#i dont care if someone does the research and decides they still wanna get choked out

[bedazzlecunt]

I agree that nobody should be basing ideas around safe(r) kink from fantasy posts on tumblr, but I've come across plenty of educational posts on here that were genuinely helpful and enlightening. I don't think it's fair to suggest that they're all lying.

one of the most popular posts i ever used to see on here before i blocked OP was a guide for how to safely choke someone. not how to choke someone more safely, safer. how to do it SAFELY. this post, which continues to be extremely popular and has no doubt inspired a great deal of play, advises CUTTING OFF BLOOD TO THE BRAIN as a safe way to do choking!!!

obviously there are plenty of posts that are not out here insisting that actually there are 0 risks to choking your partner until they pass out, but there are a great number of posts that poke at that sort of thing. a huge number of posts that say "doms, we subs don't know how to communicate." a huge number of posts that posit and insist that there are actual 0 risks with biting your partner anywhere.

and — maybe this is worse! — i don't think the people making these posts are lying! i think they are uninformed and sometimes reacting with anger and defensiveness because someone somewhere told them that "hey this thing you like might not be safe" or even just "you have to be capable of communication and honesty to do kink safely." nobody's writing a post and twirling their mustache about how they're gonna ruin somebody's life by getting them to choke their partner, but a lot of people are spreading irresponsible shit anyway and i think it's healthy to approach every tumblr kink post with the mindset of "there is at least a 50% chance that this information is wrong"

#Anonymous #wren speaking! #listen im a ssc person personally but also rack is good #there are plenty of rly common kink situations that are extremely risky and thats okay! #i dont care if someone does the research and decides they still wanna get choked out #i care deeply that everyone knows the risks of how they're playing and can consent to those risks fully #that information is not getting spread on tumblr. a certain flavor of kinkster gets rly mad and defensive if u try #just recently i had to see a whole 'ppl are fearmongering about choking!' post again #abt how actually its rly low-risk and everyone who says otherwise is a puritanical sex-negative pussy