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its amazing that "communists" can be pro-porn and sex work considering the literal communist manifesto identifies these as the commodification of women's bodies for bourgeois exploitation. like how are y'all losing to two men from the 1800s in the feminism game. embarassing.

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it’s too hot to wear makeup in madrid in the summertime too like it’ll actually melt off, not to mention every time i’ve visited madrid i never wore the makeup i brought because of the heat so it literally wasted space in my suitcase

im gonna challenge myself and bring as little makeup as possible to madrid

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it’s so crazy to me whenever misogynists say “women never get held accountable for anything!!! >:(“ because literally every single time you hear about a male doing something absolutely horrific to a woman or child you look at his history and he had been doing heinous shit for years with little to no consequences. look at basically every serial killer ever, they almost always have a long history of violence that they weren’t truly held accountable for until it was too late.

even in the church I grew up in 10 year old girls (and even younger) were taught that men had zero self-control through no fault of their own and that if something happened it would be our fault because we tempted them somehow. children were held accountable for the actions of grown men and still are

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im gonna challenge myself and bring as little makeup as possible to madrid

#eyebrow gel and lipstick only #maybe powder bc it's so hot

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the more draconian the responses to protesters get, the more centrists feel emboldened in voicing their support for fascism. can these people not see how comically evil it is for them to stand on the side of snipers sent out to subdue students? it doesn’t matter. I don’t care if these people are ignorant or knowingly evil. they’ve allied themselves with a war-mongering empire. they refuse to stand against genocide. they’re worth no one’s time.

#free palestine

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i wish i had every song on fetch the bolt cutters (2020) in middle school

i wish i had shameika by fiona apple in middle school

#fiona apple vinyl

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Once you reach that age where you realize periods aren’t really that gross they’re more of just a nuisance is just a really great turning point for most women. Keep telling the young girls in your life that periods aren’t gross, just reality.

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Why do we actually live in the worst timeline right now

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women need to wake up and understand every feminist throughout history has experienced being called and compared to every terrible thing in the book. we're gonna kindness and politeness and understanding our way back to the 1950s. women have to start being angry.

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writing commissions & donations

hiii i'm a broke wheelchair dyke on disability aid with bills and debt to pay, and bunnies to feed! i also looove to write for others.

if you're just looking to be kind, here's my paypal (fake name lol)

for fanfics & short stories:

♡ give me the deets: fanfic? short story of your OCs? or just general story idea you keep obsessing over? tell me as many details as you can about the setting, characters, plot points, etc. it doesn't need to be a fandom i know, i will watch or read whatever i need to know the material and the characters well enough to do it right. i love obsessing over fandom wikis and i will often ask a lot of follow-up questions, especially if it includes OCs of yours :]

♡ decide on length: i offer 2000-ish words for $15cad. i say ish only because let's be real, i want the story to wrap up nicely, even if it takes me a couple hundred words more. but it will be 2000+ words

♡ i will take around a week to deliver the final product, maybe less. i will only show half of the story, probably cut off on an annoying cliffhanger, until i get the actual payment

♡ payment is thru paypal, or e-transfers (no checks) within canada

♡ you will be forcing me to join all your favorite fandoms and i will either love or hate you for it (probably both <3)

♡ if you like it enough i can write another 2000 words for $10

♡ if i take more than 7 days i will remove $2 for each additional day

♡ nothing that involves s/exual violence, torture or ddlg pls

♡ that's it ty for reading! hmu anytime!

#feminist writer solidarity

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wait i'm literally living the life my female ancestors dreamed of i can't waste it

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trans men on tumblr fighting for their lives to get transandrophobia acknowledged because they can't say "i experience misogyny" or the trans women will tell them "so i experience male privilege?!?!?!?!" and they're going to have a war

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desirability is such a distraction and as long as we are consistently invested in our own identity solely through the lens of desirability we will literally never progress ….the self objectification has to end at some point. like the denial of how much i truly have to offer outside of my own perceived desirability (which fluctuates anyway) is so disrespectful to myself tbh..i am so much more than this. we all are. i feel like the world is dead set on not ever cracking through the surface of things

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One of the things that makes arguing with men so much more draining than arguing with women is the unequal distribution of credibility and contribution.

Somehow, whenever I argue with men, it always falls upon me to both prove my own claims, and to disprove his, while he does neither; his only obligation seemingly to dole out whatever ungrounded assertions he conjures up on the spot. Somehow, it is always wordlessly established that anything I say is false until proven true, while anything he says is true until proven false.

This same dynamic happened again over on tiktok, when a man claimed women are just as violent as men. Automatically, almost as if by muscle memory, I offered up the usual statistics on male depravity: men constituting 99% of rapists, 99% of mass shooters, 98% of killers, 95% of serious domestic abusers. And his only response was to say those statistics were wrong. No elaboration; wrong simply because he said so.

I already knew how the entire conversation would pan out: I’d give him my source, he’d find a reason to discredit the source, then I’d scour the internet to find a source that suited his standards, which he’d inevitably find a reason to discredit too.

So instead I simply said, “Prove the statistics are wrong.” And that was the only thing I responded with henceforth: prove it, prove I’m wrong, prove you’re right. Thus reversing the dynamics and positing that anything I said was true unless he demonstrated otherwise; unduly putting all the onus on him while I did nothing other than decide whether he was convincing me of claims thoroughly enough—and if he wasn’t, it just meant I was winning, of course.

He blocked me, and so far so have all the other men I’ve used this approach on. I don’t know whether it’s because they couldn’t actually disprove my claims or because they couldn’t stand to be treated the same way they treat women in debates. But I think more women should do this. Stop wasting energy proving your points to men, and start making them prove theirs to you.

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Mother of Pearl Spoons for Caviar

#home

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also the fact that porn is often embedded in some sort of daily scenario instead of at least just showing sexual acts should worry more people.

why do men need to see boss and employee? delivery guy/post man/whatever and woman home alone? or even worse, teacher and student? stepdad and stepdaughter?

it is not just about the arousal of watching sexual acts being performed, they need to see women being available at any time, they want to imagine themselves just „taking“ random women, even the women (and girls) closest to them. also notice how many times there is some type of authority involved?

makes you wonder how many men you encounter in daily situations, even within your family or friend circle, at work, when you order something, really dont see you as a woman, as a person, but as a mere object for their sexual fantasies.

especially considering how often these situations actually happen, and how often there is sexual assault involved.

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Men can nuke humanity to extinction but women who choose not to have children are the ones men fear the most to kill their bloodlines. Men develop weapons that can kill tens of millions of humans at once but it's women who need to be controlled so we don't bring nations to their knees. Humanity can be destroyed by men committing mass murder on an apocalyptic scale or humanity can be destroyed by women refusing to give birth.