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#i break out in a cold sweat whenever i see memes like this #WHAT HAPPENED NOW

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shoutout to slow growers, late bloomers, people whose plans got derailed by circumstances beyond their control or their own choices, people who never had a plan to begin with, people who have had to start over when theyre too old to feel like theyre supposed to be where they are, people who cant pretend theyre built for the environment theyre in, and everyone who's not living the life they thought they would. im proud of you for making it this far and i hope you keep going until youre happy ♡

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everybody wants a super empathetic and emotionally generous woman in their life until they have to treat her like a person

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Honestly? The right person will anticipate some of your needs even before you do. But there will be times when you'll have to start that dialogue, as uncomfortable as it can be, in order to create healthy discussions to better communicate your thoughts and feelings. You'll have to understand that there is no magic ball, and that you can not blame them for something they might not realize right away thanks to a hundred of possible reasons, like trauma, lack of experience on relationships or positive encouragement.

Yes, sometimes the right person will sense subtle changes in your mood, making a point to check up on your immediate needs. But there will be times things will simply pass by them. Not necessarily because they don't care about your feelings or don't love you anymore, but because life can be frenetic and everyone is fighting their own battle.

And yes, the right person will make you feel physical pleasures you may never have experienced before. But there will be times of adjustment, of exploring each other's bodies, of needing guidance and patience, and of being kind and open-minded.

Love is learning together. Love is a daily choice.

#im literally thinking of making a Manual for being in a relationship with me #what my triggers are #my favorite foods #what my Check Engine Lights are

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love when a man texts me ‘hehe’, are you giggling and swinging your feet as you’re texting me too?

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mark ferrari

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Pedro Pascal as Dieter Bravo THE BUBBLE (2022) dir. Judd Apatow

#hes my fucking favorite #frankie and jack and javi G yes #i love you all too #but i feel a deep kinship with this bisexual disaster raccoon man #dieter bravo

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One thing I love about the Monster x Human dynamic is the possible misunderstandings that come with being separate species.

The possible cultural differences. The awkwardness. Language barriers. Anatomy differences. Maybe they mistake a platonic gesture as romantic or you mistake a romantic gesture from them as platonic.

Maybe you accidentally touch a merperson's gills and they immediately shy away at the unexpected touch. You freak out and apologise because you think you've hurt them while they try and hide their obvious arousal at the intimate touch.

Or an alien whose skin colour changes with their mood. You notice they're always a more reddish colour when near you. When you ask them about it they get even redder and try to make something up while their friends watch and snicker cus they know exactly what that colour means.

You playfully bite your werewolf partner while cuddling and they let out a very erotic groan. Now they have to try and explain to you what marking is to werewolves while also being very horny and embarrassed.

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hey kiddos lets not dox ourselves like imbeciles on the internetz okay? ^_^

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werewolf bf that half-shifts when he gets too upset or riled up. like you hear an angry "FUCK" and out of the corner of your eye you see him go from human-enough-looking to a puffed up furball. You have to go over and stroke the bristled fur until he calms down.

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as an SA victim i could really give less of a fuck about what people's kinks are. someone likes cnc? none of your business. they're into ddlg? so what? no one is being hurt. they ship something taboo? as long as they don't try to justify that in real life idc. please for the love of god focus on real predators out there and advocate for actual SA prevention instead of focusing on random people's kinks.

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I think having a baby niece is great cause my brother will send me just a constant stream of messages that sound indistinguishable from how someone at Jurassic park would text if they were being hunted by the raptor

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"Liberation for all requires resistance from all"

Sticker spotted in Riverside, California

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PEDRO AND PHIL???

I HAVE EXPIRED

beautiful beautiful talented man 🥰🥰

#my fandoms are colliding #pedrito

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Oh god he looks so good!

#BUENOS DIAS MI AMOR #ugh he's so PRETTY #pedrito