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This reply is especially funny to me because if we lived in a communist utopia in which Taylor Swift has redistribute all her assets and only made music for free, she would STILL be all over our collectively-run IHeartProletariatRadio and you guys would be just as annoying about it lol

Sorry but this is insane! Taylor Swift, out of all singers in the world, does not need to artificially increase her sales! It's the other way around!! The reason a radio station might choose to play her whole album is because of how popular she is so they will get more listeners that day by playing her new album!! So the radio station is the one getting notoriety here!! She doesn't have to pay them for visibility???? She's Taylor Swift?!?!

#inb4 no of course I don't think billionaires should exist #but you don't hate her bc she's a billionaire or even bc of the private jet thing #bc if that were the case you'd be just as annoying evey single day about all billionaires and multi-millionaires and all rich assholes who #use private jets #some of whom you like and admire and who use it way more than taylor mind you (not that that excuses her use but look to your faves as well) #those are just the convenient excuses you have to hate her #but people have hated her since she became notorious like since fearless literally #for being a woman whose fanbase is mostly women therefore you think #someone like that can have no depth #and you don't believe misogyny exists so

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Sorry but this is insane! Taylor Swift, out of all singers in the world, does not need to artificially increase her sales! It's the other way around!! The reason a radio station might choose to play her whole album is because of how popular she is so they will get more listeners that day by playing her new album!! So the radio station is the one getting notoriety here!! She doesn't have to pay them for visibility???? She's Taylor Swift?!?!

#also it's one day you can tolerate it one day or just... don't listen to the radio? #for one day?? #btw taylor would not have as many streams if it wasn't for all the people who don't like her streaming her music like you do know that right #mind you she would still be the most popular singer in the world rn but she wouldn't get as much attention #bc hate also brings people to listen to your music and so she gets new fans

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I can't believe I grew up to be the type of person that says MOST therapy is sham pseudo science. I was getting a psych degree before a dropped out of college. I wanted to major in art therapy (I also studied art, big mistake, I am a shit artist) but to think I thought this was valuable in anyway is crazy to me now. The idea that everyone should have a therapist is just narcissistic drivel and coincides with big pharma trying to medicalize all feeling and profit off every person's dysfunction in a malfunctioning society. It may work for a small group of people, but it isn't a cure all prescription for most people.

#I'm not always 100% anti-therapy in al cases #bc there are internpersonal and communication issues that can sometimes need some guidance from someone who is qualified and detached ç #but not when our problem is that our entire life is unlivable now

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heidiwranglescats

#my job should be kitten bather actually #where do i apply?

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#prev #SAILOR MOON

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Like not to rely on stereotypes or anything but whenever we send any project to these people they take 2-3 more business days to do it than was agreed and NOW they got 6 full extra vacation days???

Just got news that the Italian office of the company I work for got cyber attacked and like @ cyber terrorists why couldn't it have been us??? Where's your working class solidarity???

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Just got news that the Italian office of the company I work for got cyber attacked and like @ cyber terrorists why couldn't it have been us??? Where's your working class solidarity???

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What if I kill myself on the video call in front of my boss and alter his life forever?

#1 month of hell in this company and I'm DONE

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most of the time i think neil gaiman is intractable in not being normal about a/c (derogatory) but then he posts like a girl mutual doing a yin-yang red string of fate web weaving and i remember he is fighting the war on a/c on the side of a/c now. he vexes and fascinates me. he's like what if a tumblrina is a big author with multiple media deals who got beamed with distilled old man yaoi manifestation online by mean gays and irl by two guys in their 50s parading their insane connection in front of him for days on end it got him engaging in light rpf.

