fitgirlfemdom

[fitgirlfemdom]

I don’t know if I’m into feederism or if I’m just into chubby guys and chubby girls. like I don’t want to feed them to get them to that point, I just am really sexually attracted to people bigger than me in terms of weight

I’m not into death feederism or morbid obesity either. I just think that 250-290lb age range is hella attractive, especially on stronger builds. I think it’d be more hot to work out with a guy/girl in the gym, getting our adrenaline pumping and working on improving each other, than idk funnel feeding

I’m working on not being easily influenced or letting bad people into my life. I just wanted to be honest with you guys with this blog moving forward

#fitgirltxt

[fitgirlfemdom]

turning off DMs for the foreseeable future.

after receiving rape threats, scat fetish messages, and insults about my body I realized I do not have thick enough skin for my following, and I do not want to message anyone anymore.

I’m not into half the things I post, and I mainly just write things I think people would like. I’m not into BDSM or power dynamics IRL. I’d much rather build a Lego set with someone than have sex with them. I am a very shy, self conscious person IRL and I wanted to use this page as an outlet, but I think my posts about femdom made some men feel threatened, and they lashed out. I’m sorry my posts made you uncomfortable

in regards to a post I made a few days ago and deleted, I am mentally not okay and I haven’t been for months, probably for as long as this blog has been active.

#fitgirltxt

[fitgirlfemdom]

gooner boys are so cute, deathgripping their spent cocks to degenerate porn, slowly melting their brains for their next dopamine rush. and that sound they make when they're about to orgasm, that "nnngh," the way their eyes cross and their entire bodies tense up--the way their legs shake.

i love when you're having sex with one and they can't control their voice when they're cumming, so their moans sound so gay and feminine. when you're sucking their dick so well they can't keep up that stoic display, and you hear that high "ahh, ahh." the best is when they're too sensitive after they've came, and even brushing your fingers on their balls makes them squirm.

telling them they're not allowed to cum until you do, and they have to stop every three minutes so they don't finish inside you. the way their cocks leak cum after they've finished, and they get so sensitive when you clean them up with your tongue.

i always had the fantasy of walking in on some coomer degenerate loser jacking off, and forcing him to continue while I degrade him or make him give me head. i'd love to make fun of him for the cringey porn he watches, and for how perverted he is for jerking off with someone else in the house.

i'd love to make him worse, giving him a strict quota for how many times he needs to orgasm to please me. reducing a guy to such a brainless pervert he needs to cum five times a day to be satisfied. fucking with his brain until he can't stop cumming too early and he can't get hard. ruining him until his jerk-off sessions take longer and longer, until he's spending half the day cumming into tissues. destroying him until i'm the last girl he'd ever be able to satisfy.

#male feedism #degredation kink #humiliation kink #femdxm #gooner #corruption kink

[fitgirlfemdom]

not to get too positive on here (because I know my followers love me degrading them or corrupting them or ruining them or whatever) but as a 300lb+ man, do u have any idea how much of an advantage y’all have with bodybuilding?

guys would KILL to have that level of body mass to turn into muscle. I know guys that WISH they could get to ur level, and wish they could have ur strength. gymbros literally call male obesity the “cheatcode” for crazy gains

and if you really think about it, a bodybuilding lifestyle and a male feeder lifestyle are kinda of the same:

-insane daily calorie surplus

-disturbing hygiene practices

-increased risk for heart attack, high blood pressure, and mortality (the average life expectancy for bodybuilders is 45!)

-drinking shakes with dubious contents

-seen as “freakish” or unattractive according to contemporary beauty standards

-basically the same slob, gross pig lifestyle ur used to, but with dead lifts

personally (and according to many IRL female friends of mine) the ideal body type for a male is ~250lbs but STRONG—not lean or “aesthetic” but built in terms of arms and legs, with a gut. think of how gross and manly you could get with just two days a week at the gym, while continuing to eat what you eat

why be a boring pig when you can be a BOAR (and crush my skull)???

#ffa #feeding kink #feedee encouragement #feedee feeder #male feedee #male feedism #feederist #huc0w #feedee piggy #feedee girl

[fitgirlfemdom]

sometimes i get depressed, but then i remember:

-sitting behind a chubby girl as you massage her sensitive tits, feeling her breath hitch as she tries to focus on the television screen in front of you. telling her how good she feels, how soft she feels, as you softly pinch her nipples, hearing her softly moan as she grinds back against your lap. moving your hand down to between your thighs, where you can feel her wet panties underneath her skirt, laughing at her sweetly for being so turned on.

