#or even AFTER theyve moved in like ‘hey just so you know xx moved in yesterday’

[krispiecake]

soooo funny actually

#ive asked if staff can give me like just a general heads up if they know someone is moving in #not like any private info not even their name just like a ‘hey theres someone new that you might see around’ #bc im autistic and change can rlly throw me off like u know a pretty basic autistic trait #and i literally just got told ‘no offence what does it have to do with you’ #im not asking for their full name list of diagnosis’s nhs number and their fave colour #just you know. if theyre gonna be living here or not. #and its not like im not gonna find out bc im gonna see them it’s unavoidable information that everyone knows #i just want like a heads up like ‘hey asher someone new is moving in tomorrow’ like thats IT #so i dont freak out when theres just a whole stranger in communal areas or whatever and act weird #and i get it if like people cant tell me weeks in advance people are moving in on this day exactly at this time #LIKE IM NOT ASKING FOR THAT!!!!!!!!!!!!! #or even AFTER theyve moved in like ‘hey just so you know xx moved in yesterday’ #and really dont think im being unreasonable by asking them to just tell me rather than let me get anxious about a stranger #like idk if that’s maintenance or staff or management or a new resident like not knowing is what makes me anxious #and rn im in my hours and my staff member is just talking to another staff member about tanning and bikinis and shit like theyre not #MY HOURS. idk #im just pissed off they acted like i was insane for asking for a heads up #they were like oh idk if we can cuz we dont always know exact dates and things change and and and and #and when i first brought it up they just kept saying different variations of how does it effect you why do you care what does it have to #do with you and its like. you know. the autism and the anxiety disorders u know the things you know about and are meant 2 be helping me with #UGHHHHHHH

[zymstarz]

vent , stalking mention

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nothing made me think of this and idk if theyre still doing it but every time i think im safe to like. be a person and not be stalked by these people, they prove me wrong so hey quick reminder that if you're friends with my ex or their partner* and you're stalking me on their behalf (or if you ARE my ex or their partner and youre still obsessing over me after almost 2 years now), you're literally a fucking freak and you need to move on.

idk what part of "leave me alone and do not contact me, end of story" doesnt sink in but you guys keep proving that you cant even do nothing right every few months or so, so now i feel the need to make these PSA's every so often (even though they get ignored by you). i just wanna be left ALONE, and for some reason, every (at least 3) months, one of you tries to contact me as if i have not stated my incredibly simple boundary of "leave me alone" explicitly and repeatedly.

i don't even know what these people have (or had, though i doubt theyve stopped stalking me) against me other than me going to therapy and saying "multiple professionals with proof told me my relationship with my ex was abusive and manipulative, so i called it just that". either way, they keep re-proving theyre openly stalking me by contacting me or getting mad and saying "i'm not distancing myself right" when i... ask them to stop stalking me??? or just straight up saying theyre stalking me.

* usernames are xx/gri/m_hea/rt/xx and h0/n3y/_V last i was aware (dashes are so it doesnt show up in search results). PLEASE do not - i repeat do NOT - harrass them or egg them on, just block them or block me if youre friends with them. i cannot stress this enough, i literally just want to be left alone from these people.

#zymvent #do not reblog #might leave this one up permanently?? idk well see but i highly doubt these people have learned what 'evolving as people' is #meaning im like 99% sure theyre still at least somewhat stalking me and will definetely see this #stalking mention #abuse mention