@underthehoodtalk: Have you ever been policed by friends, relatives, colleagues, or girlfriends for not being masculine enough? The above phrases speak to some of the toxic limitations men face. Does maintaining the appearance of always being tough, strong, not sensitive allow you to keep your manhood badge without being exhausted? All of these phrases are tired, overused, and cliches, but they still persist in everyday speech.
What kind of world are we setting up for our children? Do we want them to have to keep fighting to keep a metaphorical man-enough badge? We know we're not the only ones who have heard these phrases, so let us know what y'all think. What have been your experiences with these? Do you ever think about what it meant for you to hear these growing up? Do they bother you? Do you use them?