How to be a dirty talking slut
Something I find slightly annoying as a dominant guy is how few (but otherwise completely good) sluts donāt really get how to do dirty talk. So hereās a guide based on my experience as a dominant man.
Inevitably this is going to reflect some of my personal tastes but hopefully itās also general enough to be useful to any slut who wants to please a man by being the filthy talking whore he dreams about:
1) Beg
Most men, unless theyāre unsafe assholes, donāt want to go too far and hurt you (at least not too much). This means their natural instinct is to hold back. But even if theyāve learnt not to hold back then itās pretty much always the case that hearing you beg for more makes it easier to forget that nagging instinct and to know that they have an eager little slut to use.
So say things like āPlease fuck my cunt/throat/assā or āPlease rape me/fuck me hardā or āPlease make me your whoreā and any variations on those themes. Whatever heās doing, beg him to do more of it. Plead with him to use you. Not only will he love hearing you beg but heāll also use you even harder as a result.
Win win.
2) You donāt āwantā, you āneedā
Hearing a whore say she wants your cock is nice. Hearing that she needs it is better.
You want him to know that youāre a mindless slut who *needs* to be used. Who doesnāt just want what heās doing to you but who craves it. Much like 1) it helps him think that you really are a complete slut who loves what heās doing to you.
So whenever youāre about to say āI want Xā say āI need Xā instead.
Say things like āI need your cock in my ass/cunt/pussyā or āI need to be filled with your cockā or āI need to taste your cumā. I guarantee heāll appreciate it.
3) Flatter him
We all like compliments. Men especially like them about their cocks. It doesnāt matter how big he is or isnāt, or how well he fucks. If you want to make him enjoy himself then compliment him.
Saying things like āyour cock feels so big inside meā, āoh my god, I love your dickā or āI love it when you fuck me like this/do X to meā will help stroke his ego and make him enjoy using you more.
You can also extend this to praising whatever heās doing. If heās making you feel good then tell him how good it feels, moan like a slutty little whore as you tell him how amazing his cock feels inside you (this also has the advantage that it encourages him to keep doing something youāre enjoying). Or if heās hurting you then praise that as well, let him know that youāre a filthy pain slut and what heās doing āhurts so goodā.
All of these will encourage him to double down on how heās using you and bring him more pleasure. And since thatās the only thing that should matter to a good little whore then this is definitely something you need to do.
4) You love being degraded
This oneās simple. If youāre having the kind of sex where dirty talk makes sense then itās already going to be at least a little degrading and you wouldnāt be having that kind of sex unless you enjoyed it (or hate it but are addicted to it).
So all you need to do is make it clear how much you enjoy (and need - remember that from earlier?) being degraded and used. This will help spur him on to use you remorselessly to satisfy his urges so if youāre craving being thoroughly fucked and used then this is the kind of dirty talking for you.
The simplest way to do this is just to ask him to do degrading things to you - or to keep doing the degrading things heās already doing. Ask for things that humiliate and objectify you and tell him how much you love them.
Say things like āI love being your worthless cum dumpā, or āthank you for treating me like the pathetic fucktoy I amā or āplease let me taste my ass on your cockā or āI love gagging on your thick cockā. Again, it doesnāt matter if you donāt actually like the kind of degradation youāre talking about or if he doesnāt actually do all the things you say you like when youāre dirty talking.
What matters is that what youāre saying will put him in the mindset to use you the way he most enjoys and lets him know that youāre his dirty little toy for him to use. And, trust me, thatās the kind of thing that will thrill him and keep him coming back for more.
5) Repetition
There are some things in life where the same thing happening over and over again can be boring. This is not the case with fucking. If you love a particular position then youāre going to enjoy fucking more, not less, if that position is one you use every time you fuck.
Similarly for guys, if thereās a bit of dirty talk they like then hearing it on a regular basis will make fucking better, not boring. If thereās a particular genres of porn he likes then odds are heāll usually watch porn in that genre. In the same way, if he likes his girl begging to taste his cum then odds are heāll usually want her to say that every time heās getting ready to cum in her mouth.
So if he gives a sign of liking something then continue on that theme. If heās fucking your ass and you feel his cock twitch when you tell him you love being his ass slut then youāve hit upon a topic that turns him on. So donāt just switch to something else, expand upon that theme. Youāre not just his ass slut, youāre also his āfilthy anal whoreā, you need him to āruin my ass with your huge cockā and you want him to āmake me your anal slaveā or any other variations on that theme you can think of.
The same applies to any other topic he seems to like. Donāt just say something once, repeat yourself over and over again and embellish what youāre saying. Return to similar themes every time you fuck. If it aināt broke then donāt fix it as they say. So once youāve worked out what gets him going then thereās nothing wrong with repeating yourself - if he enjoys you telling him that you ālove your cock destroying my throatā then, guess what, heāll enjoy that every time you say it.
So donāt overcomplicate things. If youāve found something he enjoys then use it on a regular basis. It requires less imagination on your part and heāll enjoy it more, not less.
6. Follow his lead
Youāre not a mindreader so you wonāt always know what a man likes. Thatās why itās important to pick up on the cues he gives you. In fact, this is one of the simplest ways to get into dirty talk if youāre new and nervous to the topic.
Just wait for, and encourage him to say something dirty, then seize on that theme and build upon it. 9 times out of 10 if he says something to you then itās because itās something heād enjoy hearing you say to him.
So if he says āyouāre a dirty little slut arenāt youā then the wrong response is just to say āyesā and keep on fucking like nothing happened. The correct response is to say āmmm, yeah, Iām a dirty little slutā,ā Iām a slutty whore who loves getting fuckedā, āplease fuck this dirty slut Sirā, āIām your slut, Iām your dirty slutā, etc.
You can very easily make him happy just by picking up on the hints he gives you and repeating back the things he says to you. In fact, if you do nothing else then just do this - because thereās nothing more frustrating than saying something dirty to a girl youāre fucking and her not embracing it and telling you the kind of things youāre hinting to her that you like.
Conclusion
So there it is. Six instructions to follow to be a dirty talking slut whoāll drive wild any man fucking you.
This guide is far from comprehensive and every man is different but if you follow what Iāve said then you shouldnāt go too far wrong no matter what.
I hope youāll find this guide useful on your way to becoming a better fucktoy and, as always, if you follow my advice in real life then Iād love to know how it works out for you.
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