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translockdown Β· 1 day
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MUTUALS COME BACK COME BACK I WAS CULTMAXXING I GOT TERMED I REPEAT I GOT TERMED CAKEY OUT
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radqueer-sticker-maker Β· 15 hours
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Can you crystalize the transharmed and transharmful flag maybs?
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A also posted other transidentity flags ^^
Transharmed:
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Transharmful:
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paran0rmalphen0mena Β· 2 days
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It’s always so upsetting to see communities like this dissolve because of infighting. We don’t need more niche blankqueer labels. We dont need more contact stance arguments. Stop engaging with Antis, we will get nowhere if all we do it act how they expect us to. Ignore those asks, block the known spam accounts and move on. (+ The more you all get used to blocking the less you’ll get termed)
I know it sucks I get that, but you have to be careful when it comes to fighting for your rights. We are already demonized, and because of that you’ll get nowhere by force because to the general public we’re scary and although that might be what some of you want, you have to take into consideration that it just stigmatizes us, as a community, more. This is all coming from an Ex-Anti and current RQ who’s often excluded from the community even now, it is imperative that we focus on improving the whole, not fighting amongst ourselves. All you’re doing is driving out the same people who were fighting alongside you.
I’m not saying you need to censor yourself per se, just that you have to be careful, when you’re the outcasts anything and everything you say will be used against you. We don’t have the same leeway antis do.
FirstΒ they came for the Communists And I did not speak out Because I was not aΒ Communist
Then they came for the Socialists And I did not speak out Because I was not a Socialist
Then they came for the trade unionists And I did not speak out Because I was not a trade unionist
Then they came for the Jews And I did not speak out Because I was not a Jew
Then they came for me And there was no one left To speak out for me
-Martin NiemΓΆller
Divide and conquer has been a successful tactic for longer then any of us have been alive, it will happen to the Radqueer community all the same if we continue this way.
It doesn’t mean you have to be best friends, it means you have to be comrades. You don’t have to like the man next to you to recognize that he isn’t your enemy.
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heavenly-wanderer Β· 1 month
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as a cisplural person.
transplurals ARE plural! we're proud of you :)
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muzzled-dog-001 Β· 20 days
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I still can't believe the rq community is so hated on, this place genuinely has been one of the nicest communities I've been in- like, everyone here is simply so respectful and genuinely supportive,,
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spookrq Β· 3 months
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spook loves transtrauma beings .
transtrauma beings are valid and loved . transtrauma beings are not mocking cistrauma beings . transtrauma beings are not inherently fetishizing cistraumatized beings .
transtrauma beings ' trauma is equally as valid as cistraumatized beings .
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icyredrose Β· 2 months
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I need someone to groom me and gaslight me so hard my mind just breaks, break me to the point I can’t even tell if me needing the bathroom is real
I need to be broken so bad I have to ask you if I’m really hungry or if I’m just crazy cuz you’re the only one who knows what’s real
❀️
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villiqueer Β· 2 months
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VILLIQUEER β€” πŸͺ²πŸŒˆ / πŸ§ͺ🌈
pt: villiqueer
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Villiqueer is a term similar to post-radqueer, but with more explained ideals. This term is made for folk who feel as though they have been villianized and outcasted by the radqueer community and now feel as though they have moved past radqueerness while still holding onto the ideology.
Stances under the cut!
Villiqueer is pro . . .
- bodily autonomy
- all forms of self identification (transids, mspec monos, etc)
- all types of sexual/romantic orientations (including paras)
- sex education
- drug liberation
- sex positivity
- youthlib
- sex work of all kinds
- destigmatization of "unhealthy" coping mechanisms
- destigmatization of self harm and suicide
- destigmatization of paraphilias/parasexuals
- proship
- freedom to state any and all personal opinions
- consent
- all contact stances (yes. all of them.)
Villiqueer is anti . . .
