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Brute Force Bedwetting - A Training Guide

Materials Required:

Diapers, cloth or disposable, mattress covers, clock with multiple alarm settings, child’s wetting calender

Preparation - week before training begins:

1st the trainee must understand that from the start of training they are to be considered a bedwetter in every sense of the word. The term “Nocturnal Enuresis” should be a readily available if a nurse or doctor asks if the trainee has a medical condition. They do have a medical condition, and they should understand that now before the training really begins. This needs to be understood in all it’s permutations: there will be no place the trainee won’t be able to wet, they will have to wear protection every night. There will be embarrassing questions, and staying over with friends, and dating will be forever changed by this behavior.

2nd the trainee should start going to bed at an early time. 10pm would be ideal, but as late as 11 pm works. If the trainee works on a specific schedule adjust times so that they should get at least 8 hours of sleep nightly. They should also get in the habit of having a drink before bed.

3rd the trainee should begin sleeping in the diapers that they will be wearing most through the training. Cloth diapers are recommended. They should be comfortable sleeping in the diaper, and should practice wetting while laying in bed, finding the most comfortable positions to do so.

4th the trainee should be prepared to be honest about their wetting. There will be some aspects of the later phases where the trainee will have to self report how their night went, and the only way to establish the proper behavior is if the trainee reports honestly.

Phase 1 - The New Behavior Paradigm - 1 month duration

Take the clock and set three alarms for 1AM, 2AM and 3AM. These times are important because it allows the trainee to get a solid amount of sleep, but not enough for a full nights sleep. The clock dial should then be covered, and from now on any other clock in the room that is visible from the bed should either be removed, covered or turned away so that it isn’t visible from the bed. This is so that the trainee doesn’t adapt to a single specific time to wet, and that the only solid trigger for wetting is the alarm. Every day choose an alarm at random to set. When the trainee has gone to bed, the alarm will wake them. They will then turn off the alarm and wet, moving as little as possible, then go back to sleep. This will be repeated every night until the end of the training. What this does is establish a new behavior. That behavior is conscious wetting at night. They key point is to get the trainee to sleep, then wet, then sleep. At first the behavior will be difficult. There will be many sleepless nights, and early on there will be anticipation and insomnia. But as time passes and the trainee gets used to the schedule, they will fall into a regular sleep cycle. Later in this phase the adaptation to the nightly disruption may result in automatically return to sleep without wetting. This behavior should be punished appropriately. As long as the alarm is set the trainee should always wake wet in the morning. By the end of this phase, the trainee should be wetting every night consistently without requiring punishment. If this is not the case, repeat the phase until it is so.

Phase 2 - Maintaining Behavior Under Differing Conditions - 1 month duration

The first phase is to establish the night wetting behavior. This second phase is to establish comfort and acceptance of this new behavior. A bedwetter is a person that wets in their sleep, regardless of what they are wearing. At this point we don’t have a bedwetter, but a person that wets a diaper at the sound of an alarm. Consider the different clothing variations that the trainee might experience when sleeping. So far they’ve been wearing diapers. But maybe they have cloth and disposable diapers. What if they were wearing regular underwear? Or all these variations fully clothed, or completely nude. Once the variations are figured out, set a random schedule, and continue the use of the alarm clock-wetting routine with the added variation of the different conditions. Keep in mind that this phase requires the most cleaning, make sure that you have many extra sets of sheets and the mattress is protected. Now that the new behavior has been established it is still unfortunately a specific habit: The trainee has so far been trained to wet a diaper at night. What the trainee needs is to be comfortable wetting and being wet. This phase helps the trainee to learn to be comfortable in a wet bed, or wet clothes and still able to return to a sleeping state. If by the end of the month the trainee is still having trouble returning to a regular sleep cycle, repeat the phase until they have done so.

