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Why would I want my gorgeous wife to sleep with another man?
Because I’m proud of her, love her so much and want others to validate what an amazing woman she truly is
Because I enjoy knowing that other men find my wife attractive
Because she loves the feeling of being desired
Because she loves to dress in gorgeous clothes, lingerie and shoes for other men to appreciate her beauty
Because I want to bring out the sexy and confident woman she can be
Because I want her to live out her fantasies
Because it’s all about her pleasure
Because I enjoy viewing her as the free independent spirit that she truly is
Because I like not having to be the Alpha all the time and giving up charge and control to another man to enjoy her submissive side
Because it brings out her naughty side, which I love to see
Because it turns me on, to see her pleasured
Because I want my wife to experience the most powerful orgasms she can have
Because I love to see other men spoiling her with gifts, just like I do
Because I get off watching her passionately kissing another man
Because I want to see her enjoy a larger cock than mine as I know she loves the feeling of being stretched out
Because watching the love of my life being fucked by another man is the most beautiful and erotic thing I’ve ever seen in my life;
Because the way her whole being responds to another mans touch as his fingers explore her and his long thrusts deeply penetrate her, makes my cock the hardest it can be
Because of the look of complete surrender in her eyes, is the most gorgeous thing I have ever witnessed
Because she comes back to me like a new women, with the most amazing stories, photos and video; I must fuck her again to call her mine and reclaim her, as my Hotwife
Because it makes the sex between the two of us so much more intense, allowing us to 100% open and honest about what turns us both on and what’s going through our minds, as we make love to each other
It's been ten years since my husband and I began our sexual exploration, which has resulted in me having a long term sexual relationship with two other men. I know a lot of couples read this blog and are curious. I get your questions. I'll try here to explain a little, as briefly as possible, to answer the question: "Why do you have sex with other men? What do you get out of it after 10 years?"
First, I'll say that the reason has changed. At first, it was almost entirely because it turned my husband on. Turned me on too, of course, but...if it hadn't been a turn on for him, no way it happens.
Once I realized that the way we approached it strengthened our marriage, our communication bonds, and once I understood that I could have sex with another man without "falling in love" with him, then I began doing it for "us", but also for "me".
So, I find myself now ten years in and I can reflect on why I still do it. I love lists, so I'll make a list. It does not have a particular order. I'd place all of these as equal to each other.
Sex is healthy, and having this situation at hand leads to more overall sex.
It makes sex more interesting. Not that sexually monogamous sex can't be interesting, but it really can't be as interesting as when there's a third person involved. AndI don't mean just the physical. The mental/psychological aspect is even more important.
I love the attention from more than one male. I love guys. I love masculinity. The "friendship" I have with Ben and Colin are, outside of my marriage, my favorite relationships. I love talking to guys, getting in their brain. Having sex with them, especially when they know the boundaries, enhances that friendship beyond anything you could have non-sexually. Also, does it need to be said that it's just really super hot to get whisked away for a night or three with a hot man as his "date" or "girlfriend", and escape the reality of life for just a bit? Everyone has an escape--I think this is a very healthy escape. Being in their presence brings out the sensual femininity in me.
It gives me even more motivation to stay in good shape, physically, emotionally, spiritually.
It necessitates better and more communication with my husband. That's what this entire blog is about.
This is a hard one to quantify, but in my experience it makes me look at the world and my existence differently. I see the beauty and sexual appeal in a lot more. Almost like the difference between watching a black and white TV vs. super high def 4k. Even the curves in furniture can be sensual.
Did I mention the sex is good? It's better with my husband, it's better with Ben, than ever before. By that I mean the actual feeling of sex. The orgasm. It's better.
I enjoy giving to Ben (and before, Colin). Giving of my time, my talents, my ears, advice, and of course, my body. I feel like I'm a positive influence and a good friend.
That's a partial list, but everything else I could say about it falls under those general points.