#or it could be multiple people idk

[findafight]

Genuinely think some folks need to remove how we, the audience, see characters and relationships from an outside perspective from how those characters actually interact. Like y'all ask for nuance and I'm telling you that just because Nancy has gone through trauma and absolutely deserves to be as messy and complicated and hurt as she wants, doesn't mean Robin wouldn't think twice about dating her?

It's not about whose fault it is or centering a male character, it's about how Robin, the character, would interpret and internalize the facts she knows. She has no idea what exactly Nancy has been through, like we have. She encouraged Steve and Nancy in S4 to get back together, she comforted him when Nancy went straight back to Jonathan. Robin's place as Steve's best friend, someone she trusts implicitly, the person she wants to combine with, puts Steve as an important aspect of her life!

It's not that she hates Nancy! It's that even though they broke up a year and a half ago, there's some unresolved or redeveloping feelings there for Steve. It's not that I think Steve could/would/should be hurt or angry about his best friend dating his ex. It's that, in my opinion, Robin, from what we see of her, doesn't seem inclined to date a friend's ex. It's about Robin, and her personality, and that means her friendship and love of Steve.

#anti ronance #finda's rambles #stranger things #idk its about robin for me. she would put her friendship with steve above a romantic relationship with anyone #struggling to put this into words but its frustrating when people claim we're making it about steve when i dont feel that way #to me im prioritizing Robin. and stobin i guess #it also seems like people hate being reminded that robin wants to live in steves brain. and that WOULD factor into her choices #that may affect him. yknow. like dating his ex. #its got nothing to do with how i feel about the stancy breakup (messy but if they TALKED could be worked through) #i also don't think they're compatible and have multiple reasons i simply don't vibe with the ship #but those aren't misinterpreted just ignored i guess

[rebellum]

I feel like... Perhaps... Arguing that transphobia is defined by murder and that anything other than murder doesn't even matter... May NOT be conducive to fighting for trans rights.

Like... people want the right to exist as they are. They want to have access to hrt and surgeries and prosthetics. People want access to clothes that fit them and reflect how they want to be seen. People want access to medical care (eg. Getting screened and treated for sex-based forms of cancer can be impossible if you have the "wrong" sex listed to receive those tests). People want to be respected and treated well. People want to not be sexually assaulted and beaten and abused. People want to have access to housing and jobs, and the protection to not lose those things for being trans. People want access to shelters for homeless people or survivors of domestic abuse. People want name changes.

Acting like all of those things don't matter because at least they weren't murderered by an individual (and instead die of suicide or state violence, or survive and suffer) isn't okay.

#'hey people are forcibly detransitioning you and raping and beating you and you lost your job and are going to be homeless and #probably die of infection from being stabbed for trying to go to the bathroom. but at least you arent part of a demographic that has a #higher murder victim rate! shhh just ignore that we dont actually have data on the murder rate of your group.' #do ppl like. forget state based violence exists. and that thats most violence minorities face. #idk man im just. mad about people on here acting like youre only oppressed if youre a perisex trans woman who was AMAB. #cause i exist at the intersection of multiple minorities and being told hey u experience violence but at least you wont be murdered by an #individual feels like a slap in the face. #like it doesnt matter if i have to mask my neurodivergent behaviour bc if people see they could assume im on drugs and call the police and #i could potentially be really hurt but not die but hey at least i wont die just be horrifically traumatized by police brutality! #there are millions of people with mental illnesses similar to my own around the world who are institutionalized and forcibly medicated or #living on the streets or dependant on horrifically abusive caregivers #but hey at least they arent being murdered! #like. the way the transphobia discussion on tumblr rn discusses (and doesnt discuss) race and ability and class and health makes me #feel very invisible. #like if people had to choose who to believe about my experiences between listening to me a black/mixed mentally ill maybe disabled (used to #be disabled) hella nd trans nonbinary person #or listen to a white middle class trans woman's take on my experiences that theyd choose her. its such a weird weird microcosm. #its like a monkeys paw like people are finally listening to trans fems and finally recognising the violence they experience and finally #actually caring about them but for some reason decide that in order to do that its necessary to throw every other minority under the bus #like fuck man have you seen how 'anti transandrophobia truthers' discuss race? its NOT okay #we all matter we all are so similar and are part of the same groups and same communities we need to stick together #stop using trans fems as a battering ram to hurt other minorities challenge #cause like. yes its some trans fems. but its mostly NOT? #like its non trans fems telling other non trans fems that they arent oppressed #and even when many trans fems are like what the fuck dude of course other trans ppl matter whats wrong with you #the group of like 80% non trans fems 20% trans fems are like 'hmm if you are defending other trans people you must not really be trans fem' #like. denying trans fems their identity bc they disagree with them?? dude someone doesnt stop being a trans fem cause they recognise #people other than trans fems matter and exist #its just all so WEIRD its a weird little tumblr microcosm #i wanna stress. for those of you who dont have access to other lgbtq+ communities. how much it seems to be primarily a tumblr thing. to

