#and let ppl be ppl u kno? men are allowed to be pathetic and etc don’t even get me started on sirius

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ok but yes remus is a soggy man. he’s a pathetic little loser i love it for him but fuck off with this nonsense abt sirius then being the man in the relationship or not saying that but having sirius then exhibit the typically manly traits. fuck off with equating the typically feminine roles with remus when you’re calling him pathetic. we’re not doing that shit anymore. remus will make the worst fucking inedible shit ever but he’s cooking every night. sirius is getting back from his job he’s obsessed with idc what it is. remus is taking the bins out late every time. he’s running to catch the bloody truck down the street every week. sometimes he misses it and they have stinky bins for another week. he drops the groceries he huffs bleach accidentally when he’s cleaning the bathroom he has a 9-5 it’s just a boring office job and he hates his job but he must work he gets self righteous he reads shit books he doesn’t enjoy he doesn’t know anything other than head n shoulders exists he pretends his feet aren’t blocks of ice even though his socks are wet he doesn’t know how to look after himself. fucking STOP with this bullshit and enforcing the goddamn heteronormative gender roles i’m done with it.

#take the hc as a hc and look into what it means as itself #not as a vessel for more gender ducked in the wrong direction #another note that’s slightly connected but mostly not #even though i adore the phrase gender xu kerry and i honestly think it’s the only apt term to describe my relationship w gender #can we pls start calling cishet gender bullshit gender fuxkedy bc that is the true farce #queer gender is the norm now #ok? ok. #anyway #wolfstar #also stop making one of the lesbians the man and the woman stop it rn im not joking don’t ever do it again #they’re both glorious beautiful fan freaking tastic goddamn gendernonbeliever lesbians im so done #p.s. this is not a vague post /nf this is not targeted it’s thoughts istg it’s not abt anyone /srs #lo rambles #just #and let ppl be ppl u kno? men are allowed to be pathetic and etc don’t even get me started on sirius