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This is a REAL person who wrote this comment. There are REAL people who think like this

#wtf

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Hey, guys

I hate myself for doing this. And I was afraid this moment would come, but honestly right now I have ran out of options.

I'm seeing myself in the position to ask for donations from everyone who can afford to help, anything you can give would really help me.

My Paypal is [email protected]

I will be completely honest about this, for transparency sake, this money will go to personal expenses such as pads, I can't use bar soap to shower because it irritates my skin so I have to buy shower gel which is generally more expensive, I also have to give my parents a monthly sum to help with groceries and cleaning products for the house, body lotion because my skin scabs a lot and that helps keep it under control. I also would like to pay off part of the debt I got in when I had to buy a new laptop last year because my old one stopped working. I've payed about a third of it, but still have to finish paying it.

As many others the pandemic had affected my flow of work, I work for a chinese company doing transcripts in different websites, ever since the pandemic started the projects that would normally come to us have been redirected to other teams that do them for less money. I live in Venezuela, which also doesn't help with hyperinflation running rampant and no plan in sight for possible vaccination, finding a different job has proven to be almost impossible.

I would be forever grateful if any of you could help.

My Paypal is [email protected]

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...how do you mistake that for a tattoo???

The "tattoo":

???????

J: OMG this is the best!!

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"I have invested in a plentiful amount of very hard penis and testicles"

Lmao🤣🤣🤣🤣 what the fuck?!

Yes because you were CLEARLY looking for a deep intellectual conversation here.

J: My brain hurts.

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Not sure who knows this already but 6 months ago, Denver started having mental health professionals respond to mental health incidents instead of police. Some early data:

0 arrests were made among 748 incidents

41% of people were taken to a shelter or hospital

0 incidents were violent

6x a day, police were freed up to work on more serious criminal activity

“Defund the police” materializes through progressive steps like this. We need to pressure more law enforcement agencies to follow suit.

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Let's talk about vaginismus!!! Because I didn't even know it was a thing until I watched the TV show Sex Education 🙃🙃

Some people are just always like this, discovering themselves during puberty and also discovering that haha woopsie fingers dont go in there? Weird

Dysphoria reasons

Some people develop this from sexual trauma, wether that be later in life or not

Some people experience this after childbirth or menopause

For me it kind of feels like a combination of being born with it, sexual trauma and dysphoria.

Having vaginismus doesnt fucking make you "sexually broken" or undesirable. You can do plenty of other sexual things just fine if you want to.

Most folks w/ vaginas cum through clitoral stimulation anyway! Just buss out that vibrator and go 2 town.

It has a... "Cure"? But it's more like a slow-moving exercise. You are typically given a vaginal dilation kit and lube (lube is your friend), starting with the smallest size and working your way up. The process can take months, maybe even a year or so depending on your pacing and how comfortable you are.

It's a mental block, but it is also very much a physical block and the pain we're feeling is real. Don't let anyone diminish our pain.

Can we PLEASE spread this fucking post so maybe some other teen feeling bad abt their body will see this and be like "Holy shit im not??? Broken???" thank you!!

#i have this

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Dis my new friend Greg, I love him ❤

This is Greg. He is a coyote skull I bought from skullstore.ca. Everything is ethically sourced. He has "severe cranial damage" so he was real cheap. I painted him black and his teeth silver. I love him very much and I'm excited to have him ❤❤

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So tired of the way people police personality disorders.

I read a reddit post in "Am I The Asshole" where people tell their stories and users give judgment and I usually like these because even though I don't comment (I usually watch some bot read them on YouTube) I love drama.

But there was this one where a stepfather says that his daughter has Anti Social Personality Disorder, she was diagnosed young because of some abusive and cruel symptoms she was showing. But with a lot of therapy, love and care she was able to have a seemingly perfectly fine life. She has a good relationship with her parents, a good job and there doesn't really appear to be anything wrong in her life.

HOWEVER.

She has a serious boyfriend and the stepfather thinks he is planning on proposing. This boyfriend is in love with her, seems to really care about her etc....buuut he doesn't know about her diagnosis.

So the "Am I The Asshole" comes from the fact that the stepfather has said that if she doesn't tell her boyfriend about her diagnosis then he will. That the boyfriend deserves to know etc etc blah blah.

Most people said he was not the asshole and I'm not able to get over it.

Like, the stigma around personality disorders is so strong and you need only look at the comments to see why someone diagnosed might want to keep it to themselves.

ASPD is a highly stigmatised disorder, the OP of the thread called her a "sociopath" himself and all the baggage that brings with it.

But it never seemed to occur to anyone that her disorders might be her own business and she should decide when and if she tells someone else. If she is controlling the symptoms of her disorder, has professional help and healthy relationships why should other people care, if not a bias against "sociopaths"?

People with mental health issues or personality disorders should not be given ultimatums to tell other people their business. While you might think that it might be healthy to confide such a thing, you don't get to decide for everyone else.

People with personality disorders are treated like they are not deserving of the same privacy and space as others because there is a theoretical chance you could be abusive. And due to the stigma you are presumed abusive and given a different set of rules and boundaries than other people.

People don't owe others a diagnosis. You can have different opinions about what you think is the most healthy decision and what you would do etc, but the fact that someone would give her an ultimatum over this shows that this stigma is so deep. A parental figure who says they love them, that they have done well, that they are loving and good still sees their disorder as an addendum to their existence.

Sure, keep your eye out for red flags. But to me, giving someone an ultimatum over their own personal, medical issues and threatening to interfere with their private issues and relationship? That's a red flag all of its own.

People want those with personality disorders to get diagnosed and have treatment to help manage symptoms, yet they don't realise (or care) that this diagnosis can impact their whole life and have people feeling entitled to judge you in a way they would not judge others.

This is the social side of why people avoid diagnosis and hide their diagnosis and I'm so angry that most people sided with him. And the reasons? Will they were most often stereotypes, a need to "protect" this boyfriend from imaginary abuse, "what if the devil inside her takes control", "he deserves to know he might be in danger" etc etc etc

All walking examples of why someone might want to keep it to themselves, all part of the problem...all acting like she is inherently the problem.

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Oh gawd every time you think it's over it gers BETTER

🙌🏻 🙌🏻 🙌🏻 🙌🏻

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Everything is designed to accommodate the male body, sexism is deeply entrenched in every aspect of our lives.

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These are actual messages that got sent to me after I patiently and politely declined these people's nasty advances.

Top one asked me to make sex tapes with him (first message, by the way). Second one thought it was okay to keep harassing me after I told him I was uncomfortable with the questions he was asking me. Then he asked me if I was a "feminist or something" after refusing to play his game.

This thought process is 1,000% repulsive, and I will not tolerate it. I was basically told that I don't deserve to have normal conversations with people, because I post lewd pictures. Apparently, he didn't care enough to take the time to actually learn a little bit about me because he "just want[s] to fuck [me]." Maybe he would have seen that I post more than just those pictures. I actually have a mind and a heart and feelings.

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big fuck you to every single person who said we were overreacting in 2016.

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blm protesters are STILL in jail STILL facing charges STILL trying to recover from the abuse they endured after peacefully protesting. but god forbid these privileged white people get pushed a little for storming and breaking into the capitol. 

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Looook

Yooo my new Christmas ornament finally came in haha

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