[lamentfulwarbler]

Losing my shit at this passage from The Untold Origins of the Detective Agency-

#Kunikida just did Not have to say that #imagine telling your coworker that you think your boss’s glare could kill multiple kids- like bro- #i’m sobbing #need more people to include Kunikida casually just saying mildly unhinged shit without batting an eyelid in their fics- #THE EMPHASIS ON THE INSTANTLY TOO?? #FUKUZAWA FIGHT BACK #or don’t i guess- this was technically said in admiration #like. the next line (not in the image) is like ‘and that’s why hes the president’ so like. at least it wasn’t negative #i’m sorry but the bluntness of it just took me out #fuckin love this series #liveblogging #(does this count as liveblogging? idk) #bsd #bsd light novel #the untold origins of the detective agency #bsd kunikida #bsd tanizaki #alt text included in image. pls tell me if it doesn’t work #or if its like. done badly-

[amelia-yap]

Sooooo thoughts on episode 12 🍅

very nice (in pain)

#miorine rembran #g witch #the witch from mercury #my art #ok i knew people were gonna get ko'ed but not like this #the animation was sooooo good though #blood looked very chunky and thicc and shiny its great #the part when suletta was having a panic attack? 10/10 could feel it her eyes scary af #the chillsssssssss #and more info about mio's mom is always great #and all the goddamn parallels to ep1 #oh and at the beginning part where sophie's been talking to herself and suletta can't hear her was so fucking funny to me #bob continues to be the show's punching bag #no 5 continues to be an asshole #shaddiq is a bloody bastard i cant believe i used to like him #aerial was super cool with all the lasers #all the earth house kids need a hug #or multiple #idk whats with vim but honestly i could care less about him do not rest in peace #the animation of the show is hecking good #its so tasty #i dont think this gets talked about a lot but the end credits part #miomio flailing about and desperate to keep her dad from harm was very heartbreaking #she doesnt even like him but he's the only blood-related fam she has left and even throws herself in front and she def knows it's pointless #THERE WAS NO HESITATION #im gonna cry #im crying #and fully believe that sulemio will sort out the bullshit going on around them theyre so important each other #and i hope shaddiq gets blended like soup no sympathies for him #become the corn potage you were meant to be

[happytyrantsubmarine]

my babygirl. my beloved. my silly little guy. 

