#show everyone you're not alone

[padded-daydreams]

Shout out to age regressors who have to filter out a lot of common little stuff due to trauma. Just because it seems like you shouldn't be triggered by something so "harmless" that doesn't erase trauma that may have been associated with it. Childhood defines so many things. If your first experience with something is horrible, no wonder you're going to be upset by that thing. No matter what it is, there's no shame in not wanting to interact with it, and I want you to know that I'm proud of you. You're doing good, and its not your fault. Don't let anyone tell you its silly.

#💚 positivity/affirmations #sfw agere affirmations #sfw agere #sfw agere blog #ageredips #childhood trauma implied #sfw age regression #sfw age dreamer #sfw pet regression #sfw toddlerre #if anyone wants to admit things that upset them in the tags #feel free to do so #show everyone you're not alone #I'll go first with what inspired this post #it is build a bear #had to block the tag #just can't deal with it anymore

[redysetdare]

enough stories about how someone learns to truely be happy through love. i want a story where someone is desperately seeking out love thinking it's the only way to be happy only for them to learn by the end that happiness is what they make of it and they don't need love at all to make it.

#aro #aromantic #ace #asexual #aroace #loveless aro #loveless #non-partnering #nonpartnering #non partnering #nonamorous #aplatonic #enough of amatonormative tropes in media!!! enough 'you're miserable without love' stories!!! #less “you're too focused on ambitions to make you happy that you dont let yourself fall in love” #more “you're too focused on finding love to make you happy that you wont let yourself live” #more “there is so much more to life than love and so much more that can bring your happiness if you just let yourself experience it.” #maybe I should write this story #and when i say love i mean all love. not just romantic love. #which is why i tagged aplatonic too #while i mostly see this trope in terms of romantic love i think there's something to be said about #telling stories where people are perfectly content alone too #it doesn't have to be sad or pathetic to not have friends by choice. they dont have to be a miserable person to not have friends #i think we need more variety in stories where it shows people just content in their lack of love or relationships in all shapes #not everyone wants a family not everyone wants friends not everyone wants a partner not everyone wants love #some of us are content without. that should be explored without the need to fix it.

[laurents-secret-diary]

Can we see any of your drawings you may have had for the side characters please??? 👉👈

I only got a couple so far! I think I'm gonna do Nicaise next

#jokaste #aimeric #captive prince #kings rising #caprisun #can you believe damen fumbled a tall evil goddess? i would end myself #OKAY maybe he didnt “fumble” her. maybe it was the evil goddess part that ended it. but. but the loss is there ok. that shit would plague m #she is obviously sporting my headcanony akielon undercut like damen #but can you imagine going from this tall enchanting queen to. to looking down at a weird blue eyed frog with a stick up his ass #bi rights to damen but jesus christ my man #damen literally became the kinda guy that shows you a photo of his aint shit boyfriend on his iphone 5 while you're getting brunch together #and you have to say oh you two look so nice together. even though you cant believe he's letting that dude hit it. #like bro? you ever been to my garden? because i think you're dating one of my fucking gnomes #now onto aimeric. #he is my. he is my little tormented guy. manipulated to hell and back. abandoned. alone yet soulful and full of promise. #he schemes and pretends and KILLS A BUNCHA PEOPLE...... #FUCKS UP JORD FOR LIFEEEEEEEEEE #AND THEN OLLIE OUTS OF EVERYONES LIVES DUE TO IMMEASURABLE GUILT #AND MAKES SURE TO DELIVER THE FINAL KAMEHAMEHA TO JORD WITH THAT LITTLE MESSAGE???? #who does it like him #iconic. show stopping. mesmerising. he is the moment

[nullbutler]

This is your sign to give Goodbye Volcano High a shot. I know people were jackasses about it, but this irony-poisoning doomer-mindset 4chan brainrot is not allowed to poison my queer dinosaur tragedy coming of age story (with lesbian situationships, and real mental health shit, and the cutest most strikingly complex characters, and an ending that made me sob for 40 minutes uncontrollably)

if that isnt enough BEHOLD

OLD WOMAN LIZARD YURI

#goodbye volcano high #i dont care what those transphobic homophobic assholes have to say #this is one of the best stories with one of the best messages #and its something that i honestly think #if you're feeling alone or unsure about your future or just scared #its such a good comfort show #i know everyone knows they all die at the end #but theres a comfort in the tragedy #a nd i saw so many people i knew in so many of the characters #it was really really good

[eudikot]

Has anyone thought about how maybe after Serizawa leaves Claw to join S&S he doesn't want to live alone (a combination of his years of isolation and living with everyone at Claw) and how maybe Reigen wouldn't mind having a roommate (it would cut his rent and keep him company), so perhaps instead of Serizawa getting his own place they decide moving in together would be more beneficial.