-she's showing you her new dress (with pockets) and you can see the sun in her eyes as she stares in the mirror, her full cheeks practically glowing as she twirls around, seeing the sundress flutter. you want to tell her how beautiful it'd look with her bent over, but the pockets are actually so sick and you lose focus.

-chubby girl who's never been with a girl before. seeing her eyes widen at your ten-inch strap, her lips parting with a mixture of hunger and nervousness. bending her over to get a good look at her fat ass, grabbing handfuls of flesh as you lean against her back, telling her you're going to go slow. you start by prepping her tight cunt with our fingers, hearing her gasp and moan with surprise, until the sounds of her wetness fill the room. she gets so loud she starts blushing.

-chubby girl pussy. that's it that's the bullet.

-size juxtaposition between a skinny fit girl and a chubby curvy girl. having her spread out in missionary with big, wet puppy eyes as you plunge half of your strap into her leaking hole, watching her tits bounce as her mind melts in her head. your neck is covered in lipstick stains and now your bed smells like coconut and honey

#ffa #feedee piggy #feedee girl #huc0w #feederist #feedee feeder #chub kink #gaining #feeding kink

[fitgirlfemdom]

Hi! I can bench over 200 lbs. Your blog is really interesting, I've been having to much fun on my bulk and I found my way here. I guess my question is should I take this further? or do people leave this stuff in the realm of fantasy. Thanks!

short answer: i'd keep this shit on tumblr.

long answer: okay, real talk, everything i say on this blog is purely fantasy and i wouldn't advise literally anything i talk about. there is a sociopolitical component to weight gain and the fat community, but that is not what feederism is about--it's purely about the sexual thrill, and its a particularly dangerous one.

i will most likely never engage in a feeder/feedee relationship in my life. a lot of people ask me, personally, if they should ruin their lives because my blog turns them on, and i ask you--how much are you willing to put up with for a fetish? here's a list of what you can expect if you're not smart about this:

-spending over $10,000 a year on fast food and DoorDash (on average) -being unable to find clothes that fit, and having to throw out your old ones -reducing your fertility/potency, causing hormone imbalances -higher or certain chance of high blood pressure, high cholesterol, inflammation, heart blockages, diabetes, fatigue, breathing problems, heart attacks, strokes, and various cancers -a much smaller dating pool -mobility issues -issues traveling on public transportation due to seat or size limitations -and most importantly--severe mental health damage, increased risk for depression, and the fact this fetish is promoting addiction

the interesting thing about feederism is that a good percentage of those with the fetish find the above list tantalizing. it turns them on to have to deal with such humiliating situations, and having to financially burden themselves with their addiction.

i am purely interested in this kink as a fantasy that i will never follow through on. it brings me pain to see people in pain (which is strange, as a sadist, but there are certain types of pain that will NEVER be enjoyable). as a former addict (albeit not to food) i can't realistically endorse this behavior. however, as a fantasy, corruption and ruination is really fucking hot.

#ffa #feedee encouragement #feeding kink #male feedee #male feedism #feedee feeder #feederist #huc0w #feedee piggy #feedee girl

[fitgirlfemdom]

okay, but inspection

the idea of me being completely clothed, analyzing every part of your nude body. you might be embarrassed or blushing when i grab hold of your tits, feeling the weight in my hand, the strong flesh in my grip

when i inspect your dick, only touching it firmly to get every angle, without any stimulation, you start to get antsy. feeling your thick thighs, burying my hands in your flesh, feeling the muscle underneath. standing behind you as i grope your tits from that angle, hearing your breath hitch as i trail my fingers down your abdomen

analyzing you like you’re cattle, like you’re in a dog show, like you’re a slab of meat on the scale. i’ll put you in different poses, point out every detail on your body in the mirror, take polaroid photos of everything you’re self conscious about

and when i’m done playing with my food, and when you’re so hard you can’t stand it, i’ll put you to good use

#ffa #feeding kink #feedee encouragement #feedee feeder #male feedism #feederist #male feedee #huc0w #feedee piggy #feedee girl #femdxm #humiliation kink #degrading k1nk

