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I saw your beautiful post about feeling ugly , and i would like to ask as someone who has moon and venus in the 8 house + chiron in the 1 is there ever gonna be a time when i dont feel bad about my looks? like its not about vanity its more about me seen this wonderful guy and i am like i want to be with him but my brain tells me how dare you think someone so talented and handsome like him would like you?with such chart am i doomed to forever feel not good enough/i feel drowning in sadness

its a matter of perspective

1) you are on this earth to experience life as you are, there is only one you and it’s important that you strive to create the most authentic version of yourself, and to express yourself as such

2) putting anyone on a pedestal is a recipe for disaster. it’s not fair to you to compare yourself like that and it’s not fair to them because you’re already making assumptions of them & bypassing their ‘flaws’ - which make them who they are and make them human

3) its extremely unappealing & unbecoming to belittle oneself. having reservations and insecurities are a part of life for most but letting them get to you is a choice that you have to build resistance to with practice and affirmations and treating yourself as worthy

4) thinking meek of yourself will attract toxic partners who prey on your insecurities. and if you do attract an objectively lovely suitor while thinking meek of yourself then you’re likely to self-sabotage it and push the person away because you don’t believe you’re worthy of it

try to see the good in you and be proud of the good qualities you possess and trust that you deserve genuine goodness

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why does that kind of behavior not apply to scorpio venuses?

scorpio venus men are way too preoccupied with themselves for that

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❗️!!?!?!❗️

have any of you dated a mans with personal scorpio placements? (again, lesser so scorpio venus but scorpio sun/moon/mars namely)

did they still act like this even when y’all became official??? i feel like some of them exhibit this insecure behavior if you aren’t ‘theirs’

bringing up interactions/hangouts you’ve had with other people to a man with scorpio placements (lesser so scorpio venus) is the end of the world to them, they can go from zero to bitter REAL FAST. that cold shoulder be so curt and unnecessary 😒 there’s no point trying to offer reassurance either, you should just continue to hold yourself in high regard and let them pout to themselves

#i have so many thoughts on this i could go forever

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bringing up interactions/hangouts you’ve had with other people to a man with scorpio placements (lesser so scorpio venus) is the end of the world to them, they can go from zero to bitter REAL FAST. that cold shoulder be so curt and unnecessary 😒 there’s no point trying to offer reassurance either, you should just continue to hold yourself in high regard and let them pout to themselves

#scorpio

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pluto will retrograde back into capricorn one more time but after that she's settling in aquarius for a long while. shoutout to capricorn placements because lol what are we going to make of all the dust and ashes now 😐

#pluto #capricorn

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Can you tell me how would the first time meeting be with my internet crush if his North node, Lilith and Venus is in my 10th house? What would be his first impression of me or reaction as the planet person? And mine as the house person?

i mean someone’s venus falling in another’s 10th can indicate that the house person enjoys the way the venus person perceives them & that they’re able to add to their public or professional experience somehow. an internet crush aspect for sure. i would look to where the other planets are falling to see what meeting irl would be like because 10th house is persona based

#synastry

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do you have thoughts on a synastry chart where my venus is trine to their moon / mars and conjunct their pluto?

someone’s pluto conjunct another’s personal angle/planet does have the potential to greatly alter that person in regards to whatever personal angle/planet it’s conjunct. so that person could alter you in terms of venus. maybe you get closer to them and you get inspired by their aesthetic or you realize a romantic pattern you have or they introduce you to something that you end up having an affinity for, etc etc. meanwhile, your way of interacting can bring a softness to the pluto person. definitely a connection with the potential for both parties to have individual growth

#synastry

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i like this synastry aspect for friendship because it’s funny. def the friend you want to do some shenanigans with

Wait now I’m curious about your unpopular opinion on venus conjunct moon in synastry

i'm not a fan of it because it creates too much enabling, they feed into each other's voids

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Wait now I’m curious about your unpopular opinion on venus conjunct moon in synastry

i'm not a fan of it because it creates too much enabling, they feed into each other's voids

#synastry

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Hey , can you tell me please your thought about this synastry: the man that I'm in love with has his moon square his Pluto in natal chart and it happened to be a conjonction between his moon and my moon so my moon square his Pluto too in the exact degree that his moon square his Pluto and it's all in his 8th house

What does this mean? I'm so frustrated 😭😭😭😭

it just means you have the same moon sign and the issues he experiences with having pluto square his moon plays out in your connection. could be a connection that involves control issues and destructive tendencies

#synastry

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I'm a cap rising with a natal sun-south node conjunction in my 5h. I not an artist, never have wanted children but I do desire romance. I'm about to turn 30 and Imy natal saturn doesn't aspect my venus mor my 7h ruler in any way, however I've been single my entire life. Not even uranus and jupiter in my taurus 5h for a year now have resulted in anything. Do you think I'm destined to be alone because of that sun-aouth node conjunction?

life is what you create it to be, our charts can show obstacles that we may encounter but it’s not a cemented prison sentence. some people don’t date until later in life for a multitude of reasons. however if you aren’t utilizing dating apps and/or placing yourself in situations to meet people then you can’t expect it to happen magically. and if you are utilizing such then maybe you can ask others what you could do to better your approach, or you can continue to put yourself out there in your own way and one day someone will be receptive to it

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i always want to ask about having the same rising, both romantically and platonically. it has me sharing a taurus moon in the 12th with an internet crush and i can read them like a book through my screen 🥲

yeah having the same rising can definitely make you able to understand someone in a specific way. sharing the same sun sign can be refreshing and humorous, sharing the same moon sign can really get under your skin, and sharing the same rising sign is like oooooooohhhh i see where you're coming from and why you're doing that. romantically...hm...it would depend on the sign and the awareness levels of the people involved

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thoughts on moon in 8th house synastry?

i find that 8th house synastry is most 'comfortable' in romantic relationships, though it still comes with issues because 8th house is messy territory, but at least the tension it can create is able to be *ahem* released in some way. anyway, the moon person can have a certain level of control over the house person, the moon person is able to disarm the house person. it can often become a connection where the moon person is taking advantage whether they realize it or not, and in extreme cases they are able to prey on the house person. in the most positive potential the moon person can help the house person to develop a better relationship with their skeletons

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synastry question: venus square mars double whammy – do you think it would work out? 🤔 we have nicer stuff going on too like venus conj. moon and a lot of Jupiter aspects

squares in synastry can create challenging tension, which can be fun and spicy but also stupidly irritating. personally not a big fan of moon conjunct venus in synastry (which is an unpopular opinion). mmmm i think the modality of the venus/mars would play a part in just how irritating it would be. like if it's mutable signs then they're able to adapt more, if it's fixed signs then a lot of resentment can build, if it's cardinal signs then it's hard to find compromise

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Heyy what does sun in 5th house solar return mean?

the sun in the solar return chart shows you what the focus is going to be for you during that solar return period. so sr sun in 5th means a focus on 5th house matters (self, hobbies, romance, etc)

#sr #solar return

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anybody have any solar return chart related questions

#or synastry questions ❗️ #q

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of course i would be trying to up my self-discipline during taurus season when i’m having every craving known to man

#gimme