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gyalcoeur-love · 1 year
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this week was so shit... but i only gave up 2 days but it was really hard... all these consequences are so exhausting
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meshugana1 · 6 years
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Could you do a story for me where a hot college girl wishes for an even hotter figure and sex life, but ends up a gorgeous sexy lady who stays home all day because she has too much fun masturbating to leave her house? And she’s so embarrassed by her new like pervyness that she becomes super shy with other people?
Tess walked through the parks brightly lit knolls and hills on her way to her dark apartment. She didn’t get why she was always alone. She was hot, funny and had a bright personality. Her dates just never seemed to go anywhere and she hardly ever got a second or third one. She really was beautiful. She had slender short legs that lead into a nice pert bottom, a pinched in waist and respectable firm breasts. Her blonde hair framed a loverly face and her wardrobe made her standout particularly well with plenty of exposed flesh.
She noticed a few of her friends had gathered around one of the old fountains that dotted the park. She checked her make up and adjusted her top to maximize her cleavage and walked on over, sexualizing her steps as best she could. “Hey guys. Anybody mention me yet?” She said with a soft chuckle.“Oh hey Tess, I didn’t know your classes had gotten out yet.” Athena said. Tess and Athena had know each other since their room assignment had made them friends in their freshman year. Despite her namesake Athena was a plain looking girl, but in the arena of the mind she did the greek goddess proud.“I decided to blow them off. It was nothing new today anyway. So any fun plans? Are we finally going out clubbing?”“Sorry but we were all going to Adam’s house for an over the weekend study party. You’re welcome to come with.” Tom said. Tom and Athena had been an item for a month now and things seemed stable if a little bland for Tess’s tastes.“Why don’t you come with Tess. I’d love to spend a weekend away with you.” Nora said. Nora was Tess’s biggest obstacle. It wasn’t a secret that Tess played for the other team but she didn’t go around advertising it either. Nora did however and it was almost like she taunted her with flirting and passes that she brushed away as jokes. She was insanely hot too with full tits that cried out for attention and an athletic figure and a subtle tan that made her seem an amazon.“Yeah, maybe later.” Tess was a master at getting in her own way. She also had a bit of a shyness issue. If she were hotter this wouldn’t be a problem.
“Well as you wish then. We best get going before it gets too dark. See ya later.” Athena said, accompanied by ‘goodbyes’ and ‘later’s’ from the group, and one wink from Nora that produced a rosy color on Tess’s cheeks. She sat down on the bench and chided herself for her lack of courage. She looked up at the circular fountain and admired its intricate design. The park was old, built soon after the campus was in 1904. There were over a dozen fountains and each one had stories built around it. It was said that it you kissed your sweetheart near the one in the center you would be forever in love. Another one was supposed to help you pass any test as long as you drank the water from it. If Tess remembered right this one was the traditional ‘wishing’ fountain, toss a quarter in and get a wish but it always came with a terrible and ironic price as wishes normally get you.
Tess reached into her pocket and produced a handful of loose change. “Why the heck not?” she said and tossed all the change into the still water. She clasped her hands and spoke aloud “I wish I had a super sexy body and had a way better sex life.” Nothing seemed to happen, no ‘wish granted’ or pillar of light enveloping her body. Not that she expected much but somehow she always had a sliver of hope that something would happen when she made a wish. Tess returned her hands to her pockets and continued her walk back to the empty dormitory. Along the way however she suddenly felt just a little sick. She raised her hand to her forehead and felt a fever and her stomach was going summersaults.
She just crossed the threshold of her room when she began to feel bloated and off balance. She took off her coat and tried to remove her thin tank top but found it stuck in place. She quickly realized why as she saw her modest chest had grown in size! She had a respectable pair of C’s but now they were passing the double D range. She stood shocked at what was happening. She hadn’t eaten anything and didn’t have any allergies she knew about that could do this. She was snapped out of her contemplating by the straps of her top digging into her shoulders, and a similar sensation in her pants. She quickly mover to the kitchen and grabbed a pair of scissors and cut the offending straps, but her melons had grow too large and were now being crushed inside the small piece of clothing.
Her ass felt like it was also being crushed inside her jeans but before she could move her scissors to free her new flesh  her clothing had lost its battle with Tess’s expanding ass and seems popped and stitching tore, ruining her expensive designer pants. She hardly cared though as all the felt was a sense of relief at the absence of crushing pressure on her ass. Her breasts were still in peril though and she without a thought began cutting down the center of her abused top. The cut wasn’t even halfway when the fabric finally gave way and split apart, sending Tess’s new tit flesh spilling out in front of her. Tess stared in awe at her breasts, they were larger than any natural pair she’d ever seen.
She had no time to enjoy them though as more pain filled her body. She fell onto the floor and rolled onto her back. She looked between her cavernous cleavage and saw that her legs were growing longer and her thighs thicker. Her tummy, which had just a slight bit of fat from the holidays had flattened and become taught and smooth. Her hair, which she kept ironed and straight, had become curly and wild and a vibrant shade of autumn red. Her neck became delicate and swanlike and her face though pretty before had shifted into a sultry and deeply beautiful image and was dotted with faint freckles. Her eyes had shifted into a sea green and suddenly all the pain and discomfort stopped.
Tess gingerly stood on her new shaky legs. After finding her new balance she walked to her closet mirror and inspected the damage. She was stunned by the image that greeted her. The woman in the mirror was over six feet tall and had breasts that put any stripper to shame, Tess reached up with her hand to probe one and was rewarded with an intense sensation coming from her pussy. She couldn’t help her other hand as it explored her other boob and felt her orgasm building immediately. She had no idea breasts this large could be that sensitive, or was it just her? She gave it no more thought as she continued to fondle her big boobies nearing more and more to an explosive orgasm.
One of her hands left her breasts and dived straight into her waiting, overheated pussy and she was instantly at the threshold of a brutal orgasm. She did her best to control the momentum and make this incredible feeling last and she was quite successful. She used whatever objects she could find in her dorm to pleasure herself and jilled herself off for literal hours until finally she allowed the orgasm to roll over her body and send her to heights of pleasure she had never even imagined.
The all night session was so intense that she remained motionless, just letting the remnant of her orgasm ripple though her body for hours. It was past lunchtime when she finally stood up and tried to find clothes that would fit her new sexy body. She dug into her closet, at first finding nothing, then she happened upon an old halloween costume she once wore. It was a habit for a nun, she just thought it would be funny, but now the outfit just slack enough to make a wearable outfit. She slipped it on and took a moment to appreciate the irony of her incredibly sexy new body in an outfit created for modesty. Her breasts tented outwards and left little to the imagination, her ass did the same and the dress ended just below her knees. Man, she thought, Nora would love this. Then it hit her. She was a super sexy dynamo now! She could easily seduce the pants off Nora. She immediately hit the streets and began the walk to Adam’s place.
At first the walk was like any other, but then Tess began to notice the stares she was drawing to herself. She initially chalked it up to her sexiness but then another thought creeped into her mind. Did they know? Could then somehow tell she spent the whole night masturbating? She didn’t know how the could but the thought just wouldn’t go away. Everybody was staring at her and it was starting to embarrass her. How could she have done that? It was such a pervy thing to do, she even used her roommates pillow to help jill herself off. Oh god people can totally tell.
She did her best to remain inconspicuous as she approached her friends home. She knocked on the door and looked behind her to make sure no one was staring. Adam opened the door and was in awe of the incredibly sexy woman before him. “Whoa! Who are you?” He asked. Tess remembered that she looked totally different and did her best to scramble up a cover story.“I…I…I’m…uh, HimynameisTeresaI’mTess’sfriendcanIstudywithyouguys?” She said all in one burst. Her face as red as her hair.“Um…sure?” Adam said, growing more confused at this woman by the second. Tess let out a deep sigh of relief, so happy to be back with her friends. As the two walked back in Adam introduced her as Teresa and everyone said hello, except for Tess who had clammed up at the sight of so many people. She weakly waved and took a seat at the very end of the large couch trying to will her tall body into a smaller shape. She didn’t make a peep for hours, to nervous to talk to her former friends afraid they might ask what she did last night.
It was Nora who finally got a word out of the shy sexpot. She sat about three feet away from Tess, extremely too close for the nervous girls comfort. She said nothing she reached over and patted Tess’s thigh just above the knee, not in a sexual manner but more as an assurance of friendship. This was far too much for the new Tess and she stood stock straight and said “ThanksforhelpingmeIgottagobye!” and quickly stepped out and ran back to her dorm. She slammed the door and immediately began another masturbation session crying out “She touched me! Nora Touched me!” This would last well into the night, and come the next day Athena entered her dorm room and was immediately greeted with the smell of sex and found Tess on her bed, still in the throws of orgasmic bliss.
The end. Be careful what you wish for!
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biofunmy · 5 years
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Can Your Personal Choices Curb Climate Change? Not Even Scientists Agree.
Kim Cobb traveled to the Kiritimati coral reefs in the spring of 2016 and found, to her horror, an underwater graveyard.
A climate scientist at the Georgia Institute of Technology, Cobb was alarmed to see this precious research site in the Pacific Ocean in such visible distress. The reefs were mostly dead after months of being in abnormally warm ocean waters.
Then that fall Donald Trump was elected president, dashing Cobb’s hopes of the US implementing the environmental rules needed to prevent a warmer world. “It became clear after the election not only was that hope misplaced, but it was actually never going to be enough,” Cobb told BuzzFeed News.
And so, she underwent a “wholesale reorganization” of her life, she said, including biking to work, rarely flying, going vegetarian, investing in expensive residential rooftop solar panels, and getting involved in her community’s new transportation plans.
A growing number of scientists and activists are, like Cobb, taking dramatic personal steps to decrease their personal carbon footprint. But stopping the activities that make a real difference — flying, driving, eating meat, and having children — is for most people a big sacrifice, and even climate experts disagree about whether they have a moral imperative to do so.
The camp that’s going all out includes a 400-person Facebook group called #BirthStrike, formed in December 2018, for people who have decided “not to bear children due to the severity of the ecological crisis.” And hundreds of climate scientists have vowed to scale back on flying.
“I think it’s a good thing for climate messengers to ‘walk the talk,’” said Peter Kalmus, an associate project scientist at the University of California, Los Angeles, who has stopped flying altogether and created the website No Fly Climate Sci for others to publicly share why they are flying less. “It makes the message much more effective.”
Other scientists point out, though, that without strict laws to curb carbon emissions, no individual’s choices matter all that much. For them, the most important action is political — to try to change the direction of national and global policies.
If everyone who already cared about climate change “reduced their carbon emissions to zero, it doesn’t actually change very much,” said Gavin Schmidt, director of the NASA Goddard Institute for Space Studies. Making your home energy efficient is nothing compared to laws that would require all buildings to be greener. Buying solar panels for your roof doesn’t pack the same climate punch as electric companies relying more on solar farms, and less on coal plants, to feed the grid.
“Agitating and voting and writing letters and op-eds,” Schmidt said, “make far more sense” for promoting systemic change.
Many people who care about climate change are wrestling with what, if anything, they can do about it. Although many of the most popular consumer choices, from ditching plastic straws to using an electric vehicle instead of a gas-guzzler, have some environmental benefits — they don’t put a dent in global emissions. Meanwhile, carbon pollution is approaching frightening levels: According to an influential report published in October, the world could experience dangerous warming as early as 2030 if we don’t rapidly cut emissions.
And yet, President Trump has reversed course on a lot of US climate policies. His administration has repealed the Clean Power Plan designed to curb pollution from coal plants, gutted stricter climate standards for cars and trucks and, just this month, signed executive orders aimed to streamline the development of new fossil fuel projects. Trump also pledged to withdraw the US from the Paris climate agreement, slowing momentum for global action.
The one-two punch of witnessing coral reef carnage and then seeing Trump get elected sent Cobb spiraling into depression. She decided to try engaging with climate action on a personal level, focusing on changing things within her control, such as how she got to work and what she ate, and found a new sense of hope and energy along the way. “It became a daily part of my self-care,” Cobb said.
But talking about her transformation on social media sparked a backlash. “I brought the haters out,” Cobb said.
She has been accused of virtue signaling, and touting a lifestyle that some say is only attainable for the rich. Cobb said she’s not out to shame or judge anyone — instead, she’s trying to show that living a climate-friendly life doesn’t have to be a sacrifice.
As scientists have debated these issues, outsiders have piled on. Climate skeptics have repeatedly called out scientists and activists for their carbon-intensive lives.
For these people, Schmidt of NASA has no patience. “People who use the personal choices of climate scientists as some kind of excuse for not understanding science or refusing to accept science, those are not good-faith arguments, and we shouldn’t really entertain them,” Schmidt said.
Peter Kalmus’s journey down the path of a carbon-limited life started years before Trump’s presidency, back in 2006. He was a graduate student in astrophysics at Columbia University at the time, and a new father. One of the department’s weekly talks featured then-NASA climate scientist James Hansen, and his presentation had Kalmus on the edge of his seat. In the years since, he switched careers to focus on climate change, cut meat from his diet, and gave up flying. He shares his passion with his two sons, 10 and 12, who regularly strike before school on Friday to spread awareness about climate change.
Similar to Cobb, upending his lifestyle was a way for him to find meaning and hope in the face of a terrifying future.
“I’m basically freaking out about carbon emissions,” he said. “If I feel like, This is so urgent and I can’t even reduce, I would probably feel pretty hopeless.”
And more than many of his peers, Kalmus sees individual action as instrumental in bringing about larger change. “You can’t have systematic change unless a whole bunch of individuals are essentially voting for it and voting for it with their actions,” he said.
T. Jane Zelikova, an ecologist at the University of Wyoming, said she’s struggled with what to do. ”Climate change is a collective problem,” Zelikova said. “I think putting the onus of climate change solutions on climate scientists — it doesn’t seem fair. But I also realize we have to lead by example.”
Schmidt is fine with people changing their lives because it’s fulfilling. But he doesn’t want the public to get the impression that the only way to save the planet is by abstaining from certain products or not traveling. “I don’t think that is where we want to end up,” Schmidt said.
His philosophy is: “Individual actions are not really the solution, but there’s no reason that you should unnecessarily pollute the atmosphere.”
Neither Schmidt nor Zelikova have given up flying entirely, but they have tried to cut back by combining trips or using virtual conferencing software. Schmidt became a vegetarian, driven both by animal welfare and climate concerns, and Zelikova aims to only buy meat from ranchers with sustainable grazing practices.
Zelikova said she is “really lucky” to have a good-paying job and live in a place that makes such choices possible.
Zelikova has also mulled one of the biggest decisions of all: whether to have kids. Adding to the more common concerns, such as financial security, Zelikova told BuzzFeed News that, in the wake of increasingly catastrophic predictions from climate models, she and her partner have talked about “whether it’s responsible to bring new kids into the world or whether we should adopt.” They haven’t decided yet.
The top actions you can take to cut your own emissions, in order of impact, include having one fewer child (equaling, for someone in a rich country, an estimated 58.6 tons of carbon dioxide equivalent per year), living car-free (about 2.4 tons per year), avoiding air travel (about 1.6 tons per round-trip transatlantic flight), and eating a plant-based diet (roughly 0.8 tons per year), according to a 2017 study in the journal Environment Research Letters.
The study authors also looked at what recommendations were being shared in textbooks, government material, and other sources. They found the biggest actions, mentioned above, were often omitted, whereas moderate- and low-impact choices — like recycling, buying energy-efficient products, and taking public transportation — were featured. For example, the Environmental Protection Agency’s “What You Can Do” website includes a “green vehicle guide” and “fuel economy guide” but doesn’t suggest ditching cars altogether.
Climate scientist Katharine Hayhoe of Texas Tech University regularly engages with the public about climate change. She gave a TED Talk and created a YouTube series. Over and over again, she’s been asked the same question: What can I do about climate change?
This has led her down a multiyear journey of experimentation, giving up certain things and seeing how it felt. Over the past decade, she’s invested in solar panels for her home, bought an electric vehicle, and switched from a dryer to a drying rack. Increasingly, she’s been giving virtual talks to cut down on travel.
Hayhoe’s biggest climate impact, she said, is not cutting her own emissions or serving as a model for others on this front. It’s simply talking to as many people as possible about the perils of climate change.
“The most important thing I’ve done is restructure my life to tell as many people in as efficient and effective ways as I can,” Hayhoe said. “It is real. It is us. It is serious and there are solutions if we act now.” ●
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How To Survive Your First Year(s) As A Trader – 9 tips
I won’t sugarcoat it because from own experiences I know very well that trading is hard and challenging. No wonder that the analysis of brokerage data confirmed that 40% of traders quit after 1 month and only 7% are still active after 5 years.1
But why is it so hard and what makes traders struggle so much? The reason why so many traders give up too early and don’t see the results they are looking for can be boiled down to 9 principles. The following points will help you understand what it takes to survive your first year(s) as a trader and also how to pave the way for a great trading future.
 #1 Expectations
The first question traders always ask is “How long does it take to turn $1000 into $1.000.000” and this is a very wrong question to ask when starting out. Yes, it is possible to make a lot of money but it is much more likely that you will lose (several) trading accounts before that. Thus, you should ask yourself: “how can I not lose all my money?”
Although it does not sound good and it might be a downer for some of you, it is important to realize that you won’t make a lot any money in your first year as a trader. If you can trade around break-even and not lose any money, you are already better than 99% of all traders and are off to a great start.
Having wrong expectations often causes traders to quit early because when reality catches up and when your high expectations are not met, it can create frustration and anger. Accept that you won’t make a living off of your trading for the next few years and focus on the process. The money will follow.
When starting out, you have to focus on not losing all your money so that you can keep trading and learning.
  #2 What to focus on
If you are not going to make any money, what are you going to do that first year?! The first steps of a trader consist of getting familiar with the market and the market dynamics. You should look for a decent mentor (more on that later) and start studying as much as you can.
Then, you should pick ONE method or approach and start putting all your focus on learning that one approach. Over the course of your trading career you will most likely go through several systems and try out different things, which is normal, but you should stay away from frequent “system hopping” and changing your approach every month.
“The jack of all trades and the master of none” is what typically happens to most traders. Don’t become one of them.
It’s important to develop the right mindset and stay away from gambling and the get-rich-quick promises.
 Every time you change your trading system, you have to start all over again.
#3 Understand losses
A huge issue many traders deal with on a daily basis is that they interpret losing trades completely wrong. First of all, you MUST understand that losses are just as normal as winning and that no matter how good you are, losing trades will never go away.
Second, you have to distinguish between “normal” losing trades and “dumb” losses. Normal losses are the ones where you did everything right, you followed the plan and executed the system. A loss, then, is nothing to worry about and the market just did not agree with your idea. Move on and brush it off.
A dumb loss, on the other hand, is a loss where YOU screwed up. A trader who believes that he is in a losing streak but all his losses are dumb losses is actually not experiencing a losing streak, but he is just trading poorly. Many traders believe that their system is “not” working, but upon closer inspection, you will usually find that their system is totally fine – it’s just them screwing up.
 #4 When is it too late to become a trader?
Many people are always in a hurry and they wonder if they are too old to become traders. Just as with expectations, if you approach trading from such a point of view, it will negatively impact your trading habits.
You will rush into trades, not learn the craft the right way, always feel that you must be in a trade and take too much risk.
But when is it too late to start trading? I discussed this topic in a recent podcast:
#5 Learn about your tools
We have briefly touched on system hopping and it’s important to avoid this terrible behavior and mindset. You should AT LEAST give your trading method 6 – 9 months before you start changing it completely.
Also, really try to understand the tools you are using. Most traders use indicators or trading methods and don’t fully understand what they are doing. If you want to become a professional, profitable, full-time trader, you have to learn your craft and stay away from the signal hunting and get rich quick mentality. If you ever find yourself using tools and indicators and you do not fully understand what they are doing, you have to step back and do your homework.
We always stress that you have to become an expert in your field. This means, pick your one trading approach and try to learn as much as you can about it. The top performers in any field are always the ones who have mastered one specific set of skills and did not spread themselves too thin.
 #6 Finding a mentor
Mentors are great, but they can also be the complete opposite. There are a lot of charlatans out there which make promises about the easy and fast money. Claims about doubling your account year after year, trading 2 hours per day and making “a killing” or other too-good-to-be-true claims are always that – simply not true.
What do you need a mentor for?
Almost all profitable traders trade a system they have somehow developed themselves – at least to some degree. A trading system is something very personal and it has to fit your personality and your character. Thus, do not look for a mentor who promises the “best returns”, but someone who can teach you about trading in general. Someone who builds your mindset, talks about trading psychology, the long-term concept of trading, helps you avoid common problems and prepares you for your journey.
Don’t confuse a mentor for a signal provider or just someone you buy a system from, but a person you can reach out to and who actively helps you become a better trader.
Furthermore, joining a group of like-minded traders is also very important. Stay away from twitter or random forums where everyone has a different approach and just throws around ideas. This will just create confusion and frustration. We also offer a forum for our own students where everyone trades a similar way and our discussion is targeted around one trading approach. This creates consistency and eliminates all the noise.
Join here: Tradeciety Forex & Futures membership
 #7 How to improve
Do you remember your last 10 trades? Do you know which mistake has caused you the biggest losses? Do you know which setup performs best and if you manage your trades correctly? Do you leave money on the table by inefficiently exiting trades?
If you answer these questions with no or I don’t know, then you MUST get a trading journal.
A trading journal is a tool where you record your past trades and then get meaningful results from it. How can traders expect to improve and become better if they have no way of reviewing what has happened to them?
Any trading book and every professional trader will tell you that a journal is the one must-have tool every trader should have.
More: Why trading journal
 #8 You know what to do
In any situation we usually all know what we should be doing. In theory, we know how to get a sixpack, be healthier, have better relationships with the people around us, get better grades and be a better employee. But just look around you and you quickly notice that knowing what to do and actually doing those things are very different.
