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y'all are always complaining about how gay rep has to be perfect and unproblematic like speak for yourself i personally love it when they try to murder each other

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I don't mean any of this in a weird way but if we're interested in breaking down binaries, we can't cling onto the binary of cis versus trans. If gender expectations are as constrictive as we say they are, then this imagined class of people who are okay with gender expectations 100% of the time with no complications is just that. Imagined. It's similar to "neurotypical" as an imagined class of people who are completely comfortable with the social and mental expectations of their jobs and would never understand what it's like to get overwhelmed or feel out of place. The unintended implication is an obsession with labelling and pathologizing that says that it's not gender or workplace norms that need to be interrogated, it's you.

The truth is that you can be outside the binary without formally committing to calling yourself nonbinary. I am a cis gay man who feels most comfortable and affirmed when I'm free to wear earrings and garments I bought in the "women's" section. I tell people my pronouns are he/him because it's the simplest explanation, but they/them and even she/her are comfortable, even validating, in the right circumstances. There are a lot of cis gay men just like me. Am I actually nonbinary and just in denial? No. Being a gay man is deeply meaningful to me. Am I encouraging nonbinary to start calling themselves cis and questioning whether they're actually nonbinary? No, and I feel more comfortable in my own manhood knowing I have the option to leave. I just want us all to define ourselves on our own terms. I want celebrate common ground and shared queerness with trans people and not have to overstate our differences. We treat it as a political and moral obligation to fine tune our labels for the sake of establishing who's allowed to say what, who's allowed to relate to who, and I have to ask: Are we committed to breaking down boundaries or not?

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Love and Misery. (2019)

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microdosing on catharsis by watching a fictional character or persona i relate to have an emotional breakdown until my chest starts to ache from the amount i've repressed

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*talking to my psychiatrist* am i the worst patient you have be honest

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u guys will watch anything wtf is wednesday

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"being in the military is hard" theres harder things. Like telling my mom she was wrong about something

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My brain inflicted this on me and no way in hell was I going to suffer alone with it.

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wheres your whimsy. wheres your fucking whimsy

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i wish i could scoop out all the words and stories inside my head with a butter knife and spread it onto a document and that was it

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hate whenever mfs in horror media are like “what was that noise…” bro you and i both know its creatures

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commitment to the bit to lovers

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They should invent a song that's exactly like the song I currently like but also slightly different and unique but with the same vibes

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babe you didn’t tag me in your ray ban sunglasses halloween promotion are you mad at me 

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fuck all romance except for whatever the girl that turns into a giant lady with a sword and her feral cat girlfriend have going on!!!!!!!!!

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doodle of the Wives