Phase 3 - Weening and Reward - 12 week minimum duration

At this point the trainee has spent at least two months consistently wetting at night. In the mind of the trainee two things have happened, the behavior has become a habit, and the brain has gotten used to urinating during the three hour alarm period at night. By repetition we are creating the urge to urinate during this period even thought the trainee has most likely not yet felt that urge because of the alarm. This phase is the trickiest part of the training. Up until now the trigger for wetting has been the alarm. Now we turn off the alarm. But it can’t be done all at once. So the trainee must be weened slowly off the alarm until it becomes unnecessary. Start by randomly selecting one night of the week. This will be the night the alarm won’t be activated. A random day will be chosen for the next two weeks, and ideally every two weeks the number of days per week that the alarm is inactive will increase by one until after twelve weeks the alarm is no longer necessary. Because this phase can be extremely tricky be prepared to delay progress or even return to phase 2 until the desired behavior is achieved. The child’s wetting calendar will come in handy at this point as it will be easy to track the trainee’s progress. The behavior that is desired is that on nights that the trainee doesn’t experience the alarm, they will still wet. Realistically there are three possible scenarios when the alarm is off: The trainee sleeps through the night, the trainee wakes because of the established habit of waking at this time, or the trainee doesn’t wake but still wets. If the trainee should wake, they should wet before returning to sleep.Early in this phase don’t worry if the trainee sleeps through the wetting period, however don’t progress with the weening if the trainee hasn’t wet after the first four weeks. When the trainee does wet, either by waking or sleeping, reward the behavior. Show the trainee that this is the desired behavior, and that it will be rewarded, and the trainee will have a greater incentive to continue the behavior. In this way also the mind of the trainee will be conditioned to want to wet. As the wetting behavior continues without the alarm, the trainee will require waking less and less. As it is, with the alarm activated, after so long the trainee ought not even need to stay awake, but might even be falling asleep while wetting after having experienced the situation so many times. So now with the alarm inactive the sleep wetting has a chance to occur naturally. By the seventh to eighth week, the randomized condition training begun in the second phase can end provided the trainee has shown the ability to wet in each of the conditions without the alarm. Once the trainee has been able to wet, awake or asleep, without the alarm at least 50% of the time this phase can end after at least two weeks of only one night where the alarm is activated per week.

Phase 4 - The Bedwetter and Diminishing Returns

At this point the trainee has established the ability to wet at night without the need for an alarm. As well because the alarm is no longer being used, most of the time the trainee should be wetting without waking. However this is also taking up a lot rewards. But since the trainee is now a bedwetter, they don’t need the rewards. But still we can’t just stop, so like he alarm we must ween the trainee. At the start of this phase we change the reward scheme to only reward nights where the trainee has only wet in their sleep. Do that for several weeks. Keep in mind the wetting calendar will be very handy at this point. Once the trainee has gotten used to this new reward scheme reduce the reward period from one night to two nights. After several weeks reduce it again to three nights. Every few weeks keep reducing the rewards until it takes a full week to wet. This will wen the trainee off the rewards, but it will also encourage more wetting since the mind of the trainee is conditioned to be rewarded for wetting. At this point don’t end the rewards all together, but keep it up for the next month or so in order to continue o encourage the wetting behavior. The rarity of reward will encourage greater regularity of the wetting behavior. When the trainee is wetting 75% of the time or more should the rewards end, and the training period officially end.

A Word on Punishment and Reward

Notice that when I mention punishment I said “this behavior should be punished appropriately. I am not a proponent of harsh punishments, nor do I pretend to know all the various dynamics that might come into play between trainee and trained, or even trainee by themselves. Punishment need only be as harsh as necessary to be effective, and the trainer ought to know best what is most effective punishment. No punishment should result in injury. Rewards can be tricky. As often as a trainee might wet the bed, it will be difficult to reward with stuff, because that could be expensive in the long term. I recommend sensory rewards like pleasure or even orgasm, but that implies a greater control and specific relationship on the part of the trainer. As with punishment the trainer has the best understanding of the trainee, and the nature of their relationship. Reward appropriately.

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I was mortified beyond any fantasy that my horny little mind could conjure as I stood before him dressed like an overgrown toddler in a soaked diaper and pink plastic pants covered in baby cartoon designs. The only thing offering me any modesty was the oversized baby bib covering my little boobs.

I’m living out my fantasies for the next three weeks as a submissive to a DaddyDom that I met on tumblr. We had been chatting back and forth for the past year and became quite good friends so I jumped at the opportunity to visit during my vacation.

He’s a very old fashioned Daddy type but he won’t allow me to call him Daddy but rather Sir; yes Sir and no Sir is what he considers respectful and proper. I was well informed that this was an adventure into learning about Domination and submission and not about intercourse and sexual games. The words “baby cuck” sent exhilarating shivers through me the very first time he said it even though the idea was just a passing thought in a few fantasies.

I gained a lot of respect for him when he was adamant about no sexual intercourse which is the polar opposite of so many of the DaddyDoms that I’ve encountered. With sex completely off the table, I was allowed to feel safe in my submission to him and, as he puts it, able to concentrate and focus purely on my submission as we embarked on bringing my fantasies to life.