#i could talk about death parade for hours #unfortunately i cant convince anyone i know to watch death parade #its very sad #death parade #decim #decim death parade #death parade fanart #uhhhh #idk this show made me cry multiple times #i never drawn this man before but i like it mostly besides the pose being a bit weird #i really gotta study anatomy at some point #anyway decim deserved more he should've been allowed to dance like in the intro #sending out psychic waves to convince people to watch death parade (this will not work)

[superbellsubways]

tumblr blog oc post lowkey inspiring me to make a blog ran by my ocs lalala

#it would be fun maybe? #like people can ask my ocs stuff .. #idk if it would be centered around one oc or multiple #like one for bitz specifically could be funny #but i wouldnt mind having people ask about my other guys #IDK how many people would be interested but ill put it into consideration

[evansbby]

not me going through the steve rogers x reader tag and i find a post that’s like “pov you find a fic with amazing smut but it has daddy kink 👎” LMFAOOOO

i wonder if anyone’s read my fics and just immediately exited out as soon as they see the word “daddy” bc it’s in like EVERY SINGLE ONE of my fics 😂😂

#for me it’s quite literally the opposite #like my fanfic tastes are so specific that I literally will not read it UNLESS it has daddy kink😂 #this makes me wanna discuss everyone’s fanfiction icks #not in a shaming way but in a funny way #like what are your icks/absolute hard no’s when it comes to fanfic? #again not tryna offend anyone #like I didn’t get offended by that post and by the 4000 notes it got of people hating on daddy kink #in fact I found it funny and amusing #so I thought we could have a fun discussion about it #but the last thing I want is for people to get their feelings hurt so idk #😂😂😂😂 #okay so the fanfics I read are sooo specific #have to have daddy kink #have to be well written #punctuation has to be good and grammar too #my biggest pet peeve grammatically is when there’s multiple people’s dialogues in the same paragraph #it takes me out of the fic SO quick bahahaha #like when a new person speaks it needs to be in a new paragraph #anyways #I also heavily prefer if the male lead is rich #I like when the male lead is older #like even in the college au’s I write I make sure the male lead is a few years older 😂😂😭 #idk bro I’m super specific which is why I write fics that are super specific to my taste

[macroglossus]

being evaluated for adhd by having one of those full psych evals that last like two hours. scared frightened etc.... last time i took it i lied extensively bc i was 13 and thought they might tell my mommy if i said i had suicidal thoughts. and i still have a habit of lying to therapists bc i'm embarrassed......... AGH idk. what if i take it and they tell me that the reason im Like This is bc im genuinely just weird and shitty and not bc im mentally ill at all. SCARED

#which is dumb bc i have been formally diagnosed with multiple mental illnesses i dont think they can just take it back right????? #this is so stupid and cliche but what if i have been faking it........ all along........ Argh. #when i was in res i was put on adderall (bc the house psych just kind of experimented w meds LMFAO) and i had to go off them after like #two weeks bc it was affecting my appetite in a way i couldnt afford at the time lmao. but i do genuinely feel like it helped during that #time.... which is why i want to go on it again!!!! but im scared theyll just be like nah and i wont be able to take any of my meds anymore #is that crazy. am i being crazy rn. idk i truly do think most of my experiences w school and like. life could be explained by adhd and #when i was a kid they thought i had it but the two meds they tried didnt work for me so they just. kind of gave up #and i was really extremely unable to do school and graduated hs w an insanely low gpa and then dropped out of community college. LMAO. not #that people w adhd cant be good in school i just couldnt make myself do homework and couldnt listen in class bc i was too busy focusing on #listening. if that makes sense #IDK. idk. i know it's become like. a trend to have adhd is the issue and everything is being attributed to having it so im worried that ive #like. accidentally fallen in w that? even though ive thought i had it for forever and everyone has been like girl do you have this. IDK!!!! #idk. idkkkk im just like. genuinely scared. it's not the end of the world if im not diagnosed obviously but that means that #im just like this for no reason at all. and there's no way of helping it bc it's just the way i am. and i actually am just shitty n lazy. #epic. which incidentally is the proper name for how fucking long these tags are my bad. if you read this far sorry for being insane 👍

[cinna-bunnie]

me as a kid: haha birthdays are so silly, i wouldn't want a party i would hate to have to cleanup afterwards!!

me as an adult: if i stepped into any room full of people who thought my existence was inherently worth celebrating i would immediately curl up and cry hysterically about it