If you want to be successful in any field, you have to start doing more of the things that you KNOW you should be doing. Usually, those things aren’t “fun” and it takes discipline to do them. Like journaling all your trades, reviewing trading performance, backtesting your ideas,  staying out of trades when no signal is there etc.
But we all know that those are the things that will make you better. You won’t become a better trader by just staring at charts all day long. To get going, I recommend scheduling 30 minutes per day to do some tasks that you know will make a difference but you always put them off. You will create momentum and see that it is not that bad.
#9 Demo trading?
Demo trading has its place and is certainly recommended for new traders. Spending your first few months on demo and/or a backtesting software is necessary to familiarize yourself with the way the trading mechanics and market dynamics work.
Staying too long on demo, though, can have a negative effect. Demo trading eliminates the emotional aspect of trading and it does not teach you how to handle the real money pressure. Setting up a small (SMALL!) live trading account and getting your feet wet is a great way to practice. Just be careful that you don’t start gambling when your trading account is too small.
 It is very obvious what your first steps should be
Your first steps as a trader should always be protection, protection, protection. How to protect your account and thinking about how you can lose less instead of winning more should always be your first priority. Most new traders already think about where they want to be in 5 or 10 years and completely forget that they won’t get there if they are not laying a solid foundation NOW.
Staying in the game long enough to make it is the real challenge for newer traders. Burning through account after account will also cost you heaps of emotional capital and eventually you will simply give up.
    References:
1Barber, Lee, Odean (2010): Do Day Traders Rationally Learn About Their Ability?
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5 Research-Based Actions to Improve Your Content Marketing
Editor’s note: Because understanding what your fellow marketers are doing and what’s happening in successful content marketing programs is critical to success, Lisa Murton Beets has updated her 2017 article.
A little over halfway through 2018, you may be looking for insights on how to maximize your content marketing efforts. Or, maybe you need some great stats to help you build your business case for content marketing.
Take stock of what CMI’s annual research with MarketingProfs revealed about the state of B2B content marketing in 2018 – and what you can do to focus your efforts for the best return. (And stay tuned for new research results this fall.)
1. Focus on building an audience
Across every vertical examined, the research shows a year-over-year increase in the percentage of marketers who agree their organization is focused on building an audience regardless of their overall level of content marketing success.
And that’s good news, considering the consent-based marketing approach now required by GDPR and other consumer privacy legislation. As Robert Rose recently wrote:
Data given, rather than scraped or gathered unwillingly, is simply more valuable as a marketing asset … Then it stands to reason that providing valuable content-driven experiences where the data is given willingly, trustingly, and actively is the way to not only comply but to thrive in this new business environment. Right?
CMI has preached this message for years. People who sign up to receive your content are people with whom you’ve been given an opportunity to build a relationship.
People who sign up to receive your content give you the opportunity to build a relationship, says @LisaBeets. Click To Tweet
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How you can use this insight
Audience development is a key goal for content marketing. Check how your numbers look versus one year ago. Can you tie subscriber growth directly to individual content marketing initiatives? Do you have solid audience personas so you target the right people? (CMI offers a lot of great information on buyer personas; check out Robert’s recent post for new thinking and recommendations around this topic.)
Of course, the quality of your subscriber list is as important as the quantity. Read this post for considerations on why the occasional purging of your list may be helpful.
The quality of your subscriber list is as important as the quantity, says @LisaBeets. Click To Tweet
Finally, evaluate how your audience is nurtured once they subscribe to your content. Although the buyer’s journey is never linear, ensure that your subscribers are receiving a good mix of steady content.
One of the primary ways to nurture audiences is via email, delivered at a frequency rate that won’t overwhelm the recipients. See Jodi Harris’ tips for evaluating the frequency and content of your emails. And make sure you study the valuable lessons the GDPR panic taught about how to communicate with your audience.
2. Get better at content creation to boost overall success
Respondents to our eighth annual content marketing survey cited “content creation” (e.g., higher quality, more efficient) as the biggest contributor to increased content marketing success over the previous year. The No. 2 success factor was content marketing strategy (developing or adjusting).
How you can use this insight
Assess the health of your content planning and creation machine. Are ideas flowing and captured? If you’re stuck, check out these ideas for breaking a creative slump.
Are topics organized in an editorial calendar? If you need to push yours further than a basic spreadsheet, look for ideas here. Do you have enough resources (talent and budget)?
For a broader picture of how to create well-written content and take your content creation to greater levels of success, check out this comprehensive article on road maps.
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3. Streamline your workflow
The other part of improving content creation is developing more efficient content production. In most cases, you can improve efficiency by using sensible work processes. In fact, one of the key differences our research found between top-performing content marketers and their less successful peers is that top performers have a better handle on their workflow (70% of the top-performing B2B marketers rated their flow as excellent or very good, compared with 36% of the total sample, and 14% of the least successful).
Top performing content marketers have a better handle on their workflow, says @LisaBeets. #research Click To Tweet
How you can use this insight
If you’re challenged with content-creation bottlenecks, face the workflow issues head on. I love the tips discussed in this roundtable because the participants share real-life stories on how they improved the processes within their organizations.
If you’re among the marketers whose projects flow well, congratulations. If you aren’t there yet, document the process; it will be valuable to share when new team members and/or freelancers come into the fold.
However, as with most other processes, workflow processes may change rapidly based on shifting priorities and goals. Check out this article by Andrea Fryrear on how to use the principles of Agile marketing to respond quickly.
4. Set realistic expectations about what content marketing can achieve
The good news: Our 2018 research showed higher percentages of marketers agreeing their organization has realistic expectations about what content marketing can achieve compared with the previous year.
But what do realistic expectations look and feel like within organizations? Like so many other things, it depends. For a taste of what one startup achieved during its first two years, check out this inspiring article about Quartz, an online news company.
Your results will vary, based on your goals, resources, industry, and other factors, so walk through the steps outlined here before you get started.
How you can use this insight
Ask if your goals are realistic based on factors such as the size of your organization, its overall goals, management commitment, the nature of your industry and audience, total addressable market, competitive landscape, and available resources.
Undertake this reflection whether you recently started a content marketing project or you’re looking to refresh an existing program. If you’re in the process of overhauling your content marketing, think about what you’re changing and why. Then, read this recent article for tips on explaining your content marketing project to the rest of your company in terms they understand.
(As a side note, the CMI team would love to hear stories from marketers whose organizations have realistic expectations. Are those based on what you’ve learned from past experiences or something else? Please include in the comments or reach me through my contact information in my bio below.)
5. Make a commitment to content marketing and stick with it
Year after year, CMI research reveals that commitment is one of the most important indicators of content marketing success.
Any actions you take based on the insights here won’t get you far if your organization doesn’t have a strong commitment to content marketing.
Each success with content marketing builds upon the next. If you’re operating with a campaign-like or one-off mentality or “trying” content marketing to see how it goes – and you aren’t committed over the long haul – you won’t get long-term results.
If you aren’t committed to #contentmarketing over the long haul, you won’t get long-term results. @LisaBeets Click To Tweet
How you can use this insight
If your organization has a solid commitment to content marketing, great. Keep the momentum going by keeping your company updated with success stories, reports on new things you’re trying (and why), and metrics demonstrating results toward your content marketing goals (be cautious when you use vanity metrics, as you’ll want to show impact versus effort).
Metrics that clearly demonstrate positive impact or results get the attention of upper management and should strengthen or solidify their commitment to content marketing. For tips on how to measure and monitor your content’s performance, see this article by Jodi. To explore a new model for calculating the value of a subscriber, this article by Robert is a must-read.
If commitment isn’t strong in your organization, ask why. Who can you talk with to change this? Check out our updated guide on how to get buy-in for content marketing.
What’s ahead for content marketers? We will begin revealing the findings of the 2019 content marketing survey at Content Marketing World in September. Register today to attend and be among the first to hear the results. Use code BLOG100 to save $100.
To make sure you get the results of the latest research on content marketing in B2B, B2C, tech, manufacturing, and other segments, please subscribe to receive our email updates.
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5 Research-Based Actions to Improve Your Content Marketing
Editor’s note: Because understanding what your fellow marketers are doing and what’s happening in successful content marketing programs is critical to success, Lisa Murton Beets has updated her 2017 article.
A little over halfway through 2018, you may be looking for insights on how to maximize your content marketing efforts. Or, maybe you need some great stats to help you build your business case for content marketing.
Take stock of what CMI’s annual research with MarketingProfs revealed about the state of B2B content marketing in 2018 – and what you can do to focus your efforts for the best return. (And stay tuned for new research results this fall.)
1. Focus on building an audience
Across every vertical examined, the research shows a year-over-year increase in the percentage of marketers who agree their organization is focused on building an audience regardless of their overall level of content marketing success.
And that’s good news, considering the consent-based marketing approach now required by GDPR and other consumer privacy legislation. As Robert Rose recently wrote:
Data given, rather than scraped or gathered unwillingly, is simply more valuable as a marketing asset … Then it stands to reason that providing valuable content-driven experiences where the data is given willingly, trustingly, and actively is the way to not only comply but to thrive in this new business environment. Right?
CMI has preached this message for years. People who sign up to receive your content are people with whom you’ve been given an opportunity to build a relationship.
People who sign up to receive your content give you the opportunity to build a relationship, says @LisaBeets. Click To Tweet
Handpicked Related Content:
B2C Content Marketing: 2018 Benchmarks, Budgets and Trends — North America
Manufacturing Content Marketing 2018: Benchmarks, Budgets, and Trends — North America
Technology Content Marketing 2018: Benchmarks, Budgets, and Trends — North America
How you can use this insight
Audience development is a key goal for content marketing. Check how your numbers look versus one year ago. Can you tie subscriber growth directly to individual content marketing initiatives? Do you have solid audience personas so you target the right people? (CMI offers a lot of great information on buyer personas; check out Robert’s recent post for new thinking and recommendations around this topic.)
Of course, the quality of your subscriber list is as important as the quantity. Read this post for considerations on why the occasional purging of your list may be helpful.
The quality of your subscriber list is as important as the quantity, says @LisaBeets. Click To Tweet
Finally, evaluate how your audience is nurtured once they subscribe to your content. Although the buyer’s journey is never linear, ensure that your subscribers are receiving a good mix of steady content.
One of the primary ways to nurture audiences is via email, delivered at a frequency rate that won’t overwhelm the recipients. See Jodi Harris’ tips for evaluating the frequency and content of your emails. And make sure you study the valuable lessons the GDPR panic taught about how to communicate with your audience.
2. Get better at content creation to boost overall success
Respondents to our eighth annual content marketing survey cited “content creation” (e.g., higher quality, more efficient) as the biggest contributor to increased content marketing success over the previous year. The No. 2 success factor was content marketing strategy (developing or adjusting).
How you can use this insight
Assess the health of your content planning and creation machine. Are ideas flowing and captured? If you’re stuck, check out these ideas for breaking a creative slump.
Are topics organized in an editorial calendar? If you need to push yours further than a basic spreadsheet, look for ideas here. Do you have enough resources (talent and budget)?
For a broader picture of how to create well-written content and take your content creation to greater levels of success, check out this comprehensive article on road maps.
Handpicked Related Content:
The One Thing Killing Your Most Creative Content Ideas (and How to Stop It)
5 Sources to Inspire Unlimited Content Ideas
3. Streamline your workflow
The other part of improving content creation is developing more efficient content production. In most cases, you can improve efficiency by using sensible work processes. In fact, one of the key differences our research found between top-performing content marketers and their less successful peers is that top performers have a better handle on their workflow (70% of the top-performing B2B marketers rated their flow as excellent or very good, compared with 36% of the total sample, and 14% of the least successful).
Top performing content marketers have a better handle on their workflow, says @LisaBeets. #research Click To Tweet
How you can use this insight
If you’re challenged with content-creation bottlenecks, face the workflow issues head on. I love the tips discussed in this roundtable because the participants share real-life stories on how they improved the processes within their organizations.
If you’re among the marketers whose projects flow well, congratulations. If you aren’t there yet, document the process; it will be valuable to share when new team members and/or freelancers come into the fold.
However, as with most other processes, workflow processes may change rapidly based on shifting priorities and goals. Check out this article by Andrea Fryrear on how to use the principles of Agile marketing to respond quickly.
4. Set realistic expectations about what content marketing can achieve
The good news: Our 2018 research showed higher percentages of marketers agreeing their organization has realistic expectations about what content marketing can achieve compared with the previous year.
But what do realistic expectations look and feel like within organizations? Like so many other things, it depends. For a taste of what one startup achieved during its first two years, check out this inspiring article about Quartz, an online news company.
Your results will vary, based on your goals, resources, industry, and other factors, so walk through the steps outlined here before you get started.
How you can use this insight
Ask if your goals are realistic based on factors such as the size of your organization, its overall goals, management commitment, the nature of your industry and audience, total addressable market, competitive landscape, and available resources.
Undertake this reflection whether you recently started a content marketing project or you’re looking to refresh an existing program. If you’re in the process of overhauling your content marketing, think about what you’re changing and why. Then, read this recent article for tips on explaining your content marketing project to the rest of your company in terms they understand.
(As a side note, the CMI team would love to hear stories from marketers whose organizations have realistic expectations. Are those based on what you’ve learned from past experiences or something else? Please include in the comments or reach me through my contact information in my bio below.)
5. Make a commitment to content marketing and stick with it
Year after year, CMI research reveals that commitment is one of the most important indicators of content marketing success.
Any actions you take based on the insights here won’t get you far if your organization doesn’t have a strong commitment to content marketing.
Each success with content marketing builds upon the next. If you’re operating with a campaign-like or one-off mentality or “trying” content marketing to see how it goes – and you aren’t committed over the long haul – you won’t get long-term results.
If you aren’t committed to #contentmarketing over the long haul, you won’t get long-term results. @LisaBeets Click To Tweet
How you can use this insight
If your organization has a solid commitment to content marketing, great. Keep the momentum going by keeping your company updated with success stories, reports on new things you’re trying (and why), and metrics demonstrating results toward your content marketing goals (be cautious when you use vanity metrics, as you’ll want to show impact versus effort).
Metrics that clearly demonstrate positive impact or results get the attention of upper management and should strengthen or solidify their commitment to content marketing. For tips on how to measure and monitor your content’s performance, see this article by Jodi. To explore a new model for calculating the value of a subscriber, this article by Robert is a must-read.
If commitment isn’t strong in your organization, ask why. Who can you talk with to change this? Check out our updated guide on how to get buy-in for content marketing.
What’s ahead for content marketers? We will begin revealing the findings of the 2019 content marketing survey at Content Marketing World in September. Register today to attend and be among the first to hear the results. Use code BLOG100 to save $100.
To make sure you get the results of the latest research on content marketing in B2B, B2C, tech, manufacturing, and other segments, please subscribe to receive our email updates.
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What Causes Slow Post-Workout Recovery—and What Can You Do About It?
One of the biggest mistakes I see among people who exercise is they forget this core truth: we get fitter not from training, but from recovering from training. This doesn’t just occur in beginners either. Some of the most experienced, hardest-charging athletes I know fail to heed the importance of recovery. Hell, the reason my endurance training destroyed my life and inadvertently set the stage for creation of the Primal Blueprint was that I didn’t grasp the concept of recovery. I just piled on the miles, thinking the more the merrier.
It didn’t work.
What is recovery, anyway?
There’s short-term recovery. Your heart rate slows back down, your body temperature drops, your sweat dries, your muscles and lungs stop burning.
Long-term recovery is less conspicuous, more internal. You replace lost energy stores, repair damaged muscle, clear out waste products, and begin the process of adaptation to the training.
When both short- and long-term recovery happen together, you “feel ready” to go again.
Some portion of how quickly we recover from training is out of our direct control.
Genetics is one factor we can’t control. Researchers have found genetic variants of collagen-encoding genes that increase or decrease the rate at which we recover from exercise-induced muscle damage, muscle tissue genes that increase resistance to exercise-induced muscle soreness, immune genes that affect the speed of adaptation to training. But even many genetic variants purported to affect recovery act through decisions carriers make. A carrier of a genetic variant linked to muscle power experienced more muscle damage and required more recovery after a soccer match, but only because that carrier “performed more speed and power actions during the game.”
Age is another factor out of our direct control. Sure, living, eating, and training right can stave off many of the worst effects of aging. Sure, a sedentary 70-year-old will recover from a workout far more slowly (if he or she can be cajoled into training) than a 70-year-old master athlete. But time does tick on. Following training that fatigues but doesn’t damage the muscles, like easy cycling, light weight training, or a sub-aerobic threshold jog, older athletes recover muscle function and performance at similar rates to younger athletes. After intense exercises that damage the muscles, like sprints, heavy lifting, intervals, or longer race-pace runs, however, older athletes recover more slowly than younger athletes.
Other factors, while preventable and modifiable over the long haul, inexorably inhibit workout recovery once they’re in place:
If you’re sick, you won’t recover as quickly. Illness diverts some of the resources that would otherwise be used to recover from training.
If you have heart disease, you’ll recover more slowly. In one study, having heart disease was the greatest predictor of a slower rate of heart rate recovery after exercise.
If your hormones are out of whack, you’ll likely recover more slowly. Hormones are the messengers and managers that tell our cells what to do. That includes muscle repair, hypertrophy, fuel replenishment, inflammatory signaling, and every other cellular function related to recovery.
Now I’ve got bad news and good news. Everything else that slows down workout recovery is under your direct control.
Factors We Can Control Stress
Stress is stress. Traffic is a stressor. A job you hate is a stressor. Procrastinating until you absolutely must get working is a stressor. And yes, exercise is a stressor. Too much of the psychological, lifestyle, or mental stress we all face impairs our ability to recover from exercise-induced stress.
Recent research confirms that “mental stress” impairs workout recovery, and it doesn’t speak in generalities. Thirty-one undergrads were assessed for stress levels using a battery of psychological tests, then engaged in a heavy lower body strength workout. At an hour post-workout, students in the high stress group had regained 38 percent of their leg strength, while students in the low stress group had regained 60 percent of their strength.
I developed my anti-stress supplement Primal Calm (now, Adaptogenic Calm) back in the chronic cardio days as a way to improve my training recovery. That’s what gave the product so much momentum in the endurance community—it turns out that beating back stress of all kinds quickened recovery from a very specific type of training stress.
Some stress is unavoidable. But most of us create additional stress in our lives and fail to do enough to counter or manage it. Stop making unforced errors.
Poor Sleep
Sleep debt impairs exercise recovery primarily via two routes: by increasing cortisol, reducing testosterone production, and lowering muscle protein synthesis; and by disrupting slow wave sleep, the constructive stage of slumber in which growth hormone secretion peaks, tissues heal, and muscles rebuild. That’s probably why sleep deprivation has been linked to muscular atrophy and increased urinary excretion of nitrogen, and why the kind of cortisol excess caused by sleep deprivation reduces muscle strength.
Additionally, sleep loss can increase the risk of injuries by decreasing balance and postural control. If you trip and fall, or throw out your back due to poor technique, you won’t even have a workout to recover from.
Most people think bad sleep is unavoidable. It happens to the best of us from time to time, but a night of bad sleep here and there isn’t going to slow down recovery. The real recovery killer is chronically bad sleep, and that’s the kind most of us can avoid by sticking to a good sleep hygiene regimen.
Nutrient Deficiencies
Since every physiological function requires a micronutrient substrate—vitamin, mineral, hormone, neurotransmitter, etc.—and physiological functions increase with exercise and recovery, active people require more micronutrients in their diet. “More of everything” is a safe bet, but there are a few key nutrients that working out especially depletes:
Zinc: Exercise, especially weight training, works better with plenty of testosterone on hand to build muscle and develop strength. Zinc is a key substrate for the production of testosterone, and studies show that exercise probably increases the need for zinc. In fact, one study found that exhaustive exercise depleted testosterone (and thyroid) hormones in athletes, while supplementing with zinc restored it.
Magnesium and Other Electrolytes: Magnesium is required for a number of physiological processes related to workout recovery, including oxygen uptake by cells, energy production, and electrolyte balance. Unfortunately, as one of the main electrolytes, lots of magnesium is lost to sweat during exercise. The same could be said for other electrolytes like calcium, sodium, and potassium, but most people get plenty of those minerals from a basic Primal eating plan. Getting enough magnesium, however, is a bit tougher, making magnesium deficiency a real issue for people trying to recover from workouts.
Iron: Intense exercise depletes iron, which is instrumental in the formation of red blood cells and oxygen delivery to your tissues during training and the immune response after it. They even have a name for it—exercise-induced anemia.
Soreness
Post-workout delayed onset muscle soreness, or DOMS, is no joke. While many of you folks reading this probably enjoy DOMS and take it as feedback for a job well done, it’s a hurdle that many beginners never move past. They join a gym, d0 a workout, feel great, go to bed feeling awesome, sleep like a baby, then wake up and find they have the bipedal capacity of a three-month-old. They can barely walk. Lifting their arms to brush their teeth is agony. Walking downstairs is out of the question. Some will move past the DOMS and get back into the gym. Many will not.
Low Fuel Availability
Working out expends energy. That energy must be replenished before you’re fully recovered and prepared to do another workout. Unless you’re trying to increase efficiency by training in a state of low fuel availability, like the “train low-carb, race high-carb” method, you should recover what’s been lost. What you replenish is conditional on the type of exercise you did. If you went for a long hike or easy bike ride that burned primarily body fat, you don’t need to—and probably shouldn’t—”replenish what you lost.” If you’re coming off a 30-minute full body CrossFit session that left you gasping on the ground in a puddle of sweat, you probably have some glycogen stores to refill.