- harassment
- bullying, including targeted bullying
- ableism / sanism
- non-consensual sexual interactions
- non-consensual abuse
- child abuse material ("cp"/csam/csem)
- para "recovery"
- thought crimes
- hate speech
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doll-queer Β· 1 month
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Hiiii, could I get a transharmful4transharmed flag?
~πŸ•―οΈπŸͺ¦
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Might make a better one later
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nurse-12 Β· 2 months
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Me...Γ—3 !
Previously... mineys-world + miney-vamp
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Hello Kitty smoking a blunt is LITERALLY me.. hehe ><
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β €ΰ­¨ΰ­§οΉ’Vivi﹐she/they/gore/vamps !
⠀﹒୭ Dummyqueer + 420queer οΉ’βž·
Kidfluid β€’ transharmed/ful ΰ³€β €β €
Looking form-> https://forms.gle/djUgNmQ2FWL7CkfT7
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peripaltepsy Β· 26 days
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BEWARE OF "body mod advices" - they can be dangerous and LETHAL.
(this post was about a deactivated blog but extends to any possible future blog like it)
edit3 since he deactivated: Red told me in the DMs that he WILL be more careful about all this risk stuff, I believe he is going to do better. Im sure he's a good person and he also was extremely civil in the DMs. Since he's not here to defend himself anymore I'll gladly take his side and say that despite this mess, all Red wanted to do was indeed reduce harm and potentially save lives. Good luck on all your endeavors, Red, I wish you a beautiful and successful career and that you have a great positive impact in the atypical dysphoria community, both on and offline. I don't know how my post truly impacted you, I'm so sorry if you're feeling bad. You acted the best way you possibly could.
Second, if Red comes back, DO NOT HARASS HIM, let him be himself and don't let his past hold them down.
Third, all my points still stand for their deactivated blog and any potential body mod tips blogs in the future. Please everyone, take care, stay safe.
Past edit: DONT HARASS any possible blogs like hers, just REPORT and spread awareness, (also don't make the same mistakes as me: TALK TO THEM FIRST)
Past edit: minors please interact with this post, forget my bio for this one
Past edit: editing editing the post since I talked to Red and he isn't bait. I definitely should have talked to them in DMs first. I sincerely apologize. So sorry Red! To those reading, don't make the same mistake as me, ok? Always talk to people privately first, I genuinely fucked up bad. This mistake of assuming others intentions, can traumatize them. If I were in Red's shoes I'd be traumatized. So yeah, I fucked up bad.
Their intentions are genuine but my point still stands that its extremely dangerous and can't qualify as harm-reduction / end edit note
alright, I'm not transid/radqueer but you guys need to REPORT AND WARN OTHERS of these accounts as soon as they appear. Do not entertain them, no matter how desperate you are to transition. You can become a victim of dangerous charlatanism.
LONG POST AHEAD, VERY IMPORTANT NEVERTHELESS
Archive to what i'm about to post
Red claimed to be "a non-professional surgeon, planning on getting better with practice." Bad move!
Red has told me he's pursuing a medical degree and won't actually do non-qualified surgery.
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Red: "The blog is centered around an idea of "extreme" body mods that I would like to explore further, [...] things like breaking and re-mending bones, creating new joints, replacing skin, etc."
My point: the road to hell is paved with good intentions, and your blog was unsafe.
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To any possible counterarguments: "But they (people following/asking advice) know the risks!" That's victim-blaming. Red gave himself the responsibility to give harm-reducing advice, but he didn't do a good job.
"But I know the risks!" You can't possibly know the risks because Red doesn't know either or "kinda knows" but has not properly informed his audience, it didnt give sources, oversimplified their advice and failed to provide accurate information about risk. Or gave plain misinformation.
Again I'm not transid, I can't possibly imagine what you're going through in order to try anything at all to feel better, including trying experimental surgery not legally available or not researched at all. However, please please please do not become a victim of medical deceit or whatever tf it's called. Even if the blog owner tries their best to be reliable.
They might sound confident, but they do not know what they are saying, what they're telling others to do.
