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My ropes might get here by Monday!! 😁

#rope bunny problems #or not #rope bottom #bdsm beginner #bondage

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That feeling when

You spaced out like a dumbass and [probably] ordered your ropes too late for Valentine's Day

#rope bottom #rope bunny problems #beginner problems #bondage #shibari #adjacent anyway #and i was already salty about having to buy them for myself #whyyyy

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it’s probably been said but: if your story features a character who’s suffered abuse of any kind, going on an adventure and falling in love won’t erase years of trauma.

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This is me and I'm definitely not afraid to own up to it (she said, from the safety of a side blog).

y’all: my love language is ‘words of affirmation’!

me, an intellectual: praise kink

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Subs are so fun to play with. All you have to do is hint at what you might do, or back them into a corner with a look, or grab their wrist in a certain way and they’re a wide-eyed mess.

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So earlier I reblogged that post about why some people read smut and I put in the tags that there are times the smut is so good that it doesn’t turn me on, but it’s more like emotional edging.  To expand on that, these scenes leave me physically buzzing all over, inside and out.  I imagine it might be close to what subspace feels like, although I can’t say from experience, sadly lol.  But this particular feeling leaves me floaty and sensitive for hours.  It’s very nice.

I want to share 3 particular fics that give me that buzzy floaty feeling, because they deserve to be shared.  Funny coincidence, they all include BDSM :D

SextersAnon.com and sequels by Unforth / @unforth-ninawaters which is also dedicated to me because it was written based on my prompt :D  (Sub!Cas/Dom!Dean)

Protect and Serve by jupiter_james / @jupiterjames which was not a prompt from me this time, but more than half the smut in there exists because I requested it lol (Sub!Dean/Dom!Cas)

Four Letter Word For Intercourse by bendingsignpost / @bendingsignpost which I was privileged to beta read.  It’s a WIP on AO3 right now, but it’s finished, pending edits, so you should subscribe and check it out! (Sub!Dean/Dom!Cas)

#dom cas #bendingsignpost #jupiterjames #ficrecs

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广州，路过

#shibari #halloween themed

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Intense Evening

I came home last night to a sight which made me want to act. I’ve been there before, especially with @realworldsubmissive, where he’s positioned in such a way which would otherwise be totally innocent but makes me want to do something more.

Last night was one of those nights and I couldn’t contain myself. I’d already given him a brief reminder spanking and had him curled up on the floor during a TV show for an hour but after that was done I felt compelled to go for it. He was laying there, half curled up and looking so innocent despite all the evidence to the contrary. He was in a black jock, a collar and of course he was wearing his cage for Locktober. I was still mostly fully-dressed from a day at work.

So I stood up and lifted him bodily from the floor so that I could carry him to the bedroom and deposit him on the bed. I told him to roll on to his side so that all I could see was the curve of his spine down over his ass framed by the jock as I lay down behind him.

My finger traced the length of his spine from neck to tailbone and back up again. This always his body arch and twist under nothing more than the gentlest of pressure. I ran it back up, teasingly slowly so I could watch him react to my touch, waist twisting, shoulders contracting and his head lifting back as I played up to the back of his neck.

From the back of his neck I ran my hand, flat now, up over the side of his head and down his cheek. As it passed over the front of his throat he tensed, just for a second, in that moment of not knowing my intentions but I carried on down to his recently shaved chest and brought my hand to a stop right on his breastbone. I could feel his chest rising and falling with his breathing, his heartbeat strong and steady but quickening as my other hand ran over the waistband of his jock and down under his body.

I followed the line of the jock, around his lower back and underneath to the front of his body. My hand flat all the way around as it came to rest on his front. He was trapped now between my arms; one over his side and holding his chest and the other underneath around his waist. Trapped, vulnerable and his almost naked body close against me.

Planting a kiss to the back of my boy’s neck I whispered softly “I love you so much”…

… and held him like that until he fell asleep in my arms.

#real life submission and domination #yes to all of this #its not all whips and chains

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I think I'm broken

And I know nobody [here] cares

#ignore me #mood #and not a good one

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Oh, the devil's inside

You opened the door

You gave him a ride

Too young to know, too old to admit

That you couldn't see how it ends

#whiskey warm #sad songs #trying to sleep before the feeling comes back #fuck feeling #funky town

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Elisabeth is a bird R&P Skapal Photography©

#shibari

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Starter Rope Curriculum

so you just bought rope and you wanna know where to start?  here’s a suggested curriculum of free tutorial videos.      

these are all self-tie friendly.

1.  karada (aka diamond harness, aka body harness)

2.  pentagram harness

3.  how to coil rope

4.  how to join ropes

5.  basic crotch rope

6.  rope corset

7.  basic chest harness

8.   futomono 

9.  single column tie

10.  double column tie

11.  diamond crotch rope

12.  hishi body tie

#shibari #rope work

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Yes

I could go for some rough sex and a large pizza

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I wonder if people think this is a pornbot...

Either that or it's simply that no one is looking because I don't have a cool gimmick, or post all that much. C'est La Vie, I guess.

#am i doing this right? #probably not #lonely musings #novice sub

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I was on FetLife not too long ago, looking to [again; always?] research/explore, maybe talk to people for advice on working out my own preferences and easing my partner, who is by no means a seasoned Dom or even really into BDSM outside of being with me, into all of this. Mostly what I got were guys looking to take things over to a private, off-site chat and it just kind of put me off. Like I said, I joined to talk, and of course that means some level of trust in order to get to weightier issues and learn what I want to learn, but it all seemed to move very quickly from the hellos to the 'lets take this elsewhere 's. I had a rough time distinguishing who was trying to help and who was being carefully predatory. I had one dude who was being helpful by directing me to quizzes and kink lists, etc but then started asking about my breast size. It also may not have helped things that my partner seemed worried about the few people in my invox's intentons (from a place of protective concern, not jealously, no worries there ever).

I kind of want to go back on and try again, but I'm feeling gun shy, and that makes me doubt my belonging in the community even more than coming into it so belatedly does. And yeah, yeah, 30 isn't old but it feels like it when you never really thought much about getting there.

#about me #novice sub #bdsm beginner #fetlife #nerves