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oatpubby · 3 years

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Blueberry milk?🥺🫐

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Warm + Motherly stims for @l-i-n-u-s-k-a

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oatpubby · 3 years

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I want to go swimming and take my stuffies to the park so bad 😭

Things for Regressors to do outside!

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Set up a blanket: Play, color, or relax in the sun!

Go for an adventure: take a little walk into the woods near your house!

Scavenger hunt: look for objects in nature! (pinecone, a maple leaf, dandelion)

Go to a park: playgrounds are always fun! just make sure to sanitize!

Make clay sculptures: in some places near small rivers, there is natural clay! you can make stuff out of! maybe explore to see if you have any!

Go for a swim!! it’s almost that swimming time of year!!

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Thanks for reading!

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oatpubby · 3 years

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can i follow you here, since i have an agere side blog? also, i'm into kpop too

Of course omg 🥺 thank you sm!

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oatpubby · 3 years

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I need to search through my closet to find my pink pony 🥲

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oatpubby · 3 years

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CRIES

⭐ It’s okay to not be okay ⭐

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oatpubby · 3 years

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⭐What To Do When You Can't Regress 🦕

Someday's it's hard to feel small. Or some weeks..and even some months. This is nothing to feel ashamed of, of course. It's normal to have periods where no matter what you do it feel like you can't be small. I hope that this post can help you, even if just a bit.

~🧸🧩🧁🍼~

🍒Take it slow. Nothing was ever and will ever be solved by panicking, stressing, and rushing yourself when you aren't ready yet. Sometimes a break can be a good thing, so that when you get back into it you feel ready and refreshed.

🍒The next time you have a day off, set aside as much time as you can for: Hanging out with a cg, sibby, little friend, or anyone you trust in your regressed state. Even being alone is fine. What are some things little you loves? Spend the day trying to focus on those things (but don't push it if you can't)

🍒Going to a favorite little spot. Maybe this is the park, buildabear, a toy shop, or a restaurant with really good Mac and cheese. Spend time there and try to let any negative thoughts go. If you don't feel regressed? Try faking it and pretending you do. Sometimes this can trick yourself into eventually feeling smaller for real.

🍒The little things count! (See what I did there? Lol) So don't be afraid to treat yourself with something new, even if it's small. Going to the dollar tree for a new bubble blower, or bath toy. Playing pretend (like you're a princess/prince going to the great stuffie ball, or a tea party or dance party. You're a fish in your bubble bath!) Getting some chalk and drawing your favorite stuffie out on the sidewalk (don't forget to show them your work!) Even if you don't feel like it, that small thing could make a difference.

🍒Making your room feel smaller. Recently I got new bedsheets, they have unicorns and rainbows on them. I feel much smaller in these sheets, and they have so many other kinds. Even just a small blanket, a poster, sticking your finished coloring sheets on the walls, or a corner of the room dedicated to your stuffies and play things.

🍒Don't neglect yourself. Make sure to set up chores and things you need to do for yourself if you don't have a cg to do this for you. A clean room can help to make a cleaner mind, as silly as it may sound. Your room is your safe space, so treat it like one and pick up. Don't forget to clean your teeth, your face and body. And of course, make yourself a nourishing meal you love with lots of water. A reset to your area might be what you need.

🍒Check to make sure you're taking your meds and getting all your vitamins. Did you know vitamin deficiencies can cause you to feel sad and tired all the time? I found out when going to the doctor I was feeling icky and upset because I had a bad vitamin D deficiency. And now I feel better! Consider a multivitamin, (yes you can take the kids ones!) and spending extra time in the sun (with sunscreen, of course!)

🍒Do things you think are fun and exciting! It's tempting to lay around all day and scroll through social media, but this can be bad for you if you overdo it! Take some time away from the tech and think. What is stopping you from doing what you reallllyyy wish you could be doing right now? Chances are, there is at least one thing that interests you that you could be doing. Don't drag yourself away from your interests if you're feeling bad. I've been there, and it doesn't help you feel any better. I know I said not to force things earlier, but a tiny tiny push into something you like is different.

Over all, don't do anything you aren't truly ready for. But definitely take necessary steps that you know will help. Take care of big you first, and little you is sure to pop back out for some fun.

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oatpubby · 3 years

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Gifts for Regressors🎁

♡ A lot of times people struggle thinking of ideas for Littles and pet regressors outside of candy and stuffies. So here is a list! Feel free to reblog and add things!! ♡

🍬 Cat ear/Bunny ear headphones!

🍬 Jump ropes (princess ones, paw patrol ones, etc!)

🍬 Face masks (both the skincare ones and the pretty cloth ones. For skincare, I suggest bubble masks!)

🍬 Johnson's products or Aveeno Baby.

🍬 Lush! Bath bombs, lotion, jelly soaps. They have lotion bars shaped like animals!!

