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It’s been said before but we really need to normalise the idea of not having been in a relationship / having sex / dating before your 20’s because it is literallyyyy so young and it absolutely doesn’t make anyone weird for not having had that experience before so I don’t understand why we get off shaming people for something so common

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why dippin dots always at obscure places. never just at the store. just wondering

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say what you will about pirates of the caribbean but elizabeth swann started that movie being told ships were no place for women and ended it as the king of pirates and that’s pretty dope to me

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How does one get over a breakup? Because I literally feel like dying right now

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Always Remember:

kissing can and will, get boring.

its ok to go to sleep on opposite sides.

forgetting favorites, dates and replies is only human.

you dont have to like, or be friends with all of their friends and vice-versa.

they have a right to spend weekends dedicating to their friends and family. you have the same right.

privacy is still in play.

trying simple things that they like, no matter how much you are sure you will dislike it, is a very small step you can take to show your love to them.

you dont gotta have the same taste in music, food, books etc.

saying i love you, thank you, take care, please and i missed you really helps.

you cant agree with all their life decisions and they cant with yours. keeping an open mind and having an honest and deep discussion about it helps. 

they dont need your permission to do things and neither you need theirs.

the intention and care behind the gift matters. not its price tag. 

dont try and change them. help them become better versions of themselves and get the same help and support and care from them. 

know what matters most and focus on that.

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me, age 10, raised catholic, accompanying my friend to her non-denominational church’s weekly wednesday night youth event in a “church” with a carpeted auditorium with a stage and a pastor playing the guitar and singing christian rock songs about how jesus loves you no matter what

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! IMPORTANT !

…no joke

i think the fic is somehow taking people’s accounts.

no fucking joke.

someone i was just talking to dmed me the link. they were nice. their account had posts.

now its empty, it has no posts, their header is blank.

DO NOT FUCKING CLICK ON THE FIC LINK. ITS SOMETHING THAT GRABS YOUR PASSWORD. I DONT KNOW WHAT IT IS.

I REPEAT. DONT FUCKING. CLICK. ON THE FIC.

RB THIS. RB THIS. RB THIS. RB THIS. RB THIS. RB THIS.

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“My wife was tired of our dog sleeping in our bed at night. So i decided to build him his own house.“

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IF YOU AREN’T GOING TO MAKE MY SHIP CANON STOP MAKING THEM SO OBVIOUSLY IN LOVE WITH EACH OTHER

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— 1x02 | 6x12

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Clarke pretending to be Josephine!Clarke

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FRIENDS are the family we choose for ourselves.

#squadgoals

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i miss the heavily pregnant snarky mass murderer Charmaine Diyoza

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I need Bellamy to throw a “What NOW you care about Clarke?”

at spacekru. I know it won’t happen but I need it.

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how do I unsubscribe from anxiety

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if you’re a baby gay and this is your first pride, watch your drinks! men are trash across all sexualities

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Then vs. Now