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redesign for lesbian visibility week 🩷🧸🫶

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losing the idgaf war badly (I want to be in love and to have someone be in love with me)

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[ art by @sweatermuppet ]

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i just wanna leave pretty marks on a handsome butch, is that too much to ask for ?!?!

#day 500 of me begging for a butch i can leave pretty marks on !

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i got wiped out by uni stuff/work and highkey forgot this account existed but my exams are almost over (yay) so i'll probably be back posting again soon :D

#thoughts #not that anyone really cares but i just wanted to share bc why not

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ok but are yall actually into dykes who have been on T. butches with bottom growth.

#YES !

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butch in a househusband kinda way. butch in a guy who wears ugly t-shirts while working on the grill kinda way. butch in the guy who makes really sloppy looking meals that are surprisingly good kinda way. butch in a "currently collecting every piece of merch about an interest you both share" kinda way. butch in a "nah im paying for that." kinda way. butch in a passenger prince kinda way. yeah. yeah i enjoy being butch and the multiple aspects of myself that i find lend themselves to butchness

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weird dyke4weird dyke

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We need to be more realistic about lesbian sex, too, because sometimes it feels like this huge expectation to maintain a certain level of stamina looms over us, simply because we're more prone to practice what the straights think is foreplay and we consider full on sex.

Some of us have chronic pain. Some of us have past or present injuries. Some of us are on medication that screws with our libido or the amount of time we can last and keep going. Some of us simply don't feel that much of a desire to fuck. Some of us are on the ace spectrum. Some of us are more than content with frotting and kissing and calling it a good intimate moment 20 minutes in. Some of us have vaginismus or other conditions that make sex uncomfortable to some extent.

It's OK to not go on for 1 hour. It's OK to tell your partner to stop. It's OK to ask them to change positions if you have a bad knee or back. It's OK to not last, and to be too sensitive to go on, and to call it a day.

Don't feel pressured to perform. Sex is good when there's enthusiastic consent and enjoyment from both parts, no matter the amount of time it lasts.

#this!!!! #this is all very very important

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also I know I've been reblogging but like. I love trans women + transfems you are my friends and sisters. you make our community stronger and more joyful and complete and you deserve better from everyone around u. safety and comfort and love and everything in the world to trans women everywhere. muah

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my Google search history:

do dyke sex parties exist

where to find dyke sex parties

are there dyke parties in my area

Where are the dyk-

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hairy tummies are gods greatest gift

#period

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Another five page kinky comic I drew last year! This one’s about getting started with wax play. Be safe and have fun!

#bd/sm education #wax play

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Seeing people talk about getting fucked by a butch in jeans and a black tshirt, but what about railing a butch in a black tshirt and jeans??? Pushing their shirt up enough to get to their tits, jeans only pulled down as far as necessary to fuck them properly, listening to them moan and fall apart for you.

#pls plsplspls #when is it my turn #i need this 🫡

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thinking about butch bottoms today… 

#me 24/7 #but also butch bottoms have taken over my brain today no joke

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bush poking out the panties with a happy trail and thigh hair has me panting and moaning

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#need