#If this is not an original thought please send me links because I want to see this idea #Or if you decide to make something send it to me as well #This just popped into my head since idk what housing is like over there but here it is a pain to even get an apartment #Like yeah I understand a background check and seeing that you make 2x rent as a household but still #How the heck would an ex terrorist who just got a probably minimum wage job be able to get an apartment himself #Unless Reigen signed on as a guarantor #But at that point it would still make more sense to share a place #Don't mind the fact that it's a single bedroom you see how college dorms work #And then you get your roommates to lovers troupe alongside every other troupe they fall under #Why wait to have them move in together! #Show them slowly getting comfortable together until one day they're sleeping in the same bed #and Reigen wakes up thinking “wait how did this happen” #Or if you're boring just have them be normal roommates. You do you ig #ACTUALLY on this thought what is the Claw housing arrangements #Because we see the facilities and clearly the division leaders and everyone under them lives there #But what about the Super 5?? Do they live alone and get together for meetings like normal people or is it more frat style #Anyways this rambling is longer than my post. But still if you do this let me see it #serizawa katsuya #reigen arataka #serirei #mob psycho 100 #mp100

[craycraybluejay]

Some people have a skewed idea of the difference between self-defense and revenge, and you can immediately tell they've never had to seriously defend themselves from an ongoing threat to their life and livelihood.

#also revenge is valid anyway #but thats not my point #literally its always 'just ignore it' and 'learn to deal' and 'move on' and 'dont fight back' #when someone throws the first punch #right up until someone actually dies #and then its all #'i never couldve seen that coming' #'thats so horrible! i wish someone was there to help them' #'wow that was very unexpected' #as with suicide so the same with abuse and even just general toxicity #everyone turns the other cheek and criticizes 'bad victims' until they are dead #at which point they 'mourn' them and act like it was such a big surprise #bad victims #fight mode forever. either i survive or we both die 👍 #self defense isnt just the classic someone currently is trying to engage me in a gun fight #self defense is not taking any kind of beating sitting down. its showing people that youre not scared to hit back harder #bullying is an easy example. they will not leave you alone if you 'just ignore them' but will try harder to make u kys #but they just might leave you alone if you deck one of them in the face so hard their nose will never look the same again. #sometimes if you're lucky all you have to do is set a precedent-- an example of your no bullshit policy #and you get rid of several potential threats at once. like a group of bullies #other times people aren't so aware of each other so you will have to fight for yourself again #and you WILL have to do it. because the people who should be doing it dor you are closing their eyes and deciding to see nothing #listen. its not enough to go through the motions and hope to survive. you have to be motivated to love yourself enough to protect yourself #there is nothing in the world more freeing than to say 'i deserve better than this' and smash some heads #sometimes metaphorically sometimes literally #you are worth it #you do not deserve to be bullied abused betrayed talked down to etc. #and if someone decides to make you feel lesser than you do it back. they decide to hit you hit back. #obv not always the course of action if theyre a lot stronger than u or have something rly serious over u #but at every real opportunity fight like hell

[smashtheshell]

survived property tax appointment at the jerusalem municipality

#i was going to be like actually u have to register my roommates as resident because they are my roommates you can't say i live here alone #because that's untrue and why should your records show something that is untrue and makes everyone's lives harder #for literally made up reason like so arbitrary that i cannot imagine the kind of brain that would come up with this stuff #and they were like no fuck you you're the only resident and just pay and hope your roommates aren't psychos and will pay you back #after i heard of like 3 different people whose roommates turned out to be psychos and didn't pay them back #it's your landlord's fault for choosing a legitimate standard way to handle his tenants' leases that we hate for no reason #also i only deserve a 40% discount. when my only income is bituach leumi and not even a full stipend. lol #and this is all happening in the city with the highest tax rates in the country

[sleepyorchidmonster]

Genshin Impact 2 will just be the Abyss sibling having to deal with all of the friends we made along the journey.

