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listening to music you loved when you were younger feels like a connection with your past self. like did she know I’d be listening to this exact same song so many years in the future? she couldn’t have imagined the person I am now. it feels like a hand reaching through time. like looking at the moon and realising that throughout history other people have looked at the same moon and felt the same way. a moment when the boundaries of time blur and it’s just me, enjoying music, connected with all the past versions of myself who are listening to this same song

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Rb if u have a 'disgusting attraction™' :3

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A comic about flying in our system.

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me_irl

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Fictionkin culture is having trouble explaining that yes, you identify as a character from media, no, you don't just relate to them. :(

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Thanks, Anon!

-submit your poll!-

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twitter historically sucks but man this is a banger of a tweet

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I find it fascinating that people who choose not to have children are generally assumed to feel really strongly about not having children (or even to feel really strongly against children, anyone’s children, in general). I am probably not going to have children, not because I REALLY REALLY HATE the idea of having children, but because I don’t really really love it. Out of all the major decisions I will make in my life, this one is the only irreversible one. I can sell a house, quit a job, divorce a spouse, whatever. I cannot unhave a child. I cannot opt out of being a parent once I become a parent. I can’t even take a step back for the sake of self-care or whatever, or else my child will suffer.

So for me, having children is fuck yes or not at all. The default will be to remain childfree. Having children should be an opt-in decision, not an opt-out one. Until/unless I develop really strong feelings about wanting to have children, I won’t have them, even if that means I never end up having them at all.

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funny illustrations by Shanghai Tango

more illustration in here.

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A tiny reminder!

Pedophilia ≠ CSA

Zoophilia ≠ bestiality

Pedophilia and zoophilia are the attractions, CSA and bestiality are the actions. Stop using these synonymously

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In honour of disability pride month, we made a disability Pride Knight! Stay proud! ⚔️🌈

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“My child is fine!” Your child is developing new and further socially ostracizing kinks at an alarming rate

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HAPPY PRIDE MONTH! this one goes out to all the polyphobes. there’s an even number of them so i mixed up the formula

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Being pro-paraphilia, to me at least, isn’t about encouraging people to become pedophiles or zoophiles (not that I even think that’s possible), nor supporting abuse, nor is it about supporting the idea that all paraphiles need therapy and should aim to get rid of their paraphilias. It’s about being against shame and self-hate and repression.

I think paraphiles should definitely get therapy if they need it, for example if they feel they’ll harm someone, but not every paraphile needs therapy. Anyone with any paraphilia, yes even the bad scary ones, can know that abuse is wrong.

And paraphiles shouldn’t be forced to keep their fantasies or attractions private. There is no getting rid of paraphilias, there’s only repression. I support paraphiles being able to be open about their attraction to get help if they need to. If a pedophile feels like they’re going to harm children but feels like they cannot be open about it, they may not be able to get the help they need.

I also support paraphiles being able to be open just because. Hiding a part of yourself can be horrible and isolating, especially if the part you’re hiding is important to you or is a big part of who you are.

Being pro-paraphilia doesn’t automatically mean being pro-abuse. And telling paraphiles that they should be ashamed and hide or ‘get rid of’ their attractions is not the great help you think it is. Repressing paraphilias doesn’t make them go away and doesn’t make you any less likely to harm anyone. Accept them and learn how to live with them.

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We love incest on this blog 😈😈😈