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Found a New Cache!

And had a lovely walk around the dunes :)

#geocaching

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I've just had the most wonderful job last weekend and helped a bunch of the loveliest tourists :) I've also finally started Geocaching and found my first cache ever, behind my old high-school, so it was extra fun! It took about two hours to find all the clues but it was wonderful and there was no rain, so that's good.

#had a lovely weekend #ooc #geocaching

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Asexuals are still asexuals if they:

watch porn

draw porn

write porn

or do any of the above with any other kind of romantic/sexual activity

Liking, drawing, or writing sexual activities does not mean that you want to engage in them. It means that you have some understanding of what it would mean to be in that relationship, enough to write/draw about it, but that does not mean you want to partake with another person.

Asexuality =/= Celibacy, by the way. Asexuality is not a choice, and if I have to hear one more person tell me that someday I’ll “choose” to “change” when I “meet a nice guy,” I’m going to scream. Celibacy is the choice to not have sex for one reason or another. Asexuality means that you do not feel the need to engage in sexual relations with someone else. And some asexuals masturbate, while others don’t. Different people are different. That’s how it goes.

Also, your sexual orientation does not necessarily reflect your romantic orientation or your gender identity. They are all distinct, different things. There are asexuals who are homo- or heteroromantic, but do not want a sexual relationship with the person they care for.

TL;DR, saying that “you can’t possibly be asexual because you like porn” is like saying “you can’t possibly be a girl because you wear pants” or some shit. I don’t even know. Please educate yourself before making such ignorant statements.

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Time to start a new hobby :)

#geocaching

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I just realised I'm wearing asexual trousers!

Makes me want to design an asexual-flag-coloured dress

#asexuality #asexual

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Neil Gaiman

1 Write.

2 Put one word after another. Find the right word, put it down.

3 Finish what you’re writing. Whatever you have to do to finish it, finish it.

4 Put it aside. Read it pretending you’ve never read it before. Show it to friends whose opinion you respect and who like...

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Festivals, and guess who has no one to attend them?

#bevrijdingspop #forever alone

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Lovely sketch :)

A sketch soon-to-be watercolour painting for this art project. It’s an asexy art nouveau type of deal. Scanned in two halves.

Drawing a necklace on a naked lady feels so Titanic…