#me: aha christmas n new years r coming up but i got this i am okay #*remembers my birthday is also coming up somewhat* oh ): #my friends irl do not care about me and i doubt one of them is going to even last until my birthday #i.. i don't even know enough ppl to try hosting a party and inviting myself. this yr has been hell. and I've done well at handling it #but like. 😐 #it's still been a pretty bad year overall... idk. family oriented times of the yr are ROUGH!! especially the first yr u spend alone #this has been my first year alone in like seven or eight years and it sucks!!!!! #and I'm stuck this way bc im too rent burdened to actually go out as often as i need to and Meet People 😐 #i could go on multiple long wants bc there's Layers but akakfkalal i just want a long hug ｡⁠:ﾟ⁠(⁠;⁠´⁠∩⁠`⁠;⁠)ﾟ⁠:⁠｡ #rly don't want to work today and just want to curl up in bed n play my game

[corvidaedream]

in my quest to maybe move back to providence after 20 years, im looking at jobs down there and damn i think i might be better off financially pivoting to carpentry/construction work for a while

#messages from the ouija board #the biggest two hurdles there are 1) gender. on multiple levels. but maybe i could get my dad to put in a good word for me w an old contact #bc he seems to know every tradesman in rhode island somehow. a #but like. every manual labor job ive ever had other than assisting my dad. gender has become a Problem. and itll probably be worse now #and then 2) id have to get a vehicle and all the bells and whistles w that #though idk maybe i could ask my coworker marty about how to get into stage carpentry #bc hes trans and seems to be doing well in it #ive always enjoyed manual labor stuff like i love painting i love demo work i loved repairing tombstones i love building shit #but the few times ive actually been hired by people who arent family its been a real struggle to be taken seriously #in one case i got harassed (over being a 'woman') into leaving #and in another it just made the guys on the crew increasingly uncomfortable 'having a girl around' and when the current job wrapped up #i just got ghosted. no telling me where the next job was. no returning my calls. nothing. #and im scared of that happening again. but also. the money seems way better than museum work wrt what im qualified for

[thenwethrowitonthefire]

Shout-out to everyone who survived a "fun" easter with the family

#fucking hell #it started with finding out my dad smoked in my car when I picked up my sister #who was equally dreading the day #my mum turns into the world's tensest and judgemental presence. worsened by my aunt #then hell for autistic people (of which there are multiple present) #multiple deaf people means one uninspired conversation that isn't interesting in any way. #combinations of passive aggressiveness and people not saying a thing because they can't participate. voice volumes too damn high #weirdass food situations. Very full table. so many smells. #this goes on for over an hour. wishing for literally anything but being there. soul crushing. #then you still have to sit in that room for 2.5 hours. it just goes on and on. #my autistic deaf dad physically looks like how I feel. my mum and aunt keep piling on top of him to demand his mental presence #i leave the room once (to get my phone to show pictures to my uncle) and am immediately followed upstairs by my mum #who demands I don't leave the room (What's next. following me when I need the toilet?) #me and my sister are so bored we start throwing paper planes and fake fighting. #Which amuses the bored and the deaf #but of course my mum and aunt have opinions and this is not allowed. only soul crushing boredom allowed #they complain to each other over it while aggressively doing dishes #finally it ends because my mum and aunt start insisting my dad should go to bed if he's 'that tired'. *sprinkle on some additional ableism* #still sitting through a conversation about allergies one of my sister's friends has. my mum preaching that people should take that seriously #(meanwhile i had to cook for myself for 9 years because when my allergies were really bad no one bothered to check if i could eat something) #me and my sister go sit upstairs to discover our mum has made things we care about vanish in her room #and made things appear that should not be there #I've washed the interior of my car and hope the smell will go #you think it's over after that. but woke up with the realisation that even more things have disappeared from my sister's room. #i can't remember a time when things left outside of my room didn't disappear #I don't know why we do these family gatherings at all. no one has fun on days like that. #the housing crisis isn't making these things easy. my sister is losing her place to live again as well #she'll go hiking for a month and then work on a campsite over the summer #maybe I'll go house sitting again. idk. #can't make commitments a few months in advance like that because I'll cancel everything the second Sparks announces anything important

[cha1cedony]

I love that Discord has the ability to be so cozy and close-knit, but I hate that it’s so blocked off from the rest of the internet. And you can’t lurk; you HAVE to be active (or at least active enough to get in in the first place). Ahem anyway. you should invite me to your Discord servers.