He’s like if a girl mutual and an evil old straight man had to live inside one body. Incidentally that’s a great premise for a Neil Gaiman novel

#more authors should be bullied into this tbh

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70 horrible questions ... Fuck it

01: Do you have a good relationship with your parents? 02: Who did you last say “I love you” to? 03: Do you regret anything? 04: Are you insecure? 05: What is your relationship status? 06: How do you want to die? 07: What did you last eat? 08: Played any sports? 09: Do you bite your nails? 10: When was your last physical fight? 11: Do you like someone? 12: Have you ever stayed up 48 hours? 13: Do you hate anyone at the moment? 14: Do you miss someone? 15: Have any pets? 16: How exactly are you feeling at the moment? 17: Ever made out in the bathroom? 18: Are you scared of spiders? 19: Would you go back in time if you were given the chance? 20: Where was the last place you snogged someone? 21: What are your plans for this weekend? 22: Do you want to have kids? How many? 23: Do you have piercings? How many? 24: What is/are/were your best subject(s)? 25: Do you miss anyone from your past? 26: What are you craving right now? 27: Have you ever broken someone’s heart? 28: Have you ever been cheated on? 29: Have you made a boyfriend/girlfriend cry? 30: What’s irritating you right now? 31: Does somebody love you? 32: What is your favourite color? 33: Do you have trust issues? 34: Who/what was your last dream about? 35: Who was the last person you cried in front of? 36: Do you give out second chances too easily? 37: Is it easier to forgive or forget? 38: Is this year the best year of your life? 39: How old were you when you had your first kiss? 40: Have you ever walked outside completely naked? 51: Favourite food? 52: Do you believe everything happens for a reason? 53: What is the last thing you did before you went to bed last night? 54: Is cheating ever okay? 55: Are you mean? 56: How many people have you fist fought? 57: Do you believe in true love? 58: Favourite weather? 59: Do you like the snow? 60: Do you wanna get married? 61: Is it cute when a boy/girl calls you baby? 62: What makes you happy? 63: Would you change your name? 64: Would it be hard to kiss the last person you kissed? 65: Your best friend of the opposite sex likes you, what do you do? 66: Do you have a friend of the opposite sex who you can act your complete self around? 67: Who was the last person of the opposite sex you talked to? 68: Who’s the last person you had a deep conversation with? 69: Do you believe in soulmates? 70: Is there anyone you would die for?

#how is this so heteronormative... ON TUMBLR? #anyway ignote the straight questions but the other ones are fine

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In general I get the most mad when my fellow leftists deny the existence of misogyny and rampant violence against women. People on the left on will see any random women taking safety precautions for their own well-being and peace of mind and go “well look at that privileged evil poser bitch who is paranoid because she listens to too many true crime podcasts.” As a leftist, I too mourn the fact that there’s very little sense of community among people left, but this idea that it’s just women’s fault and that women taking safety precautions have single handedly killed class solidarity or something is such a transparently evil, malicious lie spread by the worst, most predatory guy in your local DIY scene. There was a post around here a while back proclaiming that “stranger danger is Reagan era propaganda” (on the news, the other night, I saw Ring doorbell footage of a 20 year old girl banging on a neighbor’s door and screaming for help until her assailant, who was also her kidnapper, picked her up and carted her away as she sobbed and screamed) I saw a young woman be dogpiled as a “liberal poser” on leftist Twitter and TikTok by other people who shared many of her political values because she talked about feeling unsafe when she was alone on a street with a man who was acting very erratic, screaming obscenities and sexually charged insults at her (of course she was smeared as some evil, privileged villain. “you evil bitch! he was clearly having a mental health crisis! why didn’t you try to HELP HIM?!” etc) I see so much rhetoric just focused on shaming women for taking any precaution whatsoever to avoid the risk of being sexually assaulted or otherwise victimized in any way. Women will do something as simple as carry pepper spray, or a rape whistle, and be accused of being the exact same as conservatives obsessed with Qanon conspiracy theories about sex trafficking. There is something so insidious about leftist men specifically telling women within their local subcultures that taking any measure to protect themselves against gendered or sexual violence is some heinous, capitalist crime against humanity. Ted Bundy was caught here in my hometown. There’s men walking around the streets of New York punching random women in broad daylight. A young woman was hit in the face with a brick in Chicago simply for turning down an offer to go on a date. That guy in your local leftist scene? Talk to any of his ex girlfriends. They’ll have stories. Keep protecting yourselves, women of the world. Especially trans women and WOC.

