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“People come in and out of your life. For a time they are your world; they are everything. And then one day they’re not.”

— Jenny Han, To All the Boys I’ve Loved Before

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“If you care about somebody, you should want them to be happy. Even if you wind up being left out.”

— Stephen Chbosky, The Perks of being a Wallflower

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So I’m beginning yet again on the journey of sobriety. I’ve been sober all day today and I’m not gonna lie, I already want a drink lol but Ik I’m not the best man I can be when I drink so I’m gonna change for the better. I’m tired of living back and forth. I want consistency. It’s gonna be hard but I’m ready

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I can’t bring in to tell y’all how much better I feel back in my son’s life!

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These are a compilation of tweets I found and saved on my phone as reminders for when I feel like I need to feel validated or reminded that I am a worthy person no matter what, and I thought you guys might need those too (part 1)

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Avengers: Age of Ultron (2015)

dir. Joss Whedon

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I can't believe no one talked about this before -

but Ron Weasley must be SO HAPPY after watching Encanto

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something that i’m working on is letting things exist without justification. for example, i gained weight recently and i don’t need a reason for it. it’s not “it’s okay because it’s mostly muscle” or “it’s okay because it was while i was on vacation.”

it’s okay regardless.

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It is such a scary thing that you never know and certainly you cannot assume how you or someone else is going to act in a particular situation, and how that situation will ruin everything within you or between you and others. It can tragically change your whole perspective on trusting and maintaining healthy relations. And once you experience such kind of things later it gets difficult to start again as it is not the trust issues that play the role but it's just a trauma response which usually gets in the way of trusting.

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I shouldn’t be alive… unless it was for a reason. I’m not crazy, Pepper. I just finally know what I have to do.

Iron Man (2008) dir. Jon Favreau

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your health comes first, full stop. we live in a society that teaches us that productivity comes before that. but it doesn’t. i know the way things are set up, it isn’t possible for most of us to take care of ourselves in the way we deserve. but in the moments that it’s feasible, prioritize yourself. 

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Literally my only goal at this point in my life. I have to if I’m ever gonna be able to love someone else

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experiencing anger doesn’t make you a mean person. it doesn’t mean your heart isn’t still soft and you aren’t still full of love. anger is just another way to express emotions, and just as there are times to be sad and cry, and there are times to laugh and enjoy yourself, there can be times to be angry and feel upset

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Jensen Ackles | Radio Company, September 4, 2022 [ x | x ] 

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I’m starting to do this and it feels great!

you’re allowed to get up one day and just decide to change who you are. dress differently, speak up more, laugh out loud even though you’ve never liked your laugh, say what you want to, say hey to people you wouldn’t normally, get that confidence going. we don’t have to stay the way people see us out of the fear that they won’t like the us we want to be.