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Yknow the thing with being Aroace is that sometimes people don't recognise that as queer. I be talking with some acquaintances and they ask if I have a boyfriend/if me and X are together. My response is usually "No, I'm Aroace and not interested in relationships" and then I see them in a week and they ask the same question again.

It's frustrating, that just because I'm not gay/lesbian/bi/pan that my identity can be brushed off like it doesn't matter, that just because I'm not the aforementioned identities I'm not queer.

Don't send me condolences for being Aroace, I'm not broken or in the wrong for being aspec, that's just who I am. I won't "find the right one" because I'm a romance repulsed Aroace person.

That's why aspec representation is so important, so that people like those can learn that aspec identities ARE valid and DESERVE respect! The A doesn't stand for ally!

(no hate to gay/lesbian/bi/pan folks, dw :] )

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Happy Pride!

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It's so infuriating when anti-kink type of transmisogynist deny their dogwhistles and when criticized go: "I'm just against pedophilia and incest, why are you bringing up trans women, it's actually you who are transmisogynist for pointing out my dogwhistles." Like we can't tell that "the evil predatory fetishist freaks who claim their sicko perversions are queer" is so obviously code for trans women, like it's literally what radfems have said about trans women for decades. And the transmisogyny being criticized is not theoretical and abstract at all. They keep on doing callouts of trans woman after trans woman for having weird kinks.

And like these people are explicitly reviving 70s radfem arguments about kink and porn, something you can't cleanly separate from their transmisogyny. These radfems undeniably saw their crusades against porn, kink and trans woman as the same struggle. Trans women were and are the ultimate pornsick sado-masochist freaks in the radfem worldview.

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pride month!!!

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since it’s pride month. reminder that queer people having a healthy sex life is normal. queer people can have kinks. lesbians can express attraction to women without being gross or predatory. gay men aren’t scary. trans people are valid no matter where they are in their transition. asexual and aromantic people are included in our community too. non-binary people don’t owe you an explanation. bisexuals don’t have to “pick a side”.

we all have different experiences but we should all try our best to make each other feel welcome.

and the A has never stood for ally. hope this helps.

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babies onboard!

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anyone want pics of my holes?

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I really relate to Alastor’s aroace identity and love the ace rep, so I wanted to make some fanart! He’s just like me fr…

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confusing Odysseus and Orpheus is like confusing a liar and a lyre. send post

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Autism be upon ye

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FUCK. honestly just FUCK. We missed a very important day yesterday.

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why is ao3 is blocked on the hospital wifi????