[fitgirlfemdom]

im sick of the sugary sweet cottagecore borderline-religious aesthetic of gen z lesbianism.

i wanna fuck a girl til she’s screaming. i want to pinch and grab every inch of her, feel her fat tits in my hands and seeing the fear in her eyes, seeing her lips glossy with my spit and her skin flushed with arousal. i want her confused on whether she’s afraid of me or wants every inch of my strap buried in her wet cunt. I want her only, i don’t want her to think of anyone else. i want to feel her between my hands

i don’t want to go on some aesthetic pinterest picnics. i don’t want awkward first kisses or rom-com level romance. i want it to be carnal

god i miss being with women

#fitgirltxt #femdxm #huc0w

[fitgirlfemdom]

being into submissive men is frustrating sometimes cause I’m not into twinkish, femboy/eboy adjacent zoomers who send :3 and call girls mommy.

i want to dominate and sexually torture a buff/larger guy, a pinnacle of masculinity, who could realistically kill me if he wanted to. it’s the arousal he gets that betrays him, that keeps him from fighting me off. I find that pathetic and really really hot—the fact he’ll let a girl like me do anything to him, as long as it makes his dick hard

#ffa #feeding kink #feedee encouragement #feedee feeder #feederist #male feedee #male feedism #feedee piggy #huc0w #feedee girl

[fitgirlfemdom]

i need a free-use boyfriend

sitting on his face while i write my essays, classwork, draft my emails, etc. or while i draw

not letting him wear clothes so i always have easy access to grope him wherever (and whenever) i want

make him quit his job so he can assume a new position—laying on my bed, gagged/blindfolded/subdued and completely nude, his cock out ready for me whenever i want it

he doesn’t speak unless spoken to, but he can moan whenever he wants

he wears a collar with my name on it (we’re saving up for a tattoo)

on the off chance we go out in public, he’s on high alert for when i need relief, and must drop everything to get me off, whether that be orally or getting fucked in a public bathroom

he has a trigger word that immediately makes his knees weak—he’s addicted to eating me out. sometimes, he even forgets he’s doing it

I need a free-use boyfriend

#ffa #free use cnc #free use kink #femdxm #degrading k1nk #humiliation kink #beta sissy

[fitgirlfemdom]

✧∘* ✧･ﾟgainer shake recipes AGAIN✧∘* ✧･ﾟ

my first list of recipes did very well, and you pigs seemed to have liked them! here's a few more you hogs can try if you're feeling hungry. you should probably make more than one serving. maybe more than three.

let's get into it!!!

Almond Joy Shake

-Whole Milk (293 cal) or Heavy Cream (1645 cal), 16 ounces -Almond Butter (294 cal), 3 tablespoons -Coconut Oil (234 cal), 2 tablespoons -Condensed Milk (491 cal), 4 ounces -Chocolate Mass Gainer Powder (1280 cal), 2 scoops Stats: 2592 cal for whole milk / 3944 cal for heavy cream

PB&J Shake

-Vanilla Ice Cream (548 cal), 16 ounces -Heavy Cream (410 cal), 4 ounces -Peanut Butter (188 cal), 2 tablespoons -Grape Jelly (100 cal), 2 tablespoons -Peanut Butter Mass Gainer Powder (1280 cal), 2 scoops

Stats: 2526 cal

Peanut Butter Brownie Shake

-Chocolate Ice Cream (548 cal), 16 ounces -Heavy Cream (821 cal), 8 ounces -Peanut Butter (188 cal), 2 tablespoons -Brownie (224 cal), 2 count -Peanut Butter Mass Gainer Powder (1280 cal)

Stats: 3061 cal

Kit-Kat Shake

-Whole Milk (293 cal) or Heavy Cream (1645 cal), 16 ounces -Kit-Kats (436 cal), 2 bars -Condensed Milk (491 cal), 4 ounces -Chocolate Mass Gainer Powder (1280 cal), 2 scoops Stats: 2500 cal for whole milk / 3852 cal for heavy cream

Nutella Biscoff Shake

-Chocolate Ice Cream (548 cal), 16 ounces -Heavy Cream (821 cal), 8 ounces -Nutella (200 cal), 2 tablespoons -Biscoff Cookies (150 cal), 4 count -Chocolate Mass Gainer Powder (1280 cal)