Being acknowledged as a baby cuck twisted my insides with humiliation and sent sparks to my very frustrated princess parts. He constantly reminds me that sexual frustration is a key component to obedience and submissiveness and it makes me very eager to do what’s necessary to earn the reward of a climax which has only been allowed once so far. Edging and denial is part of the daily routine that he firmly believes in. I’ve tried to experiment with edging by myself but it never lasts more than a day before I break down and give in to the calling to hump myself silly….then there is the let down of failure and the thought of what it might be like under someone else’s supervision.

I’ve never been constantly horny to this degree without even the slightest mention of sex. My list of kinks is varied and they all get me going down the path to eventually humping my pillow or stuffy whether it’s humiliation, soft degradation, spanking, forced diapering, wetting, etc. My fantasies revolve around me being treated like a naughty little girl that isn’t responsible enough to make her own decisions and needs to be kept in her place with forced toddler treatment and diapers.

There hasn’t been a single day so far that I’m not a quivering, horny and frustrated mess by bedtime. I always imagined that diaper changes would be a benefit that I looked forward to since it brings comfort, cleansing washes, baby powder pats and fresh diapers but they have turned into anything but that and altered my perception of what fantasy verses reality can be. My body divers and I almost instantly get wet when he takes my hand and announces that it’s time for a diaper change. It’s a shiver of anticipation like a deer in the headlights or the butterflies in your tummy while waiting in the corner for an awaited spanking.

“Let’s go little potty pants.” Is what he says as he leads me to the changing table. I’m given either a bottle to hold with both hands or a pacifier and a stuffy so that my hands are kept busy during the process. I learned quickly after a sound spanking that little girls don’t touch their diapers or interfere with that diaper changing process at all and the threat of wrist restraints was mentioned if it happened again.

He always spends time reminding me how ridiculous I look dressed like a big baby and how pathetic it is that I allow myself to be kept in soggy diapers like an overgrown toddler. My face goes red and the butterflies churn when he says, “What a complete shame that such a beautiful woman doesn’t deserve to have sexual pleasures like an adult. No grown man is going to want to have sex with a little potty pants that smells like pee and spends her days sitting in soiled diapers.” Then he continues, “You’re getting exactly what you deserve little girl because we both know that this is what you need and this is what you want even if you don’t admit it.” I silently nod and reply “Yes, Sir” as he rubs my soaked diaper through the plastic pants and starts massaging the front of my diaper with the Magic Wand. My body betrays and overwhelms my humiliation and my hips start gyrating against the wand as I melt into the feelings of the vibrations. “Should we let the big baby make cummies for being a good girl and learning her place as a little baby cuck?” I can’t help but beg and say “Yes Sir, please.” The sounds of the wand, the loud crinkling of my baby pants and the soft moans emanating from behind my pacifier are all too much and I can feel the pressure of an arriving climax. My eyes got instantly teary when he suddenly turned off the wand and left me writhing on the table in utter frustration and denial.

He stood back and admired his work as my body slowly absorbed the shivers of excitement and the near climax subsided. I was taken off balance when he said, “We will let the little potty pants make cummies before your bedtime diapering but only if you can prove how pathetic you are by making a messy diaper.” My eyes grew wide with the thought of crinkling and writhing on the changing table in a stinky mess sticking to my skin. “That’s right little girl, no quick changes when you make a poopy in your pants. You’re going to fill the back of that diaper and you’re going to stay in it until I think your bottom is properly messy like a dirty little baby. Maybe we can practice some knee bouncing or perhaps we’ll just let you crawl around the floor and sit in your mess until you stink like a dirty baby. Would you like that little miss poopy pants?”

I’ve never messed my diapers but the thought was always there. I’ve read about others doing it but could never bring myself to experiment because the cleanup just didn’t seem worth any benefit that might come. He’s changed a few of my dirty diapers and it was all fairly matter of fact but he never talked about making me spend any amount of time stuck in a dirty diaper and the idea was overwhelming my senses. “Good girls don’t cum and since you want to be a dirty little girl to make cummies then we are going to teach you what a truly dirty little girl feels like.”

I went back to suckling my bottle as he continued to change me out of my wet diapers and felt myself pressing my hips into his hand as he wiped my princess parts and bottom. The first few days, my body was rigid with shock and embarrassment when he changed my diapers. The embarrassment and humiliation of having someone actually go through the process of diapering you like a big baby and seeing all of you and your intimate bits was shocking to the system but his expertise let my mind and body relax. I don’t think that I’ll ever get over the humiliation of having someone change my messy diaper, it’s just a vulnerable process to have your legs lifted while a grown man cleans your poopy bottom. Having my poopy diaper changed might be a little easier if he wasn’t constantly reminding me of how pathetic I am for being such a stinky baby.

