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Thinking about the dichotomy of "I feel uncomfortable/triggered in the presence of x/y/z environments I would like to be someplace without that" that I constantly see online and when I tell my therapist I really get uncomfortable when people raise their voices around me even if they aren't actually mad and her response of "you can only control your own reactions and emotions, it's not really fair to police others on how they should exist in your presence" and honestly it sucks to hear but she's right.. it's good to have people be conscientious of what triggers you but really it's up to us to do the hard work of building that emotional resilience. The idea of people around me having to be hypervigilant of what they say and do lest I start getting dysregulated does not sound fun at all, I want people to feel comfortable being themselves around me and that means training my dumb lizard brain to chill tf out. Living in a constant state of avoidance sucks ass for everyone involved.

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can you all stop doing the "well this specific ban was bad since this particular tranny was a blessed pure angel never defiled by lust and she would never even hurt a fly" bit for temporary support from people who spend literally every other day on the site being viciously transmisogynistic. its doesnt change shit. nothing they say when a ban is a hot topic means anything. none of them ever self reflect even a little when all their friends declare its time to shit on the new most hated trannies of the week. its just fucking embarrassing.

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sorry i can’t hang later i have to swallow my own spit wrongly on accident and choke for a while

#sorry I can’t come I tried so hard not to cry that I did the ‘‘reverse sob’’ #so now the spit choking turned into an asthma attack #yeah I forgot my inhaler. yeah it’s gonna be all day

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Hey since TERFs buried the original, higher quality recording, here’s the only surviving recording of trans activist Sylvia Rivera’s infamous “Y'all Better Quiet Down” speech, along with full transcription, now free and open on Archive.org. The transphobic fucks can try their best to scrub us from history, but we’re not going anywhere.

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"they should be at the club" "they should be at the farmers market" "they should be at the public library" well i should be in my lovers arms but im not am i. life is full of disappointments

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The phrase "fucked stupid" is so beautiful to me. Dick so good you lose the ability to think.

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People from this country are always so beautiful

(the flag is super pretty, too)

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finished reading dunmesh and i love these two 😭 thanks to everyone that bought this print at fanime!! i wanted to try a different coloring/rendering style and something more soft... girlies having a tea party :)

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How to Ride a Werewolf

Now remember, a lady rides sidesaddle, NOT astride. Your mother would be in hysterics at the very idea that a daughter of hers would ride a werewolf astride! Why, next you’ll be showing ankle…

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fashion and filters

#cute!!!!!

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. it's literally a pov shot

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just got diagnosed as your soulmate. yeah sorry now we must spend the rest of our lives together

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happy titty tuesday, lovelies ♡

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My name’s Chappell Roan

I’m your favorite artist’s favorite artist

I’m your dream girl’s dream girl

And I’m about to serve what you all are

C*NT

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