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one aspect of this which i think about a lot is the literalization of many online millennials. this is something we all have noticed i'm sure. it's like the opposite of irony-poisoning... literal-poisoning. it makes one very unfunny, obviously, but this is another aspect

it isn't just the therapy-speak thing, it's the idea that it is 'dangerous' or potentially problematic to leave anything unsaid or implicit. one other example that comes to mind is those 'guides' on consensual sex that were big in like, 2011-2015, which advised you to stop and ask your partner verbally before doing literally anything during sex.

obviously i'm not anti-talking during sex... some things should be discussed before they happen, sometimes feedback is necessary, sometimes requests are made... but if you've had sex you know that it would be unpleasant, strange and unsexy to halt and ask permission for every touch. and it would be unnecessary, because there's so much nonverbal communication going on, and if you have the empathy of even a brick, it's usually easy to read

this gives me the same vibe. it isn't the job of people getting married to word their vows with exit clauses just in case. it is the job of the state to provide cheap, easy, no-fault divorce. people generally get married because they're madly in love with someone and think they will spend the rest of their lives with them. of course, normal sane people are able to hold in their head simultaneously the idea that shit happens and this marriage might end in divorce and not death, as around a third of US marriages do.

but it's not romantic to say that. no one who's genuinely in love wants to fucking say that at their WEDDING. we all know that! people get divorced! some things can be left unsaid! not every moment of our lives has to be this ridiculous slog of explicitization

and suggesting we all explicitize everything kind of implies a lack of theory of mind for others. This is something i notice often from people who are intellectual in some ways but low on common sense and/or social skills, and have gotten caught up in this literalized culture of constant yapping and oversharing - they start to think other people are bumbling buffoon NPCs. They think anyone who doesn't post to social media in the style of a very explicit, therapized internal monologue doesn't actually have one. They think people who keep their mouths tactically shut about certain things didn't notice that thing at all. They think tact and propriety and earnestness are evidence of gormless stupidity. They think wedding vows are supposed to sound like your therapist is selling you car insurance.

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why should i care about taylor swift when the killer remains at large

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there needs to be a jesus on the cross emoji that i can use any time i have to go to work in an hour

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People are saying insane things like: "what if Taylor cuts cardigan, long live or atw10 min to fit TTPD in the setlist?" WELL if that happens, I will firebomb the Lisbon stadium, so better not.

#she should take out bad blood and shake it off but she's not brave enough #taylor swift #she will not take all too well out but she could do the others bc she did for the movie... #if she takes those two i will scream #or anything from the folklore/evermore set #like taylor bestie i know you just put out a song about performing while being miserable etc etc sorry about thay #but add 3 more songs without taking anything out overwork yourself!!! thank you #you LOVE capitalism!!! do it for the capitalism!!

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for me, it keeps coming back the now deleted scene in anti-hero where taylor first openly used art about something that directly impacted her mental health. and i get why it would be triggering and uncomfortable to see a thin woman portray herself as "fat" on a scale. i understand the "problematic" edge to it. and yet... i still hate y'all for thinkpiecing her into deleting the scene. it was art about something that directly impacted HER mental health and folks felt entitled to tell her how she could make art about something that impacts HER. that HER MENTAL HEALTH was distressing them, could she pretty please censor it so it would stop triggering them.

like fuck y'all. i hope she never feels the need to censor herself again to cater to you fuck ass bitches. some of you DO need to be told you're being overbearing and entitled, sorry! you don't get to censor art just because you don't like who's making it or feel the person who made it isn't allowed to use art the way they used it.

#like she's very openly had an ED guys... #she was talking about her ED she was not insulting fat people 😭 #but when it comes to her literally all your literacy flies out of the window #taylor swift