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Ask: "How would I make my skin gray without tattoos?" (DO NOT SHAME THIS USER BTW)
Red: "[...] I assume you want permanent grey. To do this, it's pretty simple, although it'll take a lot of time. Basically, what you want to do is to constantly be exposed to lots of silver. Any product with silver in it like specific lotions and skin creams. also fish, milk, mushrooms, and whole grains tend to have silver in them! So tldr, consume lots of silver!"
STOP!!! DONT FOLLOW THIS ADVICE!!! DONT OVER-EXPOSE YOURSELF TO SILVER!!! "Silver toxicity causes argyria. Silver toxicity occurs when too much silver is in your body." <- from a simple research on "too much silver in blood"
THE RESULT WILL BE ARGYRIA. EVEN IF YOU DO IT SLOWLY, YOU ARE BUILDING UP A HEAVY METAL IN YOUR BODY. THE GREY SKIN IS NOT PRETTY NOR WITHOUT GRUESOME SIDE SYMPTOMS.
Yall. Anything in excess will fuck up your body, including iron, vitamins, and silver.
To whoever asked Red, I don't know your mind, but I'm sure you'd love to live a happy life with grey skin! You'd love to have a body you're comfortable with and looks rad as hell! But you wouldn't be able to enjoy it if you're deeply sick with ARGYRIA, WHICH IS WHAT RED'S ADVICE WILL GIVE YOU!
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Ask: "How do I get darker skin without going too dark? I’m pale and burn easily, I just want a color similar to Lin Manuel Miranda" (AGAIN DONT HARASS THIS USER)
Red: [...] "expose yourself to the sun more! As you do this, you'll get tan which will protect you from future burns and make your skin slightly darker, do this enough and you can engineer your skin to be as dark as you want!"
THATS MISINFORMATION! Yes you may tan to get darker (Lin's tone may or may not be achievable to you) but one: it's not permanent unless you're constantly going out; two: SKIN CANCER!!!! DONT OVER-EXPOSE YOURSELF TO THE SUN!!!! USE SUNSCREEN!!
TO ANYONE SEEKING A MUCH DARKER TONE: YOU CAN'T "GO AS DARK AS YOU WANT TO" BY TANNING. Just look at people who have lived their whole lives outdoors like farmers! White people can't tan to black! There's a limit to how tan you may get! Are you seriously gonna risk skin cancer for an impossible thing???
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Red: "Self amputation is really dangerous! You should learn how to use a tourniquet, that way, you can stop the bleeding! [...]" WHERE ARE YOU GETTING YOUR SOURCES, RED?
If anyone reading this is seriously thinking of amputating themselves, and will not change their minds no matter what, please just have someone immediately drive you to the hospital. I do not support such operation and you can still die or get horribly sick even with your best precautions, but you better receive actual medical attention and stay alive rather than trying to heal it yourself. Because what you'll most likely get from following Red's advice is DEATH FROM BLOOD LOSS. Again, if you absolutely cannot get rid of this dysphoria with therapy, or manage it at least, or have a doctor do it for you, I still would NEVER suggest you do it yourself, but IF you end up doing that then at least please go straight to the hospital instead of trying to heal it yourself.
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Red: "do not try and break your own bones to make modifications! [...] Get another person (Like myself) to help you with the bone breakage instead."
NO ONE KNOWS WTF THEY'RE DOING. YOUR FRIEND DOESN'T. RED DOESN'T (as they advertised in the post). NO ONE IS GOING TO GET MODIFICATIONS LIKE THIS. NO ONE IS GOING TO BE HAPPY. EVERYONE IS GOING TO BE EITHER IN PAIN, RISK OF HORRIBLE INJURIES OR TROUBLE WITH THE LAW. FUCKING AROUND = GUARANTEED BOTCHED OPERATION.