Everyone is painfully aware of how distressed the Traveler, their friend was, looking everywhere for their sibling, putting their life at risk and only asking for a few posters in return, only for said sibling to be the leader of the Abyss, urging their twin to "finish the journey to understand their reasons for rebelling, because they always had time".

In other words: twins finally reunite only for Abyss sibling to find out we were adopted by Teyvats found family network and they now have to compete with at least 20 older siblings/parents, all very dissapointed with their behavior.

The kids are living their best life with all the plushies you can think of, Childe went on an adoption spree.

#genshin impact #everyone loves the traveler but in a found family vibe #ayato and childe showing up with power point presentations of why leaving your sibling alone in a new world is a bad idea #yes even if you're watching from afar #paimon has some words (and rights) as the group's baby #cloud retainer has already adopted us theres no escape from the crane

[sapphicdessi]

Are the bisexual women in that video calling gay/lesbian people queer?

i'm more concerned they're saying "bi lesbians" are real and telling every lesbian who says to stop that "sexuality is fluid" and that lesbians can like men. they have larped and support larpers. acting like lesbian is someone who hates men but is attracted to them is fucking absurd. shit take after another. it's basically a homophobic lesbian shit talking sesh where they speak over an for lesbians and act like incels too

#I can't stand to watch it all but surely there's more crap homophobic #they act and pm admit lesbians are just sex toys they will never be serious about but get mad when they get rejected :)) #I mean they call everyone queer #and their labels and terms queer #they larped as lesbians and call themselves queer #"are bisexuals queer enough?' aka am I gay enough no bc ur not fucking gay and its so pathetic bc they're so homophobic and only see men as #real partners and many even see het sex as only real or better sex purely for being het or involving a penis #so leave us alone they show how much they hate lesbians prefer men then spend their time shit talking and being homophobic toxic clowns #and how many actually prefer women and see them as first choice and doesn't base their opinion or choice on men or male behaviour? #is it appealing that you're with a woman because men suck? and then they go off to a bare minimum man bc he sucks less than most shit men #low standards for men and high standards for women #always putting men on pedestals or preferring the most privileged life and fitting in with other homophobes #will bi women ever just date bi women or hook up w them and shut the fuck up? then they can both happily go marry a man like they always #planned to! instead of harassing/demonizing lesbians for saying no oppressing us then go heterophobia is real dykes are mean

[ukulelegodparent]

If you know me irl, please move along there is nothing to see here, this post does not exist.

#For real. shush. I don't want you to see this. This information is of no interest to you #go away there's nothing here. shush shush. be on your merry way #so hypothetically. #if you and your flatmate had gotten along better and better over the months they've lived in your flat #and spent more and more time together and had talked constantly and eventually spent almost every night watching a show together #and you caught feelings and confessed them to her and you spent all of one night and one morning in blissful happiness and then they said #that they couldn't do this for a variety of reasons all of which where perfectly fair #so after a few days of back and forth you decide to be just friends and things continue as normal #and then it's christmas and you don't see each other but it's fine I mean it's all gonna be normal again after (you cry every night) #and then you come back and they're kneedeep in depression so it's not back to normal but it's fine #and like you still spend time together etc and then you get very depressed and they help you and talk to you #and then they feel bad again and you start to be bad too but you were still talking #but suddenly like every time you talk they are just either mean or completely disinterested in anything you have to say #but for some reason they are perfectly able to have normal conversations with everyone else in the whole fucking world #and you try to talk to them about it but it doesn't change anything and honestly you've given up talking to them #because every time you talk to them it feels like they don't want you to be there having this conversation with you #and when you're alone you manage to convince yourself that it's just the social anxiety talking but then you go into the kitchen to eat #and they are there making food and you ask them what they're doing tonight and it's like your last straw #and their answers are like not even mean just super short and for two weeks you've just been hoping that maybe they'd just once #come back from uni and fucking ask you how your day was #and like you ate in the kitchen hoping maybe just maybe they'd start just fucking talk to you. just ask you anything. #and you almost cried like 3 times and then you went to your room to cry for real #and now you're considering disinviting them from your birthday party bc honestly being around them having a good time with #seemingly anyone but you is making you depressed as fuck and your anxiety go crazy #theoreticallly. if that were the case. what would you do? #(yes I know the adult thing would be to talk to them) #like they're probably just busy and stressed bc of exams but then why can they have a good time with every other person in the world #this has been the most important person in your life and the person to whom you talk to about absolutely everything for months now btw

[dancedance-resolution]