🌀 Oooooo you want to invite me to your extremely niche DnDads Discord servers so bad ooooooooooooooooooooo 🌀

…or send me an anonymous ask about my favorite uhhhhhhh? mustelid or something. Ask me for good Lieder on a specific theme.. I’ve been listening to them all day. Maybe this shouldn’t be on my fandom blog???? It has been derailed ANYWAY idk I’m just feeling antsy and rambly hi 😁 How are you HAHA

#theoretically I could make my own #however. too shy #but also #want friends #hueurggh. truly Herculean #I am in one server and I love the people in there :) shout out #😁😁❤️ #but I am simply too shy to talk most of the time #and I’m in the Patreon server but it’s TOO scary I will NEVER speak in there 😭 #my problem is that I LOVE talking over the phone and in person #I am soooo talkative. love 2 yap #but when I have to TYPE I have more time to overthink #maybe I just need to get into. other bigger fandoms (lol) that have multiple big public servers #usually I like to send long voice memos (the Chalcy Podcast….) but I feel like that’s weird to do with strangers idk #OKAY SORRY WHEW LONG RAMBLE #HI #don’t take this seriously I am just antsy and feel the Urge To Post #also my only human contact for the past semester has been choir 3x a week aaaaand occasionally dnd #🥲 might be going a lil stir crazy #I would get out more but. home cozy comfy and I can pace all I want and not pay for gas #can’t wait to have public transit when I move next semester. rural girl moves to the big city yeehaw 🤠 #chalcy stuff

[floralovebot]

listen,, i am Not defending all of sky's actions or his personality but he's genuinely just not as bad as the fandom makes him out to be.

a lot of y'all forget that sky is a prince with extremely overbearing and downright abusive parents that refuse to listen to him or treat him with any ounce of respect. and that the whole diaspro vs bloom situation was started directly because his parents forced an arranged marriage between diaspro and sky, constantly telling her parents that it would work out and never listening to sky the hundreds of times he tried to stop it. like again, he's not great, he's my least favorite specialist. but that situation was never in his favor. he was a 16 year old that dealt with strict, emotionally abusive parents his entire life and got forced into an arranged marriage with someone he never loved and was constantly told that it Needed to happen for the kingdom. trying to play it out like he's a serial cheater with some nefarious master plan is like,, really weird. again! not a great person he does a lot of shitty things. but blaming that specific situation on him, a teen with absolutely no say in his life who just met someone he genuinely likes and could love, instead of his parents is incredibly weird to me.

#i just think that entire situation was extremely unfair for everyone involved #and its really weird when people try to make it out like sky was some serial cheater mastermind #like dude no he's a child with horrible parents and no control over his personal life #and yeah absolutely he shouldnt have lied or led bloom on. but also remember that Technically he was in disguise because #Apparently assassins are constantly after him (ignoring that winx does a piss poor job at showing that) #like idk this little boy who never had a say in his life suddenly meeting this little firecracker of a girl that has A Lot To Say #and isn't afraid of running her mouth or expressing herself. And even encouraging him to do the same? #like? yeah id fall in love with bloom too tf #and i feel like people forget that sky told both his parents And diaspro that he didnt love her like. multiple times. #anyway. i still hate sky. #but i hate him for like. actual reasons instead of He Fell In Love With Bloom Despite Being In A Forced Engagement Oh No #like we could criticize him for not trusting bloom or for projecting all of his own faults onto other characters #but trying to say he was at blame for just being like. a teen in love is Extremely weird to me #like i dont think it would be fair to say that he should just. never fall in love with anyone and should just be happy marrying someone he- #-never loved or had any romantic feelings toward #like you guys Can understand aisha hating her arranged marriage and falling in love with 'ophir' despite it #but you Can't understand sky hating his arranged marriage and falling in love with bloom despite it #its so much easier to say you dont like sky please just say that