This is a common issue for folks trying to lose weight through diet and exercise. Inadequate calorie intake coupled with intense exercise sends a “starvation” signal to the body, causing a down-regulation of anabolic hormones. Instead of growing lean mass and burning body fat, starvation (whether real or simulated) promotes muscle atrophy and body fat retention. Either alone can be somewhat effective, but combining the two for too long will only impair recovery.
Alcohol
Drinking directly impairs muscle protein synthesis, the essential step in muscle recovery and adaptation to training. Moderate or “social” drinking is probably safe (just don’t use alcohol as a post-workout recovery drink), but even just a single day per week of binge drinking is linked to 4x the risk of sarcopenia, or muscle-wasting. It’s hard to recover from your workouts if your muscles are atrophying.
Oddly, drinking directly after a training session also increases testosterone levels. One theory is that testosterone levels rise after drinking because it becomes less bioavailable; your muscle cells’ resistance to testosterone goes up, so it just circulates and gives “false” readings.
Things You Can Try
The obvious thing to try is the opposite of all the modifiable and preventable recovery-inhibitors mentioned above. Get good sleep, don’t drink too much (especially post-workout), get a handle on your stress, eat enough food, eat enough protein, get your micronutrients. What else?
Watermelon
L-citrulline is an amino acid found in watermelon that shows a significantly ameliorative effect on post-workout muscle pain, or delayed onset muscle soreness (DOMS). You can also supplement directly with L-citrulline, which may work, but watermelon is so good right now with a little salt, lime juice, and cayenne pepper, and it’s actually lower in carbs than you probably think (about 10 grams per cup of watermelon). I recommend fresh watermelon over pasteurized juice, as heat treatment reduces the effect.
Beets
Beets (and beet juice) aren’t only good for exercise performance. They also reduce DOMS. Nitrates have been posited as the primary constituent responsible for the effect, but beet juice works better than pure sodium nitrate.
Tart Cherry Juice
Tart cherry juice is best used to recover during competition, when your primary concern is to get back out there and perform. Its extreme effectiveness at killing muscle pain, reducing local and systemic inflammation and exercise-induced muscle damage suggests it may hamper training adaptations, however. It does also improve sleep, which should translate into better adaptations.
Massage
Massage feels great, and the evidence shows that it’s great for recovery from exercise. It alleviates DOMS. It speeds up the recovery of muscle strength and enhances proprioception. It improves central nervous system parasympathetic/sympathetic balance, even if the masseuse is one of those weird back massage machines.
Compression Garments
These aren’t just for show. A recent meta-analysis of the available research concluded that compression garments enhance muscle recovery after strength training and improve next-day cycling performance.
Whey
Compared to other proteins, whey protein accelerates muscle adaptation to eccentric exercise.
Creatine
Although we get creatine from red meat and fish, supplementary creatine can boost our recovery from exercise via a couple mechanisms. First, it increases muscle content of phosphocreatine. That’s the stuff we use for quick bursts of maximal effort, so carrying a little extra can do wonders for our ability to perform. Second, it enhances muscle glycogen replenishment without increasing insulin.
Fish Oil (or Fatty Fish)
Adding fish oil to a recovery drink reduced post-workout muscle soreness without affecting performance. Fish oil may also enhance muscle recovery from and adaptation to strength training.
Cold Water
A cold water plunge after training enhances the recovery of muscle function. However—and this is a big “however”—post training cold water plunges also seem to impair long term muscular adaptations to resistance training. In other words, a cold plunge might help you get back in the game for the short term at the cost of long-term adaptations.
More Carbs
I always say “Eat the carbs you earn.” While that often means eating fewer carbs than before, it can also mean eating more if you’ve trained hard enough to warrant them. This even applies to keto folks; depleting glycogen through exercise creates a “glycogen debt” that you can repay without inhibiting ketosis or fat-adaptation too much. The carbs—which you don’t need much of—go into muscle glycogen stores for recovery and later use without disrupting ketosis.
Don’t take this final section as a blanket recommendation, however. Before taking ice baths, dropping $500 on massages every week, taking a long list of expensive supplements, and walking around in a full body compression suit, make sure you’re sleeping, eating enough food, and giving yourself enough time between workouts. Quite often, handling the basics will be enough.
What have you found to be the best way to recover from your training? What are the biggest roadblocks? Let me know down below, and thanks for reading!
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What Causes Slow Post-Workout Recovery—and What Can You Do About It?
One of the biggest mistakes I see among people who exercise is they forget this core truth: we get fitter not from training, but from recovering from training. This doesn’t just occur in beginners either. Some of the most experienced, hardest-charging athletes I know fail to heed the importance of recovery. Hell, the reason my endurance training destroyed my life and inadvertently set the stage for creation of the Primal Blueprint was that I didn’t grasp the concept of recovery. I just piled on the miles, thinking the more the merrier.
It didn’t work.
What is recovery, anyway?
There’s short-term recovery. Your heart rate slows back down, your body temperature drops, your sweat dries, your muscles and lungs stop burning.
Long-term recovery is less conspicuous, more internal. You replace lost energy stores, repair damaged muscle, clear out waste products, and begin the process of adaptation to the training.
When both short- and long-term recovery happen together, you “feel ready” to go again.
Some portion of how quickly we recover from training is out of our direct control.
Genetics is one factor we can’t control. Researchers have found genetic variants of collagen-encoding genes that increase or decrease the rate at which we recover from exercise-induced muscle damage, muscle tissue genes that increase resistance to exercise-induced muscle soreness, immune genes that affect the speed of adaptation to training. But even many genetic variants purported to affect recovery act through decisions carriers make. A carrier of a genetic variant linked to muscle power experienced more muscle damage and required more recovery after a soccer match, but only because that carrier “performed more speed and power actions during the game.”
Age is another factor out of our direct control. Sure, living, eating, and training right can stave off many of the worst effects of aging. Sure, a sedentary 70-year-old will recover from a workout far more slowly (if he or she can be cajoled into training) than a 70-year-old master athlete. But time does tick on. Following training that fatigues but doesn’t damage the muscles, like easy cycling, light weight training, or a sub-aerobic threshold jog, older athletes recover muscle function and performance at similar rates to younger athletes. After intense exercises that damage the muscles, like sprints, heavy lifting, intervals, or longer race-pace runs, however, older athletes recover more slowly than younger athletes.
Other factors, while preventable and modifiable over the long haul, inexorably inhibit workout recovery once they’re in place:
If you’re sick, you won’t recover as quickly. Illness diverts some of the resources that would otherwise be used to recover from training.
If you have heart disease, you’ll recover more slowly. In one study, having heart disease was the greatest predictor of a slower rate of heart rate recovery after exercise.
If your hormones are out of whack, you’ll likely recover more slowly. Hormones are the messengers and managers that tell our cells what to do. That includes muscle repair, hypertrophy, fuel replenishment, inflammatory signaling, and every other cellular function related to recovery.
Now I’ve got bad news and good news. Everything else that slows down workout recovery is under your direct control.
Factors We Can Control
Stress
Stress is stress. Traffic is a stressor. A job you hate is a stressor. Procrastinating until you absolutely must get working is a stressor. And yes, exercise is a stressor. Too much of the psychological, lifestyle, or mental stress we all face impairs our ability to recover from exercise-induced stress.
Recent research confirms that “mental stress” impairs workout recovery, and it doesn’t speak in generalities. Thirty-one undergrads were assessed for stress levels using a battery of psychological tests, then engaged in a heavy lower body strength workout. At an hour post-workout, students in the high stress group had regained 38 percent of their leg strength, while students in the low stress group had regained 60 percent of their strength.
I developed my anti-stress supplement Primal Calm (now, Adaptogenic Calm) back in the chronic cardio days as a way to improve my training recovery. That’s what gave the product so much momentum in the endurance community—it turns out that beating back stress of all kinds quickened recovery from a very specific type of training stress.
Some stress is unavoidable. But most of us create additional stress in our lives and fail to do enough to counter or manage it. Stop making unforced errors.
Poor Sleep
Sleep debt impairs exercise recovery primarily via two routes: by increasing cortisol, reducing testosterone production, and lowering muscle protein synthesis; and by disrupting slow wave sleep, the constructive stage of slumber in which growth hormone secretion peaks, tissues heal, and muscles rebuild. That’s probably why sleep deprivation has been linked to muscular atrophy and increased urinary excretion of nitrogen, and why the kind of cortisol excess caused by sleep deprivation reduces muscle strength.
Additionally, sleep loss can increase the risk of injuries by decreasing balance and postural control. If you trip and fall, or throw out your back due to poor technique, you won’t even have a workout to recover from.
Most people think bad sleep is unavoidable. It happens to the best of us from time to time, but a night of bad sleep here and there isn’t going to slow down recovery. The real recovery killer is chronically bad sleep, and that’s the kind most of us can avoid by sticking to a good sleep hygiene regimen.
Nutrient Deficiencies
Since every physiological function requires a micronutrient substrate—vitamin, mineral, hormone, neurotransmitter, etc.—and physiological functions increase with exercise and recovery, active people require more micronutrients in their diet. “More of everything” is a safe bet, but there are a few key nutrients that working out especially depletes:
Zinc: Exercise, especially weight training, works better with plenty of testosterone on hand to build muscle and develop strength. Zinc is a key substrate for the production of testosterone, and studies show that exercise probably increases the need for zinc. In fact, one study found that exhaustive exercise depleted testosterone (and thyroid) hormones in athletes, while supplementing with zinc restored it.
Magnesium and Other Electrolytes: Magnesium is required for a number of physiological processes related to workout recovery, including oxygen uptake by cells, energy production, and electrolyte balance. Unfortunately, as one of the main electrolytes, lots of magnesium is lost to sweat during exercise. The same could be said for other electrolytes like calcium, sodium, and potassium, but most people get plenty of those minerals from a basic Primal eating plan. Getting enough magnesium, however, is a bit tougher, making magnesium deficiency a real issue for people trying to recover from workouts.
Iron: Intense exercise depletes iron, which is instrumental in the formation of red blood cells and oxygen delivery to your tissues during training and the immune response after it. They even have a name for it—exercise-induced anemia.
Soreness
Post-workout delayed onset muscle soreness, or DOMS, is no joke. While many of you folks reading this probably enjoy DOMS and take it as feedback for a job well done, it’s a hurdle that many beginners never move past. They join a gym, d0 a workout, feel great, go to bed feeling awesome, sleep like a baby, then wake up and find they have the bipedal capacity of a three-month-old. They can barely walk. Lifting their arms to brush their teeth is agony. Walking downstairs is out of the question. Some will move past the DOMS and get back into the gym. Many will not.
Low Fuel Availability
Working out expends energy. That energy must be replenished before you’re fully recovered and prepared to do another workout. Unless you’re trying to increase efficiency by training in a state of low fuel availability, like the “train low-carb, race high-carb” method, you should recover what’s been lost. What you replenish is conditional on the type of exercise you did. If you went for a long hike or easy bike ride that burned primarily body fat, you don’t need to—and probably shouldn’t—”replenish what you lost.” If you’re coming off a 30-minute full body CrossFit session that left you gasping on the ground in a puddle of sweat, you probably have some glycogen stores to refill.
This is a common issue for folks trying to lose weight through diet and exercise. Inadequate calorie intake coupled with intense exercise sends a “starvation” signal to the body, causing a down-regulation of anabolic hormones. Instead of growing lean mass and burning body fat, starvation (whether real or simulated) promotes muscle atrophy and body fat retention. Either alone can be somewhat effective, but combining the two for too long will only impair recovery.
Alcohol
Drinking directly impairs muscle protein synthesis, the essential step in muscle recovery and adaptation to training. Moderate or “social” drinking is probably safe (just don’t use alcohol as a post-workout recovery drink), but even just a single day per week of binge drinking is linked to 4x the risk of sarcopenia, or muscle-wasting. It’s hard to recover from your workouts if your muscles are atrophying.
Oddly, drinking directly after a training session also increases testosterone levels. One theory is that testosterone levels rise after drinking because it becomes less bioavailable; your muscle cells’ resistance to testosterone goes up, so it just circulates and gives “false” readings.
Things You Can Try
The obvious thing to try is the opposite of all the modifiable and preventable recovery-inhibitors mentioned above. Get good sleep, don’t drink too much (especially post-workout), get a handle on your stress, eat enough food, eat enough protein, get your micronutrients. What else?
Watermelon
L-citrulline is an amino acid found in watermelon that shows a significantly ameliorative effect on post-workout muscle pain, or delayed onset muscle soreness (DOMS). You can also supplement directly with L-citrulline, which may work, but watermelon is so good right now with a little salt, lime juice, and cayenne pepper, and it’s actually lower in carbs than you probably think (about 10 grams per cup of watermelon). I recommend fresh watermelon over pasteurized juice, as heat treatment reduces the effect.
Beets
Beets (and beet juice) aren’t only good for exercise performance. They also reduce DOMS. Nitrates have been posited as the primary constituent responsible for the effect, but beet juice works better than pure sodium nitrate.
Tart Cherry Juice
Tart cherry juice is best used to recover during competition, when your primary concern is to get back out there and perform. Its extreme effectiveness at killing muscle pain, reducing local and systemic inflammation and exercise-induced muscle damage suggests it may hamper training adaptations, however. It does also improve sleep, which should translate into better adaptations.
Massage
Massage feels great, and the evidence shows that it’s great for recovery from exercise. It alleviates DOMS. It speeds up the recovery of muscle strength and enhances proprioception. It improves central nervous system parasympathetic/sympathetic balance, even if the masseuse is one of those weird back massage machines.
Compression Garments
These aren’t just for show. A recent meta-analysis of the available research concluded that compression garments enhance muscle recovery after strength training and improve next-day cycling performance.
Whey
Compared to other proteins, whey protein accelerates muscle adaptation to eccentric exercise.
Creatine
Although we get creatine from red meat and fish, supplementary creatine can boost our recovery from exercise via a couple mechanisms. First, it increases muscle content of phosphocreatine. That’s the stuff we use for quick bursts of maximal effort, so carrying a little extra can do wonders for our ability to perform. Second, it enhances muscle glycogen replenishment without increasing insulin.
Fish Oil (or Fatty Fish)
Adding fish oil to a recovery drink reduced post-workout muscle soreness without affecting performance. Fish oil may also enhance muscle recovery from and adaptation to strength training.
Cold Water
A cold water plunge after training enhances the recovery of muscle function. However—and this is a big “however”—post training cold water plunges also seem to impair long term muscular adaptations to resistance training. In other words, a cold plunge might help you get back in the game for the short term at the cost of long-term adaptations.
More Carbs
I always say “Eat the carbs you earn.” While that often means eating fewer carbs than before, it can also mean eating more if you’ve trained hard enough to warrant them. This even applies to keto folks; depleting glycogen through exercise creates a “glycogen debt” that you can repay without inhibiting ketosis or fat-adaptation too much. The carbs—which you don’t need much of—go into muscle glycogen stores for recovery and later use without disrupting ketosis.
Don’t take this final section as a blanket recommendation, however. Before taking ice baths, dropping $500 on massages every week, taking a long list of expensive supplements, and walking around in a full body compression suit, make sure you’re sleeping, eating enough food, and giving yourself enough time between workouts. Quite often, handling the basics will be enough.
What have you found to be the best way to recover from your training? What are the biggest roadblocks? Let me know down below, and thanks for reading!
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“White Fragility” and why I think the concept (as written and used) is bad
This is my latest response in a Facebook comment thread between myself and Solomon. The initial post itself links to an interview on the topic of “White Fragility”. I did this in tumblr, because as I wrote my response, it became clear it was too long to be easily read in a Facebook comment.
Why this particular article matters
'Even though your probably right, this one article about it is super weak so yeah, nah'
The implication seems to be that a random weak article was cherry picked to discredit what is otherwise a sound idea; and I don’t consider this a fair portrayal. The particular article I linked is the defining source of “White Fragility” so future sources of work which build themselves upon that term (like the posted interview) do so on the foundations it has laid (weak definitions and no burden of proof).
Why I think the ‘White Fragility’ article is bad
My main issue with the article is that it doesn’t actually have any diagnostic utility to differentiate any of the results of ‘White Fragility’ from any other opinions of a white person which may be legitimate.
It outlines any potential disagreements as a potential result of ‘White Fragility’. The definitions of it’s causes and effects it has are very broad and open to interpretation, and because of this, ‘White Fragility’ can be applied to discredit any differing opinion somebody might have to the user of the term.
This means you get to dismiss any opinion you don’t like as a consequence of White Fragility. Nobody gets to escape a loose definition when there is no definition to argue against.
I’m not against the idea that there is a bias that white people are going to have on these issues, as they may not relate to the perspective of another ethnic minority. However, I don’t see that as a valid basis for their viewpoints being ignored over others, because every ethnic group, and every individual is going to have their own biases in their points of view. Even if you were to suppose that white people’s views on the matter were just ‘wrong’ and all others were somehow ‘correct’, how would you ever go about trying to correct somebody’s views if you never listened to them in the first place?
In addition, the article is against the concept of Individualism (at least when applied to White people) and is a proponent of Collective Responsibility/Guilt (which I think is basically the same as racism when applied to race).
Quoted from the “White Fragility” article:
Racial stress results from an interruption to what is racially familiar. These interruptions can take a variety of forms and come from a range of sources, including:
...  • Suggesting that group membership is significant (challenge to individualism)
Given the ideology of individualism, whites often respond defensively when linked to other whites as a group or “accused” of collectively benefiting from racism, because as individuals, each white person is “different” from any other white person and expects to be seen as such. This narcissism is not necessarily the result of a consciously held belief that whites are superior to others (although that may play a role), but a result of the white racial insulation ubiquitous in dominant culture (Dawkins, 2004; Frankenberg, Lee & Orfield, 2003); a general white inability to see non-white perspectives as significant, except in sporadic and impotent reflexes, which have little or no long-term momentum or political usefulness (Rich, 1979).
Previous comments in the Facebook thread made by Cameron basically argued this point, and his view point of Individualism vs Collective Responsibility/Guilt was dismissed as a result of White Fragility (as predicted and covered for by the article). 
I don’t think that’s an appropriate conclusion, as there are plenty of non-racist, and even anti-racist reasons to be against the concept of Collective Responsibility/Guilt. In fact, many would consider the idea of Collective Guilt as a form of racism; the most classic example of Collective Guilt is Christians blaming Jewish people as a whole for the death of Jesus, and this is generally considered Antisemitism. Do I think that sentiment is fair to all Jews? No. Do I think that guilt should be carried by all Christians, even if they didn’t individually believe that? No.
Somewhat ironically, ‘White Fragility’ was apparently also the cause of my dislike of the paper (even though I don’t consider my arguments race-related in nature, nor do I think have white privilege, for obvious reasons).
Just within the thread alone, I think it’s fairly evident that the term can and will be used to label and dismiss contrary opinions as a result of indirect or direct racism, even though there is nothing inherently race related about Individualism or holding a paper to burden of proof.
Don’t think this was an intended or likely result of the terminology? In the conclusion of the ‘White Fragility’ article:
Talking directly about white power and privilege, in addition to providing much needed information and shared definitions, is also in itself a powerful interruption of common (and oppressive) discursive patterns around race.
And from the interview:
We have to build our stamina to just be humble and bear witness to the pain we’ve caused.
How the conversation should go
Ideally when someone brings up a racial issue, people will acknowledge it and discuss solutions/self reflect/offer support but instead most white people will instantly jump to 'not me!', 'you are being racist towards white people!', 'Prove it!' or 'Even though your probably right, this one article about it is super weak so yeah, nah' (ok that last one is a bit tongue in cheek but you get the idea :P)
I have to disagree here (or at least, call this incomplete). Firstly, I believe when somebody brings up a racial issue, you first get them to specify what the issue is, then understand it (and if it is indeed racist in nature) before acknowledging it, then you can come up with a solution after identifying causes/effects.
People prematurely jump to conclusions of racism a lot, and every viewpoint should be heard and held to scrutiny, regardless of the race of the person it’s coming from.
Rushing to conclusions
What is generally unhelpful, and often counterproductive is rushing to diagnoses and solutions without the proper leg work, and this isn’t uncommon. 
The ‘Driving While Black’ example in New Jersey had a federal case around racial profiling where they found black and Hispanic drivers were pulled over for speeding more than white drivers, and rushed to the assumption that the cause was racial bias with the police. The police underwent diversity training at this time. 
Eventually. a further study showed using speeding cameras that black drivers in New Jersey were indeed more likely to speed than white drivers, and in fact, the police had been under-profiling the black and Hispanic drivers, meaning if anything they were biased against white drivers. The evidence coming out more recently is also suggesting diversity training had the opposite effects of what was intended. Not only did they get the problem wrong, but they may have made things worse with the wrong solution. 
This is just one example, there’s a *lot* of stats which people read and rush to conclusions of racism without doing the proper legwork. A lot of the Implicit Association Tests done to measure police racism are generally criticized for their methodology being extremely unscientific, and have generally been shown to fail reliability and validity tests (i.e, there’s no proof they even measure racism, or that you would get consistent measurement results if you repeated them multiple times).
Misdiagnosis of race-related issues is one of the worst things to do if you’re actually attempting to resolve them, so I think holding them to scrutiny is very important. ‘Prove it!’ is a very reasonable counter-point when dealing with any specific instance of accused racism. The fact that racism has existed does not prove that a specific grievance was racist in nature, yet people often rush to this conclusion.
I also disagree with classifying the counterpoints/opinions as unhelpful/non-progressive/derailing-the-conversation. When the counterpoint is if the racial issues exist on an Individual level or on a Collective level, that’s not denying the issue exists, it’s a challenge on your framework of understanding the issue. When the counterpoint to “White people should just sit back and listen passively” is “No, I think they should have a voice as well”, that’s very much on topic.
