#male problems r always so like. superficial lmfao. like i have to pay the check & don’t get free drinks at clubs 😔

[lesbianlenas]

watching the bb live feeds rn & listening to this convo i have to say. pisses me off soooo much when men complain abt being expected to pay the check/bills but at the same time don’t want the woman to pay bc it downplays their masculinity. bc what it RLLY is is that men enjoy having economic power over women & paying for things bc she cannot provide for herself feeds into this power that they then claim is just their harmless masculine ego. & the woman paying the check shows that she still has some agency on her own. men want their women to be dependent on them to trap them like economic oppression is the main reason why women are trapped in abusive relationships since they literally cannot afford to leave esp if they have kids. but like yeah it’s soooo hard to be a man and be expected to pay $50 for dinner i’m so sorry 🙄

#michelle speaks #male problems r always so like. superficial lmfao. like i have to pay the check & don’t get free drinks at clubs 😔 #meanwhile women r like. i have been trapped in an abusive marriage for yrs bc i became a stay at home mother to provide for our children #& have no income of my own & am scared for mine and my children’s well-being but cannot survive w/o my abusive husband #bc i have no money to fall back on to & no way of getting any. #like men’s ignorance would be funny if it wasn’t so vile. imo. #like they really do not care how these traditions came 2 be. like men paid the check bc proper women weren’t supposed 2 have jobs & if they #did they were paid dirt & all her money went to the family and women were essentially forced #to get married & become the personal servant & child bearer to a man she probably didn’t like in order to survive #THAT is why men traditionally pay the check. but if u want to complain abt how unfair it is to MEN go ahead lol