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neowinestainedress · 2 years

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rebssss do you mind if i ask you what your kinks are? 👀 the ones that ive read of your work so far, i really enjoy them a lot ♡ why do you write them so well ㅠㅠㅠㅠㅠㅠㅠㅠㅠㅠ

oh wow, we're up for a long ass ride. i'd say i'm exposing myself but i've been doing it with every fic i write so let's go.

overall i only write about kinks that i'm into. i haven't had the chance to try a lot so I don't know if I actually enjoy everything but yeah, thinking about these turns me on so let's dive into it with an explanation that nobody asked.

- praise kink (top tier, unfortunately, I need validation)

- degradation but the way i write it lmao if it goes too hard I'd literally cry. it's all about the teasing for me and knowing they don't actually think what they're saying (it's a weird comfort, i need therapy)

- sensory deprivation!!!! the trust?? the intimacy?? immaculate 🥰

- orgasm control/edging is this even a kink? well idc it's hot

- breeding kink but it really depends because sometimes it gets triggering, especially lately??? i was so into it and now i can't even think about it lmao (like it's really hot in fiction because I can be as filthy as I want and there won't be consequences but irl 😬 let's not)

- size kink!!! yes sir i unfortunately find it extremely hot. but tbh I find size difference hot both if I'm submissive and if I'm dominant, especially if my partner is a man. like a big tall man getting dominated by me??✨ HOT ✨

- talking about sub men, i need to peg one like desperately

- pet play but just the pet names (kitty, bunny, puppy), leash and collar and maybe some things like ears or tail but not the full fantasy of acting like a pet

- *ashamed* is spitting a kink 🥺👉🏽👈🏽 *heavy sigh* yeah i find this hot. won't overdo it and only in certain situations but 🥺

- i find shibari really interesting but you need to make sure that your partner knows what they are doing and I have trust issues AND my muscles ache every two seconds so by the time they put me in the right position I'll be safewording because I'm uncomfortable

- as much as I write a lot of public sex i'd never do it. maybe a little bit of exhibitionism but not in public public. probably it's more the thrill of getting caught but like in my room/house not where people that can't consent could see. it's really similar to breeding kink, when i write it i know all parts are consenting but irl you don't know it and that's a big limit for me

- i also write a lot of 3/5somes but I don't think I'll ever be comfortable making it happen irl rip. 1) find the right people 2) what if it gets awkward after? 3) you really have to trust them. but I think that it's really hot when more people have to make it work

- free use is the same. really hot if i think about it but i don't know how practical it is irl. i know people do this but i've read so many stories of so definite doms not respecting rules/limits/safeword that i don't feel so safe with certain things. would feel 100% more comfortable trying this with a woman though

- about roleplays... i don't know, i guess it can be fun?? but i've never had the chance to try anything and i don't know if i'd be able to play into a fantasy and which one

- the only thing i wrote that I'm not extremely into is probably innocence kink but for the reasons i told you and because i'm so far gone i could never even pretend to be innocent irl. but it's not in one of my hard limits so I'm quite comfortable writing it

why do you write them so well

THANK YOU??!! i think that it's because i'm both into giving and receiving so that probably helps me portray all the points of view of the people involved??? and also because i don't get out of my comfort zone. for example, free use is often paired with somnophilia but i'm not comfortable with that, if somebody asked me to write it, it would come out terribly because i can't step into the shoes. in general, if you know/like what you're writing about, it will come out well.

#answered #tyong-blr #why i can't keep things short lmao #it was just a simple ask

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