🍬 Chalk/Bubbles/Mini Sandbox/just outdoor toys in general as the warmer seasons come.

🍬 Kids bedding! I just got a rainbow unicorn bedspread at target, but they have lions, dinosaurs, flowers, ladybugs, and more! Decent prices, too.

🍬 Room decorations in general. I think many regressors want to feel tiny in their bedrooms~ even something as simple as a nightlight is good!

🍬 For pet regressors, bowls, collars, Ears/tail sets, name tags, toys!

🍬 A fun day out where you go and do all your regressors/little friends favorite things. Their favorite restaurant (with dessert even!) Going to the mall to look, buildabear, the park! Any of it!

🍬 Idk about anyone else, but when people make things for me it feels 1000% more special. If you're good at crafts, make something for them! And if not, even just making a beaded bracelet or homemade cake is sure to make them overjoyed.

🍬 Balloons, I love to play with these and smack them around lol-

🍬 Consider making a reward chart with gold stickers! This makes them feel special when they do good things.

🍬 Themed makeup/jewelry! At hot topic and boxed lunch they sell makeup from shows like Winnie the Pooh, Lilo and Stich, and others! They also sell pretty necklaces and bracelets with everyone's favorite characters.

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oatpubby · 3 years

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Things That Make me Smol After a Long Day

✨Ranting to my stuffies about the day. They love to know what’s been going on 🥺

✨Hot bubble baths. I like to squirt the water from my bath toys into my mouth HAHAHA (don’t do this, kids. Don’t be like me)

✨Finger painting. I like this over coloring on bad days because it’s messy🥴

✨Drinking chocolate banana milk with a good ol’ marathon of hello kitty

✨Going for a checkup from Dr. Bear! He loves to make sure I’m taking my meds and feeling well~ (one day I will buy him a doctor uniform to show u)

✨FACEMASKS. IDC IDC. Specifically sheet and bubble masks!!!! Bubble masks make your face look like a giant snowman

✨Making simple home cafe style sandwiches! You can shape them into things like snoopy or a bunny (I let my stuffie supervise ofc ofc)

✨Playing online dress up games...I purposely make the person look ugly to take out my stress and anger. But making them look pretty is fine too-

✨COLORING. OUTSIDE. THE. LINES. live life on the edge.

✨Aggressive bubble blowing outside.

Bonus: Chase the bubbles. Do it.

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✨Stuffie Name Ideas✨

🧸Lullaby

🧸Snapple

🧸Toast / Toasty

🧸Matcha

🧸Saturn

🧸Snowball

🧸Pebble

🧸Egg

🧸Truffle

🧸S’more

🧸Boba

🧸Sprocket

🧸Lavender

🧸Peach

🧸Oat / Oatly / Oatmeal

🧸Jelly Bean

🧸Marbles

🧸Snuggles

🧸Lulu

🧸Angel

🧸Boots

🧸Buttons

🧸Donut

🧸Lucky

🧸Brownie

🧸Porkchop

🧸Luca

🧸Luna

🧸Lego

🧸Speed / Speedy

🧸Dimples

🧸Captain

🧸Dr. (Insert type of animal or name; ex: Dr. Bear, Dr. Bean, Dr. Sniffles)

That’s all for now!! Might make a part 2 :0 like or reblog if you use one of these!!!

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oatpubby · 3 years

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🐱For Regressors Thinking of Getting a Pet🐶

Because you’re a regressor, or maybe a caregiver looking to get a pet for you and your regressor, you should consider getting a kid friendly pet!! That way if when you’re in your babie space and something were to happen, both you and your pet will remain safe and happy!!

Here is a list of the best pets for kids and families that you should consider :)

DOGS: (key: hypoallergenic = 🌱)

First things first, I highly, HIGHLY suggest adopting a dog :) mixed breeds/mutts are usually some of the gentlest, sweetest doggies around!! But..the second best option is getting a dog from a trusted and safe breeder.

✨Golden retriever

✨Labrador retriever

✨Poodle 🌱

✨Irish setter

✨Shih Tzu 🌱

✨Newfoundland

✨Border Collie

✨Beagle

✨Bull dog

✨Pug

✨Samoyed 🌱

CATS: (Key: Hypoallergenic=🌱)

Like what I mentioned with dogs, pls consider adopting a cat <3 there are plenty of mixed breed kitties that will be a perfect fit for you!!

✨ Abyssinian

✨Birman

✨Burmese

✨Maine Coon

✨Ragdoll (personal fave 🥺 theyre like puppies but CATS!!!)

✨Manx

✨Bengal 🌱

✨ Russian Blue 🌱

✨ Siberian 🌱

✨Sphynx 🌱 (Aka Hairless cats. My friend had one and it was the cutest, sweetest lil baby!!!)

