#it being soome foggy vague thing usually is like “yeah ok that exists i think”

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Romance always seems better as like a vague concept than it does in practice. Like when I see it in practice it's like

... awkward? Kinda embarrassing? Idk??? Romance as a vague thought in my minds vs IRL romance is so different and strange. I have no problem with the vague concept of it existing but the moment that shit is in front of me in any form? eugh.

#aromantic #aro #aroace #romance repulsed #romance averse #romance mention #it fluctuates how much it bothers me but like #it being soome foggy vague thing usually is like “yeah ok that exists i think” #but the moment i see people kiss on screen or irl or act all lovey dovey it's like....eugh #like i dont feel like i should be there. that im intruding on something. that it's embarrassing to see this. #characters get shown to have a crush and it's like...dreadful because it's going to be such an embarrassing thing to watch #it can even get annoying because it's like 'can you do that somewhere else you're distracting me stop being weird'