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It’s been 5 minutes misha 😭😭

#misha is just going after it

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AITA for telling a guy to go touch some grass?

(This is a very minor issue, but I can't stop thinking about it, and I need to know if I was out of line...)

I (25F) am in my first year at an art school. I was working on a project at the school outside of class hours when we started chatting with the other students working there.

Another guy from the school (2nd or 3rd year, idk, I had never talked to him before) asked me to come see his artwork on tablet, which he was proud of. I got up excited to see it. It was a woman in anime style, very sexualized: very big curves, defined abs, low cleavage, etc. It immediately made me uncomfortable, but I tried my best to remain polite. I said something along the lines of "Oh, that's nice, you have good skills... maybe you should go touch some grass, though, but the technique is great!" And then I went back to work on my project.

Later on, when the dude left, a classmate (20M) who had witnessed the earlier exchange told me I had been "very rude and harsh" towards him.

I think the dude was the senseless one. I don't even know his name, I barely had registered his face at the school, and he shows me such a drawing. But maybe it's because I don't watch that kind of anime? AITA?

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DC Twitter must have been INSANE when it got out that Superboy’s dads were Superman and Lex Luthor. Holy shit. The memes. The ship wars. The homophobes. The mpreg jokes. People would have lost their fucking minds. Lex Luthor releases a statement like “he’s a clone of me and Superman no birth was involved” and people are like KINDA GAY OF YOU TO HAVE A SON WITH ANOTHER MAN, LUTHOR. Lexcorp’s PR team locks themselves in a conference room and refuses to come out for love or money.

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Unlike Estrogen, it could land you with a fucking Felony, leaving you disenfranchised and unable to make a living because places hate hiring felons, no matter what you actually did or if it harmed someone. DIY testosterone has higher stakes and bigger risks for trans mascs, you can't just throw random suggestions at people without knowing what the fuck you're talking about.

You know i dont think telling a trans guy to DIY HRT is the best advice. Where I am it is illegal. T is a controlled substance. Responding to me complaining out not being able to get on T with "Why not DIY it?" just annoys me. I know y'all mean the best, but its hard for people to DIY T in the US.

#kai speaks #replies #pisses me off #bc people are like 'oh well if they cut off hrt access we'll just diy!!!' whos. we. #WHOS. WE. #bc idk about you but id like to keep my right to vote so i can maybe try to help improve shit #plus its really fucking expensive and risky to get it illegally from what ive heard #honestly the fact that its easier to get like valium and xanax than fucking T is frustrating #in a perfect world everybody could understand informed consent and we wouldnt have this bullshit

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“Younger people say they want to end their life,” he said of the law. “Their families don’t care about them, and now the government has turned against them.”

I see many people on my dash focus only on trans people in the US and UK. We shouldn’t forget our trans siblings in other countries.

#love my state so so much #im glad we can offer people a home

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Why does this cider have stats

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Screw terfs n all but are you normal about transgirls who don't want to medically transition? Are you normal about transguys with boobs who don't wear binders? Are you normal about the trans people who only want to socially transition because that's what's right for them? Are you normal about the transgirls with beards? Are you normal about the transguys who love their curves? Screw terfs, but are you normal about trans people?

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#yeah weve kinda known daily showers are fucking performative unless you are doing Hard Sweaty Labor that gets you Physically dirty Every Day #i shower every 2-3 days depending on depressions grip/weather/time/if im on my period #washing your hair daily is also bad for yoh #just shower every other day dont waste water

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this wasn't even me

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the nuisance of our language is stunning

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I think about this interaction a lot. The grimes reply became a meme out of context and it's never funnier than the original exchange

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I kill you