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is it female rage or am I just my father's daughter🫲🏻🎀🫱🏻

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Every ones in a while, I sometimes find myself thinking of having someone in my life but not really falling into the traditional romantic partner?

My ideal relationship can get into the levels of a best friend or a roommate who I’m comfortable spending my life with but always being strictly platonic in a way, if that makes sense.

#fantasize about it everyday

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so apparently “asexual reproduction” is no longer the preferred scientific term, so if anyone makes a sponge joke or whatever just scream “IT’S AGAMETIC KNOW YOUR SCIENCE” and throw a textbook at them

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One of the things that allo society did wrong is using the term "sexual needs". These are not needs. Drinking is a need, sleeping is a need, eating, resting and breathing are needs. If you don't do them, you die. Sex is not a need, it is a want (a valid want, don't get me wrong, there is nothing wrong with wanting sex) and I'm tired of hearing someone has "their needs". It's a gross thing to say that is often used to excuse not just aphobia but also r*pe (especially domestic), cheating and treating women like properties.

For anyone who thinks sex is a need I want to point out that celibate monks are among the healthiest people in the world. They haven't died out yet

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Changing my belief system from "this is the hill I'll die on" to "this is the hill I'll kill you on" has done absolute wonders for me 10/10 do recommend

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If I could write a book, it would be about a person being isekaied to a different world where they had to meet their soulmate (prophesy of some sort), but no one knows who that soulmate is. There is a young king of a neighboring kingdom who is hated due to having "no heart" (he's just ace and everyone is aphobic). The main character is ace too and constantly denies the soulmate prophesy. One day, a whole group is on the beach when sirens attack causing everyone to go into a trance, but the king and main character are unaffected due to their asexuality. They notice each other and just stand there like the Spider-Man meme. Anyway, they decide to marry just to get everyone off their backs and live happily ever after as best friends.

I am not a good story teller, but this is what I would write if I could.

#asexual #aroace #asexuality #story ideas

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#love whom my eyes had never seen hits hard for some reason

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As an aroace I would love a relationship where they are just my best friend and then they give me soul crushing hugs every once in a while and cuddle

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my (an aroace's) plans for the future:

adopt a cat

grow my own garden

buy a witches hat

buy a witches cauldron

convince the children in my street that im a witch

a nice witch

ill bake cookies for them

adopt a child

convince the children in my street that my child is a magical person in training

#good plan #be the neighborhood mysterious auntie

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listen i’m ace but i would totally let a vampire drink my blood through my neck sexily okay

#a hear me out moment for sure #vampires

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i can't believe i'm truly at that point where i would rather listen to christian music than anything else on the radio. i hate hearing about people's romance and sex lives and heteronormative shit takes. i truly do not care about your ex, new bitch, or her sundress.

on christian radio, they're just happy to say, "hey jesus, i love you. thanks for loving me." it's about love and healing, and that's all i need. on spotify, i can listen to my own favorite songs. 99.9% which are not christian, but when i don't have my headphones, it's nice having an alternative

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Why aren't hyper religious Christians and asexuals besties?

"no sex before marriage!"

And none after as well, they should love that!

#as an asexual Christian I never got why asexuality is a problem to some #not most in my experience but some

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I mean it’s true that some employers see you as less professional if you don’t wear makeup, but it’s not all employers in all industries and I think it’s unhelpful to scare young women into believing that makeup is 100% mandatory to get ahead in the workplace. There’s a fair chance your boss won’t give a shit, or will be afraid of you kicking up a legal fuss. None of my female colleagues wear makeup. Nobody cares. Everyone still asks us for our advice. We’re not getting fired or denied promotions for getting old or not being hot.

I think a good approach is to stop wearing makeup at your job and see what happens. If it’s a problem, someone will let you know (and you can consider if that’s something you’re willing to put up with in a workplace, no judgment either way). If it’s not an issue and nobody says anything, then good. Just keep being yourself.

#i stopped wearing makeup this past year #no one even noticed/commented on it #they don't care

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Contrary to popular belief aro AND aces (aroaces) more commonly DONT date then do. They can still date and they’re still valid yes, but most don’t.

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wow . the intimacy of tea

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Intimacy isn't just about sex. It's having heart-to-hearts, staying up all night talking, sharing childhood memories, thoughts, fears, dreams & hopes for the future. It's uncontrollable laughter, direct eye contact and feeling each other without touching - it's exchanging energy.

Angelica Letsjevna Shakhabova