#it doesnt make you look bad like that one post implies but it definitely exacerbates your own negative reaction to it

[udurghsigil]

can't stress enough that you guys don't have to answer every single ask you get. in fact you can just delete them. especially if they are causing you psychic damage.

#x #re: last reblog and that one post that critiques the idea of not responding to anon hate #if someone is trying to bait you in your asks then delete it you are not obligated to answer every stranger's questions #especially if they're extremely fucking probing questions #and if u get hate its better to just let that shit go by deleting it #i cant think of a single person who has benefited in any way from responding to hate. #it doesnt make you look bad like that one post implies but it definitely exacerbates your own negative reaction to it #at random sometimes ill get a guy sending me a bunch of hate at once and guess what. nobody ever knows bc i delete it #and as a result i dont remember what the guy even said in the first place. out of sight out of mind #but back to the baiting shit - ppl bait me sometimes too and its so easy to just delete an ask taking ur comments in bad faith #very few ppl will continue to take ur shit in bad faith so if u just delete the annoying anons then it doesnt become a bigger issue