Hey, are you gonna continue with the fic "the tree of my song stands bare against the blue (i give my songs to the rest, myself to you)"?

hi anon! not to jinx myself, but i think the final chapter is going to drop tomorrow!! :D

#i've been writing this fic since june of 2020 and now finally; over three whole ass calendar years later lol; i'm 99% sure she's getting her #final update tmrw (puppy eyes with tears in them emoji) #this final chapter alone took me a whole ass year solely bc there's a decent sized conflict scene and i hate writing conflict lol #but it's done!!! and all i have to do is tweak some words in a few highlighted paragraphs and then she'll be ready !!!!! #we're looking at just over 5k words so a bit shorter than the other chapters but i really think it's Good #fjsfhsjdf i'm super excited if you can't tell #i've met so many epic humans through this fic and i'm so proud of myself for finally being able to show everyone the ending i imagine for i #ANYWAYS yeah thank you for checking in anon and i hope you're still around to see this!! (i think you sent in this ask months ago lol) #sending love <3 #ddr's ask box #anon

[kirkwallsquad]

ok but reading ons again as an adult with like media comprehension and stuff is very fun but also once again shows me lil things that tend to annoy me abt a lot of shonen hksfjdghksdjhfg

#im not rlly a shonen reader in general it's just not For Me ykyk #but the way everyone's like wow yuu. you're a kind person aren't you. and we have 0 proof of that im cackling #'someone as kind as you couldn't live for revenge alone' well until you show me proof of that... #even when he saved whatshisname the baby boy it wasn't out of the goodness of his heart like everyone kept saying? it was bcs he was told to #anyways! im not saying that makes him awful i actually find it more interesting that he's so morally dubious already #i just wish they'd let him be that instead of trying to convince me he's kind actually #max.txt #owasera

[love-has-a-way-ofgrowingbackward]

i miss back when i was active here and had actual friends who cared for me who i talked regularly to and i was doing well

#now its just studying ten hours for six days a week #eight hours on the seventh day #reserving two for my weekly breakdown #like. #no friends no social media no contact with the outside world except coaching teachers and my stuffed toy #just study eat cry repeat #realised i didnt feel triggered from firecrackers like i normally did and felt kinda good about that for a second #before i realised that its not because i overcame my triggers suddenly its because im dissociating too much to actually feel something #and am actually worse than when i was like thirteen #constantly just *feel* my heart pumping #its not concerningly fast its normal but i cant ignore it #i feel the pressure always like something heavy in my chest #my joints cant take writing more than like four pages and i write six anyways #i cant handle even losing marks at a practice unit test #everyone in my batch has studied this topic months ago and i havent even started and i have to take it without any knowledge with these ppl #god i havent had positive physical contact in four years #i cant even motherfucking cry because there's been relatives in my house for months so the house is never empty #and i cant show emotions or react to triggers infront of them #like GOD if you're gonna make me suffer atleast let me cry it out every once in a while #when will i go to college and live alone #i have fibromyalgia or arthritis or just side effects of mental illness but its SOMETHING and its fucking hurting my joints. so fucking much

[rangespacer]

i'm so excited to start writing out all of my ideas about buzz but genuinely the through line is always going to be that he has something deeply wrong with him ( complimentary ) and i love him for it.

#✩ no sign of intelligent life anywhere! ( ooc ) #|| simply. toy buzz is delusional and even after ts1 whatever's going on in his little plastic head is so. euclidean. #|| show buzz is hilarious he is unhinged he is not as mature as he should be and he fluctuates so hard. #|| like yes he does the driving yes he does the taxes. and then he'll turn around and be enormously petty and unreasonable unprompted. #|| i love it it's so flavorful. #|| movie buzz has severe anxiety and ptsd. #|| i understand ppl who didn't like the movie and even have come around to accepting that maybe it is just another #|| Army Man Learns to Accept Help story. #|| but i will be reading into it it is about the paradoxical ego of selflessness. #|| it is about how guilt can do more harm than good and be counterintuitive to fixing a problem. #|| how it can move you to be self centered even when you're motivated by caring for others. #|| how you need to let go of the idea that you must shoulder the burden of your mistakes alone lest you doom everyone around you. #|| it's not about thinking you're better than others it's about the crushing pressure of never feeling secure in yourself. #|| it's not 'i'll do it because you all suck' it's 'i'll do it because i have to make up for what i did' #|| even when it impacts a community. #|| 'because it was mine' hit so hard.