Stats: 2999 cal

#ffa #feeding kink #feedee encouragement #feedee feeder #feederist #male feedism #male feedee #feedee piggy #huc0w #feedee girl

[fitgirlfemdom]

✧∘* ✧･ﾟmy favorite types of fat guys✧∘* ✧･ﾟ

-chubby guy whose friends start making fun of him because of his weight gain. it starts as gentle ribbing, with the guy being in denial or responding, "i'm not that fat." slowly, it becomes the favorite quip or insult to use against him. he fights back at first, but as the pounds pile on, he looks in the mirror and realizes his friends are completely right. he now agrees with them, and for some odd reason, the insults make him smile

-fat guy who honestly has no idea why he's fat. like, he's not in denial of the fact he is fat, but that he has no idea how he got to that point. in between mindlessly shoving handfuls of chips in his mouth, he goes on about how diets don't work, and it must be in his genes. he truly believes everyone gets fast food at least once a day, and he doesn't even know what a calorie surplus is

-college dude who let the frat boy lifestyle get to him too much. maybe he was little heavier in high school, but the countless beers every weekend/weeknight contributed greatly to his Freshman 15 50. he uses his masculinity as an excuse as to why he should drink so much, and only drinks high-calorie beers and hard liquor--because he's a man, and he wouldn't be caught dead with a White Claw

-guy who once was 160lbs with a 7inch dick, gaining 200lbs and being stuck with only a visible 2 inches. he used to be kind of an asshole, sending unsolicited dick pics to girls on campus or just over the internet, but now he can barely get a good angle with his gut in the way. when he does send an unsolicited dick pic now, it's more to jerk off to the humiliation and insults from the recipient

-chubby guy whose tits are way too sensitive. when he was thinner, nipple stimulation did nothing for him, but now that he's approaching 300lbs, even wearing a shirt overstimulates him. his friends say he has moobs, but that eventually just evolves into boobs, then tits. eventually, he can't even cum unless someone is tugging at his nipples

#ffa #feeding kink #feedee feeder #feedee encouragement #feederist #male feedism #male feedee #feedee piggy #huc0w #feedee girl

[fitgirlfemdom]

did some sketch studies of bigger male body types :0

#ffa #feeding kink #feedee feeder #feedee encouragement #feederist #male feedism #male feedee #feedee piggy #huc0w #feedee girl

[fitgirlfemdom]

✧∘* ✧･ﾟsoft/sfw feeding tips✧∘* ✧･ﾟ

i'm gonna be honest, i haven't been feeling the best mentally. i also feel that a lot of my posts, although rooted in fantasy, are not exactly realistic or doable for a lot of feedee/feeders. that's why i wanted to explore the softer, fluffier sides of this kink, since these are a lot better to do publicly and help the efficiency/longevity of a feederist relationship.

-going out to dinner and ordering for your feedee. asking what they want generally, and deciding what they want based off their tastes. you can decide the amount, based on your budget. make sure the restaurant or eatery is one your feedee prefers (i.e. don't force them to eat Mexican food if they like Italian). by doing this, it 1) sets up a clear power dynamic between both parties that is healthy and mutually beneficial, and 2) helps both parties learn more about each others preferences. note: i would not recommend ordering alcoholic drinks for feedees, as they should choose themselves based on their own limits. overeating is a lot less dangerous than alcohol poisoning, and everyone's tolerance is obviously different.

-if you're planning on going out for drinks, plan to make them a meal beforehand. this shows that you not only care for their wellbeing, but also brings you closer emotionally before a night of debauchery. drinking alcohol on an empty stomach can cause a number of health issues, as well as exacerbating the negative effects of alcohol use. cooking together is also proven to strengthen relationships by enhancing communication skills and providing quality time alone.

-plan a charcuterie board together! take note of what snacks your feedee prefers, such as nuts, cheeses, dried fruit, crackers, dips, etc. you can also order one online if it's too much of a hassle. by planning a charcuterie board specifically, you can learn what type of snacks your feedee truly enjoys, as well as trying new foods alongside them (or just watching their reactions).