[spicyicymeloncat]

Tumblr pls be normal about morally complex characters. Stop going 0 or 100 on their morality. Stop ignoring the interesting and unique story telling being presented to you in favour of going “nono that’s my UwU sugar plum sweet baby boi baby, disregard the canon bc I actually only want wholesome vibes from my horror games”

#fnaf spoilers #fnaf ruin spoilers #yeah this is is about eggory #bc the way people are trying to make it out that Gregory is actually the nicest child ever and he can do no wrong because he’s a child #is so simplistic and boring man #from what I gathered this is a pushback against matpat who thinks Gregory is an evil robot #and like y’all are valid to hate matpat but don’t stoop to the man’s level and play into his poorly analysed videos that are just made to #get a reaction and get clicks #imo gregory could totally pull an asshole move and let his friends die if it was for the greater good and that doesn’t mean I hate him #Gregory has been shown to make sacrifices #and he could have an arguably good reason to do what he did #the mimic was dangerous and would’ve killed multiple if loose #for the record I don’t think he intended Cassie to die I think his mic cut out and the elevator fell on its own #i don’t think it was the mimic either btw bc narratively that just kills the momentum #I’m just tired of people uwuifying gregboy so much #and accusing the game of wrongly portraying him as evil bc it just seems like #it seems like mischaracterisation idk #I’m not saying Gregory is mean or murderous for no reason either #he’s nuanced and there’s reasons for why he’s like this #sorry if this isn’t tagged right

[bladesalvation]

kinda down abt not having a whole lot of relationships for any of my characters knowing damn well I am at least part of the problem--

#ᵗʰᵉ ᵗᵃᵈᵖᵒˡᵉ ⁱⁿ ʸᵒᵘʳ ʰᵉᵃᵈ. // ��ˡᵗʳᵃ ˢᵖᵉᵃᵏⁱⁿᵍ #tbd #I just feel like #ik im slow to reply to stuff both here and with Gortash #I could use to reach out more but idk man #I tried a couple times and idk if the people just ignored/deleted my ask but #it kinda hit that im not really any different from any other Tav/Durge #what can I do man idfk #bc I got multiple threads and half of them never even got off the ground and they were starters I made #I just feel like my multi is kinda useless and I dont have a lot to offer #I wanna reach out to people but I also am just scared im gonna get more of the same?

[yohankang]

shit went down at work today and there's a chance they'll fire me 🙃

#my boss will talk to the ceo tomorrow and it's entirely up to him....... #multiple people at work saw me crying and i was so ashamed i wanted to cry even more lol #i'm just so bad at this job and i hate it but it's so hard to find a job when you dropped out of uni twice #and they pay well and i truly love some of the people there #like my boss expects me to do better (if i won't get fired) and she wants me to propose some improvements #but like. the problem is me. the workload is too much for me and there's no magic way to solve it #and the worst part is i'm so emotionally unstable i can't even talk about it without crying #i'm crying even now lol #and i know if i start crying tomorrow it will only annoy him #and i'm not doing it to seem pitiful i just can't control it at all #godd i'm so tired #i wish i could just cry it out today and then have a serious conversation tomorrow but it doesn't work like that #i had plans today but i start crying every 10 minutes so i just came back home and opened a beer #maybe it will put me to sleep idk #at this point i'm also annoyed with myself #i will let you know how it goes tomorrow 🙃 #k.txt #dl #btw please don't try to comfort me because it only makes me cry harder lol i'm just writing to let it all out