I realized just how serious he was about making a dirty diaper when he inserted a suppository up my bottom before adding two stuffers to the already thick diaper and taping them in place. He announced, “Ok, we have some errands to run and a quick shop at the grocery so get yourself dressed and meet me down stairs.” I felt the fullness of the diaper between my legs as I slid off the changing table. My first thought was that it’s going to make me waddle but then I felt a weight in the bottom of my stomach as I realized that I don’t have anything to wear that would conceal a diaper this thick. I was a little frantic as I looked through my clothes and tried on a few different things all the while worried that he was actually going to take me out in public looking like this. I was hurried as I was trying to pull up my jeans and almost crying at the prospect of being noticed and then he walked in and said, “Those clothes won’t fit over that big diapered bottom silly girl. Here is a pair of overalls that will fit you so put them on and come down stairs.”

He said that big babies need overalls in their wardrobe because it’s one of the few clothing choices that will always fit no matter how thickly I’m diapered. My eyes were teary as I looked at my reflection in the mirror and could see the obvious diaper bulge. I felt the sparks of humiliation as I watched myself waddle and could hear the rustling of my diapers with every step. He was all smiles as I managed my way down the stairs and the rustling sounds of my diapers became evident. “Ok crinkle pants, its time for you to learn about modesty or lack there of… you’re a big pathetic baby that’s kept diapered and under control and this is one of the many ways that we are going to reinforce those ideas into that little brain of yours. People will notice that you’re diapered and people will probably be staring at that big diapered bottom as you walk by. If they don’t hear your loud diaper crinkling or smell the abundance of baby powder then they will certainly notice that funny diaper waddle when you walk. The more people that know about your diapers then the easier it will be for you to embrace the truth of your new reality as my diapered cucky baby.”

I actually felt it through my bones with every step towards the car, the feeling of being a pathetic diaper wearing naughty little girl. This is what I deserve, this is what I need, this is actually what I wanted but could never bring myself to do without someone else forcing me to go through with it…. This was pure humiliation and I felt it to my core. …

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What's that big pink paci you had in a recent post? I've never seen it before and I looove pacis!

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It's actually a Kong "binkie" dog chew toy we picked up from our local pet store. Its great for making me a happy pup or a particularly drooly baby! It fills my mouth *just* enough to make me gag as well if it's tied in, so it's a super versitile toy for our toy bag!

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Why your partner likes diapers and wants them 24/7

As a non-ABDL person, trying to understand why my successful, grown-up male partner would want to wear and use diapers 24/7 wasn’t immediately obvious. He even struggled to describe his feelings & desires to me. To make it even harder his desires seemed to change from wanting and even trying 24/7 to not wearing diapers at all for a few days.

Overall this really made me confused and worried and is what drove me to go deeper into my research into ABDL and start talking to some other couples.

He’s helped me with some of this article but the goal of it is to help non-ABDL partners understand their ABDL partners desire better. I should also say that this is our viewpoint and although I know from conversations with other couples it’s a very common one, there are obviously lots of different reasons why someone might want to wear diapers which we won’t cover here.

So firstly, you’re not in any way stupid for wondering why your partner might want this, as subjectively wearing diapers has a lot of negatives from potential embarrassment, cost, smells, extra chores in daily life… the list goes on. BUT for your partner some of these negatives might actually be positives and overall the positives far outweigh any negatives for them.

So lets get down to some of the reasons they like diapers:

It gives them comfort

This is a hard one to describe but in the same way that cuddling up to your partner or being given a hug can make you feel at ease, safe and relaxed, diapers can do this for ABDL people. 

I’ve heard the saying that wearing a diaper is like being given a hug constantly. From the moment they’re taped into a diaper many ABDL’s will feel more at ease.

It takes them back to a simpler time

Childhood is something a lot of adults look back on with fond memories where they lived without the stresses and pressures of daily adult life. Wearing and using diapers can really help in reminding them of these good times and adding some of it back into their adult life.

This is especially powerful if you take control of their checks and changes, and incorporate other elements of babying.

If you partner likes to regress and act like a younger age (age play) then diapers are a core ingredient to get them into this headspace.

