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MY SECRET SANTA GIFT FOR MY WIFEY @inkmousey ILYYYY ❤️

Prompt: sparring session leads to a smooch 💕

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KLANCE FIC RECS!

Yes. Maybe. No. by artimess_chimes

the way things go by nicoify

Study Buddies by seph_bites

Are You There, Keith? by BewitchingNotes

Make me feel Normal by AllTimePhan73

nothing’s quite as sweet by dimpleforyourthoughts

He Loves Me by Autumn_Ignited, infinitesongbird

Dear Reader by heavily_caffeinated

(let me know if the links are working properly :3)

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˗ˏˋ my favorite klance fics pt.3 ˎˊ˗

it’s all in my head

(un)spoken

bonded (in your arms)

if the silence was a song

baby, you’re a haunted house

sweetheart

love is buying you your perfect couch

it’s easier for you to let me go

Renegade Dawn

lifeline

let’s get started

I'd Tap That

flesh and blood (you deserve to be loved)

look, my darling, the distance has vanished

adrenaline

so kiss me (kiss me kiss me kiss me)

just like that

Dear Reader

Sweet Nothings (how you doin', baby? ;) )

Like Any Unloved Thing (i don't know if i'm real if i'm not being touched)

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I had a cat named Quack.

When asked about his name/to jokes about him being a duck I would simply say "No he dropped out of medical school."

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Hell yeh~

can i get a hell yea if you’re still gonna be wasting your time on this website in 2014

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Top teeth hot or bottom teeth hot. You let me know~

#growl

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˗ˏˋ my favorite klance fics pt.2 ˎˊ˗

Monachopsis

You Make Me Feel (Like Dancing)

sweet touch (you’ve given me too much to feel)

everything, everything

The Amnesia Game

never gonna need nobody’s love (but yours)

A Second Chance (series)

home is a feeling

the good ones always seem to break

i know nothing else, i know only this

giggles and crushes (and absolute mortification)

calling me to come back

when the lights go out 

unmixed signals

All the Way Down

Nightmares

Under Arrest

we have only one story

this is what love looks like

Squeezing My Heart

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I was walking through the toy aisle at Target when I found this thing and had a VIOLENT AND IMMEDIATE FLASHBACK to when JP first came out and they had a bunch of REALLY COOL T Rex toys that I would have sold one of my scrawny small-child limbs for but my mother wouldn’t get me one because they were “too violent and also ate people” :(

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Hey potato I could really use the good fucking luck rn

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Hey potato I could really use the good fucking luck rn

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DEAR ARTISTS, PLEASE READ THIS POST I STUMBLED ACROSS

IF YOU ARE NOT DOING THIS ALREADY, YOU SHOULD TRY IT

I even tested it out myself, it works great

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Xena: Warrior Princess (1995 - 2001) ⤷ Fave Episodes: S2 EP15 "A Day in the Life"

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Welp this was a fun way to find out I didn't jist develope panic attacks after losing a loved one

I talk to many people who say things like "oh I have trauma but I don't have PTSD", but then when I talk to them a little more I realize that they most likely do, they just can't recognize it as such due to how lacking PTSD awareness is, even beyond the whole "it's not just a veteran's disorder" thing.

The main reason they think they don't have PTSD usually has to do with flashbacks and nightmares, either they have one but not the other or have neither. But here's the thing, those are only two symptoms out of the 23-odd recognized symptoms. Flashbacks and nightmares are two of the five symptoms under Criterion B (Intrusion), which you only need one of for a diagnosis. The other three symptoms are unwanted upsetting memories, emotional distress after being reminded of trauma and physical reactivity after being reminded of trauma (i.e. shaking, sweating, heart racing, feeling sick, nauseous or faint, etc). Therefore you can have both flashbacks and nightmares, one but not the other, or neither and still have PTSD.

In fact, a lot of the reasons people give me for why they don't think they have PTSD are literally a part of the diagnostic criteria.

"Oh, I can barely remember most parts of my trauma anyway." Criterion D (Negative Alterations in Cognition and Mood) includes inability to recall key features of the trauma.

"Oh but I don't get upset about my trauma that often because I avoid thinking of it or being around things that remind me of it most of the time." Criterion C (Avoidance) includes avoiding trauma-related thoughts or feelings and avoiding trauma-related external reminders, and you literally cannot get diagnosed if you don't have at least one of those two symptoms.

"Oh I just have trouble getting to sleep or staying asleep, but I don't have nightmares." Criterion E (Alterations in Arousal and Reactivity) includes difficulting sleeping outside of nightmares.

"But I didn't have many/any trauma symptoms until a long time after the trauma happened." There's literally an entire specification for that.

Really it just shows how despite being one of the most well-known mental illnesses, people really don't know much about PTSD. If you have trauma, I ask you to at least look at the criteria before you decide you don't have PTSD. Hell, even if you don't have trauma, look at the criteria anyway because there are so many symptoms in there that just are not talked about.

PTSD awareness is not just about flashbacks and nightmares.