#this is one of those times im really grateful im t4t too

[alastors-wife]

dude i hate being a nb lesbian that's actually medically transitioning because i have NOOO idea how to refer to myself anymore

i was calling myself a "femme" before and I still relate to femmes but like...baby you're getting top surgery and you have facial hair im not sure this applies to u anymore. please

like im still VERY feminine with how I dress and everything but god this is such a confusing experience

#still kind of figuring out the specifics of my gender as well #i know for a fact im not a trans man but i'm still masc in some way #i've just been saying im bigender but in a more nonbinary-ish way #like if gender were a spectrum from male to female in a straight line it would never be on the far side of either end #but never right in the middle either #i give myself a headache bro #im just gay. ok?? i love women #no idea what's going on in that noggin of mine outside of that im just vibing with my brightly colored gay little outfits and my hrt #this is one of those times im really grateful im t4t too #a lot of us have no idea wtf is going on with our own gender we're just vibing #especially t4t lesbians