Yes, it’d be great if people would just listen to the other side more and developed more informed opinions and ultimately came up with solutions, but I don’t see how creating a term you can use to invalidate the another side’s opinion is at all helpful for that, and it just seems like one of the biggest things you can do to increase racial tension.
Sources
‘White Fragility’ by Robin DiAngelo
http://libjournal.uncg.edu/ijcp/article/view/249/116
Implicit-Association Tests determining racial bias in police: 
http://time.com/4398505/implicit-association-racism-test/
https://www.wired.com/2015/01/implicit-bias-police-racism-science/
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Implicit-association_test
Diversity Training:
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Diversity_training
https://ethics.harvard.edu/blog/why-diversity-management-backfires-and-how-firms-can-make-it-work
https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/on-leadership/wp/2016/07/01/to-improve-diversity-dont-make-people-go-to-diversity-training-really-2/?utm_term=.9ab89db6d0a5
‘Driving While Black’ New Jersey speeding and racial profiling:
https://courses2.cit.cornell.edu/sociallaw/student_projects/DrivingWhileBlack.htm
https://www.aclu.org/news/new-jerseys-victims-racial-profiling-call-justice-and-closure-enough-already-say-advocate
http://www.nytimes.com/2002/03/21/nyregion/study-suggests-racial-gap-in-speeding-in-new-jersey.html?mcubz=0
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45. Evaluation.  Key:   F#-   Part of the body of work. BP#- Blog Post No
My road from point A to point B has not been very straightforward. I am not even sure if I have reached a point B let alone continue on to whatever point C might be.
Right from the get go my original idea as fading into the background amounts new ideas. I had originally intended to look deeper into an old idea that brought urban and natural landscapes together to question or impact on the natural world. This idea was soon taken over by the visuals surrounding a dystopian future. Ideas around the boring social aspects of modern day inner city life were also coming to a point in my mind.
      I also had a crippling sense that I do not know what I was doing anymore with regards to my practice. Confidence in my ability has somewhat slowed the beginning of my informed route into my ideas.
      I had to start somewhere so a general look at city and a small look into people in the city got me going. But this did not carry much momentum and I soon found my self-trying to replicate older work. With mistakes and mishaps along the way I was somewhat lost and without much direction. I’d go out and shoot images of the city and look for something in those to try and find my way. Reading about the city got me bogged down in the social elements of what a city is. And although I found this intriguing and started to respond to this with surveillance style imagery, I was not happy with that direction and found my self-fighting it.
     My attention turned to what the city was physically. Taking my time I went out to make studies of places in the city of Plymouth. Soon though I found my self bored of this and bored of the medium I was using. Black and white 5x4 photography was becoming a burden and a bore. Cold weather setting in, heavy equipment to lug around and time consuming shoots lead me to change my approach.
       I moved towards using 6x7 format and trying out colour for the first time in a long while. This equipment being easier to use meant I could head out for longer trips and I ended up focusing my efforts on the natural landscape and fringes of the suburban. Due to bad film stock I felt lost again. The images were not how I wanted them to be. But I did look to find my way again with some experiments in combining some darkroom print work of the city and colour images. The combination of the two had reignited my joy for image manipulation.
This then continued with more experiments in post process. Creating cityscapes with many images and making some colour/black & white montage work.
        Much of the work has come about by accident with errors on film that I then have turned around and repurposed for use in interesting ways.
All of these direction changes made if difficult to really stick to my main objectives and the goals that I had set myself.
I do not think I really ended up coming close to achieving my first goal. I had put it there to help encourage me to branch out to other departments to seek help and advice on printing my work in a range of different ways and methods.  The closest I came to really helping my self to this was an induction in the FAB LAB. Even after a very informative induction and a flurry of ideas of how I could use this resource I have yet to go back and actually use it.
        One major problem I encountered was the lack of work I had made to get printed. I am my own problem in this sense. The goal I had set seemed to fit under the title of Experimentation but it is not something conducive of now. It is safe to say that this goal is still very strong but ongoing. It is not long term, but it does need to be a short-term goal for later on once I have a good bed of work to go from.
        I suppose some of my experimentation pertained to printing/finishing of work. On (BP28) I explore the role of using isopropyl alcohol to manually change the opacity of prints that are layered. Although it was not a print method it did feel like a finishing method. The only downside to it is its temporary nature. I am still thinking about ways to make it relevant for display at a show. I am sure the idea just needs more exploring so that I can find a way to make it more permanent.
       I had some troubles with a printing method on (BP29). As you can see there I had trouble with bleeding of ink. I like the idea that I was pursuing but I was very much put off by it when it all went wrong. This had stopped me exploring it further and it was put aside.
        One thing I need to do is to overcome a confidence issue. I used to be very proud and sure of my work. Almost everything I made I got excited about and it all went well and Id take things forward. That is not the case now though. I am currently finding it very hard to find my confidence in my work. I feel put off by most of the work I am making. Ideas come and go without me even giving them a second chance or moment of thought. I end up with so much that is swept to one side and never takes off.  Four years out of my creative bubble has left me feeling rather lost as to what to do.  Overcoming this lack of confidence will hopefully help all areas of my confidence. I found it very difficult to go to the FAB LAB induction and struggle to go to other things available to me.
This goal must be looked at now as a recurring short-term goal as I continue to experiment throughout the year. Until I have locked down what it is I want to do with my work I wont be able to fully realise how I want to see it visually.
In the grand scheme of things my second goal seems a lot less important now. My darkroom practice is just not something I feel is as necessary as I thought it was. Finding my feet with my work is taking some time; this goal does not fit with anything now.
I did spend a small amount of time in the darkroom and this small time has helped with darkroom confidence issues id been having. After a BA spent in the digital darkroom it was nice to get in the wet darkroom and get positive results right away, it was something I was scared of doing all those years ago.
My biggest problem though is still time. My time management skills are still way off and it has not helped me get into the darkroom. Too much time spent working on shots or avoiding them has left less time for processing and darkroom printing.  This has ultimately forced me back into the digital darkroom.
I did however get some good prints made. As you can see (F19-F23) is a selection of prints that I am rather pleased with. They are not perfect but a massive improvement on where I have been before.
There are some straightforward prints here, they did not cause any problems for me, but there are some multi layer prints using more than one negative. These proved much more difficult. Relearning split grade printing and dodging and burning came in very handy here, but I overcame this with a bit of practice and advice from others.
It is safe to say this goal was in the end a bit of a failure. I am not going to keep this goal as a must. Instead I will continue to use the darkroom but not because I feel I have to out of some sense of what is ‘more real’, I will do it when my work requires me to use it.
      The third goal is not going as well as I would have liked it to. I am still finding it difficult to read and then turn that reading into something I can use to help then write about my work.  
     It was a good goal to put in place; I knew that this would be the most challenging aspect of and MA level degree for me. I want to be able to bring my critical writing up to this level and this can only really be done by a proper understanding of the wider context. I find it easy enough to articulate my self during discussions, but as soon as pen and paper are involved I still struggle a lot. I feel as if I get a lot from things I read. Good ideas that help drive me forward, but it is understanding how to portray this in words that I am still on the back foot with.
I am my biggest problem here and I need to change that and turn it around to put myself in a better position to carry on forward. To do this I am taking this goal and revising it. It is still the biggest challenge I am facing with my MA but I am breaking it down into smaller goals. Every day I am going to make sure I do some kind reading that gives me practice in writing about it. I will try to make it as relevant to my practice as possible, finding a bigger range of information that I will be able to draw upon as I progress.
         Goals four and five have taken a bit of a backseat. Combined they are essentially where I want to take myself in the future and how I am going to represent that future. The need to put my self out on social media and look at building a webpage are still priorities but they need to take time to grow alongside my work. Again I think breaking it down into small bits that I do each day will help me achieve this goal.
As for wanting to get a show in London for my work at the end of the year, I will still wish to get this goal complete. It is ever growing and ongoing discussion with peers will push this until it has happened.
In relation to my third goal I am still struggling to communicate what I am doing with my practice. My method revolves around me heading out and shooting themes then bringing them together afterward to find or create some meaning to them that challenges and communicates what I am thinking. The trouble with that is my end aim and overarching ideas are not solid at the moment, there is a fluidity about them that makes them hard to pin down.
          A good place to start I suppose is at the start. (See F1). This clearly shows two paths of inquiry that I have found my self on. Split between city as a space and the people in the city.
          These themes I have been exploring and photographing has stayed the same throughout this first part of the year. The city has been the main concentration of what I have been exploring. I have been looking at how a city is made up, and how urban spaces grow. The original idea to bring nature and urban together is now sitting at the back of my mind cropping up from time to time. A look into the visuals of Dystopia as explored (BP9) has put me on a tangent in my visual thought process, but has brought me to another perspective when thinking.
I have been thinking about city. What is a city? How is city represented?  Some of the reading I have been doing has brought this down to a social geographical level rather than pure geography of city.
“Successive transport and communications innovations have, they would argue, loosened the ties that bind people to place, ….. . A related tendency is therefore to emphasise the footloose nature of contemporary life and to emphasise the stretching of relations of all kinds across both space and time.” (Hubbard p2)
This got me thinking about why you would choose to live in a city. Why does so much of the worlds population do this?  A vast majority of people that live in cities seem to dislike the fact they have to share it with so may others. I feel that the sense of community has dramatically dropped in recent years. New suburban spaces pop up and people “move out” of the city. When really the new suburban will only become a new urban space as a city continues to grow.
“An unfortunate by product of this mode of thinking is that contemporary writing reduces the city (and, likewise, the countryside) to the status of a container or backdrop for human activities, downplaying (and, at worst ignoring) its profligate role in shaping economic and social relations.”(Hubbard p2)
Of course cities are Hubs of human activity. They serve us in everything we could need to thrive both socially and economically. But will that function of the city carry on when the cities become mega sized.  We live work and play in the cities we are a part of. What happens when we do not need a city to work in? What happens when we do not need a city for our shopping needs? Will cities just be giant playgrounds? Places for us to be entertained? What happens when entertainment comes to us, food comes to us, and we no longer need to work? Will a city be a giant prison cell where we only go outside for a mandatory amount of time?
I feel like I am getting lost down a whole new set of ideas that are coming to me after rethinking about these texts. The idea I like most put forward by these are the ‘footloose nature of contemporary life’ and the ‘container or backdrop for human activities’.
They are words that go out with me whenever I go into town with my camera. But have I made anything that reflects those words yet?
              I think that (F7) and (BP15) explore ideas surrounding people of the city but not with a direct connection to those ideas from the texts that I have just discussed.  Another part of text has and idea has push those images forward. Anonymity and surveillance themes have driven a fair bit of my context when thinking about the people of the city. I have really enjoyed photographing from far off, and complete sense of not knowing the subject can let you give meaning, either with text or the way that you take the photograph, even a post process can give meaning to an image of someone you do not know.
              Looking at Walker Evens for inspiration and more recently Shizuka Yokomizo. Both of them looked at an idea of anonymity. Evans used his Subway photographs to capture people in there rawest form of self. With no knowing that they were being photographed the only form of defense they had was the faces they choose to wear when in the public space.
        Yokomizo’s Dear stranger took a different approach. Yokomizo gave people a choice to be photographed but would never actually come face to face with them. The only form of communication was a letter to the subject asking permission and giving instruction on how to be photographed if they choose to.  I have looked into the themes in a different way. My images are a lot more disconnected than Yokomizos work and are closer in a sense to Evans Subway images. (F7.5) is a slightly closer look at what I was doing, and I think I did not capture what I wanted to and instead got something entirely adrift. I set out to find people doing boring things to document the drudge though the daily lives of city dwellers. Instead of this drain that life takes out of people I ended up with a set of images that just put people in place in the parts of the city there were wondering in. I wanted a true sense of anonymity. Few people would be able to tell you where in Plymouth these were shot. Most would not even know it Plymouth unless told. I became interested in this dislocation from the place these were shot. I could put any spin on these with just a few words. Even giving them titles in other languages to suggest a different place of origin.
             I read a few lines that look into another angle of the social geography of the city.
“George Simmel (1858-1918) described the impacts of the city on social psychology, suggesting that the city required a series of human adaptations to cope with its size and complexity.”(Hubbard p16)
“Simmel suggested that we learn to cut out all stimuli which are not important to the business in hand.”(Hubbard p16)
These notions have got me wondering if I can bring the social side into the city/place side of my practice. These lines also got me thinking about our lecture on noticing.
Essence of noticing
As multi-sensate beings, we are inundated with sense impressions all the time, but only some of them ever register in conscious awareness. We may think that we are widely aware of what is going on around us, but in fact attention is highly selective
(Mason p31-32)
How can I turn this into information into a visual representation? This is one of the questions I need to think about. It could play an important role in the future of my work.
            Throughout this project I have been trying not to get side tracked from my objective. But there again that seems to keep changing. I enjoy looking into this possible social geographic project thread, but I feel it takes me away from the architecture and dystopia that I wanted to start looking into.
My city images on their own do not massively excite me. Like a lot of the work I am making at the moment I am not happy. When I come to constructing images out of many I do start to enjoy my work. The urban elements of my work (F8) have all come together well to form images and a process I still enjoy. (F19-26) and (BP18-19) show this coming together of city, with shots of Brutalist building and construction images. Darkroom and digital images alike layered up to create photomontage images, reminiscent of work by Vorticist artists, (BP20). My obsession with Brutalist (BP21) architecture is prevalent throughout my entire work, the construction of new buildings has also been a strong theme (F27-28).  Have these works been informing my theme of city and dystopia.
The in its complete sense, then, is a geographic plexus, an economic organization, an institutional process, a collective unity. The city fosters art and is art; the city creates the theater and is the theater. It is in the city, the city as theater, that man’s more purposive activities are focused, and work out, through conflicting and cooperating personalities, event, groups, into more significant culminations. (Mumford p29)
It is not for nothing then that men have dwelt so often on the beauty or the ugliness of cities. ( Mumford p29)
What if I create a theatre? A city of my own. I have been looking at layering images for a while now, but what about actual montage. Dadaism and Constructivism have been mentioned to me and I have also sat in on a Peter Kennard lecture. They are not relevant to what I am doing now but they will be very relevant come the next part of the development of my themes. The closest I have come so far to this is a Photoshop constructed cityscape. (F11-F29 & BP32-33) show the raw images and the final constructed cityscape. This fake space made up of real ones is an attempt to create a theatrical space for the players of the city to act. It is the foundations for a dystopian future created by my hand.
This is only the start in my constructive image experimentation that will hopefully carry me onto the final parts of my journey. This work has been a massive success for me. I have managed to put something together that at first glance could be completely believable. It is only in looking closely that you begin to see mistakes. The bridge is not perfectly cut from its image, the light over the image is not perfect and the buildings on the right hand side have a look of the leaning tower about them.
It is this believability / unbelievability that id like to explore when making constructed cityscapes. Making them appear at first glance real. And to explore an unreal version completely skew.
As with most of my method and process I either get bored, distracted or dislike work. This then leaves me to explore completely different avenues. At one of these points (BP27) I start to look at using colour and different formats to try and break the norm and get excited about my work again.
This path leads me to try a technique shown on (BP28 & F30). This experiment was a major success, but it does fall down. The manual opacity method I have been trying works well, but the results are only temporary. This might not lead to success when trying to display work. I am sure there is much more that can be explored here and more experimentation needs to be done. I take satisfaction in the juxtaposition of the tower and the hut in the wilderness. A ghost building from long ago. Like a city gone to die in a graveyard of a new world.  
(F24 & BP29) is an example of a similar version of the experiment that was unsuccessful. This time I had chosen to draw on the under layer in the hopes it would transfer to the above layer. As you can see this do not go very well. But it was food for thought. Trying alternative versions of this as I progress could produce better results. Success from this experiment came from its secondary artefacts. The eye image on kitchen cloth and the inspiration to create my own draw cityscapes. These can be seen on (F9 & F17 & BP30). These doodles and secondary artefacts have been helping me with my work. Partly as distraction and partly for concentration. They have also inspired me to practice these more as an expanded art form for my practice. An informative extra that is keeping me sane during writing and deep thought process.
The discussion of my work starts to draw to a close on an accidental experiment. Well a fortunate mistake.
(F31- F34 BP35-36) are examples of work that goes wrong but produces amazing mistakes. The images taken on the camera its self came out okay, they were as id expect from the camera experiment. Infact they came out better than I was hoping. But the cherry onto was the colour swatches that appeared between the images them selves. I am still unsure as to what happened but I am not going to complain about it. I am very happy about them and they have sprung many ideas into my mind.
Chance and the nature of unpredictable things, making a mistake be accident and making one on purpose. These are all themes I want to get my self stuck into in the coming months. There seems to be a lot about chance art that I need to explore to broaden my work.  
         The last work I want to talk about is not chance it is a defiant decision that I have made regarding my constructive work.
(F35-36 BP37) are two examples of bringing together an accidental mistake the urban that I have been shooting. They come together in two different ways. One success and one failure. I am not very please with the first, the silhouette does not work and will not be a feature of my work again. I am not sure what drew me to do this. Some notions about the fires that would have torn Plymouth down during World War Two. This is not a subject I want to get involved with.
The second image, that of the civic centre under the colour mask of one of the mishaps is a beautiful image. The shapes in the colours compliment the shapes of the building and add a beauty to a building that many would say is an eyesore. With those colours you could add fire like connotation to the image. But id like to think they are colours of a dystopian sunrise or set. As I sit here writing this the swell of Hanz Zimmers Intersteller soundtrack plays in the background giving the sunrise/sunset analogy a lot of depth.
The conclusion I have drawn from this first module is that I am not on a path that take me one way. I am still trying to pin down a theme or mode that translates into work that I can be proud of and understand. A complete rewrite of my project proposal is needed.
I am now going to be looking at with more depth the City. I will look at a multitude of angles to bring to a head a body of work that explores themes of people/place/city and city/place/city. As part of this I will continue my work exploring the city of Plymouth, as that is where I currently reside. I will also be branching out to other cites in the UK that I can access. As well as access to cities/places I cannot through the input I will be getting from others as part of the collaboration that will help inform my work.
I am going to continue to explore the nature of mistakes and try to use them as much as I can. Experimenting constantly to try and generate new ways of creating chance images.
Other experiments that I want to begin to look into stem from Dadaism and Constructivism. These art movements have become very influential to me and I hope that they will help direct my post image making methods.  
The combination of all of these elements is where my biggest challenge will be. I am going to have to find a way to successfully bring together my themes surrounding people as city and city as city. And whilst doing that add the essence of the dystopian future that I am so interested in. I will also work hard to gather as much information as I can were relevant to contextualise my work and its place in current art practice.
References
Hubbard, P. (2006). City. 1st ed. London: Routledge, pp.2 16 18.
Mason, J. (2002). Researching your own practice. 1st ed. London: RoutledgeFalmer, pp.31 32.
Miles, M., Hall, T. and Borden, I. (2004). The city cultures reader. 1st ed. London: Routledge, pp.29-30.
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Why You’re Not in Shape (Yet)
“Why can’t I do this? I know what I need to do to get in shape, and I just can’t get myself to do it. I’ve yo-yo’d for years.”
I’ve been running Nerd Fitness for 8 years now (holy crap), and I have seen some of the most dramatic success stories from people of all walks of life that give me the biggest smile.
Single moms working two jobs, married couples that got in shape together, people who have been overweight their entire lives, and others who began powerlifting at the age of 50.
In that same time, however, I have seen tons of people who have been reading NF for years and struggled to find success. They might succeed for a short amount of time, or even a few months, before backsliding into old habits, and they just can’t seem to make things stick.
What’s interesting is that with both groups, they knew what they needed to do: more vegetables, more movement, less junk food, fewer calories on average, and a healthy exercise routine.
This wasn’t surprising: we all know what we need to do to get fit. So what separates the group of people who have fundamentally changed their lives and become new people from the other group who continue to struggle with little to no results?
I was curious, so about a month ago I sent a survey out to NF Rebels asking them for their honest answers on why they have (or haven’t) succeeded, and the responses really surprised me.
For starters, we had over 10,000 responses with people pouring out their hearts, proudly proclaiming their successes, or honestly sharing why they believed they hadn’t found their path quite yet.
About 25% of the responses came in saying they had made permanent changes, while the other 75% were still working on making enough progress and building enough momentum to make changes permanently.
So, why is it that some are kicking ass, and others are still warming up their kicking legs?
Newsflash: You Are Not A Unique Snowflake
You are not a unique snowflake.
I don’t mean this in a bad way, and I’m not saying that your problems aren’t real! But I mean that we all have baggage that we are dealing with:
Some people are working crappy jobs with bad hours.
Some people are working multiple jobs.
Some people are raising children on their own.
Some people have genetic challenges thanks to unhealthy parents or medical conditions.
Some people are struggling with behavioral or psychological challenges that sabotage any efforts to live healthier lives.
Some people just feel down and out, like they can’t change because they’ve lived this way for so long.
These are all VERY real problems that can help explain why people haven’t succeeded. These are the things we all grapple with (in different amounts) every day. However, I noticed something when studying the answers of people who were struggling to get results.
People who weren’t seeing the results they wanted wrote that many of their issues were UNIQUE to them.
So often we think our problems are special, unique challenges we’re facing. We feel like we’re in a boss battle with no hope, fighting an overpowering beast with no weaknesses. “I can’t succeed because of [insert VALID and REAL excuse here].”
We feel powerless trying to stand up to the momentum of our lives. Reading through the thousands upon thousands of responses we received, we saw the SAME things over and over again. It felt like an episode of Black Mirror – everyone feeling so alone, but they’re all fighting the same bad guys.
Here’s a word cloud of the responses: the bigger the words, the more often it was mentioned.
When we asked the question: “Why do you think you haven’t achieved success yet?