They like giving up some control

I have no hard evidence to back this up but I feel that ABDL’s over-index on stressful careers and generally being “successful” people. The problem is this often comes with tons of responsibility and control over lots of decisions, so giving up some of this control can be incredibly therapeutic and stress-releasing for them.

I’m confident that all adults can relate to the enjoyment of having some decisions taken away from them, but for most using the toilet wouldn’t be their go-to thought.

We’re big advocates for 24/7 and one of the main reasons for this is I’ve seen first hand how beneficial it was saying to my boyfriend, yes you’ve got a big and important job with lots of stress but from now onwards going to the toilet isn’t going to be something you have to think about.

This year we’ve been experimenting with him giving up more control, by increasing the babying, and honestly the more I take away the better I think it makes him, both professionally and personally.

They like the smells

Being in diapers 24/7 exposes them to a lot of different smells which they can find enjoyable or relaxing.

From being taped up in a fresh diaper with baby powder scent, to the subtle pee smell as they use their diaper, to more pungent odours coming from their filled diaper, to the clean fragrance while being wiped clean. They experience this wide range of smells daily and each brings different feelings from feeling cared for, loved, embarrassed and more.

I myself (like many women) like the smell of babies and over time I’ve found that the smell of baby powder on him and his wet diaper is something that makes me feel content and relaxed too.

The feeling of diapers is great

The soft padding encasing their bum and groin is comforting, and then as they use it it gets warmer and squishy. There is a constant reminder of its presence when sitting or walking, with the subtle sound which accompanies it. Even the feeling of messing their diaper is enjoyable for many ABDL’s due to the unique feeling of it pushing out and then spreading in different directions.

The naughtiness of being punished

Diaper discipline should be more than your partner wants as otherwise it won’t fulfil the feeling of being punished and controlled which they crave.

Like other more mainstream kinks their diapers sometime being uncomfortable, embarrassing and inconvenient is a positive for them and isn’t something you should try avoid.

Many times it’s convenient

Being able to pee and not have to stop playing a game, watching a film or working can be convenient. My boyfriend used to get up in the night to pee which disturbed his sleep and mine, now it goes straight into the diaper.

On long drives and flights it can be a lifesaver wearing a diaper, the seatbelt light going on doesn’t worry you even if you need to pee.

Being changed is amazing

Diaper changes make them feel incredibly loved and cared for. It’s very intimate with some embarrassment but having your loved one wipe you clean and tape you into a fresh diaper is one of the top experiences for your ABDL partner.

Even a diaper check shows them you’re caring for them while also playing into the feeling of giving up control.

Diapers combine great with other kinks

Diapers go hand in hand with a range of other kinks including bondage, chastity, spanking & submission. If they or you are kinky you should try these with diapers involved and all make for good punishments too.

They’re cute

With ABDL and diaper discipline more popular than ever, we’re blessed to have a huge range of amazing adult diapers available. These diapers look cute on your partner and when combined with ABDL clothing it really plays into the lovely feeling of regressing to a younger age.

Why 24/7

So hopefully you can now better understand why your partner loves wearing diapers. But there are a few reasons why the idea of wearing 24/7 and then the reality of it is so appealing:

Accepting this is part of them

Many if not all ABDL’s have experienced or are still experiencing shame about their diaper wearing desires. Switching to or being forced to wear 24/7 helps them accept that this actually is a big part of who they are and they don’t need to pretend otherwise or feel guilty about it.

The loss of control

Accepting they now have to use their diapers instead of the toilet on a long term basis excites and scares them in a good way. They’re losing one of the most grown up privileges.

You accepting them

Encouraging or forcing them to wear 24/7 shows your partner that you fully accept this part of them. One of their biggest fears will be their ABDL desires cause them to lose you, so by being truly supportive it will be a massive weight lifted off their shoulders.

We’re going to do another article on this shortly but because of this I feel there is a big benefit of you forcing them into 24/7 rather than waiting for it to happen naturally.

It stops them having to decide when to wear

Many ABDL’s yoyo on their diaper wearing frequency and struggle to decide when to wear or not. Having this choice taken away from them removes this stress and helps combat the lows when before they’d have felt guilty and stopped wearing for a period.

It becomes part of their daily life

Diaper wearing is often a hidden part of their lives but moving to 24/7 means it needs to become much more normalized. From making sure their wardrobe is now designed around their padded bum to having a large stock of diapers on hand and not hidden is extremely beneficial for your partner.

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I’m sure there are many reasons here we’ve missed so please add them into the comments. Also please watch out for our next long post about when is the right time to switch your partner to 24/7 and how to do it.

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