Also, now that Red has clarified she won't perform surgery until having an actual degree, you can't really go to her XD
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Red: "Some advice for surgery [...] This one's important, make sure your patient is strapped down and properly sedated, if they move, even slightly, you risk hitting a vital artery or organ, if you do hit an artery, don't panic, this is why you learned how to use a tourniquet! if you hit a vital organ though, odds are you won't know how to fix that, so be extra careful with abdomen and face surgery!"
Thats still promoting medical malpractice, mutilating and potentially killing friends, dangerously downplaying surgery so much, this is not harm-reduction
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Ask: "I want to be blind in one eye, but more-so in the sense of extreme but not total vision loss. I want to do something permanent in the future!" (AGAIN DONT HARASS THIS USER)
Red: Well, a simple fix to your problem is just get some calcium hydroxide in your eye and wash it out a few minutes later, this should lead to permanent, extreme (but not total) vision loss in that eye. Keep it in too long and it can cause total vision loss so be careful!
Ok so, it's great that you're trying to come up with alternative ways for users not to kill themselves by gouging their eyes out, but you've still failed to give them the full picture
From a quick search "calcium hydroxide in the eyes": Exposure to the skin can produce burns, painful irritation and necrosis, and exposure to the eyes may cause severe pain and vision loss that can be temporary or permanent. If calcium hydroxide is exposed to the skin, contaminated clothing should be removed, excess amounts of the chemical should be wiped off and the affected skin should be flushed repeatedly with water. Victims of calcium hydroxide exposure to the eyes should flush their eyes with water continuously for the first 15 minutes, but all cases of external exposure should receive immediate medical care. Inhaling calcium hydroxide through the nose or mouth can also cause immediate, painful and potentially life-threatening complications. Throat and nasal passages may become painful and swollen, and the swelling may restrict airways, making breathing difficult or impossible. If the calcium hydroxide particles are carried all the way to the lungs, this may further complicate breathing. Victims of this type of exposure should be taken immediately to a fresh air environment, and emergency services should be contacted right away. Administration of oxygen and emergency respiratory assistance may be required.
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Red (answering an ask): "the question shouldn't be what DO people replace their skin with, it should be what CAN they, after all, just because it's never been practiced or very rarely practiced doesn't mean it's bad or impossible! Of course, my personal favorite skin substitutes are rubber and red velvet, I am also a big fan of stainless steel."
(Don't promote such an operation). THIS OPERATION IS BAD AND IMPOSSIBLE TO SUCCEED. SKIN CAN ONLY BE REPLACED WITH SKIN. SKIN IS A LIVING ORGAN. ANY OTHER SUBSTITUTE WILL CAUSE YOU TO LOSE BODY PARTS OR DIE.
YOU KNOW HOW PEOPLE WITH TRANSPLANTS NEED LIFE-LONG MEDICAL ATTENTION SO THEIR BODY DOESN'T REJECT IT? HOW TF WILL YOU DO THIS WITH FUCKING RED VELVET?
YOU WILL FUCK UP YOUR BODY'S IMMUNE SYSTEM A THOUSAND DIFFERENT WAYS.
ANYWAYS. CROSSTAGGING FOR REACH. PLEASE EVERYONE REBLOG. THIS IS SERIOUS SHIT.
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arsynnotarson Β· 2 months
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just so you know: there's no hard set rules on how to be something, multiple of something, or nothing of something, and those ,,rules" everyone mentions are made up. you don't have to fall into a category if you don't want to. we are naturally complex. not everything will fit you, so make your own home. that's the beauty of identity.
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0zymandias-king-0f-kings Β· 2 months
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Transharmful and transharmed people are cool.
that’s it. Did you think there’d be more? Nah they just rad as hell.
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clowninguhround Β· 3 months
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Pspspsps I need a good transharmed to sweetly manipulate
I promise I'll only make it as bad as you want me to, you won't even know it's happening unless you want to <3
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doll-queer Β· 3 months
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Transmedicaltrauma
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A transtrauma identity where someone feels they should have been through medical trauma of any kind.
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