-pack lunches for work. if your feedee works in an office space or a job where there is a clear lunch time, prepare their foods for them based on their known preferences. this builds your relationship on trust, communication, and establishes a clear power dynamic. if packing lunches isn't your thing, or you don't have enough time or energy, set your DoorDash to their place of work and send them surprise orders (this is, of course, much more expensive, but can be a nice treat every once in a while).

-listening to your feedee's views on their journey throughout your relationship. sometimes, a feedee may discover that they aren't comfortable with this lifestyle, and that's okay! other times, a feedee may be comfortable with certain aspects, such as food play, but not others, such as force feeding. sit down and have a conversation with your feedee about their feelings regarding your partnership regularly. they trust you and place a large amount of power in your hands--the best way to reciprocate is to make them feel safe in your control. feederism may also just be a small part of your feedee's life, and they may only want to participate in it a few times a month. this should also be taken into account.

-encouraging confidence in their new body outside of kink. sometimes feedees have a humiliation or degradation fetish regarding their weight, but this should not continue in everyday situations, unless agreed upon. ask your feedee their favorite parts about themselves physically, but also mentally and emotionally. tell them your favorite parts about them, and vice versa. conversate about how this kink lifestyle makes them feel about their image of themselves, and orientate your approaches to feederism based on this.

i hope you enjoyed reading! have a good day! <3

#ffa #feeding kink #feedee feeder #feedee encouragement #feederist #male feedism #male feedee #feedee piggy #huc0w #feedee girl

[fitgirlfemdom]

I don’t want this to come across as negative, but as I said before, kink should be a hobby, not a job. The second someone pushes you to think of it as further than that, they are manipulating you. Even sex workers can step away from their kink. Most dominatrixes I know just do it for the check, and leave their interests at the door.

You do not know these women. You do not know if they’re who they say they are. I think the majority of people come on here to play pretend and fantasize—I think pushing it further is just asking for trouble

Ok im a male gainer and I have a slight problem with FFA/feeders. Maybe you can help? Like its nice talking to new FFA/feeders but its annoying when I get asked to stuff myself all the time. Im at work I cant be stuffing my face. I have to be able to move and not be that fat blob i want to be. Also sometimes I just dont feel like it or have the money and time. How do you say no and still keep ffa around as they disappear quick when I say I cant

Honestly if these girls are only interested in you to get their own rocks off and are so blatantly denying you respect and humanity, then they’re not worth your time or attention. You deserve people who are not only going to encourage you to explore your kinks on your OWN terms, but who can actually have a normal conversation with you, too. 

You are allowed to say no when people ask you to do things, sexual or otherwise. 

And if they get butthurt about it, the problem is with them, not you. 

So when they fall off the face of the map like they’ve been doing…well, that’s just their loss, and trust me, you’re dodging a bullet. 

I wish you the best of luck! 

And a psa to my fellow FAs and FFAs: don’t dehumanize gainers and feedees. They’re human beings with lives outside of kink and I can’t BELIEVE I have to say that, but some people in this kink live in this little fantasy world where everything revolves around their own pleasure, and that’s a horrible mentality to live by. 

#feedist advice #feedee encouragement #feederist #feeding kink #feedee feeder #ffa #feedee piggy #male feedee #male feedism #huc0w

[fitgirlfemdom]

how it feels to open your inbox as a female feeder

"can you show me your pussy? just a lil. just a lil picture of ur pussy. please ma'am."

"here is my erect cock. oh, you didn't ask? here's my erect cock, with shorts."

"i know you said you don't find 400lb men over the age of 40 attractive. anyway here's a zoomed-in picture of my fat nuts."

"if i were to kidnap you, do you think you could escape?"

"what if i shoved my thumb up your asshole? ah, you don't like ass play, i get it... what if YOU shoved YOUR thumb--"

"oh, the wedding ring on my finger in this unsolicited pic i sent you? dw i'm not allowed to see her anymore."

"you probably hear this all the time, but you look EXACTLY like my daughter."

#feedee encouragement #feedee feeder #feederist #feeding kink #feedee piggy #ffa #male feedee #male feedism #feedee girl #huc0w

[fitgirlfemdom]

i am not immune to hot wife x fat guy propaganda

#feedee encouragement #feedee feeder #feederist #feeding kink #feedee piggy #ffa #male feedee #male feedism #feedee girl #femdxm