Other Pets I Suggest:

✨Albino Rats/Rats in general. Females are more tame.

✨Fish! Do research on fish that go well together and tank options!

✨ Hamsters

✨Guinea Pigs!

✨ Gerbils

✨Rabbits!

✨Chinchillas

✨ Hedgehogs

✨Tortoises

✨Ants (like getting a cool ant farm!)

✨ Mini Pigs (if you have the space and what it takes!)

✨Hermit Crabs

Remember that no matter which pet you’re considering, they take work, love, and care!! So do lots n lots of research and choose carefully.

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oatpubby · 3 years

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🍼🧸Things My Age Regression Helps With DAILY:

Cw: talk of meds, eating, and insecurities

✨Taking meds and eating meals feels so much easier! I put a sticky note on one of my stuffies and set him by my bottles of vitamins n meds so that he can remind me daily to take them! I have my own personal Dr right in my bedroom :0

✨My insecurities! I no longer feel bad about my height, because I’m 4’11 (150 cm) and done growing. People made fun of me in school for it :( but!!! For my fellow short babie’s, we can fit in things in the kids section!!!

✨I also feel less bad about my acne! Get a pimple? Stick a cute sticker on it or a hello kitty bandaid on it :0 plus, my stuffies think I’m cute no matter what.

✨ Getting routines set up!! Even if you don’t have a caregiver, it’s important to have good bedtime routines and morning routines set up for you and your stuffies!! They’re counting on you!!

✨ Getting through stressful times. Before it was hard not to stress and figure out how to calm down. But these days just being a little babie for awhile is enough to remind myself these stressful times will pass, and there will be plenty of days where I can just focus on coloring pretty pictures.

✨ Stuffie dance parties and tea parties...this helps everyone idc idc. no explanation needed.

✨Being in a community that sticks up for each other rather than tearing each other down! I rarely see people being mean to each other here. And if someone uneducated makes fun of another regressor, we’re all so quick to stand up for them, even if we don’t know them. Of course, there are mean people in every community, but this one just feels so safe!!

🍼What helps you in your little space?🍼

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oatpubby · 3 years

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Elsa and I made cookies :0 these are the best cookies ever!!! Now we’re gonna go on a car ride to get sleepy~

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oatpubby · 3 years

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✿ teddybear regression moodboard ✿

( s o u r c e s !! ❤ )

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oatpubby · 3 years

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Bunnie’s favorite scent is strawberries!! So when I saw this set at bath and body works I had to get it for her >_<

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oatpubby · 3 years

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Best Tip for Hiding Regression Gear:

Because let’s face it, a lot of regressors live with someone else, or can have company over that they don’t feel the need to explain their coping mechanism to.

So! Here is what I personally do to hide my little gear. For 5+ years now I’ve never been caught :)

🍼 HIDE IT IN BETWEEN YOUR MATTRESS AND BOX SPRINGS.

coloring books, pacifiers..anything that will fit. As for bottles, stuff them in a box or two and BURRY IT UNDERNEATH THINGS IN YOUR CLOSET. Even better if you can get a wooden box with a lock, or a mini safe (they sell some for $20 and less depending on where you get it from. It does the job.)

🍼ONLY USE THESE ITEMS AT NIGHT..Or at least when no one is around.

Sure, it’s tempting to wanna use your paci in your bedroom in the middle of the day, but if your family is anything like mine, even if you’re a full on adult they have the tendency to bust in unannounced.

A better alternative is to suck on your thumb, or take your paci/bottles in with you to the shower or bath and chill with your favorite bath toy for a little while. I love taking my paci with me in bubble baths!! (If someone walks in on you sucking your thumb just say you’re biting off a cuticle or hang nail.)

🍼IF SOMEONE QUESTIONS IT..MAKE UP A REASON FOR HAVING IT!!!

Yeah, yeah yeah. I can already hear the caregivers protesting about lying...but hear me out.

As an example of what I mean; I’m someone with EXTREMELY SENSITIVE SKIN, so I have to be careful about the products I use. In the past, I used adult aveeno and some unscented dove products. BUT! I found that Johnson’s baby products are safe for my skin..and not only that

The Johnson’s baby lotion CLEARED MY BACK ACNE...WHEN NOTHING ELSE WOULD. So obviously, no one bats an eye when I bring home a Johnson’s haul. (Plus baby towels are super gentle for washing the body and face if you have sensitive skin as well!)

I would honestly love to make an informative post about the affects of Johnson’s on my sensitive, body acne prone skin in case anyone wants to show a family member to convince them this is in fact, a real thing. I won’t even mention anything about agere in it so you can show it worry free (but remember, agere is nothing to be embarrassed or feel bad about. This is just for privacy and help :))

Stay safe everyone! And make sure to take care of yourself. Your regression is valid.

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