people will say "[paraphilia]" to indicate paraphilias in general but sometimes I feel like they have one or two extremely specific paraphilias in mind and it's like
listen man I think the world would be a better place if you just said out loud what paraphilias you have in mind and elaborated on how exactly how you feel about them because no matter what side you're on this coy winking just makes the discussion that much more exhausting and pointless
and I especially hate it knowing that there's a lot of people who describe themselves as "pro-paraphilia" that'll vigorously defend [paraphilia] to the death only to then immediately, on a dime, turn around and say this non-praxis kink is bad and this other non-praxis kink is bad, like explain that, tell me how that works, how is [paraphilia] the hill you die on when you can't even handle when a trans woman asks her boyfriend to misgender her in bed
What makes this even funnier is if you’re a rich guy and do this the actual poker players will shower you with praise and stroke your ego (especially when you win hands through sheer variance) and say you’re great and to keep doing what you’re doing because they’re just siphoning money from you and want you to keep it up. Like, that’s the original definition of a “whale” in the gambling sense
The thing about ADHD is that the "lack of reward chemicals in your brain" doesn't just mean that you don't want to do any tasks that don't feel particularly yummy :(, it means that your brain will look at chores and tasks that need to be done like "doing this would be painful and tedious for absolutely nothing to gain from it, Do Not Do That." The same thing that your brain tells you about everything else that would feel really bad and hurt the entire time that you're dying. The part of your brain that stops you from doing the thing is the same part that keeps you from shoving your arm into a wood chipper.
With unmedicated, unmanaged ADHD, "I have to do this assignment or I fail and my life will be ruined and I die" feels like a SAW trap, every single time.
saying "I can separate the art from the artist" in regards to jk rowling is like saying "I can separate the shit from the anus" like it's not even a good story worth defending. her trash politics infects everything she makes. it's a bad, poorly written story and I don't get people bending over backwards to support a bigot over a bad story they liked as a child
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