Some people assigned blame to the physical things in their life: “my job” or “my kids” or “my medical condition.” Others went down a level, and tried to explain their root feeling:
I get bored and then find excuses not to do it even when I know I should.
I have no accountability for when I mess up my healthy routine.
I’m really good at self sabotage, and I get frustrated very easily when I don’t see immediate gratification.
It’s hard to say…Probably energy and motivation.
I find it really easy to lose my momentum – I’ll start an exercise plan, but then if I get sick or some personal family drama comes up, or a million other things that throw a wrench in my planned schedule, then everything unravels very quickly and no progress is made.
I haven’t set myself up for success; there’s no discipline to leave my comfort zone.
I believe that I am scared to change, so my commitment to starting to eat better is pretty much nonexistent, leaving me with no motivation to succeed.
I feel defeated before I even start. Hate to exercise. I stress eat.
Most us feel like this: we’re so sure of our situation. Sure that we’re doomed. Sure that there’s no hope. Sure that we know what there is to know. We feel beaten. We feel buried.
We feel like Sisyphus, climbing a never ending mountain with a boulder too large to bear. Like we don’t have time. Like our kids have to come first, and we can take care of ourselves later. Like we lack motivation.
Like we can’t get ourselves to do the things that we want to do, and that’s just the way it is. It feels like an insurmountable battle that we can’t win.
And then something happens.
Newsflash: Somebody with your challenges HAS succeeded before!
With 10,000 responses, I saw something powerful in the messages from people who HAD succeeded.
Everyone has their own set of unique problems, but we saw it was the same 10 or so problems in different amounts, over and over again.
Those who succeeded ALSO have their unique mix of baggage. They also work shitty jobs. They don’t have a lot of time. They struggle with mental health issues. They are single, divorced, and raising kids.
They have bad parents and unhealthy habits. They love to eat junk food and struggle with motivation. The things that kept them unhealthy before are NO different than the things that keep the other 75% unhealthy.
So what’s so different between those who succeed and those who don’t?
There’s a few key things that happen:
There’s no drastic declaration. Life changes just a little bit. A small win here and there. Or they wake up one day and do one thing. And then do that one thing again.
They kept at it. Some people we heard from had to fight through 10 boss battles in order to find the solution and final habits that worked for them. Some people had larger, longer boss fights.
They start to see cracks in their previous “limited mindset” of themselves. “Hey, look! I DID do something and changed. Maybe this time CAN be different…”
Instead of seeing excuses as to WHY they aren’t in shape (“I can’t find success because [insert valid excuse here].”), they instead see those things as obstacles to overcome (“Okay, I have [insert same valid excuse]. What steps can I take to overcome it?”). They stop believing their own excuses and start to step up to the plate.
These small victories build momentum. Changes become permanent slowly over time.
As one Rebel replied, “Once you find a rhythm, it’s not actually that hard. And it feels sustainable.”
Now, I hear ya. If it seems like there is a LOT in your way, it might seem unsustainable. A dream.
But remember, that person who said “it’s actually not that hard” was surprised. For years and years, it WAS hard. They didn’t believe they could change…until they found a rhythm of small changes and had the epiphany: “WOW!” Until then, they were part of the “still searching” group. They found some momentum and started to see how change really happens.
Remember, we’re all in this together. What if there was someone in this Rebellion, with a life just like yours, who found a way to slay the final boss?
Your reasons ARE valid. They are a real part of your life. However, we have to acknowledge them and move beyond them to see any lasting results. That’s what it means to change. 
But if someone else with your same types of challenges (from genetic, to habits, to job and family) has succeeded, MAYBE there is a path to success if you attack it the right way! If they can change, you can too.
Yup, even with the shit you’re dealing with in your life. With your disadvantages. With your limitations. Yup, even with the limited amount of time you have.
This response in particular really jumped out at me. I GUARANTEE you can relate to this:
The biggest surprise is that it was possible in the first place. You spend your whole life thinking “I can’t do that, I can’t get up in front of people and tell them things.” And then you take a class and you start doing it and suddenly you can get up and give a speech.
You spend your whole life thinking “I’m a quitter, I can’t finish anything to completion let alone actually build (and keep!) healthy habits” and then you just decide to start and suddenly you’re on day five and you know you can exercise every day for a week, and then you’re on day 27 and you know you can make it to the end of the month, and then you’re on day 42 and you know you can do this for the rest of your life because it’s changing you, it’s changing who you are.
Your back is straightening out for the first time since you were a child, your scoliosis is fading away, you relish the sore muscles, and you know you can do this.
Read that response again. This is somebody who had told themselves all their life that they couldn’t do things, and success was light-years away. So they stopped worrying about light-years and instead just did the things they could control that DAY. Then that somehow became Day 5, which became day 27 and then day 42 and then counting was no longer necessary because it just became part of their new persona.
This is a brand new person. And change happened so slowly and in such small ways that it wasn’t until they looked back months later and said “holy crap, I’m a different person! That was easier than expected.”
Your success will come as a surprise to you.
Response after response from the people who HAD made permanent changes stick used the same word over and over – it was “surprising” how it happened.
You see, when we have lost hope, we can’t even imagine eating healthy and working out feeling fun. So when we give half-efforted attempt, we use the lack of success to reinforce our mindset of, “this won’t work…I’m doomed.” It’s easier to tell ourselves, “This is the way it is.”
But then you find a tiny bit of success, and cracks start to form: “Maybe I DON’T know everything. Maybe… Maybe change is possible.” And we develop a tiny bit of hope. Hope that we were wrong, and we weren’t seeing the whole picture before.
And we all know how powerful hope is. After all, Rebellions are built on hope, right?
And that tiny bit of hope combined with a little bit of action, repeatedly, eventually results in surprising, drastic change when we don’t even realize it.
We asked what surprised those of you who have found success:
I’m happier!
Once you create the habit, it’s so easy to maintain. The habit of working out and eating healthy is easier to keep than going out of your way to eat poorly or not work out. It becomes like a self-perpetuating machine. How I started liking foods that used to be absolutely disgusting, but now help me further my goals of becoming stronger. Also now I can run off walls and jump off any set of stairs and continue dashing like a free-running freak. That’s nice, too.
How much of a mental game fitness really is. Mind and body are truly linked.
Why didn’t I do this sooner?
Might sound cheesy but it feels good to feel good. Once you accept you are progressing at your own pace, that there will be ups and downs and not let them affect you as much as before, everything is becoming so much easier.
I feel lighter and more free.
Sitting there believing deep down you can’t change – that your problems are unique – is the very thing that needs to be looked at carefully in order to change. If you are part of the 75% who say you haven’t had success (yet), who just want to get rid of some belly fat, have some more energy in the day, fit into size 8 pants, feel comfortable in your own skin, who just want to be happy….
We have a message for you:
It IS possible, and it is absolutely worth it.
I want this for you so badly, because I’ve seen it happen to thousands and thousands of people in this community. A switch flips, they start to believe, and they then look back months/years later and discover just how much they have changed.
What will be different this year?
Most of us know what to do already. We know we need to eat less and move more. We know we need to change our relationship with food. We know we need to exercise more. At the 4,000 foot level, we get it.
As Morpheus tells Neo, “There’s a difference between knowing the path and walking the path.”
Ultimately, only through action can we understand how change really happens. But remember that we are all in this together: fighting against an entire world that seems designed to keep us down.
Looking through responses from thousands of people DID see lasting success with healthy habit changes, I noticed 5 big patterns repeating:
A growth mindset rather than a limited mindset.
Focus on the day to day habit building.
Not relying on motivation.
The right environment.
They started.
Let’s dig into those a bit more:
1) GROWTH MINDSET – The feeling that change isn’t really possible often sneaks up on us: “I ran on a treadmill and starved myself and I hate my life. I cannot get in shape.”
But when we looked through people who had success, they seemed to view that same event in a different way: “Okay, that didn’t work. Maybe this time I’ll try something different, like eating some more vegetables and going for a walk. I can do that.”
These people told us that they had to make a perspective shift:
“I have kids and a tough job and no time. I can’t get in shape.” becomes “Okay I have kids and a tough job and no time. What CAN I do with these limitations? I shall try that.”
Often, this involves needing to give ourselves a break. We DO have a lot of limitations and a lot of challenges to overcome. We should look clearly at them, acknowledge them, and then acknowledge that we are worthy of change and deserving of a better life. So, let’s work for it.
We then start to see previous attempts at getting fit as just that: attempts, not failures.
I loved this response too: How did you succeed? “By forgiving myself when I mess up but not letting it take over and sabotaging my quest.”
You didn’t fail, you don’t need to feel shame. You tried something, it didn’t work. Move onto the next one. You don’t need to feel guilt or self-loathing. You can change right now. Today.
Sometimes when I work on a puzzle game, I feel stupid when I can’t get it. But when I finally crack it, there’s no guilt or shame. I just change my behavior because I understand how to solve it now.
People who found their path to success said that more permanent changes didn’t get weighed down by their failures or missteps, but instead they turned them into opportunity to find what COULD work given their situation.
2) DAY TO DAY HABITS: The journey to Mordor happens one step at a time.
We cannot control what happened to us yesterday. We cannot control what will happen tomorrow. We can only control our actions today.
This realization is something we heard again and again from those who found success. Like this response:
“I broke goals down in very small steps and made each step ridiculously easy to accomplish.
And it makes sense: We look at our lives… the weight we have to lose. The effort that change will take. How behind we feel… and we feel this dread and impossibility. It’s paralyzing. And that’s where the surprise comes in from those who actually start walking, taking one step at a time… it really is shocking how it becomes effortless.
Just do the next thing that you can control, and try to do it the best way you know how: We call this the “Minecraft method.”
3) NOT RELYING ON MOTIVATION: We saw a LOT of responses from people struggling who said they needed more motivation.
We all wish we had more motivation. What’s interesting is that there’s no secret energy tank in successful people compared to unsuccessful people. It’s not like those struggling don’t have motivation while those who have succeeded have TONS of it. They possess the same amount and have the same parts of their lives that zap motivation.
Successful people seemed to tell us that they didn’t rely on motivation!
Motivation pales in comparison to momentum. Here’s one response we received: “Once you create the habit, it’s so easy to maintain. The habit of working out and eating healthy is easier to keep than going out of your way to eat poorly or not work out. It becomes like a self-perpetuating machine.”
Like rolling a tiny snowball off a hill and watching it build size and speed, inertia takes over and it becomes a self-growing, unstoppable force. Check out these articles on building discipline and systems.
4) THE RIGHT ENVIRONMENT:
We found a lot of responses from successful Rebels who knew that shaping their environment would lightly “nudge” them over the course of their day to greatly improve their chances of succeeding.
Like the Rebel who “threw [their] junk food in the bonfire and stopped buying it.” That’s a fairly dramatic response. But motivation is not necessary when you don’t have that food in your apartment to eat!
We heard so many different ways that people made their job EASIER. Many of us work hard, stressful jobs. And the natural response for many is to binge eat or quickly grab fast food to compensate for how hard or long we work. But a few tweaks in your work environment can go a long way.
Batch cooking helps to remove the willpower temptation for unhealthy food. Rebels who joined running clubs, The Nerd Fitness Academy or Camp Nerd Fitness Facebook groups found it easier to do their workouts. They cited these groups as huge reasons why they succeeded.
So many who succeeded talked about how they found supportive influences in their life (whether animate, or inanimate objects!). You can pick your friends, and you can pick your nose, but you can’t pick your friend’s nose.
Choose wisely!
5) TAKE ACTION:
Yes, as we learned from Rogue One, Rebellions are built on hope. But hope without action would have made for a painfully boring movie. We can hope for a better life. We can believe we CAN get to a better life. But action, even if it’s imperfect and incorrect, is better than no action.
Every single person who said they succeeded took action… often with a small tweak to something they’d done before.
This seemed to be the slogan that so many followed: “The idea that doing something, ANYthing, is better than doing nothing has been key.”
Do something different, and do it today.
Hope needs action. Otherwise it’s no different than hopelessness – nothing will happen.
So get started and do something today:
Try this workout.
Begin a walk to Mordor.
Cook an easy meal.
Join a group.
One less soda. One healthier meal. One 5-minute dedicated walk.
But do something!
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Why You’re Not in Shape (Yet)
“Why can’t I do this? I know what I need to do to get in shape, and I just can’t get myself to do it. I’ve yo-yo’d for years.”
I’ve been running Nerd Fitness for 8 years now (holy crap), and I have seen some of the most dramatic success stories from people of all walks of life that give me the biggest smile.
Single moms working two jobs, married couples that got in shape together, people who have been overweight their entire lives, and others who began powerlifting at the age of 50.
In that same time, however, I have seen tons of people who have been reading NF for years and struggled to find success. They might succeed for a short amount of time, or even a few months, before backsliding into old habits, and they just can’t seem to make things stick.
What’s interesting is that with both groups, they knew what they needed to do: more vegetables, more movement, less junk food, fewer calories on average, and a healthy exercise routine.
This wasn’t surprising: we all know what we need to do to get fit. So what separates the group of people who have fundamentally changed their lives and become new people from the other group who continue to struggle with little to no results?
I was curious, so about a month ago I sent a survey out to NF Rebels asking them for their honest answers on why they have (or haven’t) succeeded, and the responses really surprised me.
For starters, we had over 10,000 responses with people pouring out their hearts, proudly proclaiming their successes, or honestly sharing why they believed they hadn’t found their path quite yet.
About 25% of the responses came in saying they had made permanent changes, while the other 75% were still working on making enough progress and building enough momentum to make changes permanently.
So, why is it that some are kicking ass, and others are still warming up their kicking legs?
Newsflash: You Are Not A Unique Snowflake
You are not a unique snowflake.
I don’t mean this in a bad way, and I’m not saying that your problems aren’t real! But I mean that we all have baggage that we are dealing with:
Some people are working crappy jobs with bad hours.
Some people are working multiple jobs.
Some people are raising children on their own.
Some people have genetic challenges thanks to unhealthy parents or medical conditions.
Some people are struggling with behavioral or psychological challenges that sabotage any efforts to live healthier lives.
Some people just feel down and out, like they can’t change because they’ve lived this way for so long.
These are all VERY real problems that can help explain why people haven’t succeeded. These are the things we all grapple with (in different amounts) every day. However, I noticed something when studying the answers of people who were struggling to get results.
People who weren’t seeing the results they wanted wrote that many of their issues were UNIQUE to them.
So often we think our problems are special, unique challenges we’re facing. We feel like we’re in a boss battle with no hope, fighting an overpowering beast with no weaknesses. “I can’t succeed because of [insert VALID and REAL excuse here].”
We feel powerless trying to stand up to the momentum of our lives. Reading through the thousands upon thousands of responses we received, we saw the SAME things over and over again. It felt like an episode of Black Mirror – everyone feeling so alone, but they’re all fighting the same bad guys.
Here’s a word cloud of the responses: the bigger the words, the more often it was mentioned.
When we asked the question: “Why do you think you haven’t achieved success yet?
Some people assigned blame to the physical things in their life: “my job” or “my kids” or “my medical condition.” Others went down a level, and tried to explain their root feeling:
I get bored and then find excuses not to do it even when I know I should.
I have no accountability for when I mess up my healthy routine.
I’m really good at self sabotage, and I get frustrated very easily when I don’t see immediate gratification.
It’s hard to say…Probably energy and motivation.
I find it really easy to lose my momentum – I’ll start an exercise plan, but then if I get sick or some personal family drama comes up, or a million other things that throw a wrench in my planned schedule, then everything unravels very quickly and no progress is made.
I haven’t set myself up for success; there’s no discipline to leave my comfort zone.
I believe that I am scared to change, so my commitment to starting to eat better is pretty much nonexistent, leaving me with no motivation to succeed.
I feel defeated before I even start. Hate to exercise. I stress eat.
Most us feel like this: we’re so sure of our situation. Sure that we’re doomed. Sure that there’s no hope. Sure that we know what there is to know. We feel beaten. We feel buried.
We feel like Sisyphus, climbing a never ending mountain with a boulder too large to bear. Like we don’t have time. Like our kids have to come first, and we can take care of ourselves later. Like we lack motivation.
Like we can’t get ourselves to do the things that we want to do, and that’s just the way it is. It feels like an insurmountable battle that we can’t win.
And then something happens.
Newsflash: Somebody with your challenges HAS succeeded before!
With 10,000 responses, I saw something powerful in the messages from people who HAD succeeded.
Everyone has their own set of unique problems, but we saw it was the same 10 or so problems in different amounts, over and over again.
Those who succeeded ALSO have their unique mix of baggage. They also work shitty jobs. They don’t have a lot of time. They struggle with mental health issues. They are single, divorced, and raising kids.
They have bad parents and unhealthy habits. They love to eat junk food and struggle with motivation. The things that kept them unhealthy before are NO different than the things that keep the other 75% unhealthy.
So what’s so different between those who succeed and those who don’t?
There’s a few key things that happen:
There’s no drastic declaration. Life changes just a little bit. A small win here and there. Or they wake up one day and do one thing. And then do that one thing again.
They kept at it. Some people we heard from had to fight through 10 boss battles in order to find the solution and final habits that worked for them. Some people had larger, longer boss fights.
They start to see cracks in their previous “limited mindset” of themselves. “Hey, look! I DID do something and changed. Maybe this time CAN be different…”
Instead of seeing excuses as to WHY they aren’t in shape (“I can’t find success because [insert valid excuse here].”), they instead see those things as obstacles to overcome (“Okay, I have [insert same valid excuse]. What steps can I take to overcome it?”). They stop believing their own excuses and start to step up to the plate.
These small victories build momentum. Changes become permanent slowly over time.
As one Rebel replied, “Once you find a rhythm, it’s not actually that hard. And it feels sustainable.”
Now, I hear ya. If it seems like there is a LOT in your way, it might seem unsustainable. A dream.
But remember, that person who said “it’s actually not that hard” was surprised. For years and years, it WAS hard. They didn’t believe they could change…until they found a rhythm of small changes and had the epiphany: “WOW!” Until then, they were part of the “still searching” group. They found some momentum and started to see how change really happens.
Remember, we’re all in this together. What if there was someone in this Rebellion, with a life just like yours, who found a way to slay the final boss?
Your reasons ARE valid. They are a real part of your life. However, we have to acknowledge them and move beyond them to see any lasting results. That’s what it means to change. 
But if someone else with your same types of challenges (from genetic, to habits, to job and family) has succeeded, MAYBE there is a path to success if you attack it the right way! If they can change, you can too.
Yup, even with the shit you’re dealing with in your life. With your disadvantages. With your limitations. Yup, even with the limited amount of time you have.
This response in particular really jumped out at me. I GUARANTEE you can relate to this:
The biggest surprise is that it was possible in the first place. You spend your whole life thinking “I can’t do that, I can’t get up in front of people and tell them things.” And then you take a class and you start doing it and suddenly you can get up and give a speech.
You spend your whole life thinking “I’m a quitter, I can’t finish anything to completion let alone actually build (and keep!) healthy habits” and then you just decide to start and suddenly you’re on day five and you know you can exercise every day for a week, and then you’re on day 27 and you know you can make it to the end of the month, and then you’re on day 42 and you know you can do this for the rest of your life because it’s changing you, it’s changing who you are.
Your back is straightening out for the first time since you were a child, your scoliosis is fading away, you relish the sore muscles, and you know you can do this.
Read that response again. This is somebody who had told themselves all their life that they couldn’t do things, and success was light-years away. So they stopped worrying about light-years and instead just did the things they could control that DAY. Then that somehow became Day 5, which became day 27 and then day 42 and then counting was no longer necessary because it just became part of their new persona.
This is a brand new person. And change happened so slowly and in such small ways that it wasn’t until they looked back months later and said “holy crap, I’m a different person! That was easier than expected.”
Your success will come as a surprise to you.
Response after response from the people who HAD made permanent changes stick used the same word over and over – it was “surprising” how it happened.
You see, when we have lost hope, we can’t even imagine eating healthy and working out feeling fun. So when we give half-efforted attempt, we use the lack of success to reinforce our mindset of, “this won’t work…I’m doomed.” It’s easier to tell ourselves, “This is the way it is.”
But then you find a tiny bit of success, and cracks start to form: “Maybe I DON’T know everything. Maybe… Maybe change is possible.” And we develop a tiny bit of hope. Hope that we were wrong, and we weren’t seeing the whole picture before.
And we all know how powerful hope is. After all, Rebellions are built on hope, right?
And that tiny bit of hope combined with a little bit of action, repeatedly, eventually results in surprising, drastic change when we don’t even realize it.
We asked what surprised those of you who have found success:
I’m happier!
Once you create the habit, it’s so easy to maintain. The habit of working out and eating healthy is easier to keep than going out of your way to eat poorly or not work out. It becomes like a self-perpetuating machine. How I started liking foods that used to be absolutely disgusting, but now help me further my goals of becoming stronger. Also now I can run off walls and jump off any set of stairs and continue dashing like a free-running freak. That’s nice, too.
How much of a mental game fitness really is. Mind and body are truly linked.
Why didn’t I do this sooner?
Might sound cheesy but it feels good to feel good. Once you accept you are progressing at your own pace, that there will be ups and downs and not let them affect you as much as before, everything is becoming so much easier.
I feel lighter and more free.
Sitting there believing deep down you can’t change – that your problems are unique – is the very thing that needs to be looked at carefully in order to change. If you are part of the 75% who say you haven’t had success (yet), who just want to get rid of some belly fat, have some more energy in the day, fit into size 8 pants, feel comfortable in your own skin, who just want to be happy….
We have a message for you:
It IS possible, and it is absolutely worth it.
I want this for you so badly, because I’ve seen it happen to thousands and thousands of people in this community. A switch flips, they start to believe, and they then look back months/years later and discover just how much they have changed.
What will be different this year?
Most of us know what to do already. We know we need to eat less and move more. We know we need to change our relationship with food. We know we need to exercise more. At the 4,000 foot level, we get it.
