#I might still queue and reblog stuff from the shows everyday...

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#Ah! #This week a co-worker at my job that I've been at for almost 5 months now was like #'oh they mentioned Louis Tomlinson in a podcast I was listening to this morning' #And I was like 'whaaat who's talking about Louis?' #And she said it was a podcast called shameless of two Australian girls and they were saying how they saw him at the AO #And didn't know who it was at first and were confused with Liam for a second #Hajshajs. Anyway... I love that my brand is Louis Tomlinson. As it should be. #Oh she also asked me who was the one who dated Cheryl Cole. If it was Louis or Liam #Hajsha. And inside I was like 'ohno not the dating questions pls' and I said it was Liam. #And she's British so she vaguely remember the media there going crazy over that and I was like 'yeaaah' and inside 'don't ask me more pls' #Also... I don't think I'll be able to do the throwbacks pals. #That was short-lived. #I mean... I still have time until tomorrow but- #I'm working and blah blah #I might still queue and reblog stuff from the shows everyday... #Idk idk

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Sometimes I forget you're gay 'cuz you hardly post about it. Is that intentional or not? Also mind sharing your coming out story? C:

Not intentional at all, the truth is sometimes I wish my blog was as gay as I am XD But unfortunately, not many vintage blogs have gay posts in them! I only follow vintage blogs, with a very few rare exceptions. Gay posts don’t tend to be vintage and I hate the idea of my blog looking less vintage, so there’s not much I can reblog.

Moreover, “lesbian blogs” tend to have either too many texts or too many photos of lesbian girls, either kissing or touching each other, or flat out nudes all over the place, even porn. I’m not into photos of people at all, not even vintage photos. And when it comes to nudes, which tend to overflow those blogs, I just feel super uncomfortable, so obviously I can’t follow such blogs. The same goes for sexual references, something I don’t feel comfortable with and don’t want in my blog. So if I ever post gay stuff it usually comes from the RARE days I spend a few hours checking such blogs and saving such posts either to my Likes or my Queue. But I never follow them, so it’s not something I can reblog every day, because they never show up on my dash. ***As for my “coming out story”… When I was 13 I acknowledged my sexuality and embraced it. I had no trouble telling everyone at school and I never had to deal with any bullying or anything related when it came to my sexuality. It was never a problem. If anything, it made me kinda popular, to be honest.When it comes to my family, my mom found a letter I wrote to a girl I liked when I was 14 and her reaction wasn’t very nice. She didn’t allow me to see that girl anymore, which led me to depression, which led me to pretty much move out and go live with my grandma. I still saw my mom everyday, but I pretty much hated her back then. You need to understand I’m the kind of person who NEEDS  a relationship in order to function properly, so anything coming in the way of myself and a relationship was THE enemy. And I literally wanted to die, rather than being single. So those years were quite hard for me. Anyways I kept on having girlfriends after that, my mom realized she couldn’t stop it, and had to end up accepting it. Seeing me being that unhappy also made her understand that my happiness should come first than any of her then closed-minded opinions.Nowadays I’m engaged to a woman and my family is overall very supportive. I guess it took them a while to realize and accept my sexuality isn’t a phase, and that my happiness comes first. Even my mom, the same person that used to tell me “I just don’t want you to do something you might regret” (when referring to having a girlfriend) is the same person that nowadays openly asks me with a smile on her face how things are going with my fiancée. My family met my fiancée last December and they really liked her Overall, I have no problem telling everyone I’m gay. It’s a huge part of me, it’s something that makes me happy and I’m in no way ashamed of it. Nobody should. I think I was lucky things went the way they went, despite the beginning, the important thing is that everything worked out in the end :)

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