I don't know who needs to hear this, but: If you're a man -whether you've been one all your life or just recently started to notice within yourself the need to become one- that's enough.
You don't have to pass a test, there is no quiz, you don't have to check a minimum amount of gender role boxes. No one can tell you HOW to be a man. It doesn't matter how you look or how your body looks, how you talk, how you act, how you behave, what your sexuality is. You don't even have to fit in with the other guys. If being a man feels right for you, you can say "This is me and I'm a man".
The gender police will never knock on your door. Your gender is your own business and no one else's. No one can tell you what a man can or can't do. There is no wrong way to be a man. Be the kind of man you want to be, the kind that sparks joy. You can do it, bro. I believe in you.
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Unforgettable Gala Awards 2023
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also the thing about worth it, and travel season (im assuming because it’s made by steven with andrew and adam), as well as other steven shows, is that these shows really showcase a lot of different cultures, and for a group of so-called “watcher fans” to be like “no one cares about steven’s shows!!!” is so incredibly damaging. like im sorry you and your friends only want to watch ryan and shane skirt around dick jokes, but steven is creating shows that impact a lot of people in genuine, heartfelt ways while bringing awareness to things in the format of sitting around a table and eating food. it’s not groundbreaking but it is important. i genuinely hate the argument that people only came for shane and ryan and that steven doesnt matter. because he does.
i will never ever ever forgive this fandom for what they did.
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We’re just gonna say we can’t do that from now on.
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googling ‘jobs for autistic people’ and realising that everyone still thinks autistic people are either sheldon cooper or really tall toddlers
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rare-ish pictures of the worth it boys - 134/?
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bring back tumblr ask culture let me. bother you with questions and statements
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me currently sitting at my retail job where a grown man tried mansplaining how to swap items as he purchased an item he doesn't want anymore from a different store:
More stories from hell (retail) today I was ringing up this lady and she goes oh I want to do part of this on a gift card and the rest on normal card and I go ok and then she hands me a folded piece of paper. I think oh OK it must be folded around the gift card, right? Wrong. It is a folded sheet of 8×11 printer paper with "$40" written on the inside in ballpoint pen. I go what is this. She says a gift card. I say this is not a gift card. She says yes it is. I say this is a piece of paper with "$40" written on it. She says "well it's a gift card." I say it absolutely is not. I am grinding my teeth. She says well I want to use it. I say you physically cannot do that bc it is a piece of paper. I cannot scan or swipe it. I apologize, as if this is my fault, and not because she is completely insane. I hate it here
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hey, you there! fellow watcherina!
reblog this if you love ryan, steven and shane, and their art. if you appreciate all the effort and care they've put into their creations over the years. if you are rooting for them. if you see them for the human beings they are. if you remain a fan, and will continue to support watcher!
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incredibly funny of people to be peeved abt watcher leaving YouTube that takes 30% of profits on membership payments off the bat & moving to their own streaming service so they can host their video content at a smaller cost on a different platform & pay the new hires & additional show theyre putting on with presumably less 3rd party ads & potentially without the need for the patreon which also scrapes anywhere between 5-12% off patron support without the additional charge for payment processing.
Selling out isn't starting a new streaming service, it's where they do paid promotions in the middle of their shows & have to edit their content to appeal to keeping old and getting new sponsors, which funny enough...
Just say this isn't a financial decision you or you and a password sharing buddy can make & move on, there's no shame in that
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:D
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hello beloveds ☺️
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