As Morpheus tells Neo, “There’s a difference between knowing the path and walking the path.”
Ultimately, only through action can we understand how change really happens. But remember that we are all in this together: fighting against an entire world that seems designed to keep us down.
Looking through responses from thousands of people DID see lasting success with healthy habit changes, I noticed 5 big patterns repeating:
A growth mindset rather than a limited mindset.
Focus on the day to day habit building.
Not relying on motivation.
The right environment.
They started.
Let’s dig into those a bit more:
1) GROWTH MINDSET – The feeling that change isn’t really possible often sneaks up on us: “I ran on a treadmill and starved myself and I hate my life. I cannot get in shape.”
But when we looked through people who had success, they seemed to view that same event in a different way: “Okay, that didn’t work. Maybe this time I’ll try something different, like eating some more vegetables and going for a walk. I can do that.”
These people told us that they had to make a perspective shift:
“I have kids and a tough job and no time. I can’t get in shape.” becomes “Okay I have kids and a tough job and no time. What CAN I do with these limitations? I shall try that.”
Often, this involves needing to give ourselves a break. We DO have a lot of limitations and a lot of challenges to overcome. We should look clearly at them, acknowledge them, and then acknowledge that we are worthy of change and deserving of a better life. So, let’s work for it.
We then start to see previous attempts at getting fit as just that: attempts, not failures.
I loved this response too: How did you succeed? “By forgiving myself when I mess up but not letting it take over and sabotaging my quest.”
You didn’t fail, you don’t need to feel shame. You tried something, it didn’t work. Move onto the next one. You don’t need to feel guilt or self-loathing. You can change right now. Today.
Sometimes when I work on a puzzle game, I feel stupid when I can’t get it. But when I finally crack it, there’s no guilt or shame. I just change my behavior because I understand how to solve it now.
People who found their path to success said that more permanent changes didn’t get weighed down by their failures or missteps, but instead they turned them into opportunity to find what COULD work given their situation.
2) DAY TO DAY HABITS: The journey to Mordor happens one step at a time.
We cannot control what happened to us yesterday. We cannot control what will happen tomorrow. We can only control our actions today.
This realization is something we heard again and again from those who found success. Like this response:
“I broke goals down in very small steps and made each step ridiculously easy to accomplish.
And it makes sense: We look at our lives… the weight we have to lose. The effort that change will take. How behind we feel… and we feel this dread and impossibility. It’s paralyzing. And that’s where the surprise comes in from those who actually start walking, taking one step at a time… it really is shocking how it becomes effortless.
Just do the next thing that you can control, and try to do it the best way you know how: We call this the “Minecraft method.”
3) NOT RELYING ON MOTIVATION: We saw a LOT of responses from people struggling who said they needed more motivation.
We all wish we had more motivation. What’s interesting is that there’s no secret energy tank in successful people compared to unsuccessful people. It’s not like those struggling don’t have motivation while those who have succeeded have TONS of it. They possess the same amount and have the same parts of their lives that zap motivation.
Successful people seemed to tell us that they didn’t rely on motivation!
Motivation pales in comparison to momentum. Here’s one response we received: “Once you create the habit, it’s so easy to maintain. The habit of working out and eating healthy is easier to keep than going out of your way to eat poorly or not work out. It becomes like a self-perpetuating machine.”
Like rolling a tiny snowball off a hill and watching it build size and speed, inertia takes over and it becomes a self-growing, unstoppable force. Check out these articles on building discipline and systems.
4) THE RIGHT ENVIRONMENT:
We found a lot of responses from successful Rebels who knew that shaping their environment would lightly “nudge” them over the course of their day to greatly improve their chances of succeeding.
Like the Rebel who “threw [their] junk food in the bonfire and stopped buying it.” That’s a fairly dramatic response. But motivation is not necessary when you don’t have that food in your apartment to eat!
We heard so many different ways that people made their job EASIER. Many of us work hard, stressful jobs. And the natural response for many is to binge eat or quickly grab fast food to compensate for how hard or long we work. But a few tweaks in your work environment can go a long way.
Batch cooking helps to remove the willpower temptation for unhealthy food. Rebels who joined running clubs, The Nerd Fitness Academy or Camp Nerd Fitness Facebook groups found it easier to do their workouts. They cited these groups as huge reasons why they succeeded.
So many who succeeded talked about how they found supportive influences in their life (whether animate, or inanimate objects!). You can pick your friends, and you can pick your nose, but you can’t pick your friend’s nose.
Choose wisely!
5) TAKE ACTION:
Yes, as we learned from Rogue One, Rebellions are built on hope. But hope without action would have made for a painfully boring movie. We can hope for a better life. We can believe we CAN get to a better life. But action, even if it’s imperfect and incorrect, is better than no action.
Every single person who said they succeeded took action… often with a small tweak to something they’d done before.
This seemed to be the slogan that so many followed: “The idea that doing something, ANYthing, is better than doing nothing has been key.”
Do something different, and do it today.
Hope needs action. Otherwise it’s no different than hopelessness – nothing will happen.
So get started and do something today:
Try this workout.
Begin a walk to Mordor.
Cook an easy meal.
Join a group.
One less soda. One healthier meal. One 5-minute dedicated walk.
But do something!
I want to put you on this list at the end of 2017
http://ift.tt/2hHlVxD
http://ift.tt/2ipK8YG
http://ift.tt/2i4Yc6T
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dorothyd89 · 7 years
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Why You’re Not in Shape (Yet)
“Why can’t I do this? I know what I need to do to get in shape, and I just can’t get myself to do it. I’ve yo-yo’d for years.”
I’ve been running Nerd Fitness for 8 years now (holy crap), and I have seen some of the most dramatic success stories from people of all walks of life that give me the biggest smile.
Single moms working two jobs, married couples that got in shape together, people who have been overweight their entire lives, and others who began powerlifting at the age of 50.
In that same time, however, I have seen tons of people who have been reading NF for years and struggled to find success. They might succeed for a short amount of time, or even a few months, before backsliding into old habits, and they just can’t seem to make things stick.
What’s interesting is that with both groups, they knew what they needed to do: more vegetables, more movement, less junk food, fewer calories on average, and a healthy exercise routine.
This wasn’t surprising: we all know what we need to do to get fit. So what separates the group of people who have fundamentally changed their lives and become new people from the other group who continue to struggle with little to no results?
I was curious, so about a month ago I sent a survey out to NF Rebels asking them for their honest answers on why they have (or haven’t) succeeded, and the responses really surprised me.
For starters, we had over 10,000 responses with people pouring out their hearts, proudly proclaiming their successes, or honestly sharing why they believed they hadn’t found their path quite yet.
About 25% of the responses came in saying they had made permanent changes, while the other 75% were still working on making enough progress and building enough momentum to make changes permanently.
So, why is it that some are kicking ass, and others are still warming up their kicking legs?
Newsflash: You Are Not A Unique Snowflake
You are not a unique snowflake.
I don’t mean this in a bad way, and I’m not saying that your problems aren’t real! But I mean that we all have baggage that we are dealing with:
Some people are working crappy jobs with bad hours.
Some people are working multiple jobs.
Some people are raising children on their own.
Some people have genetic challenges thanks to unhealthy parents or medical conditions.
Some people are struggling with behavioral or psychological challenges that sabotage any efforts to live healthier lives.
Some people just feel down and out, like they can’t change because they’ve lived this way for so long.
These are all VERY real problems that can help explain why people haven’t succeeded. These are the things we all grapple with (in different amounts) every day. However, I noticed something when studying the answers of people who were struggling to get results.
People who weren’t seeing the results they wanted wrote that many of their issues were UNIQUE to them.
So often we think our problems are special, unique challenges we’re facing. We feel like we’re in a boss battle with no hope, fighting an overpowering beast with no weaknesses. “I can’t succeed because of [insert VALID and REAL excuse here].”
We feel powerless trying to stand up to the momentum of our lives. Reading through the thousands upon thousands of responses we received, we saw the SAME things over and over again. It felt like an episode of Black Mirror – everyone feeling so alone, but they’re all fighting the same bad guys.
Here’s a word cloud of the responses: the bigger the words, the more often it was mentioned.
When we asked the question: “Why do you think you haven’t achieved success yet?
Some people assigned blame to the physical things in their life: “my job” or “my kids” or “my medical condition.” Others went down a level, and tried to explain their root feeling:
I get bored and then find excuses not to do it even when I know I should.
I have no accountability for when I mess up my healthy routine.
I’m really good at self sabotage, and I get frustrated very easily when I don’t see immediate gratification.
It’s hard to say…Probably energy and motivation.
I find it really easy to lose my momentum – I’ll start an exercise plan, but then if I get sick or some personal family drama comes up, or a million other things that throw a wrench in my planned schedule, then everything unravels very quickly and no progress is made.
I haven’t set myself up for success; there’s no discipline to leave my comfort zone.
I believe that I am scared to change, so my commitment to starting to eat better is pretty much nonexistent, leaving me with no motivation to succeed.
I feel defeated before I even start. Hate to exercise. I stress eat.
Most us feel like this: we’re so sure of our situation. Sure that we’re doomed. Sure that there’s no hope. Sure that we know what there is to know. We feel beaten. We feel buried.
We feel like Sisyphus, climbing a never ending mountain with a boulder too large to bear. Like we don’t have time. Like our kids have to come first, and we can take care of ourselves later. Like we lack motivation.
Like we can’t get ourselves to do the things that we want to do, and that’s just the way it is. It feels like an insurmountable battle that we can’t win.
And then something happens.
Newsflash: Somebody with your challenges HAS succeeded before!
With 10,000 responses, I saw something powerful in the messages from people who HAD succeeded.
Everyone has their own set of unique problems, but we saw it was the same 10 or so problems in different amounts, over and over again.
Those who succeeded ALSO have their unique mix of baggage. They also work shitty jobs. They don’t have a lot of time. They struggle with mental health issues. They are single, divorced, and raising kids.
They have bad parents and unhealthy habits. They love to eat junk food and struggle with motivation. The things that kept them unhealthy before are NO different than the things that keep the other 75% unhealthy.
So what’s so different between those who succeed and those who don’t?
There’s a few key things that happen:
There’s no drastic declaration. Life changes just a little bit. A small win here and there. Or they wake up one day and do one thing. And then do that one thing again.
They kept at it. Some people we heard from had to fight through 10 boss battles in order to find the solution and final habits that worked for them. Some people had larger, longer boss fights.
They start to see cracks in their previous “limited mindset” of themselves. “Hey, look! I DID do something and changed. Maybe this time CAN be different…”
Instead of seeing excuses as to WHY they aren’t in shape (“I can’t find success because [insert valid excuse here].”), they instead see those things as obstacles to overcome (“Okay, I have [insert same valid excuse]. What steps can I take to overcome it?”). They stop believing their own excuses and start to step up to the plate.
These small victories build momentum. Changes become permanent slowly over time.
As one Rebel replied, “Once you find a rhythm, it’s not actually that hard. And it feels sustainable.”
Now, I hear ya. If it seems like there is a LOT in your way, it might seem unsustainable. A dream.
But remember, that person who said “it’s actually not that hard” was surprised. For years and years, it WAS hard. They didn’t believe they could change…until they found a rhythm of small changes and had the epiphany: “WOW!” Until then, they were part of the “still searching” group. They found some momentum and started to see how change really happens.
Remember, we’re all in this together. What if there was someone in this Rebellion, with a life just like yours, who found a way to slay the final boss?
Your reasons ARE valid. They are a real part of your life. However, we have to acknowledge them and move beyond them to see any lasting results. That’s what it means to change. 
But if someone else with your same types of challenges (from genetic, to habits, to job and family) has succeeded, MAYBE there is a path to success if you attack it the right way! If they can change, you can too.
Yup, even with the shit you’re dealing with in your life. With your disadvantages. With your limitations. Yup, even with the limited amount of time you have.
This response in particular really jumped out at me. I GUARANTEE you can relate to this:
The biggest surprise is that it was possible in the first place. You spend your whole life thinking “I can’t do that, I can’t get up in front of people and tell them things.” And then you take a class and you start doing it and suddenly you can get up and give a speech.
You spend your whole life thinking “I’m a quitter, I can’t finish anything to completion let alone actually build (and keep!) healthy habits” and then you just decide to start and suddenly you’re on day five and you know you can exercise every day for a week, and then you’re on day 27 and you know you can make it to the end of the month, and then you’re on day 42 and you know you can do this for the rest of your life because it’s changing you, it’s changing who you are.
Your back is straightening out for the first time since you were a child, your scoliosis is fading away, you relish the sore muscles, and you know you can do this.
Read that response again. This is somebody who had told themselves all their life that they couldn’t do things, and success was light-years away. So they stopped worrying about light-years and instead just did the things they could control that DAY. Then that somehow became Day 5, which became day 27 and then day 42 and then counting was no longer necessary because it just became part of their new persona.
This is a brand new person. And change happened so slowly and in such small ways that it wasn’t until they looked back months later and said “holy crap, I’m a different person! That was easier than expected.”
Your success will come as a surprise to you.
Response after response from the people who HAD made permanent changes stick used the same word over and over – it was “surprising” how it happened.
You see, when we have lost hope, we can’t even imagine eating healthy and working out feeling fun. So when we give half-efforted attempt, we use the lack of success to reinforce our mindset of, “this won’t work…I’m doomed.” It’s easier to tell ourselves, “This is the way it is.”
But then you find a tiny bit of success, and cracks start to form: “Maybe I DON’T know everything. Maybe… Maybe change is possible.” And we develop a tiny bit of hope. Hope that we were wrong, and we weren’t seeing the whole picture before.
And we all know how powerful hope is. After all, Rebellions are built on hope, right?
And that tiny bit of hope combined with a little bit of action, repeatedly, eventually results in surprising, drastic change when we don’t even realize it.
We asked what surprised those of you who have found success:
I’m happier!
Once you create the habit, it’s so easy to maintain. The habit of working out and eating healthy is easier to keep than going out of your way to eat poorly or not work out. It becomes like a self-perpetuating machine. How I started liking foods that used to be absolutely disgusting, but now help me further my goals of becoming stronger. Also now I can run off walls and jump off any set of stairs and continue dashing like a free-running freak. That’s nice, too.
How much of a mental game fitness really is. Mind and body are truly linked.
Why didn’t I do this sooner?
Might sound cheesy but it feels good to feel good. Once you accept you are progressing at your own pace, that there will be ups and downs and not let them affect you as much as before, everything is becoming so much easier.
I feel lighter and more free.
Sitting there believing deep down you can’t change – that your problems are unique – is the very thing that needs to be looked at carefully in order to change. If you are part of the 75% who say you haven’t had success (yet), who just want to get rid of some belly fat, have some more energy in the day, fit into size 8 pants, feel comfortable in your own skin, who just want to be happy….
We have a message for you:
It IS possible, and it is absolutely worth it.
I want this for you so badly, because I’ve seen it happen to thousands and thousands of people in this community. A switch flips, they start to believe, and they then look back months/years later and discover just how much they have changed.
What will be different this year?
Most of us know what to do already. We know we need to eat less and move more. We know we need to change our relationship with food. We know we need to exercise more. At the 4,000 foot level, we get it.
As Morpheus tells Neo, “There’s a difference between knowing the path and walking the path.”
Ultimately, only through action can we understand how change really happens. But remember that we are all in this together: fighting against an entire world that seems designed to keep us down.
Looking through responses from thousands of people DID see lasting success with healthy habit changes, I noticed 5 big patterns repeating:
A growth mindset rather than a limited mindset.
Focus on the day to day habit building.
Not relying on motivation.
The right environment.
They started.
Let’s dig into those a bit more:
1) GROWTH MINDSET – The feeling that change isn’t really possible often sneaks up on us: “I ran on a treadmill and starved myself and I hate my life. I cannot get in shape.”
But when we looked through people who had success, they seemed to view that same event in a different way: “Okay, that didn’t work. Maybe this time I’ll try something different, like eating some more vegetables and going for a walk. I can do that.”
These people told us that they had to make a perspective shift:
“I have kids and a tough job and no time. I can’t get in shape.” becomes “Okay I have kids and a tough job and no time. What CAN I do with these limitations? I shall try that.”
Often, this involves needing to give ourselves a break. We DO have a lot of limitations and a lot of challenges to overcome. We should look clearly at them, acknowledge them, and then acknowledge that we are worthy of change and deserving of a better life. So, let’s work for it.
We then start to see previous attempts at getting fit as just that: attempts, not failures.
I loved this response too: How did you succeed? “By forgiving myself when I mess up but not letting it take over and sabotaging my quest.”
You didn’t fail, you don’t need to feel shame. You tried something, it didn’t work. Move onto the next one. You don’t need to feel guilt or self-loathing. You can change right now. Today.
Sometimes when I work on a puzzle game, I feel stupid when I can’t get it. But when I finally crack it, there’s no guilt or shame. I just change my behavior because I understand how to solve it now.
People who found their path to success said that more permanent changes didn’t get weighed down by their failures or missteps, but instead they turned them into opportunity to find what COULD work given their situation.
2) DAY TO DAY HABITS: The journey to Mordor happens one step at a time.
We cannot control what happened to us yesterday. We cannot control what will happen tomorrow. We can only control our actions today.
This realization is something we heard again and again from those who found success. Like this response:
“I broke goals down in very small steps and made each step ridiculously easy to accomplish.
And it makes sense: We look at our lives… the weight we have to lose. The effort that change will take. How behind we feel… and we feel this dread and impossibility. It’s paralyzing. And that’s where the surprise comes in from those who actually start walking, taking one step at a time… it really is shocking how it becomes effortless.
Just do the next thing that you can control, and try to do it the best way you know how: We call this the “Minecraft method.”
3) NOT RELYING ON MOTIVATION: We saw a LOT of responses from people struggling who said they needed more motivation.
We all wish we had more motivation. What’s interesting is that there’s no secret energy tank in successful people compared to unsuccessful people. It’s not like those struggling don’t have motivation while those who have succeeded have TONS of it. They possess the same amount and have the same parts of their lives that zap motivation.
Successful people seemed to tell us that they didn’t rely on motivation!
Motivation pales in comparison to momentum. Here’s one response we received: “Once you create the habit, it’s so easy to maintain. The habit of working out and eating healthy is easier to keep than going out of your way to eat poorly or not work out. It becomes like a self-perpetuating machine.”
Like rolling a tiny snowball off a hill and watching it build size and speed, inertia takes over and it becomes a self-growing, unstoppable force. Check out these articles on building discipline and systems.
4) THE RIGHT ENVIRONMENT:
We found a lot of responses from successful Rebels who knew that shaping their environment would lightly “nudge” them over the course of their day to greatly improve their chances of succeeding.
Like the Rebel who “threw [their] junk food in the bonfire and stopped buying it.” That’s a fairly dramatic response. But motivation is not necessary when you don’t have that food in your apartment to eat!
We heard so many different ways that people made their job EASIER. Many of us work hard, stressful jobs. And the natural response for many is to binge eat or quickly grab fast food to compensate for how hard or long we work. But a few tweaks in your work environment can go a long way.
Batch cooking helps to remove the willpower temptation for unhealthy food. Rebels who joined running clubs, The Nerd Fitness Academy or Camp Nerd Fitness Facebook groups found it easier to do their workouts. They cited these groups as huge reasons why they succeeded.
So many who succeeded talked about how they found supportive influences in their life (whether animate, or inanimate objects!). You can pick your friends, and you can pick your nose, but you can’t pick your friend’s nose.
Choose wisely!
5) TAKE ACTION:
Yes, as we learned from Rogue One, Rebellions are built on hope. But hope without action would have made for a painfully boring movie. We can hope for a better life. We can believe we CAN get to a better life. But action, even if it’s imperfect and incorrect, is better than no action.
Every single person who said they succeeded took action… often with a small tweak to something they’d done before.
This seemed to be the slogan that so many followed: “The idea that doing something, ANYthing, is better than doing nothing has been key.”
Do something different, and do it today.
Hope needs action. Otherwise it’s no different than hopelessness – nothing will happen.
So get started and do something today:
Try this workout.
Begin a walk to Mordor.
Cook an easy meal.
Join a group.
One less soda. One healthier meal. One 5-minute dedicated walk.
But do something!
I want to put you on this list at the end of 2017
http://ift.tt/2hHlVxD
http://ift.tt/2ipK8YG
http://ift.tt/2i4Yc6T
http://ift.tt/2jgAlBc
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dorothyd89 · 7 years
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Why You’re Not in Shape (Yet)
“Why can’t I do this? I know what I need to do to get in shape, and I just can’t get myself to do it. I’ve yo-yo’d for years.”
I’ve been running Nerd Fitness for 8 years now (holy crap), and I have seen some of the most dramatic success stories from people of all walks of life that give me the biggest smile.
Single moms working two jobs, married couples that got in shape together, people who have been overweight their entire lives, and others who began powerlifting at the age of 50.
In that same time, however, I have seen tons of people who have been reading NF for years and struggled to find success. They might succeed for a short amount of time, or even a few months, before backsliding into old habits, and they just can’t seem to make things stick.
What’s interesting is that with both groups, they knew what they needed to do: more vegetables, more movement, less junk food, fewer calories on average, and a healthy exercise routine.
This wasn’t surprising: we all know what we need to do to get fit. So what separates the group of people who have fundamentally changed their lives and become new people from the other group who continue to struggle with little to no results?
I was curious, so about a month ago I sent a survey out to NF Rebels asking them for their honest answers on why they have (or haven’t) succeeded, and the responses really surprised me.
For starters, we had over 10,000 responses with people pouring out their hearts, proudly proclaiming their successes, or honestly sharing why they believed they hadn’t found their path quite yet.
