bigdsgirl

[bigdsgirl]

things i’ll not call you a whore for:

sexual activity

how you dress

things i’ll call you a whore for:

stealing my food 

stealing my lemons

my cat likes you more than me

#bahahahahaha #a classic

[bigdsgirl]

The Thick of It (2005-2012) I 4.02 - New advisor

[bigdsgirl]

why do we have butt cheeks i dont understand why did we evolve this way

what use do butt cheeks have 

[bigdsgirl]

DEAR EDUCATIONALLY NEGLECTED HOMESCHOOLERS

I’ve gathered some resources and tips and tricks on self-educating after educational neglect. This is only what I did and what I know helped me. I’m about to graduate college with honors after having no education past the age of 9. I wouldn’t be here without the following. Everything is free, and at/well above the standard for education in the US.

The holy grail: Khan Academy. Nearly every course you could take is available here, in order and by grade level. Their open-source free courses rival some of the college classes I’ve taken. This is your most solid resource.

For inattentive types: Crash Course offers a variety of courses that are snappy, entertaining, and extremely rewarding. They work for my ADHD brain. They also have college prep advice, which is essential if you’re looking to go to higher education with no classroom experience.

To catch up on your reading: There are certain books that you may have read had you gone to school that you’ve missed out on. This list is the most well-rounded and can fill you in on both children’s books and classic novels that are essential or at least extremely helpful to be familiar with. You can find a majority of these easily at a local library (and some for free in PDF form online low key). There are a few higher level classics in here that I’d highly recommend. If it doesn’t work for you, I’d always recommend asking your local librarian.

*BE AWARE* The book list I recommend suggests you read Harry Potter books, and given their transphobic author you may or may not want to read them. If you choose to, I’d highly recommend buying the books secondhand or borrowing from a library to avoid financially supporting a living author with dangerous and damaging views.

TEST, TEST, TEST: Again, Khan Academy is your go-to for this. I don’t personally like standardized testing, but going through SAT and ACT courses was the best way I found to really reveal my gaps so that I could supplement.

Finally: As much as you can, enjoy the process. Education can be thrilling and teach you so much about yourself, and help shape your view of the world. It can get frustrating, but I’d like to encourage you that everyone can learn. No pace is the perfect pace, and your learning style is the right learning style for you. In teaching yourself, be patient, be kind, and indulge in the subjects you really enjoy without neglecting others. You are your teacher. Give yourself what others chose not to.

[bigdsgirl]

maybe whistleblowers just happen to come forward around the time they're about to die. no one ever considers that

[bigdsgirl]

my cat somehow took hundreds of selfies on my phone when i was sleeping

[bigdsgirl]

Hangzhou West Lake, China

[bigdsgirl]

flower power! ‧₊˚❀༉‧₊˚.

#florals #zinnias #gorgina!

[bigdsgirl]

Every part of you was made to be loved by me 😩😩😩😩😩😩😩😩😩

#i will forever love this book #RHYS YOU ARE MY MAN #marrying winterborne #rhys winterborne #helen you deserve the world #helen ravenel

[bigdsgirl]

— the grandmaster of demonic cultivation

[bigdsgirl]

My Demon 마이 데몬 (2023 - 2024) ⇀ E02, Everyone Has a Demon in Their Heart

#me at all the work i gotta do #song kang #my demon

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HONG HAEIN: But… let's say a lot of time passed, and you died. Then I'll become an angel and pick you up. If I show up, it'll be less scary for you.

BAEK HYUNWOO: If you die before I do, I'm going to live one more day and then follow you. How will I ever live without you?

We forgave those we used to resent. We can sometimes stop and appreciate the scenery. Then time will gradually being to flow more quickly. Time will slip away, and we won't be able to do anything about it. That's how we'll spend every day of our lives. We'll enjoy all the happiness that life grants us. One day… when only one of us is left… The other one can come meet them. Then it won't be scary at all. Because we'll be together.

#queen of tears #kim soo hyun #kim ji won #a sobbing mess #KDRAMA

[bigdsgirl]

hyun-woo's parents on the tractor:

#i could not stop laughing #it was a good bit #kdrama #queen of tears

[bigdsgirl]

while I am thoroughly annoyed some of the choices in the last four episodes of the show, I am reminding myself of the good moments because they do! exist!

so, please enjoy my non comprehensive list of things i loved about Queen of Tears:

the most obvious one: hyun-woo and hae-in!!! just everything!

soo cheol and day-hye

soo cheol's love for his son

hyun-woo and hae-in family bonding

hyun-woo and his friends

hae-in and her secretary

beom-ja being herself

hyun-woos mom : )

and his dad i guess hehe

the fashiooooon

the cameos!

the cinematography!

the music!!!!!!!!!!!!

the art cards for the epilogue

the intro sequence

and finally: the last 10 minutes of the show god damn it.

#kdrama #queen of tears #literally sobbing at the ending #alkjgadl;kfgjadflkgjaf

[bigdsgirl]

You know one thing that truly was a happy surprise in Queen of Tears? Hyun Woo's friendships and the loyalty they carried.

I've seen a lot of people praising Secretary Na but you also have to acknowledge that Hyun Woo has some really amazing and steadfast friends.

At the start of the show, all his friends were playing the russian roulette of who will handle his divorce case. It was given that it will be one of them, it was also given that they will have to withstand the might of the entire Hong family, which isn't something anyone can survive. But. Although they were scared, they didn't drop it or flee to save their career. They understood that it was something you do for your friend, even if you want to kill the said friend for putting you in the situation. There was also the scene where Yang Ki legitimately wanted to flee in the face of Vincenzo as opposing attorney, but just cursed and went after Hyun Woo. He was really scared of the situation and wanted to be anywhere but there but refrained from fleeing only to support his friend. Then there is also the scene where all his three friends come as his attorney to defend Hyun Woo in the company's hearing for malpractice case. They combined all their specialization to figure out something to get him out of the situation. This is specially monumental because we can see in the show, how every friend or family member related to the Hong's abandoned them in the time of need. Them still sticking with Hyun Woo while he is in middle of such scandal says a lot about them and how much they value loyalty. Yes, there were times where we wanted to bash Yang Ki's head for straying Hyun Woo when it came to Hae In but he did come through as a true friend what with him helping Hyun Woo all the time throughout the investigation.

It's a refreshing counterpoint to the negativity that often surrounds Hyun Woo. In a world where self-interest seems to reign supreme, his friends demonstrate the power of genuine loyalty.

#seriously #this was one of my favorite aspects of the show! #its beautiful to see friendship like this #queen of tears #baek hyun woo

[bigdsgirl]

me watching the tac team shooting eun-seong

#NEVER ENOUGH #DESTROY HIM!!!!! #kdrama #queen of tears

[bigdsgirl]

I think eun seong and su min would get along very well

#queen of tears #kdrama #marry my husband #these two are beyond oh my lord