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i'm moving blogs!

i am moving over to @dandyshucks-new , a whole new account so that i have one solely for selfship stuff!!

i'll likely keep this blog up as an archive but might delete it at some point in the future, still deciding!

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i'm moving blogs!

i am moving over to @dandyshucks-new , a whole new account so that i have one solely for selfship stuff!!

i'll likely keep this blog up as an archive but might delete it at some point in the future, still deciding!

#dandyshucks #i'll rb this a couple times probably!! #yippee hurray!!

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@dandyshucks-new <- HERE WE ARE YAYYYY I'll be moving stuff over there slowly but surely over the next day or two!!

i THINK that maybe tumblr fixed its thing where u couldn't change which tab ("for you", following, followed tags, etc) is the default on new accounts.... so I am considering making a new tumblr account just for selfshipping fsdjkl that way I don't have to lowkey hide it on my main anymore bc i can just have a wholly separate account for it HMMM. but also i would be sad to move blogs dsjsdfjkl but better to do it now than wait longer,,,

#i'll also make a short and sweet post to catch ppls attention here later once i get it a little better set up fdsjkl #dandyshucks

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how... do i move over there with the same url FSDJKL i have to wait 24 hours to re-claim it ... hmmm. i'll just... change this one to add "moving" to the end and then append "new" to the new one until the original opens back up to snag maybe?

this is such a hassle but it'll be so worth it once i get it set up (hopefully LMAO)

i THINK that maybe tumblr fixed its thing where u couldn't change which tab ("for you", following, followed tags, etc) is the default on new accounts.... so I am considering making a new tumblr account just for selfshipping fsdjkl that way I don't have to lowkey hide it on my main anymore bc i can just have a wholly separate account for it HMMM. but also i would be sad to move blogs dsjsdfjkl but better to do it now than wait longer,,,

#dandyshucks

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don't forget to think about pulling the "hey can you hold something" and surprise it's your hand bit with your f/os~

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Your f/o does not think youre a burden or hard to deal with. i can 100% assure you they don't. I mean it. No matter how annoying or burdensome you think you are, they don't think that's even slightly true.

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out of curiosity! SELF SHIPPERS THAT ARE ALSO SYSTEMS:

ppl who arent systems rb if you want for visibility! i'm pretty interested since im about to develop my first system s/i

#i chose some of them are some of them arent but in reality only one of them is fjfkdl #and its just bc the other brain parts also like that character i selfship with in varying ways #they dont have any interest in any of the others #so we sort of have a system-wide s/i for shipping w that character!! (the character(s) is the mk system sjdkdkl) #but the rest of my s/i's are just me and for me and its a nice escape from the whole ordeal of having this disorder so fjdkdl

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YES IT WORKS OKAY, i will start setting up that account and then share the url and slowly move over there :D !!!

i THINK that maybe tumblr fixed its thing where u couldn't change which tab ("for you", following, followed tags, etc) is the default on new accounts.... so I am considering making a new tumblr account just for selfshipping fsdjkl that way I don't have to lowkey hide it on my main anymore bc i can just have a wholly separate account for it HMMM. but also i would be sad to move blogs dsjsdfjkl but better to do it now than wait longer,,,

#just going to tear the bandaid off fjdkdl get it over with quickly and hopefully relatively painlessly #i have such a hard time moving accounts dhdjfkdl #dandyshucks

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Making playlists, pinterest boards, some sort of self-insert content in general with you and your f/o or comfort character feels like warm soup on a cold day. So this is your sign to create that self-insert thing you've always wanted to. It doesn't matter whether anyone thinks it's 'good', it doesn't matter if anyone thinks it's 'cringe', it matters that you enjoy it. Create it because it makes you excited, create it because it gives you comfort, create it because you feel closer to them. Create it because you deserve that joy.

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Your f/o is that one person who would notice if you were being talked over in a group of people and smiles at you, making sure you feel heard and acknowledged while everyone else is speaking. "I'm listening! Can you continue with what you were saying? I'd love to hear more."

#i wrote a little drabble abt this like two weeks ago omg 😭💗

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i THINK that maybe tumblr fixed its thing where u couldn't change which tab ("for you", following, followed tags, etc) is the default on new accounts.... so I am considering making a new tumblr account just for selfshipping fsdjkl that way I don't have to lowkey hide it on my main anymore bc i can just have a wholly separate account for it HMMM. but also i would be sad to move blogs dsjsdfjkl but better to do it now than wait longer,,,

#I WILL THINK ABOUT IT. and maybe make a test new account and see if it works #dandyshucks

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imagine you get injured- it's not major, it stings a little... but your f/o horrified anyways. you reassure them over and over, but there's little that can stop the fawning. an ice pack is being passed from their hands to yours in a milisecond. their voice is strained with concern as they ask if you need anything more. maybe their hands gently brush over the area, inspecting for any more damage. you can't help but stare at their face as it gets close, your eyes full of a loving gaze. at some point, maybe you even relent and let them dote on you. who could complain about having such sweet attention?

#💗

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this time of year is especially difficult (i.e. many memory gaps and occasional blackouts) for me so I do apologize if I vent here, I've been working hard to abstain from doing that (and will continue to try my best to avoid doing so) but it may crop up here and there - I'll try to remember to come up with a tag over the next day or two so that it can be easily filtered though!!

#ik this sort of space is often used to get away from stressors and upsetting stuff #and i am well aware that if u do not live thru my type of situation then it is probably A Lot to hear about fjdkdl #i feel like i am too much oftentimes when i mention anything even small abt my situation so fjfkdl #i will try to come up with a tag so that all of that can be filtered and avoided so that i hopefully dont end up scaring ppl off :') !!!! #once this month is over and we're into january then i should be able to regulate a little better hopefully dhfkdl #these dbt and coping skills are always put through the paces this time of year fbfjdkdl #anyways sorry im rambling again but fjdkdl yeah I'll come up w smth so that it can be filtered !! :] #just gotta get thru this time of year once again and then hopefully things will even out a little again !!! #dandyshucks

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f/o save me,,,,

#this is one of the roughest family dinners in a bit ffjjfkdl #i engaged in a convo when i should've just held my tongue fjfkdl forgot my brothers love being racist #aaaauuuughhhh guz.ma come pick me up and get me outta here #we havent even done gifts and cards yet fjfkdl #im so tired fjfkdl rly just wish I'd held my tongue but it was SUCH bait. it was such bait. not purposefully but bait nonetheless for me #things are okay w my brothers though like we disengaged pretty quick and made peace but fjdksl i just feel sick w myself #delete later

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My f/o is traumatized and I want so badly to just be there for them, hold and comfort them and tell them how much I adore them. To let them know that's it's ok to be vulnerable and that experiencing negative emotion isn't "being a downer" or anything like that. To help them feel truly safe and that they belong. I want to help them heal. They are such a sweetheart and they didn't deserve any of what happened to them

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the grunts are starting to ask questions (ﾟωﾟ;)!

#this is pre-relationship dshdjdkl #HEY BOSS WHY DOES JUNO FEEL SAFE ENOUGH SLEEPIN AGAINST YOU BUT NOT ANY OF THE REST OF US ?? #guz: you better stop askin questions right NOW. #dandyshucks #junebug 🪲 #dandy doodlebugs #💜so good at being in trouble #💜a boy and his bug🪲

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For my artistz!! Imagine making little drawings of your f/o (or things they like) and giving them to your f/o as little gifts every now and then. Imagine your f/o having a whole drawer/container/place where they keep all of your drawings. Perhaps they like to look at all of it when they're feeling down, or they just love to look at it whenever they feel like it. It just makes them feel better!! <3

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