About 25% of the responses came in saying they had made permanent changes, while the other 75% were still working on making enough progress and building enough momentum to make changes permanently.
So, why is it that some are kicking ass, and others are still warming up their kicking legs?
Newsflash: You Are Not A Unique Snowflake
You are not a unique snowflake.
I don’t mean this in a bad way, and I’m not saying that your problems aren’t real! But I mean that we all have baggage that we are dealing with:
Some people are working crappy jobs with bad hours.
Some people are working multiple jobs.
Some people are raising children on their own.
Some people have genetic challenges thanks to unhealthy parents or medical conditions.
Some people are struggling with behavioral or psychological challenges that sabotage any efforts to live healthier lives.
Some people just feel down and out, like they can’t change because they’ve lived this way for so long.
These are all VERY real problems that can help explain why people haven’t succeeded. These are the things we all grapple with (in different amounts) every day. However, I noticed something when studying the answers of people who were struggling to get results.
People who weren’t seeing the results they wanted wrote that many of their issues were UNIQUE to them.
So often we think our problems are special, unique challenges we’re facing. We feel like we’re in a boss battle with no hope, fighting an overpowering beast with no weaknesses. “I can’t succeed because of [insert VALID and REAL excuse here].”
We feel powerless trying to stand up to the momentum of our lives. Reading through the thousands upon thousands of responses we received, we saw the SAME things over and over again. It felt like an episode of Black Mirror – everyone feeling so alone, but they’re all fighting the same bad guys.
Here’s a word cloud of the responses: the bigger the words, the more often it was mentioned.
When we asked the question: “Why do you think you haven’t achieved success yet?
Some people assigned blame to the physical things in their life: “my job” or “my kids” or “my medical condition.” Others went down a level, and tried to explain their root feeling:
I get bored and then find excuses not to do it even when I know I should.
I have no accountability for when I mess up my healthy routine.
I’m really good at self sabotage, and I get frustrated very easily when I don’t see immediate gratification.
It’s hard to say…Probably energy and motivation.
I find it really easy to lose my momentum – I’ll start an exercise plan, but then if I get sick or some personal family drama comes up, or a million other things that throw a wrench in my planned schedule, then everything unravels very quickly and no progress is made.
I haven’t set myself up for success; there’s no discipline to leave my comfort zone.
I believe that I am scared to change, so my commitment to starting to eat better is pretty much nonexistent, leaving me with no motivation to succeed.
I feel defeated before I even start. Hate to exercise. I stress eat.
Most us feel like this: we’re so sure of our situation. Sure that we’re doomed. Sure that there’s no hope. Sure that we know what there is to know. We feel beaten. We feel buried.
We feel like Sisyphus, climbing a never ending mountain with a boulder too large to bear. Like we don’t have time. Like our kids have to come first, and we can take care of ourselves later. Like we lack motivation.
Like we can’t get ourselves to do the things that we want to do, and that’s just the way it is. It feels like an insurmountable battle that we can’t win.
And then something happens.
Newsflash: Somebody with your challenges HAS succeeded before!
With 10,000 responses, I saw something powerful in the messages from people who HAD succeeded.
Everyone has their own set of unique problems, but we saw it was the same 10 or so problems in different amounts, over and over again.
Those who succeeded ALSO have their unique mix of baggage. They also work shitty jobs. They don’t have a lot of time. They struggle with mental health issues. They are single, divorced, and raising kids.
They have bad parents and unhealthy habits. They love to eat junk food and struggle with motivation. The things that kept them unhealthy before are NO different than the things that keep the other 75% unhealthy.
So what’s so different between those who succeed and those who don’t?
There’s a few key things that happen:
There’s no drastic declaration. Life changes just a little bit. A small win here and there. Or they wake up one day and do one thing. And then do that one thing again.
They kept at it. Some people we heard from had to fight through 10 boss battles in order to find the solution and final habits that worked for them. Some people had larger, longer boss fights.
They start to see cracks in their previous “limited mindset” of themselves. “Hey, look! I DID do something and changed. Maybe this time CAN be different…”
Instead of seeing excuses as to WHY they aren’t in shape (“I can’t find success because [insert valid excuse here].”), they instead see those things as obstacles to overcome (“Okay, I have [insert same valid excuse]. What steps can I take to overcome it?”). They stop believing their own excuses and start to step up to the plate.
These small victories build momentum. Changes become permanent slowly over time.
As one Rebel replied, “Once you find a rhythm, it’s not actually that hard. And it feels sustainable.”
Now, I hear ya. If it seems like there is a LOT in your way, it might seem unsustainable. A dream.
But remember, that person who said “it’s actually not that hard” was surprised. For years and years, it WAS hard. They didn’t believe they could change…until they found a rhythm of small changes and had the epiphany: “WOW!” Until then, they were part of the “still searching” group. They found some momentum and started to see how change really happens.
Remember, we’re all in this together. What if there was someone in this Rebellion, with a life just like yours, who found a way to slay the final boss?
Your reasons ARE valid. They are a real part of your life. However, we have to acknowledge them and move beyond them to see any lasting results. That’s what it means to change. 
But if someone else with your same types of challenges (from genetic, to habits, to job and family) has succeeded, MAYBE there is a path to success if you attack it the right way! If they can change, you can too.
Yup, even with the shit you’re dealing with in your life. With your disadvantages. With your limitations. Yup, even with the limited amount of time you have.
This response in particular really jumped out at me. I GUARANTEE you can relate to this:
The biggest surprise is that it was possible in the first place. You spend your whole life thinking “I can’t do that, I can’t get up in front of people and tell them things.” And then you take a class and you start doing it and suddenly you can get up and give a speech.
You spend your whole life thinking “I’m a quitter, I can’t finish anything to completion let alone actually build (and keep!) healthy habits” and then you just decide to start and suddenly you’re on day five and you know you can exercise every day for a week, and then you’re on day 27 and you know you can make it to the end of the month, and then you’re on day 42 and you know you can do this for the rest of your life because it’s changing you, it’s changing who you are.
Your back is straightening out for the first time since you were a child, your scoliosis is fading away, you relish the sore muscles, and you know you can do this.
Read that response again. This is somebody who had told themselves all their life that they couldn’t do things, and success was light-years away. So they stopped worrying about light-years and instead just did the things they could control that DAY. Then that somehow became Day 5, which became day 27 and then day 42 and then counting was no longer necessary because it just became part of their new persona.
This is a brand new person. And change happened so slowly and in such small ways that it wasn’t until they looked back months later and said “holy crap, I’m a different person! That was easier than expected.”
Your success will come as a surprise to you.
Response after response from the people who HAD made permanent changes stick used the same word over and over – it was “surprising” how it happened.
You see, when we have lost hope, we can’t even imagine eating healthy and working out feeling fun. So when we give half-efforted attempt, we use the lack of success to reinforce our mindset of, “this won’t work…I’m doomed.” It’s easier to tell ourselves, “This is the way it is.”
But then you find a tiny bit of success, and cracks start to form: “Maybe I DON’T know everything. Maybe… Maybe change is possible.” And we develop a tiny bit of hope. Hope that we were wrong, and we weren’t seeing the whole picture before.
And we all know how powerful hope is. After all, Rebellions are built on hope, right?
And that tiny bit of hope combined with a little bit of action, repeatedly, eventually results in surprising, drastic change when we don’t even realize it.
We asked what surprised those of you who have found success:
I’m happier!
Once you create the habit, it’s so easy to maintain. The habit of working out and eating healthy is easier to keep than going out of your way to eat poorly or not work out. It becomes like a self-perpetuating machine. How I started liking foods that used to be absolutely disgusting, but now help me further my goals of becoming stronger. Also now I can run off walls and jump off any set of stairs and continue dashing like a free-running freak. That’s nice, too.
How much of a mental game fitness really is. Mind and body are truly linked.
Why didn’t I do this sooner?
Might sound cheesy but it feels good to feel good. Once you accept you are progressing at your own pace, that there will be ups and downs and not let them affect you as much as before, everything is becoming so much easier.
I feel lighter and more free.
Sitting there believing deep down you can’t change – that your problems are unique – is the very thing that needs to be looked at carefully in order to change. If you are part of the 75% who say you haven’t had success (yet), who just want to get rid of some belly fat, have some more energy in the day, fit into size 8 pants, feel comfortable in your own skin, who just want to be happy….
We have a message for you:
It IS possible, and it is absolutely worth it.
I want this for you so badly, because I’ve seen it happen to thousands and thousands of people in this community. A switch flips, they start to believe, and they then look back months/years later and discover just how much they have changed.
What will be different this year?
Most of us know what to do already. We know we need to eat less and move more. We know we need to change our relationship with food. We know we need to exercise more. At the 4,000 foot level, we get it.
As Morpheus tells Neo, “There’s a difference between knowing the path and walking the path.”
Ultimately, only through action can we understand how change really happens. But remember that we are all in this together: fighting against an entire world that seems designed to keep us down.
Looking through responses from thousands of people DID see lasting success with healthy habit changes, I noticed 5 big patterns repeating:
A growth mindset rather than a limited mindset.
Focus on the day to day habit building.
Not relying on motivation.
The right environment.
They started.
Let’s dig into those a bit more:
1) GROWTH MINDSET – The feeling that change isn’t really possible often sneaks up on us: “I ran on a treadmill and starved myself and I hate my life. I cannot get in shape.”
But when we looked through people who had success, they seemed to view that same event in a different way: “Okay, that didn’t work. Maybe this time I’ll try something different, like eating some more vegetables and going for a walk. I can do that.”
These people told us that they had to make a perspective shift:
“I have kids and a tough job and no time. I can’t get in shape.” becomes “Okay I have kids and a tough job and no time. What CAN I do with these limitations? I shall try that.”
Often, this involves needing to give ourselves a break. We DO have a lot of limitations and a lot of challenges to overcome. We should look clearly at them, acknowledge them, and then acknowledge that we are worthy of change and deserving of a better life. So, let’s work for it.
We then start to see previous attempts at getting fit as just that: attempts, not failures.
I loved this response too: How did you succeed? “By forgiving myself when I mess up but not letting it take over and sabotaging my quest.”
You didn’t fail, you don’t need to feel shame. You tried something, it didn’t work. Move onto the next one. You don’t need to feel guilt or self-loathing. You can change right now. Today.
Sometimes when I work on a puzzle game, I feel stupid when I can’t get it. But when I finally crack it, there’s no guilt or shame. I just change my behavior because I understand how to solve it now.
People who found their path to success said that more permanent changes didn’t get weighed down by their failures or missteps, but instead they turned them into opportunity to find what COULD work given their situation.
2) DAY TO DAY HABITS: The journey to Mordor happens one step at a time.
We cannot control what happened to us yesterday. We cannot control what will happen tomorrow. We can only control our actions today.
This realization is something we heard again and again from those who found success. Like this response:
“I broke goals down in very small steps and made each step ridiculously easy to accomplish.
And it makes sense: We look at our lives… the weight we have to lose. The effort that change will take. How behind we feel… and we feel this dread and impossibility. It’s paralyzing. And that’s where the surprise comes in from those who actually start walking, taking one step at a time… it really is shocking how it becomes effortless.
Just do the next thing that you can control, and try to do it the best way you know how: We call this the “Minecraft method.”
3) NOT RELYING ON MOTIVATION: We saw a LOT of responses from people struggling who said they needed more motivation.
We all wish we had more motivation. What’s interesting is that there’s no secret energy tank in successful people compared to unsuccessful people. It’s not like those struggling don’t have motivation while those who have succeeded have TONS of it. They possess the same amount and have the same parts of their lives that zap motivation.
Successful people seemed to tell us that they didn’t rely on motivation!
Motivation pales in comparison to momentum. Here’s one response we received: “Once you create the habit, it’s so easy to maintain. The habit of working out and eating healthy is easier to keep than going out of your way to eat poorly or not work out. It becomes like a self-perpetuating machine.”
Like rolling a tiny snowball off a hill and watching it build size and speed, inertia takes over and it becomes a self-growing, unstoppable force. Check out these articles on building discipline and systems.
4) THE RIGHT ENVIRONMENT:
We found a lot of responses from successful Rebels who knew that shaping their environment would lightly “nudge” them over the course of their day to greatly improve their chances of succeeding.
Like the Rebel who “threw [their] junk food in the bonfire and stopped buying it.” That’s a fairly dramatic response. But motivation is not necessary when you don’t have that food in your apartment to eat!
We heard so many different ways that people made their job EASIER. Many of us work hard, stressful jobs. And the natural response for many is to binge eat or quickly grab fast food to compensate for how hard or long we work. But a few tweaks in your work environment can go a long way.
Batch cooking helps to remove the willpower temptation for unhealthy food. Rebels who joined running clubs, The Nerd Fitness Academy or Camp Nerd Fitness Facebook groups found it easier to do their workouts. They cited these groups as huge reasons why they succeeded.
So many who succeeded talked about how they found supportive influences in their life (whether animate, or inanimate objects!). You can pick your friends, and you can pick your nose, but you can’t pick your friend’s nose.
Choose wisely!
5) TAKE ACTION:
Yes, as we learned from Rogue One, Rebellions are built on hope. But hope without action would have made for a painfully boring movie. We can hope for a better life. We can believe we CAN get to a better life. But action, even if it’s imperfect and incorrect, is better than no action.
Every single person who said they succeeded took action… often with a small tweak to something they’d done before.
This seemed to be the slogan that so many followed: “The idea that doing something, ANYthing, is better than doing nothing has been key.”
Do something different, and do it today.
Hope needs action. Otherwise it’s no different than hopelessness – nothing will happen.
So get started and do something today:
Try this workout.
Begin a walk to Mordor.
Cook an easy meal.
Join a group.
One less soda. One healthier meal. One 5-minute dedicated walk.
But do something!
I want to put you on this list at the end of 2017
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Why You’re Not in Shape (Yet)
“Why can’t I do this? I know what I need to do to get in shape, and I just can’t get myself to do it. I’ve yo-yo’d for years.”
I’ve been running Nerd Fitness for 8 years now (holy crap), and I have seen some of the most dramatic success stories from people of all walks of life that give me the biggest smile.
Single moms working two jobs, married couples that got in shape together, people who have been overweight their entire lives, and others who began powerlifting at the age of 50.
In that same time, however, I have seen tons of people who have been reading NF for years and struggled to find success. They might succeed for a short amount of time, or even a few months, before backsliding into old habits, and they just can’t seem to make things stick.
What’s interesting is that with both groups, they knew what they needed to do: more vegetables, more movement, less junk food, fewer calories on average, and a healthy exercise routine.
This wasn’t surprising: we all know what we need to do to get fit. So what separates the group of people who have fundamentally changed their lives and become new people from the other group who continue to struggle with little to no results?
I was curious, so about a month ago I sent a survey out to NF Rebels asking them for their honest answers on why they have (or haven’t) succeeded, and the responses really surprised me.
For starters, we had over 10,000 responses with people pouring out their hearts, proudly proclaiming their successes, or honestly sharing why they believed they hadn’t found their path quite yet.
About 25% of the responses came in saying they had made permanent changes, while the other 75% were still working on making enough progress and building enough momentum to make changes permanently.
So, why is it that some are kicking ass, and others are still warming up their kicking legs?
Newsflash: You Are Not A Unique Snowflake
You are not a unique snowflake.
I don’t mean this in a bad way, and I’m not saying that your problems aren’t real! But I mean that we all have baggage that we are dealing with:
Some people are working crappy jobs with bad hours.
Some people are working multiple jobs.
Some people are raising children on their own.
Some people have genetic challenges thanks to unhealthy parents or medical conditions.
Some people are struggling with behavioral or psychological challenges that sabotage any efforts to live healthier lives.
Some people just feel down and out, like they can’t change because they’ve lived this way for so long.
These are all VERY real problems that can help explain why people haven’t succeeded. These are the things we all grapple with (in different amounts) every day. However, I noticed something when studying the answers of people who were struggling to get results.
People who weren’t seeing the results they wanted wrote that many of their issues were UNIQUE to them.
So often we think our problems are special, unique challenges we’re facing. We feel like we’re in a boss battle with no hope, fighting an overpowering beast with no weaknesses. “I can’t succeed because of [insert VALID and REAL excuse here].”
We feel powerless trying to stand up to the momentum of our lives. Reading through the thousands upon thousands of responses we received, we saw the SAME things over and over again. It felt like an episode of Black Mirror – everyone feeling so alone, but they’re all fighting the same bad guys.
Here’s a word cloud of the responses: the bigger the words, the more often it was mentioned.
When we asked the question: “Why do you think you haven’t achieved success yet?
Some people assigned blame to the physical things in their life: “my job” or “my kids” or “my medical condition.” Others went down a level, and tried to explain their root feeling:
I get bored and then find excuses not to do it even when I know I should.
I have no accountability for when I mess up my healthy routine.
I’m really good at self sabotage, and I get frustrated very easily when I don’t see immediate gratification.
It’s hard to say…Probably energy and motivation.
I find it really easy to lose my momentum – I’ll start an exercise plan, but then if I get sick or some personal family drama comes up, or a million other things that throw a wrench in my planned schedule, then everything unravels very quickly and no progress is made.
I haven’t set myself up for success; there’s no discipline to leave my comfort zone.
I believe that I am scared to change, so my commitment to starting to eat better is pretty much nonexistent, leaving me with no motivation to succeed.
I feel defeated before I even start. Hate to exercise. I stress eat.
Most us feel like this: we’re so sure of our situation. Sure that we’re doomed. Sure that there’s no hope. Sure that we know what there is to know. We feel beaten. We feel buried.
We feel like Sisyphus, climbing a never ending mountain with a boulder too large to bear. Like we don’t have time. Like our kids have to come first, and we can take care of ourselves later. Like we lack motivation.
Like we can’t get ourselves to do the things that we want to do, and that’s just the way it is. It feels like an insurmountable battle that we can’t win.
And then something happens.
Newsflash: Somebody with your challenges HAS succeeded before!
With 10,000 responses, I saw something powerful in the messages from people who HAD succeeded.
Everyone has their own set of unique problems, but we saw it was the same 10 or so problems in different amounts, over and over again.
Those who succeeded ALSO have their unique mix of baggage. They also work shitty jobs. They don’t have a lot of time. They struggle with mental health issues. They are single, divorced, and raising kids.
They have bad parents and unhealthy habits. They love to eat junk food and struggle with motivation. The things that kept them unhealthy before are NO different than the things that keep the other 75% unhealthy.
So what’s so different between those who succeed and those who don’t?
There’s a few key things that happen:
There’s no drastic declaration. Life changes just a little bit. A small win here and there. Or they wake up one day and do one thing. And then do that one thing again.
They kept at it. Some people we heard from had to fight through 10 boss battles in order to find the solution and final habits that worked for them. Some people had larger, longer boss fights.
They start to see cracks in their previous “limited mindset” of themselves. “Hey, look! I DID do something and changed. Maybe this time CAN be different…”
Instead of seeing excuses as to WHY they aren’t in shape (“I can’t find success because [insert valid excuse here].”), they instead see those things as obstacles to overcome (“Okay, I have [insert same valid excuse]. What steps can I take to overcome it?”). They stop believing their own excuses and start to step up to the plate.
These small victories build momentum. Changes become permanent slowly over time.
As one Rebel replied, “Once you find a rhythm, it’s not actually that hard. And it feels sustainable.”
Now, I hear ya. If it seems like there is a LOT in your way, it might seem unsustainable. A dream.
But remember, that person who said “it’s actually not that hard” was surprised. For years and years, it WAS hard. They didn’t believe they could change…until they found a rhythm of small changes and had the epiphany: “WOW!” Until then, they were part of the “still searching” group. They found some momentum and started to see how change really happens.
Remember, we’re all in this together. What if there was someone in this Rebellion, with a life just like yours, who found a way to slay the final boss?
Your reasons ARE valid. They are a real part of your life. However, we have to acknowledge them and move beyond them to see any lasting results. That’s what it means to change. 
But if someone else with your same types of challenges (from genetic, to habits, to job and family) has succeeded, MAYBE there is a path to success if you attack it the right way! If they can change, you can too.
Yup, even with the shit you’re dealing with in your life. With your disadvantages. With your limitations. Yup, even with the limited amount of time you have.
This response in particular really jumped out at me. I GUARANTEE you can relate to this:
The biggest surprise is that it was possible in the first place. You spend your whole life thinking “I can’t do that, I can’t get up in front of people and tell them things.” And then you take a class and you start doing it and suddenly you can get up and give a speech.
You spend your whole life thinking “I’m a quitter, I can’t finish anything to completion let alone actually build (and keep!) healthy habits” and then you just decide to start and suddenly you’re on day five and you know you can exercise every day for a week, and then you’re on day 27 and you know you can make it to the end of the month, and then you’re on day 42 and you know you can do this for the rest of your life because it’s changing you, it’s changing who you are.
Your back is straightening out for the first time since you were a child, your scoliosis is fading away, you relish the sore muscles, and you know you can do this.
Read that response again. This is somebody who had told themselves all their life that they couldn’t do things, and success was light-years away. So they stopped worrying about light-years and instead just did the things they could control that DAY. Then that somehow became Day 5, which became day 27 and then day 42 and then counting was no longer necessary because it just became part of their new persona.
This is a brand new person. And change happened so slowly and in such small ways that it wasn’t until they looked back months later and said “holy crap, I’m a different person! That was easier than expected.”
Your success will come as a surprise to you.
Response after response from the people who HAD made permanent changes stick used the same word over and over – it was “surprising” how it happened.
You see, when we have lost hope, we can’t even imagine eating healthy and working out feeling fun. So when we give half-efforted attempt, we use the lack of success to reinforce our mindset of, “this won’t work…I’m doomed.” It’s easier to tell ourselves, “This is the way it is.”
