heading out to go get asian food from a place i really like #i can't really be a in a food situation with partners bf . his eating habits give me sensory nausea uknow. so it was going to be me or him #and i have expressed that i cant really be in food situations with him ok. this is not an issue ive been sitting on #im just tired . i should sleep more and i probably wouldnt be (as) upset but it feels bad man #i know im a casual partner or w/e but i want to be important too. i dont want to be the backup all the time #greener screams