I really deeply hate how the correct statement "using man-hating as a cover for transmisogyny is awful and you need to be able to recognize when that's being used as a dogwhistle" has somehow evolved into "misandry is real and that's why terfs are wrong" like no I don't think it is. Can we please retire Not All Men I can't do this
There was a bit of an online controversy over an article claiming that A Condition Called Love promotes toxic romance, and honestly I wish it was that interesting. It’s just a bog standard romcom about a guy who comes on a bit too strong but means well trying to rizz up the densest girl on planet Earth. She’s barely picking up on his signals as it is, there wouldn’t even be a story if he was even the slightest bit more restrained.
I said this at the tail end of a rant but I think it's really good so it's getting its own post. Way too many fucking people seem to think TERFs exist because they feminism'd too hard and accidentally started hating trannies. In reality, transmisogyny is a foundational part of colonial and christian society, and TERFs are just people who shaped their feminism around it.
actually shoutout to dungeon meshi for having the most sexy scene with the most boob focus be the one where a hot lady kills a bunch of people love that for her thank you ryoko kui