But then you find a tiny bit of success, and cracks start to form: “Maybe I DON’T know everything. Maybe… Maybe change is possible.” And we develop a tiny bit of hope. Hope that we were wrong, and we weren’t seeing the whole picture before.
And we all know how powerful hope is. After all, Rebellions are built on hope, right?
And that tiny bit of hope combined with a little bit of action, repeatedly, eventually results in surprising, drastic change when we don’t even realize it.
We asked what surprised those of you who have found success:
I’m happier!
Once you create the habit, it’s so easy to maintain. The habit of working out and eating healthy is easier to keep than going out of your way to eat poorly or not work out. It becomes like a self-perpetuating machine. How I started liking foods that used to be absolutely disgusting, but now help me further my goals of becoming stronger. Also now I can run off walls and jump off any set of stairs and continue dashing like a free-running freak. That’s nice, too.
How much of a mental game fitness really is. Mind and body are truly linked.
Why didn’t I do this sooner?
Might sound cheesy but it feels good to feel good. Once you accept you are progressing at your own pace, that there will be ups and downs and not let them affect you as much as before, everything is becoming so much easier.
I feel lighter and more free.
Sitting there believing deep down you can’t change – that your problems are unique – is the very thing that needs to be looked at carefully in order to change. If you are part of the 75% who say you haven’t had success (yet), who just want to get rid of some belly fat, have some more energy in the day, fit into size 8 pants, feel comfortable in your own skin, who just want to be happy….
We have a message for you:
It IS possible, and it is absolutely worth it.
I want this for you so badly, because I’ve seen it happen to thousands and thousands of people in this community. A switch flips, they start to believe, and they then look back months/years later and discover just how much they have changed.
What will be different this year?
Most of us know what to do already. We know we need to eat less and move more. We know we need to change our relationship with food. We know we need to exercise more. At the 4,000 foot level, we get it.
As Morpheus tells Neo, “There’s a difference between knowing the path and walking the path.”
Ultimately, only through action can we understand how change really happens. But remember that we are all in this together: fighting against an entire world that seems designed to keep us down.
Looking through responses from thousands of people DID see lasting success with healthy habit changes, I noticed 5 big patterns repeating:
A growth mindset rather than a limited mindset.
Focus on the day to day habit building.
Not relying on motivation.
The right environment.
They started.
Let’s dig into those a bit more:
1) GROWTH MINDSET – The feeling that change isn’t really possible often sneaks up on us: “I ran on a treadmill and starved myself and I hate my life. I cannot get in shape.”
But when we looked through people who had success, they seemed to view that same event in a different way: “Okay, that didn’t work. Maybe this time I’ll try something different, like eating some more vegetables and going for a walk. I can do that.”
These people told us that they had to make a perspective shift:
“I have kids and a tough job and no time. I can’t get in shape.” becomes “Okay I have kids and a tough job and no time. What CAN I do with these limitations? I shall try that.”
Often, this involves needing to give ourselves a break. We DO have a lot of limitations and a lot of challenges to overcome. We should look clearly at them, acknowledge them, and then acknowledge that we are worthy of change and deserving of a better life. So, let’s work for it.
We then start to see previous attempts at getting fit as just that: attempts, not failures.
I loved this response too: How did you succeed? “By forgiving myself when I mess up but not letting it take over and sabotaging my quest.”
You didn’t fail, you don’t need to feel shame. You tried something, it didn’t work. Move onto the next one. You don’t need to feel guilt or self-loathing. You can change right now. Today.
Sometimes when I work on a puzzle game, I feel stupid when I can’t get it. But when I finally crack it, there’s no guilt or shame. I just change my behavior because I understand how to solve it now.
People who found their path to success said that more permanent changes didn’t get weighed down by their failures or missteps, but instead they turned them into opportunity to find what COULD work given their situation.
2) DAY TO DAY HABITS: The journey to Mordor happens one step at a time.
We cannot control what happened to us yesterday. We cannot control what will happen tomorrow. We can only control our actions today.
This realization is something we heard again and again from those who found success. Like this response:
“I broke goals down in very small steps and made each step ridiculously easy to accomplish.
And it makes sense: We look at our lives… the weight we have to lose. The effort that change will take. How behind we feel… and we feel this dread and impossibility. It’s paralyzing. And that’s where the surprise comes in from those who actually start walking, taking one step at a time… it really is shocking how it becomes effortless.
Just do the next thing that you can control, and try to do it the best way you know how: We call this the “Minecraft method.”
3) NOT RELYING ON MOTIVATION: We saw a LOT of responses from people struggling who said they needed more motivation.
We all wish we had more motivation. What’s interesting is that there’s no secret energy tank in successful people compared to unsuccessful people. It’s not like those struggling don’t have motivation while those who have succeeded have TONS of it. They possess the same amount and have the same parts of their lives that zap motivation.
Successful people seemed to tell us that they didn’t rely on motivation!
Motivation pales in comparison to momentum. Here’s one response we received: “Once you create the habit, it’s so easy to maintain. The habit of working out and eating healthy is easier to keep than going out of your way to eat poorly or not work out. It becomes like a self-perpetuating machine.”
Like rolling a tiny snowball off a hill and watching it build size and speed, inertia takes over and it becomes a self-growing, unstoppable force. Check out these articles on building discipline and systems.
4) THE RIGHT ENVIRONMENT:
We found a lot of responses from successful Rebels who knew that shaping their environment would lightly “nudge” them over the course of their day to greatly improve their chances of succeeding.
Like the Rebel who “threw [their] junk food in the bonfire and stopped buying it.” That’s a fairly dramatic response. But motivation is not necessary when you don’t have that food in your apartment to eat!
We heard so many different ways that people made their job EASIER. Many of us work hard, stressful jobs. And the natural response for many is to binge eat or quickly grab fast food to compensate for how hard or long we work. But a few tweaks in your work environment can go a long way.
Batch cooking helps to remove the willpower temptation for unhealthy food. Rebels who joined running clubs, The Nerd Fitness Academy or Camp Nerd Fitness Facebook groups found it easier to do their workouts. They cited these groups as huge reasons why they succeeded.
So many who succeeded talked about how they found supportive influences in their life (whether animate, or inanimate objects!). You can pick your friends, and you can pick your nose, but you can’t pick your friend’s nose.
Choose wisely!
5) TAKE ACTION:
Yes, as we learned from Rogue One, Rebellions are built on hope. But hope without action would have made for a painfully boring movie. We can hope for a better life. We can believe we CAN get to a better life. But action, even if it’s imperfect and incorrect, is better than no action.
Every single person who said they succeeded took action… often with a small tweak to something they’d done before.
This seemed to be the slogan that so many followed: “The idea that doing something, ANYthing, is better than doing nothing has been key.”
Do something different, and do it today.
Hope needs action. Otherwise it’s no different than hopelessness – nothing will happen.
So get started and do something today:
Try this workout.
Begin a walk to Mordor.
Cook an easy meal.
Join a group.
One less soda. One healthier meal. One 5-minute dedicated walk.
But do something!
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Why You’re Not in Shape (Yet)
“Why can’t I do this? I know what I need to do to get in shape, and I just can’t get myself to do it. I’ve yo-yo’d for years.”
I’ve been running Nerd Fitness for 8 years now (holy crap), and I have seen some of the most dramatic success stories from people of all walks of life that give me the biggest smile.
Single moms working two jobs, married couples that got in shape together, people who have been overweight their entire lives, and others who began powerlifting at the age of 50.
In that same time, however, I have seen tons of people who have been reading NF for years and struggled to find success. They might succeed for a short amount of time, or even a few months, before backsliding into old habits, and they just can’t seem to make things stick.
What’s interesting is that with both groups, they knew what they needed to do: more vegetables, more movement, less junk food, fewer calories on average, and a healthy exercise routine.
This wasn’t surprising: we all know what we need to do to get fit. So what separates the group of people who have fundamentally changed their lives and become new people from the other group who continue to struggle with little to no results?
I was curious, so about a month ago I sent a survey out to NF Rebels asking them for their honest answers on why they have (or haven’t) succeeded, and the responses really surprised me.
For starters, we had over 10,000 responses with people pouring out their hearts, proudly proclaiming their successes, or honestly sharing why they believed they hadn’t found their path quite yet.
About 25% of the responses came in saying they had made permanent changes, while the other 75% were still working on making enough progress and building enough momentum to make changes permanently.
So, why is it that some are kicking ass, and others are still warming up their kicking legs?
Newsflash: You Are Not A Unique Snowflake
You are not a unique snowflake.
I don’t mean this in a bad way, and I’m not saying that your problems aren’t real! But I mean that we all have baggage that we are dealing with:
Some people are working crappy jobs with bad hours.
Some people are working multiple jobs.
Some people are raising children on their own.
Some people have genetic challenges thanks to unhealthy parents or medical conditions.
Some people are struggling with behavioral or psychological challenges that sabotage any efforts to live healthier lives.
Some people just feel down and out, like they can’t change because they’ve lived this way for so long.
These are all VERY real problems that can help explain why people haven’t succeeded. These are the things we all grapple with (in different amounts) every day. However, I noticed something when studying the answers of people who were struggling to get results.
People who weren’t seeing the results they wanted wrote that many of their issues were UNIQUE to them.
So often we think our problems are special, unique challenges we’re facing. We feel like we’re in a boss battle with no hope, fighting an overpowering beast with no weaknesses. “I can’t succeed because of [insert VALID and REAL excuse here].”
We feel powerless trying to stand up to the momentum of our lives. Reading through the thousands upon thousands of responses we received, we saw the SAME things over and over again. It felt like an episode of Black Mirror – everyone feeling so alone, but they’re all fighting the same bad guys.
Here’s a word cloud of the responses: the bigger the words, the more often it was mentioned.
When we asked the question: “Why do you think you haven’t achieved success yet?
Some people assigned blame to the physical things in their life: “my job” or “my kids” or “my medical condition.” Others went down a level, and tried to explain their root feeling:
I get bored and then find excuses not to do it even when I know I should.
I have no accountability for when I mess up my healthy routine.
I’m really good at self sabotage, and I get frustrated very easily when I don’t see immediate gratification.
It’s hard to say…Probably energy and motivation.
I find it really easy to lose my momentum – I’ll start an exercise plan, but then if I get sick or some personal family drama comes up, or a million other things that throw a wrench in my planned schedule, then everything unravels very quickly and no progress is made.
I haven’t set myself up for success; there’s no discipline to leave my comfort zone.
I believe that I am scared to change, so my commitment to starting to eat better is pretty much nonexistent, leaving me with no motivation to succeed.
I feel defeated before I even start. Hate to exercise. I stress eat.
Most us feel like this: we’re so sure of our situation. Sure that we’re doomed. Sure that there’s no hope. Sure that we know what there is to know. We feel beaten. We feel buried.
We feel like Sisyphus, climbing a never ending mountain with a boulder too large to bear. Like we don’t have time. Like our kids have to come first, and we can take care of ourselves later. Like we lack motivation.
Like we can’t get ourselves to do the things that we want to do, and that’s just the way it is. It feels like an insurmountable battle that we can’t win.
And then something happens.
Newsflash: Somebody with your challenges HAS succeeded before!
With 10,000 responses, I saw something powerful in the messages from people who HAD succeeded.
Everyone has their own set of unique problems, but we saw it was the same 10 or so problems in different amounts, over and over again.
Those who succeeded ALSO have their unique mix of baggage. They also work shitty jobs. They don’t have a lot of time. They struggle with mental health issues. They are single, divorced, and raising kids.
They have bad parents and unhealthy habits. They love to eat junk food and struggle with motivation. The things that kept them unhealthy before are NO different than the things that keep the other 75% unhealthy.
So what’s so different between those who succeed and those who don’t?
There’s a few key things that happen:
There’s no drastic declaration. Life changes just a little bit. A small win here and there. Or they wake up one day and do one thing. And then do that one thing again.
They kept at it. Some people we heard from had to fight through 10 boss battles in order to find the solution and final habits that worked for them. Some people had larger, longer boss fights.
They start to see cracks in their previous “limited mindset” of themselves. “Hey, look! I DID do something and changed. Maybe this time CAN be different…”
Instead of seeing excuses as to WHY they aren’t in shape (“I can’t find success because [insert valid excuse here].”), they instead see those things as obstacles to overcome (“Okay, I have [insert same valid excuse]. What steps can I take to overcome it?”). They stop believing their own excuses and start to step up to the plate.
These small victories build momentum. Changes become permanent slowly over time.
As one Rebel replied, “Once you find a rhythm, it’s not actually that hard. And it feels sustainable.”
Now, I hear ya. If it seems like there is a LOT in your way, it might seem unsustainable. A dream.
But remember, that person who said “it’s actually not that hard” was surprised. For years and years, it WAS hard. They didn’t believe they could change…until they found a rhythm of small changes and had the epiphany: “WOW!” Until then, they were part of the “still searching” group. They found some momentum and started to see how change really happens.
Remember, we’re all in this together. What if there was someone in this Rebellion, with a life just like yours, who found a way to slay the final boss?
Your reasons ARE valid. They are a real part of your life. However, we have to acknowledge them and move beyond them to see any lasting results. That’s what it means to change. 
But if someone else with your same types of challenges (from genetic, to habits, to job and family) has succeeded, MAYBE there is a path to success if you attack it the right way! If they can change, you can too.
Yup, even with the shit you’re dealing with in your life. With your disadvantages. With your limitations. Yup, even with the limited amount of time you have.
This response in particular really jumped out at me. I GUARANTEE you can relate to this:
The biggest surprise is that it was possible in the first place. You spend your whole life thinking “I can’t do that, I can’t get up in front of people and tell them things.” And then you take a class and you start doing it and suddenly you can get up and give a speech.
You spend your whole life thinking “I’m a quitter, I can’t finish anything to completion let alone actually build (and keep!) healthy habits” and then you just decide to start and suddenly you’re on day five and you know you can exercise every day for a week, and then you’re on day 27 and you know you can make it to the end of the month, and then you’re on day 42 and you know you can do this for the rest of your life because it’s changing you, it’s changing who you are.
Your back is straightening out for the first time since you were a child, your scoliosis is fading away, you relish the sore muscles, and you know you can do this.
Read that response again. This is somebody who had told themselves all their life that they couldn’t do things, and success was light-years away. So they stopped worrying about light-years and instead just did the things they could control that DAY. Then that somehow became Day 5, which became day 27 and then day 42 and then counting was no longer necessary because it just became part of their new persona.
This is a brand new person. And change happened so slowly and in such small ways that it wasn’t until they looked back months later and said “holy crap, I’m a different person! That was easier than expected.”
Your success will come as a surprise to you.
Response after response from the people who HAD made permanent changes stick used the same word over and over – it was “surprising” how it happened.
You see, when we have lost hope, we can’t even imagine eating healthy and working out feeling fun. So when we give half-efforted attempt, we use the lack of success to reinforce our mindset of, “this won’t work…I’m doomed.” It’s easier to tell ourselves, “This is the way it is.”
But then you find a tiny bit of success, and cracks start to form: “Maybe I DON’T know everything. Maybe… Maybe change is possible.” And we develop a tiny bit of hope. Hope that we were wrong, and we weren’t seeing the whole picture before.
And we all know how powerful hope is. After all, Rebellions are built on hope, right?
And that tiny bit of hope combined with a little bit of action, repeatedly, eventually results in surprising, drastic change when we don’t even realize it.
We asked what surprised those of you who have found success:
I’m happier!
Once you create the habit, it’s so easy to maintain. The habit of working out and eating healthy is easier to keep than going out of your way to eat poorly or not work out. It becomes like a self-perpetuating machine. How I started liking foods that used to be absolutely disgusting, but now help me further my goals of becoming stronger. Also now I can run off walls and jump off any set of stairs and continue dashing like a free-running freak. That’s nice, too.
How much of a mental game fitness really is. Mind and body are truly linked.
Why didn’t I do this sooner?
Might sound cheesy but it feels good to feel good. Once you accept you are progressing at your own pace, that there will be ups and downs and not let them affect you as much as before, everything is becoming so much easier.
I feel lighter and more free.
Sitting there believing deep down you can’t change – that your problems are unique – is the very thing that needs to be looked at carefully in order to change. If you are part of the 75% who say you haven’t had success (yet), who just want to get rid of some belly fat, have some more energy in the day, fit into size 8 pants, feel comfortable in your own skin, who just want to be happy….
We have a message for you:
It IS possible, and it is absolutely worth it.
I want this for you so badly, because I’ve seen it happen to thousands and thousands of people in this community. A switch flips, they start to believe, and they then look back months/years later and discover just how much they have changed.
What will be different this year?
Most of us know what to do already. We know we need to eat less and move more. We know we need to change our relationship with food. We know we need to exercise more. At the 4,000 foot level, we get it.
As Morpheus tells Neo, “There’s a difference between knowing the path and walking the path.”
Ultimately, only through action can we understand how change really happens. But remember that we are all in this together: fighting against an entire world that seems designed to keep us down.
Looking through responses from thousands of people DID see lasting success with healthy habit changes, I noticed 5 big patterns repeating:
A growth mindset rather than a limited mindset.
Focus on the day to day habit building.
Not relying on motivation.
The right environment.
They started.
Let’s dig into those a bit more:
1) GROWTH MINDSET – The feeling that change isn’t really possible often sneaks up on us: “I ran on a treadmill and starved myself and I hate my life. I cannot get in shape.”
But when we looked through people who had success, they seemed to view that same event in a different way: “Okay, that didn’t work. Maybe this time I’ll try something different, like eating some more vegetables and going for a walk. I can do that.”
These people told us that they had to make a perspective shift:
“I have kids and a tough job and no time. I can’t get in shape.” becomes “Okay I have kids and a tough job and no time. What CAN I do with these limitations? I shall try that.”
Often, this involves needing to give ourselves a break. We DO have a lot of limitations and a lot of challenges to overcome. We should look clearly at them, acknowledge them, and then acknowledge that we are worthy of change and deserving of a better life. So, let’s work for it.
We then start to see previous attempts at getting fit as just that: attempts, not failures.
I loved this response too: How did you succeed? “By forgiving myself when I mess up but not letting it take over and sabotaging my quest.”
You didn’t fail, you don’t need to feel shame. You tried something, it didn’t work. Move onto the next one. You don’t need to feel guilt or self-loathing. You can change right now. Today.
Sometimes when I work on a puzzle game, I feel stupid when I can’t get it. But when I finally crack it, there’s no guilt or shame. I just change my behavior because I understand how to solve it now.
People who found their path to success said that more permanent changes didn’t get weighed down by their failures or missteps, but instead they turned them into opportunity to find what COULD work given their situation.
2) DAY TO DAY HABITS: The journey to Mordor happens one step at a time.
We cannot control what happened to us yesterday. We cannot control what will happen tomorrow. We can only control our actions today.
This realization is something we heard again and again from those who found success. Like this response:
“I broke goals down in very small steps and made each step ridiculously easy to accomplish.
And it makes sense: We look at our lives… the weight we have to lose. The effort that change will take. How behind we feel… and we feel this dread and impossibility. It’s paralyzing. And that’s where the surprise comes in from those who actually start walking, taking one step at a time… it really is shocking how it becomes effortless.
Just do the next thing that you can control, and try to do it the best way you know how: We call this the “Minecraft method.”
3) NOT RELYING ON MOTIVATION: We saw a LOT of responses from people struggling who said they needed more motivation.
We all wish we had more motivation. What’s interesting is that there’s no secret energy tank in successful people compared to unsuccessful people. It’s not like those struggling don’t have motivation while those who have succeeded have TONS of it. They possess the same amount and have the same parts of their lives that zap motivation.
Successful people seemed to tell us that they didn’t rely on motivation!
Motivation pales in comparison to momentum. Here’s one response we received: “Once you create the habit, it’s so easy to maintain. The habit of working out and eating healthy is easier to keep than going out of your way to eat poorly or not work out. It becomes like a self-perpetuating machine.”
Like rolling a tiny snowball off a hill and watching it build size and speed, inertia takes over and it becomes a self-growing, unstoppable force. Check out these articles on building discipline and systems.
4) THE RIGHT ENVIRONMENT:
We found a lot of responses from successful Rebels who knew that shaping their environment would lightly “nudge” them over the course of their day to greatly improve their chances of succeeding.
Like the Rebel who “threw [their] junk food in the bonfire and stopped buying it.” That’s a fairly dramatic response. But motivation is not necessary when you don’t have that food in your apartment to eat!
We heard so many different ways that people made their job EASIER. Many of us work hard, stressful jobs. And the natural response for many is to binge eat or quickly grab fast food to compensate for how hard or long we work. But a few tweaks in your work environment can go a long way.
Batch cooking helps to remove the willpower temptation for unhealthy food. Rebels who joined running clubs, The Nerd Fitness Academy or Camp Nerd Fitness Facebook groups found it easier to do their workouts. They cited these groups as huge reasons why they succeeded.
So many who succeeded talked about how they found supportive influences in their life (whether animate, or inanimate objects!). You can pick your friends, and you can pick your nose, but you can’t pick your friend’s nose.
Choose wisely!
5) TAKE ACTION:
Yes, as we learned from Rogue One, Rebellions are built on hope. But hope without action would have made for a painfully boring movie. We can hope for a better life. We can believe we CAN get to a better life. But action, even if it’s imperfect and incorrect, is better than no action.
Every single person who said they succeeded took action… often with a small tweak to something they’d done before.
This seemed to be the slogan that so many followed: “The idea that doing something, ANYthing, is better than doing nothing has been key.”
Do something different, and do it today.
Hope needs action. Otherwise it’s no different than hopelessness – nothing will happen.
So get started and do something today:
Try this workout.
Begin a walk to Mordor.
Cook an easy meal.
Join a group.
One less soda. One healthier meal. One 5-minute dedicated walk.
But do something!
I want to put you on this list at the end of 2017
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