"All I do know is as we age, the weight of our unsorted baggage becomes heavier. With each passing year, the price of our refusal to do that sorting rises higher and higher...Long ago, the defenses I built to withstand the stress of my childhood, to save what I had of myself, outlived their usefulness, and I've become an abuser of their once lifesaving powers. I relied on them wrongly to isolate myself, seal my alienation, cut me off from life, control others, and contain my emotions to a damaging degree. Now the bill collector is knocking, and his payment'll be in tears."
My dad had an Australian Shepard who tried to “herd” kids at the beach. Unfortunately, american children see a dog that’s baring its teeth from a short distance away and don’t immediately think “Oh, this puppy is trying to direct me into a group so I’m safe from predators. What a strong working instinct she has! Dogs are amazing!” Instead they think “MOMMY this dog looks like it’s going to bite me!”
Not to sound like I was raised by protestants, but I think those kids who argue that it's animal abuse to put working dog breeds to work doing the tasks they were bred and born for have simply genuinely never encountered the concept that they, too, could be genuinely happier if they could do work they found wortwhile and enjoyable. Like engaging in useful and constructive activities might genuinely make life better than a life of doing absolutely nothing because nobody's making you do anything.
hatchery work is so funny to me bc if you eat a wild caught alaskan salmon there’s real life nonzero chance that I put its egg in a bucket, covered it in milt (salmon semen) and stirred it all together with my bare hands. and now ur eating it. idk what that makes us to each other but don’t forget it
Dude gets a citation from the city code enforcement telling him he needs to put his boat behind a 6foot fence if he's going to store it on his property. Gets salty about it, so he works with his neighbor (an artist) to paint a mural of the boat on the fence. The result is so badass that city officials aren't even mad. [source]