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#im saying it literally doesn't matter if a lesbian dates someone who YOU perceive as a man.
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if you're deconstructing your ideas of binary gender and binary sex— you also have to deconstruct your ideas of binary sexuality and romantic attraction, too, fyi
#'are you saying homosexuals don't really exist??!?!!?!' no. please use your brain.
#im saying it literally doesn't matter if a lesbian dates someone who YOU perceive as a man.
#because the people in that relationship know more than you.
#and human experience does not exist in a binary.
#you have to accept that sometimes other people will experience life differently than you do
#this also goes for gays and bis and pans and aces and aros.
#the only people who get to define their experiences are them.
#so no I don't really care if a gay man says his true love is a woman and he means it.
#i still consider him gay. because he knows himself and his partner better than i know how to perceive them both
#and how someone else identifies is none of my business.
#that woman may be only part woman. or only perceived as a woman. or only sometimes a woman. or always both woman and man.
#there's so many ways to be human. you have to learn to take other queers at face value and not question them
#when you question if someone is 'REALLY gay' or 'REALLY trans' or 'REALLY bi'; you're thinking with the mindset of an oppressor
#you do not need to gatekeep queerness. queerness is not a limited resource. queer people are not your enemies.
#learn to empathize and embrace experiences unlike yours. be a better ally to the people in your own community instead of immediately -
#- searching for ways to cast them out. be better. stop thinking like our oppressors. queer people do not need to rationalize ourselves for -
#- anyone. they don't owe you an explanation. you cannot take their 'gay card' away.
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